Gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs son\u00eb, na ofrohen mund\u00ebsi e shanse, n\u00eb jet\u00ebn private, apo n\u00eb at\u00eb profesionale. Megjithat\u00eb, ne nuk reagojm\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Disa arrijn\u00eb t\u2019i kapin k\u00ebto mund\u00ebsi shpejt dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitojn\u00eb nga situatat q\u00eb u sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb, kurse t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, p\u00ebrkundrazi, i l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb ikin dhe refuzojn\u00eb k\u00ebshtu arritjen e nj\u00eb lumturie m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe. Me an\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebtij testi, ne ju japim mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb kuptoni n\u00ebse jeni nga ata q\u00eb din\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitojn\u00eb nga mund\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe si t\u00eb veproni q\u00eb t\u2019ju buz\u00ebqesh\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb fati\u2026<\/p>\n
1. N\u00eb restorant, aktorja juaj e preferuar \u00ebsht\u00eb ulur n\u00eb tavolin\u00ebn pran\u00eb jush:
\na. Ju mendoni: \u00abPa shih, edhe asaj i p\u00eblqekan gatimet kineze\u00a0\u00bb.
\nb. Rrini i\/e mrekulluar gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb dark\u00ebs.
\nc. E p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndesni dhe shk\u00ebmbeni disa fjal\u00eb.
\nd. Uleni n\u00eb tavolin\u00ebn e saj.<\/p>\n
2. Kan\u00eb filluar zbritjet n\u00ebp\u00ebr dyqane:
\na. Nuk shkoni, sepse nuk e gjeni asnj\u00ebher\u00eb mas\u00ebn q\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni.
\nb. Nuk e keni me nxitim; do t\u00eb shkoni kur t\u00eb keni koh\u00eb.
\nc. Shkoni q\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e para dhe nuk lini dyqan pa par\u00eb.
\nd. Ju i keni pritur me koh\u00eb, ua keni v\u00ebn\u00eb syrin atyre q\u00eb doni t\u00eb blini dhe mezi prisni t\u00eb hapen dyqanet!<\/p>\n
3. N\u00ebnshkruani kontrat\u00ebn e apartamentit tuaj t\u00eb ri:
\na. Epo, duhet nj\u00eb vend p\u00ebr t\u00eb fjetur!
\nb. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i madh, por m\u00eb mjafton.
\nc. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shans i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb!
\nd. \u00cbsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb k\u00ebrkoja.<\/p>\n
4. Sipas jush, shansi \u00ebsht\u00eb si:
\na. P\u00ebrbind\u00ebshi i Loknesit: E imagjinojm\u00eb, pa e par\u00eb.
\nb. Nj\u00eb gazel\u00eb e shkath\u00ebt: E bukur, por e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u kapur.
\nc. Nj\u00eb troft\u00eb: Kapet me durim.
\nd. Nj\u00eb gepard n\u00eb kafaz: I eg\u00ebr, por mund t\u00eb zbutet.<\/p>\n
5. Vendi i pun\u00ebs q\u00eb d\u00ebshironi, tashm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i lir\u00eb. Ju, mendoni:
\na. Do t\u00eb doja ta kisha un\u00eb, por jan\u00eb \u00ebndrra n\u00eb diell!
\nb. Shpresoj t\u00eb ma propozojn\u00eb mua!
\nc. \u00cbsht\u00eb momenti p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorur dhuntit\u00eb e mia bind\u00ebse!
\nd. \u00cbsht\u00eb imi, do t\u00eb b\u00ebj gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr ta pasur!<\/p>\n
6. Jeni beqar\/e dhe shkoni vet\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb fest\u00eb:
\na. Prap\u00eb do t\u00eb kthehem n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi vet\u00ebm.
\nb. Nuk m\u00eb kushton gj\u00eb t\u00eb pres edhe pak.
\nc. Po u m\u00ebrzita, do t\u00eb shkoj n\u00eb nj\u00eb fest\u00eb tjet\u00ebr.
\nd. Fillon operacioni joshja!<\/p>\n
7. Do t\u00eb shpallen rezultatet e llotos:
\na. Q\u00eb tani, e keni zili fituesin.
\nb. Do t\u00eb vini m\u00eb von\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar list\u00ebn e fituesve.
\nc. E d\u00ebgjoni me shum\u00eb v\u00ebmendje.
\nd. Jeni n\u00eb ankth, nuk dini n\u00ebse e keni hedhur mir\u00eb bilet\u00ebn tuaj.<\/p>\n
8. Keni humbur macen apo qenin tuaj:
\na. Qani q\u00eb tani p\u00ebr humbjen e shokut tuaj.
\nb. Shpresoni t\u00eb dij\u00eb ta gjej\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e tij.
\nc. I telefononi qendr\u00ebs ku mbahen kafsh\u00ebt e braktisura.
