Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb na b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb besojm\u00eb se p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb nj\u00eb dashnor apo dashnore e mir\u00eb nevojiten vet\u00ebm njohurit\u00eb teknike. Edhe ne do t\u00eb donim t\u00eb besonim se me nj\u00eb manual n\u00eb dor\u00eb, gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb, por kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, sepse dashurin\u00eb e b\u00ebn s\u00eb pari ajo q\u00eb jemi dhe m\u00eb pas, ajo q\u00eb dim\u00eb. Pra, p\u00ebr t’u ndjer\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb seks, mjafton t\u00eb shprehni lirisht ndjesit\u00eb tuaja. Ky test do t’ju ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoni n\u00ebse ndjeheni mir\u00eb n\u00eb seksualitetin tuaj. I lini t\u00eb lira ndjesit\u00eb tuaja? E pranoni tjetrin ashtu si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb? Cilat jan\u00eb pikat tuaja t\u00eb forta dhe t\u00eb dob\u00ebta? \u00c7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni p\u00ebr t\u2019u k\u00ebnaqur m\u00eb shum\u00eb? P\u00ebrgjigjjuni sa m\u00eb sinqerisht pyetjeve t\u00eb testit ton\u00eb sepse, sa m\u00eb sinqerisht t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjeni, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb do ta njihni veten… Askush nuk ju sheh, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 nd\u00ebrgjegjes suaj, por me siguri ajo nuk do t’ia tregoj\u00eb njeriu n\u00ebse nuk e autorizoni, ndaj, fillojm\u00eb…<\/p>\n
1. Kur b\u00ebj dashuri, mendoj se trupi im \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb p\u00ebr tjetrin:
\na. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nd. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/p>\n
2. Kur kam d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr seks, ndjehem i\/e mbushur me forc\u00eb dhe vrull
\na. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nd. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt<\/p>\n
3. Gjat\u00eb raportit seksual m\u00eb ndodh t\u00eb mendoj p\u00ebr fizikun tim: \u201cA i p\u00eblqej?\u201d, \u201cJam i\/e d\u00ebshirueshme?\u201d…
\na. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nd. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/p>\n
4. Sekrecionet e mia seksuale kan\u00eb tendenc\u00eb t\u00eb ma shpifin:
\na. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nd. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/p>\n
5. Mendoj se organi im seksual nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i bukur:
\na. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nd. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/p>\n
6. Kur ndjej k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi, kam tendenc\u00eb ta frenoj veten q\u00eb t\u00eb mos shp\u00ebrthej shum\u00eb:
\na. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nd. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/p>\n
7. N\u00eb trupin e partnerit\/es ka n\u00eb disa momente, zona q\u00eb m\u00eb bezdisin ose ma shpifin:
\na. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nd. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/p>\n
8. M\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb nuhas arom\u00ebn e partnerit\/es n\u00eb gjith\u00eb trupin e tij\/saj.
\na. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nd. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt<\/p>\n
9. Jam i\/e hapur ndaj t\u00eb gjitha d\u00ebshirave t\u00eb tjetrit, sepse nuk ndjehem kurr\u00eb i\/e detyruar t\u00eb them po.
