P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje, miq t\u00eb dashur t\u00eb gazet\u00ebs \u201cIntervista\u201d! Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj, jam Aldo. E di q\u00eb ndoshta nuk jeni m\u00ebsuar me iden\u00eb q\u00eb meshkujt t\u00eb vuajn\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri, por ja q\u00eb un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb nga ata meshkuj q\u00eb e ka p\u00ebrjetuar shum\u00eb keq historin\u00eb me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb e kam dashur tej mase. Kemi qen\u00eb p\u00ebr disa vite t\u00eb lidhur s\u00eb bashku dhe ato kan\u00eb qen\u00eb vite t\u00eb paharrueshme p\u00ebr mua. Ajo fem\u00ebr do t\u00eb mbetet thell\u00eb n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn time, pasi ka qen\u00eb tep\u00ebr e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. Edhe m\u00ebnyra se si jemi njohur, ka qen\u00eb e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. Un\u00eb isha i ftuar n\u00eb dasm\u00ebn e nj\u00eb shokut tim dhe ai e kishte organizuar me shoq\u00ebrues. Do t\u00eb kishte shoq\u00ebrues edhe nga dh\u00ebndrri, edhe nga nusja. E fejuara e shokut tim kishte zgjedhur shoqet e saj t\u00eb ngushta, por edhe nj\u00eb kush\u00ebrir\u00ebn e saj q\u00eb ishte rritur me t\u00eb. Ajo kishte ardhur nga Anglia, enkas p\u00ebr dasm\u00ebn e saj. Ne, her\u00eb pas here, e ngacmonim shokun ton\u00eb pasi ishte i pari nga ne q\u00eb do t\u00eb martohej. Un\u00eb dhe Ada jemi dashuruar me shikim t\u00eb par\u00eb. Nuk e di p\u00ebrse m\u00eb vajt\u00ebn syt\u00eb tek ajo fem\u00ebr. M\u00eb t\u00ebrhoqi shum\u00eb, pasi ishte e vetmja q\u00eb rrezatonte mir\u00ebsi. Kishte buz\u00eb shum\u00eb mishtore dhe nj\u00eb fytyr\u00eb prej engj\u00eblli. Ishte shum\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb n\u00eb komunikim dhe n\u00eb sjellje. Q\u00eb nga ai moment, nuk i jam ndar\u00eb. Ajo ishte e ndrojtur dhe kishte nj\u00eb fisnik\u00ebri q\u00eb m\u00eb pengonte t\u2019i afrohesha dhe ta ngacmoja. Ada ishte tipi i femr\u00ebs q\u00eb ta impononte respektin, si me m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e q\u00ebndrimit, ashtu edhe me veshjen e saj. M\u00eb ngjasonte si ato princeshat n\u00eb p\u00ebrralla. Nuk durova dhe e komplimentova p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb nga situata ku isha futur, pasi m\u00eb dukej vetja sikur kisha dep\u00ebrtuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb labirint dhe nuk do t\u00eb gjeja kurr\u00eb rrug\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb. Ajo qeshi dhe i rrezatonte fytyra. P\u00ebrgjigjja ishte si\u00e7 e kisha menduar, pasi ajo ishte rritur n\u00eb nj\u00eb ambient krejt tjet\u00ebr, por e kishte ruajtur t\u00eb gjith\u00eb sjelljen shqiptare. Prind\u00ebrit e saj kishin punuar dhe kishin investuar shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb, edhe pse ajo kishte ikur shum\u00eb e vog\u00ebl n\u00eb Angli. Ajo n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri do t\u00eb rrinte vet\u00ebm tre muajt e ver\u00ebs pasi kishte pushimet dhe n\u00eb tetor e fillonte kolegjin. Un\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb isha n\u00eb nj\u00eb pun\u00eb ku kisha t\u00eb ardhura t\u00eb mira, por jo p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00eb luksi. E kisha shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u2019ua tregoja shok\u00ebve t\u00eb mi k\u00ebt\u00eb ndjesi q\u00eb kisha filluar t\u00eb provoja, ndryshe nga m\u00eb par\u00eb. Doja shum\u00eb ta mbaja p\u00ebr vete dhe ta ruaja me fanatiz\u00ebm.