\nd. Ngjisni afishe kudo n\u00ebp\u00ebr muret e lagjes suaj.<\/p>\n
9. N\u00eb diskotek\u00eb, ju buz\u00ebqesh nj\u00eb djal\u00eb\/vajz\u00eb josh\u00ebs\/e:
\na. M\u00eb ka ngat\u00ebrruar me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr.
\nb. \u00c7far\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshjeje? Ju nuk keni par\u00eb gj\u00eb!
\nc. I drejtoni nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr dhe vazhdoni k\u00ebrcimin.
\nd. I afroheni dhe filloni bised\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
10. \u00cbnd\u00ebrroni sikur jeni n\u00eb nj\u00eb Luna Park:
\na. Rrini n\u00eb hyrje t\u00eb parkut.
\nb. Drejtori i parkut ju tregon loj\u00ebn q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb rezervuar p\u00ebr ju.
\nc. Keni frik\u00eb se karuseli juaj nuk do t\u00eb ndalet kurr\u00eb.
\nd. P\u00ebrfitoni p\u00ebr t\u00eb provuar gjith\u00eb loj\u00ebrat.<\/p>\n
Rezultatet:
\nN\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje a. Ju e mohoni shansin
\nJu nuk jeni fare pa shans dhe jeni i nd\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, por nuk p\u00ebrfitoni nga mund\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb ju jepen. M\u00eb shpesh, i lini t\u2019ju shp\u00ebtojn\u00eb nga dora. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb besoni se ky shans ka ardhur me siguri p\u00ebr dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, bile ka raste kur u largoheni rasteve t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyera q\u00eb ju ofrohen. Ju, mendoni, duke shpresuar: \u201cSa bukur do t\u00eb ishte!\u201d. N\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb ky rasti juaj, do t\u00eb ishte mir\u00eb t\u00eb pyesni veten se pse refuzoni mund\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb patur m\u00eb shum\u00eb lumturi. Mbase mendoni se nuk jeni i\/e denj\u00eb sa duhet. Ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb kjo ndjenj\u00eb t\u00eb vij\u00eb nga nj\u00eb vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsim i pak\u00ebt. Mbase shkak \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00ebndrimi i prind\u00ebrve ndaj v\u00ebllait apo motr\u00ebs, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt, p\u00ebr shembull, jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelur sesa ju. Ju mund t\u00eb keni zhvilluar nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb inferioriteti. K\u00ebshtu, ju mendoni se t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb sukses, nd\u00ebrsa ju, jo. Mundohuni t\u00eb ve\u00e7oni e pastaj t\u00eb braktisni mendimet tuaja negative. M\u00eb pas, shnd\u00ebrrojini ato n\u00eb nj\u00eb skem\u00eb t\u00eb re, m\u00eb pozitive. Duke ndryshuar skenarin tuaj t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, do t\u00eb vini re se shansi do t\u2019ju buz\u00ebqesh\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb b. Keni nj\u00eb shans diskret
\nDuket se ju nuk e p\u00ebrdorni shansin p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbukuruar t\u00eb ardhmen. Nuk ju p\u00eblqejn\u00eb as situatat e programuara q\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb, ose planet p\u00ebr karrier\u00eb. Pa dyshim, e lini jet\u00ebn t\u00eb vendos\u00eb p\u00ebr fatin tuaj. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb bile \u00ebnd\u00ebrroni q\u00eb t\u00eb ndodhin ngjarje t\u00eb cilat nuk mund t\u00eb ndryshohen. Kjo filozofi b\u00ebn t\u00eb mundur t\u00eb jetoni n\u00eb qet\u00ebsi, pa i b\u00ebr\u00eb shum\u00eb pyetje vetes. Kur nj\u00eb rast shfaqet, ju mendoni shpesh: \u00abN\u00ebse funksionon, aq m\u00eb mir\u00eb, p\u00ebrndryshe, s\u2019e vras shum\u00eb mendjen\u00bb. Megjithat\u00eb, ka momente kur njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb ju rrethojn\u00eb ju tregojn\u00eb rastet q\u00eb keni humbur dhe at\u00ebhere mendoni se n\u00ebse do ta kishit menduar m\u00eb shum\u00eb, me siguri, do ta kishit ndryshuar rrjedh\u00ebn e fatit.