\na. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nd. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt.<\/p>\n
10. Kur partneri\/ja e shfaq shum\u00eb hapur k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb (me shprehje, r\u00ebnkime, l\u00ebvizje, fjal\u00eb), kjo m\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndjehem n\u00eb siklet:
\na. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nd. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/p>\n
11. Ndjehem i\/e shqet\u00ebsuar n\u00ebse gjat\u00eb disa jav\u00ebve, partneri\/ja ndjen m\u00eb pak d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr mua:
\na. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nd. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/p>\n
12. Jam kureshtar\/e dhe i\/e interesuar p\u00ebr fantazit\u00eb e tij\/saj:
\na. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nd. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt<\/p>\n
13. Nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqen q\u00eb ai\/ajo t\u00eb m\u00eb puth\u00eb apo p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhel\u00eb n\u00eb publik:
\na. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nd. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/p>\n
14. M\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb lexoj literatur\u00eb erotike, ose histori q\u00eb stimulojn\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00ebn:
\na. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nd. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt<\/p>\n
15. Kam rregullisht mendime seksuale q\u00eb nuk mund t\u2019i kontrolloj dhe m\u00eb ang\u00ebshtojn\u00eb:
\na. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nd. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/p>\n
16. Seksi pa dashuri nuk mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb sukses:
\na. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nd. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt<\/p>\n
17. Jeta ime seksuale nuk do t\u00eb jet\u00eb kurr\u00eb aq eksituese sa n\u00ebp\u00ebr filma apo libra:
\na. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nd. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/p>\n
18. N\u00eb seks, m\u00eb ka ndodhur t\u00eb b\u00ebj gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqenin v\u00ebrtet, sepse nuk guxoja t\u2019i refuzoja:
\na. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nd. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/p>\n
19. Mendoj se n\u00eb seksualitet, zaret jan\u00eb hedhur q\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb: Dy trupa jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar mir\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, ose jo.
\na. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nd. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/p>\n
20. Preferoj t\u00eb mos flas p\u00ebr seksin jasht\u00eb momenteve kur b\u00ebjm\u00eb dashuri:
\na. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nd. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/p>\n
21. Nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqen kur partneri\/ja m\u00eb refuzon di\u00e7ka n\u00eb seks:
\na. Shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nb. Pak a shum\u00eb e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nc. Pak a shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nd. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/p>\n
P\u00ebrgjigjet:
\nN\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje a. Ndjeheni shum\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb seksualitetin tuaj
\nSeksi p\u00ebr ju nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka m\u00eb vete, q\u00eb duhet p\u00ebrdorur me kujdes. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs suaj dhe keni t\u00eb drejt\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Nuk ka gj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb natyrshme sesa t\u00eb duash veten, t\u00eb shpreh\u00ebsh d\u00ebshirat e tua, kufizimet e t\u00eb pranosh d\u00ebshirat e tjetrit, duke qen\u00eb vetvetja. T\u00eb ndjehesh mir\u00eb me seksualitetin nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jesh i\/e aft\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh gjith\u00e7ka, por t\u00eb vler\u00ebsosh trupin t\u00ebnd dhe at\u00eb t\u00eb tjetrit, t\u00eb jesh i\/e aft\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkosh apo t\u00eb refuzosh, t\u00eb propozosh dhe t\u00eb pranosh nj\u00eb ngurrim. Do t\u00eb thot\u00eb gjithashtu t\u00eb kuptosh q\u00eb nuk ekzistojn\u00eb norma, apo mesatare n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat duhet t\u00eb jesh. T\u00eb jesh vetvetja do t\u00eb thot\u00eb ta v\u00ebsh veten jasht\u00eb normave, t\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh vetem z\u00ebrin e thell\u00eb q\u00eb ju nxit t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb lumtur.
\nT\u00eb ndjehesh mir\u00eb me seksualitetin t\u00ebnd do t\u00eb thot\u00eb edhe t\u00eb b\u00ebsh p\u00ebrpara n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt, t\u00eb asaj q\u00eb ndjeni kur i jepeni krejt\u00ebsisht tjetrit duke qen\u00eb t\u00eb hapur dhe me besim te nj\u00ebri-tjetri. Kjo sjellje e natyrshme me seksualitetin \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb fakt nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb shum\u00eb e bukur p\u00ebr partnerin\/en tuaj, edhe sikur ai\/ajo t\u00eb mos ndjehen kaq t\u00eb hapur sa ju. Sido q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb, ai\/ajo ju kan\u00eb zgjedhur p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb jeni. \u00cbsht\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht kjo natyrshm\u00ebri q\u00eb e ka joshur. K\u00ebshtu, ju do t\u00eb ndihmoni edhe partnerin\/en t\u00eb ket\u00eb besim e t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqet, me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, t\u00eb ndjehet si ju sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb e natyrshme t\u00eb b\u00ebsh p\u00ebrpara duke imituar tjetrin q\u00eb ndjehet mir\u00eb me veten dhe seksualitetin e tij\/saj.