\nDita e dasm\u00ebs po afronte dhe ne takoheshim shpesh, pasi kishim p\u00ebrgatitur nj\u00eb lloj k\u00ebrcimi p\u00ebr \u00e7iftin, q\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte surpriz\u00eb dhe takoheshim tek lokali i nj\u00eb shokut ton\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt. Dasma ishte vet\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb dy, ndryshe nga \u00e7far\u00eb e kemi zakon ne shqiptar\u00ebt. Ato dit\u00eb kan\u00eb kaluar shum\u00eb bukur, pasi mezi prisja t\u00eb mbaroja pun\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb takoja Ad\u00ebn. Mundohesha ta b\u00ebja p\u00ebr vete duke i b\u00ebr\u00eb surpriza t\u00eb vogla. E shikoja q\u00eb dhe ajo kishte ndjesi t\u00eb mira p\u00ebr mua, pasi sa her\u00eb q\u00eb e shikoja, asaj i shk\u00eblqenin syt\u00eb dhe sikur donte t\u00eb thoshte di\u00e7ka. Ajo ishte shum\u00eb e zgjuar, por edhe e pafajshme si fem\u00ebr. M\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb rasti t\u00eb njoh shum\u00eb femra, por si Ada, jo. Ishte unike n\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb kishte e b\u00ebnte dhe mua m\u00eb dukej vetja sikur po p\u00ebrjetoja nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr dhe sikur po e p\u00ebrjetoja n\u00eb realitet at\u00eb gj\u00eb. E dija q\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb ishte p\u00ebr shum\u00eb koh\u00eb, por doja t\u00eb shijoja \u00e7do moment me t\u00eb, sikur t\u00eb ishte dita ime e fundit. Kisha gjetur at\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb kam dashur gjithmon\u00eb te nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr; thjesht\u00ebsin\u00eb past\u00ebrtin\u00eb, ndershm\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe zgjuarsin\u00eb. Dit\u00ebt kaluan shum\u00eb, deri n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb erdhi dita t\u00eb largohej. Ishte nj\u00eb dit\u00eb shum\u00eb e trishtuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb dy. Nuk e kisha menduar kurrsesi q\u00eb do ta p\u00ebrjetoja kaq keq. Asgj\u00eb nuk m\u00eb hynte m\u00eb n\u00eb sy, pasi iku Ada. U m\u00ebsuam shum\u00eb keq me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin pasi kalonim shum\u00eb koh\u00eb s\u00eb bashku dhe ndanim momente shum\u00eb t\u00eb bukura e t\u00eb paharrueshme. Doja t\u00eb b\u00ebja p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb ikur tek ajo, por nuk i kisha mund\u00ebsit\u00eb ekonomike p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. Nuk m\u00eb rrihej n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, mendjen ma kishte marr\u00eb komplet Ada, flisnim n\u00eb internet, por ishte e pamjaftueshme p\u00ebr ne t\u00eb dy. Po \u00e7mendesha q\u00eb nuk e kisha af\u00ebr at\u00eb vajz\u00eb!
\nNjeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb qenie shum\u00eb e \u00e7uditshme… E si nuk mund t\u00eb rrish pa dik\u00eb q\u00eb ke vet\u00ebm 3 muaj q\u00eb e njeh? Ato dit\u00eb kan\u00eb qen\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira p\u00ebr mua. Pas tre vitesh, un\u00eb pata mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebvizur jasht\u00eb shtetit, pasi kisha kursyer vet\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb shkoja ta takoja, por at\u00eb vit, babai im nd\u00ebrroi jet\u00eb nga nj\u00eb ishemi cerebrale. Ishte di\u00e7ka e papritur dhe un\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb largohesha n\u00eb ato momente, pasi n\u00ebna kishte shum\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr mua. Un\u00eb isha f\u00ebmija i tyre i vet\u00ebm dhe nuk mund t\u00eb largohesha. I lutesha Ad\u00ebs q\u00eb t\u00eb vinte ajo, por ajo e kishte t\u00eb pamundur pasi kishte nd\u00ebrtuar jet\u00ebn e saj atje dhe nuk do t\u00eb ambientohej dot n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. Un\u00eb isha i d\u00ebshp\u00ebruar dhe doja t\u00eb ikja tek ajo, por kisha n\u00ebn\u00ebn vet\u00ebm. Pasi ia shpjegova hallin n\u00ebn\u00ebs sime, ajo m\u00eb dha bekimin me lot n\u00eb sy q\u00eb t\u00eb shikoja jet\u00ebn time. Ia premtova q\u00eb nuk do ta lija t\u00eb jetonte vet\u00ebm, sapo t\u00eb rregullohesha do ta merrja edhe at\u00eb andej. Mezi u nisa dhe mora rrug\u00ebn p\u00ebr n\u00eb parajs\u00ebn e shum\u00ebpritur, por kur shkova, gjeta ferrin. Ada ishte ftohur shum\u00eb dhe nuk e kishte m\u00eb at\u00eb afrimitet si m\u00eb par\u00eb. Nuk e kuptoja se \u00e7far\u00eb po ndodhte me t\u00eb, por pastaj ajo m\u00eb tha se ishte lidhur me nj\u00eb anglez dhe mua sa nuk m\u00eb ra pika. Nuk isha ndjer\u00eb kurr\u00eb ashtu m\u00eb par\u00eb. Ndjehesha i tradhtuar, i zhg\u00ebnjyer dhe i paaft\u00eb p\u00ebr asnj\u00eb gj\u00eb, m\u00eb preu krah\u00ebt. Doja ta vrisja me duart e mia, por nuk kisha fuqin\u00eb e duhur. M\u00eb dukej sikur gjith\u00e7ka ishte \u00ebnd\u00ebrr dhe ajo kishte qen\u00eb nj\u00eb fasad\u00eb shum\u00eb e bukur p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb realitet. Nuk m\u00eb mbante m\u00eb asgj\u00eb n\u00eb Angli dhe u ktheva te n\u00ebna ime, duke mos pasur guximin p\u00ebr t\u00eb dashuruar kurr\u00eb m\u00eb nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr. Jam betuar q\u00eb t\u00eb jem nj\u00eb beqar i p\u00ebrjetsh\u00ebm, pasi sakrificat jan\u00eb t\u00eb kota. Pas gjendjes q\u00eb kalova, m\u2019u desh gati nj\u00eb vit t\u00eb merrja veten. Jam lidhur me vajza t\u00eb tjera, por ka qen\u00eb di\u00e7ka kalimtare e nuk jam dashuruar. Zemr\u00ebs time i kam v\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb gur dhe nuk do t\u00eb dashurohem kurr\u00eb m\u00eb. Nuk mund t\u00eb besoj m\u00eb te nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr, pasi e doja Ad\u00ebn me gjith\u00eb shpirt dhe nuk e prisja t\u00eb m\u00eb ndodhte di\u00e7ka e till\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje, miq t\u00eb dashur t\u00eb gazet\u00ebs \u201cIntervista\u201d! Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj, jam Aldo. E di q\u00eb ndoshta nuk jeni m\u00ebsuar me iden\u00eb q\u00eb meshkujt t\u00eb vuajn\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri, por ja q\u00eb un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb nga ata meshkuj q\u00eb e ka p\u00ebrjetuar shum\u00eb keq historin\u00eb me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb e kam dashur tej mase. Kemi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":5777,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[254],"class_list":["post-5776","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta","tag-histori-personale"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5776","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5776"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5776\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5777"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5776"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5776"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5776"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}