\nP\u00ebrfitoni nga k\u00ebto momente dyshimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn shihni bot\u00ebn. Zgjatni antenat tuaja dhe detyrojeni veten t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni shanset. Sh\u00ebnojeni n\u00eb nj\u00eb fletore dhe bashkangjitini m\u00eb pas ndikimet q\u00eb mund t\u00eb kishte pasur n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj. Progresivisht, do t\u00eb gjeni k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb loj\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Kur t\u00eb keni fituar m\u00eb shum\u00eb besim n\u00eb aft\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb zgjedhjet e duhura, mund t\u00eb fitoni edhe eksperienca t\u00eb reja q\u00eb do t\u00eb pasurojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje c. Jeni i\/e hapur ndaj shansit
\nJu nuk keni d\u00ebshir\u00eb ta k\u00ebrkoni shansin, as ta provokoni, por prisni me qet\u00ebsi q\u00eb t\u00eb vij\u00eb vet\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu, kur ndonj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi shfaqet n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj, rrall\u00eb e lini t\u2019ju ik\u00eb dhe, n\u00ebse shfaqen shum\u00eb nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht, nuk hezitoni p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrzgjidhni at\u00eb q\u00eb ju duket m\u00eb e mira. Duhet t\u00eb jeni nj\u00eb person i vendosur, q\u00eb i merr vendimet shpejt, sepse dini t\u00eb zgjidhni situatat prej t\u00eb cilave p\u00ebrfitoni m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Ky q\u00ebndrim rrjedh, pa dyshim, nga njohja e mir\u00eb e vetes dhe e d\u00ebshirave q\u00eb keni. Mbase kjo shkaktohet edhe nga ambicia juaj: E keni vizatuar qart\u00eb rrug\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb jet\u00ebs dhe i perceptoni shpejt gjith\u00eb situatat q\u00eb p\u00ebrputhen me itinerarin q\u00eb keni zgjedhur. Megjithat\u00eb, kujdes, mos u b\u00ebni shum\u00eb i\/e ngurt\u00eb. Nj\u00eb zot\u00ebrim shum\u00eb i madh i s\u00eb ardhmes do t\u2019ju pengonte t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetonit eksperienca nga m\u00eb t\u00eb papriturat. Mos hezitoni t\u00eb merrni ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe ndonj\u00eb rrug\u00eb t\u00eb panjohur dhe k\u00ebshtu, t\u00eb befasoheni nga jeta.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje d. Ju e k\u00ebrkoni shansin.
\nT\u00eb kapni rastin e duhur? Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb pasioni juaj i preferuar! Ju p\u00ebrpiqeni ta gjeni n\u00eb \u00e7do moment. Sapo paraqitet nj\u00eb rast, ju nuk e lini t\u2019ju shp\u00ebtoj\u00eb nga duart dhe jeni i\/e aft\u00eb t\u00eb tregoni nj\u00eb energji t\u00eb pabesueshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur edhe mund\u00ebsin\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb ju rrethojn\u00eb, jua kan\u00eb zili k\u00ebt\u00eb gjimnastik\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrhershme, q\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb mundur t\u00eb jeni gjithmon\u00eb mendjezgjuar, por ky k\u00ebrkim i p\u00ebrhersh\u00ebm i mund\u00ebsive, nuk rezervon gjithmon\u00eb vet\u00ebm k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi. N\u00eb fakt, n\u00eb disa momente, ju rrezikoni t\u00eb provoni nj\u00eb ndjesi ankthi se ju ka shp\u00ebtuar nga dora nj\u00eb rast i shk\u00eblqyer. N\u00ebse ky emocion \u00ebsht\u00eb i pap\u00ebrballuesh\u00ebm p\u00ebr ju, b\u00ebjini vetes pyetjen: Pse keni kaq frik\u00eb t\u00eb humbisni qoft\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb rast t\u00eb vet\u00ebm? Keni frik\u00eb se do t\u00eb d\u00ebshtoni n\u00eb jet\u00eb? Keni frik\u00eb se jeta juaj nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb ishte?
\nN\u00eb fakt, kjo frenezi mund t\u00eb fsheh\u00eb nganj\u00ebher\u00eb nj\u00eb frik\u00eb ndaj s\u00eb ardhmes. Fakti q\u00eb mendoni gjithmon\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen, e mbush k\u00ebt\u00eb ndjesi boshll\u00ebku. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, mundohuni vet\u00ebm t\u00eb kapni rastin dhe ta programoni lumturin\u00eb tuaj vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr… t\u00eb tashmen! B\u00ebni periudha relaksimi dhe b\u00ebjani qejfin vetes. K\u00ebto momente qet\u00ebsie do t\u2019ju lejojn\u00eb t\u00eb lidheni me unin tuaj t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitoni edhe nga k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb e s\u00eb tashmes.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs son\u00eb, na ofrohen mund\u00ebsi e shanse, n\u00eb jet\u00ebn private, apo n\u00eb at\u00eb profesionale. Megjithat\u00eb, ne nuk reagojm\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Disa arrijn\u00eb t\u2019i kapin k\u00ebto mund\u00ebsi shpejt dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitojn\u00eb nga situatat q\u00eb u sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb, kurse t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, p\u00ebrkundrazi, i l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb ikin dhe refuzojn\u00eb k\u00ebshtu arritjen […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":5723,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[304],"class_list":["post-5722","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-test","tag-test-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5722","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5722"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5722\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5723"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5722"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5722"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5722"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}