\nEdhe ju keni pasur rrotull vetes modele, keni qen\u00eb apo jo i nd\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm, kur gj\u00ebrat kan\u00eb qen\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb, apo vet\u00ebm ndjer\u00eb. Duke k\u00ebrkuar mir\u00eb, do t\u00eb gjeni te njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb ju rrethojn\u00eb persona q\u00eb kan\u00eb ndikuar n\u00eb pjekjen e ideve tuaja, n\u00eb vizionin q\u00eb keni p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet dashurore dhe seksuale. N\u00ebse kjo nuk ka ndodhur, at\u00ebhere ju keni punuar me veten p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar drejt harmonis\u00eb dhe ia keni dal\u00eb mban\u00eb! Ju urojm\u00eb vet\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebheni edhe ju nj\u00eb model k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsie p\u00ebr personat q\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb, adoleshent\u00ebt, t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje b. Pak a shum\u00eb mir\u00eb, por…
\nJu ndjeheni pak a shum\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri, me disa t\u00eb meta. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e natyrshme, sepse ekzistojn\u00eb shum\u00eb lloje frenimesh n\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb ton\u00eb seksuale: Edukimi i marr\u00eb, komplekset, eksperiencat negative, v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb komunikuar n\u00eb thell\u00ebsi me tjetrin… Kur ne i kuptojm\u00eb bllokimet tona, mund t\u00eb vendosim edhe t\u00eb \u00e7lirohemi prej tyre, por frenimet m\u00eb t\u00eb fuqishme jan\u00eb shpesh m\u00eb pak t\u00eb dukshmet, m\u00eb pak t\u00eb identifikueshmet. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, ne kemi nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr koh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqemi n\u00eb seksualitet dhe kjo nuk b\u00ebhet fare vet\u00ebm. \u00cbsht\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi nj\u00eb harmoni, nj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn duhet punuar p\u00ebr t\u2019u nd\u00ebrtuar dhe q\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohet n\u00ebse kemi n\u00eb dor\u00eb mjetet e duhura. K\u00ebtu q\u00ebndron nganj\u00ebher\u00eb problemi. Na b\u00ebjm\u00eb t\u00eb besojm\u00eb se dashuria bie nga qielli, q\u00eb seksualiteti i k\u00ebnaqsh\u00ebm vjen vet\u00eb, pa asnj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje. K\u00ebshtu, ne nuk i kushtojm\u00eb energjin\u00eb e nevojshme q\u00eb ai meriton. P\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha t\u00eb jet\u00ebs! N\u00ebse keni shansin t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb \u00e7ift me dik\u00eb q\u00eb ndjehet mir\u00eb, mund t\u00eb fitoni besim s\u00eb bashku n\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi… Sepse, me gjith\u00eb kufizimet tuaja, jeni i\/e aft\u00eb ta ndihmoni dik\u00eb t\u00eb hapet ndaj lumturis\u00eb s\u00eb shk\u00ebmbimit seksual dhe kjo lumturi do t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb hiqni qafe pengesat e vogla t\u00eb brendshme. Por, kujdes, t\u00eb jesh i k\u00ebnaqur n\u00eb seks nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jesh i aft\u00eb teknikisht! Do t\u00eb thot\u00eb thjesht ta p\u00ebrjetosh seksualitetin duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb vetes: \u201cJam mir\u00eb me veten dhe tjetrin, cilatdo qofshin kufizimet e mia dhe t\u00eb tij\/saj\u201d. Tani, keni nj\u00eb vizion t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithsh\u00ebm t\u00eb raportit tuaj me seksualitetin.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje c. Keni disa rezerva
\nSeksualiteti p\u00ebr ju funksionon, por keni rezerva, ngurrime, mbase edhe zona trupi p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat ndjeni turp, apo v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb komunikuar. N\u00ebse jeni shum\u00eb i ri\/e re \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka normale! Shpesh, duhet koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndjer\u00eb i\/e k\u00ebnaqur seksualisht. N\u00ebse nuk jeni shum\u00eb i\/e re, mbase ndiqni ritmin tuaj me qet\u00ebsi dhe ndjeheni gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb mir\u00eb. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, vazhdoni n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn q\u00eb keni nisur!
\nPor, ka mund\u00ebsi edhe q\u00eb pengesat t\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb te ju dhe t\u2019ju pengojn\u00eb t\u00eb shfryt\u00ebzoni t\u00eb gjitha mund\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u2019ju b\u00ebnin v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur n\u00eb seksualitetin tuaj. Mbase e frenoni veten p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos shkuar shum\u00eb larg, ose mbase e kaloni jet\u00ebn tuaj seksuale dhe emocionale n\u00eb plan t\u00eb dyt\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhur keq, sepse k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia dashurore e seksuale jep nj\u00eb energji shum\u00eb t\u00eb fuqishme p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar besim n\u00eb vetvete dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb doni t\u00eb b\u00ebni. Nuk b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi momenti, por nj\u00eb mir\u00ebqenie q\u00eb ndikon n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha sferat e jet\u00ebs: jet\u00ebn private, profesionale, emocionale, familjare, intelektuale, artistike…<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje d. Ndjeheni pak a shum\u00eb n\u00eb siklet
\nP\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket seksit, ju ndjeheni pak a shum\u00eb n\u00eb siklet dhe pa dyshim, n\u00eb pozita mbrojtjeje. E dinit q\u00eb kjo bezdi tregon shpesh nj\u00eb sensualitet t\u00eb madh t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm, t\u00eb cilin kemi frik\u00eb ta l\u00ebm\u00eb t\u00eb lir\u00eb? Sepse seksualiteti \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb forc\u00eb shum\u00eb e fuqishme q\u00eb mund t\u00eb tremb\u00eb, sidomos n\u00ebse imazhi q\u00eb na kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb, gjat\u00eb edukimit, \u00ebsht\u00eb pak a shum\u00eb negativ apo shqet\u00ebsues. Mund t\u00eb keni frik\u00eb pra ta lini veten t\u00eb lir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb frenoheni, pa e zgjedhur tamam k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjshme. Pik\u00ebrisht burgosja e k\u00ebsaj force thell\u00eb brenda vetes, duke mos e l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb dal\u00eb jasht\u00eb, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ide e mir\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb sikur t\u00eb pengoni nj\u00eb nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr t\u2019u shprehur, p\u00ebr t\u00eb komunikuar me tjetrin n\u00eb thell\u00ebsi t\u00eb trupit t\u00eb tij dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndjer\u00eb emocione t\u00eb m\u00ebdha…
\nT\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqesh t\u00eb mohosh apo kufizosh k\u00ebt\u00eb forc\u00eb t\u00eb seksualitetit \u00ebsht\u00eb pra shum\u00eb negative, sepse ajo do t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb t\u00eb shprehet me rrug\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Pra, idealja \u00ebsht\u00eb ta njoh\u00ebsh, ta b\u00ebsh p\u00ebr vete, ta kanalizosh, p\u00ebr t\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb nga ajo m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn. Ky seksualitet-forc\u00eb jete mund t\u00eb jap\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm shum\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi, por edhe lumturi, n\u00ebse di t\u00eb jepesh me dashuri e besim.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb na b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb besojm\u00eb se p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb nj\u00eb dashnor apo dashnore e mir\u00eb nevojiten vet\u00ebm njohurit\u00eb teknike. Edhe ne do t\u00eb donim t\u00eb besonim se me nj\u00eb manual n\u00eb dor\u00eb, gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb, por kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, sepse dashurin\u00eb e b\u00ebn s\u00eb pari ajo q\u00eb jemi dhe m\u00eb pas, ajo […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":5993,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[304],"class_list":["post-5991","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-test","tag-test-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5991","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5991"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5991\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5993"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5991"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5991"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5991"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}