{"id":5717,"date":"2014-11-07T20:30:43","date_gmt":"2014-11-07T19:30:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=5717"},"modified":"2014-11-07T15:09:55","modified_gmt":"2014-11-07T14:09:55","slug":"per-te-jetuar-te-lumtur-ne-cift-mos-beni-femije","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/11\/per-te-jetuar-te-lumtur-ne-cift-mos-beni-femije\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar t\u00eb lumtur n\u00eb \u00e7ift, mos b\u00ebni f\u00ebmij\u00eb!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Po t\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh prind\u00ebrit e rinj, lindja e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e bukur q\u00eb u ka ndodhur n\u00eb jet\u00eb, por nj\u00eb studim i koh\u00ebve t\u00eb fundit ka v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dyshim sinqeritetin e tyre, duke afirmuar t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn, pra, q\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb lumtura jan\u00eb \u00e7iftet pa f\u00ebmij\u00eb&#8230; Po sikur receta e lumturis\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortore t\u00eb ishte mosriprodhimi? Sipas studimit, m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa seksi, komunikimi, apo zbavitjet e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta, mospasja e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb faktor p\u00ebr nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur n\u00eb \u00e7ift. T\u00eb pakt\u00ebn kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb konfirmon nj\u00eb studim i kryer n\u00eb Britanin\u00eb e Madhe, me m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 5000 persona t\u00eb \u00e7do moshe, statusi apo orientimi seksual.<\/p>\n<p>Studiuesit e Open University, n\u00eb Veri t\u00eb Londr\u00ebs, kan\u00eb konstatuar se personat pa f\u00ebmij\u00eb ishin m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e tyre dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb prirur t\u00eb ndjeheshin t\u00eb vler\u00ebsuar nga partneri\/ja, sesa ata me f\u00ebmij\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>F\u00ebmij\u00ebt, pra, p\u00ebrb\u00ebjn\u00eb nj\u00eb frenim p\u00ebr mir\u00ebqenien dashurore? P\u00ebr shumic\u00ebn e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb marr\u00eb n\u00eb pyetje, t\u00eb jetuarit me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt i b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira daljet dhe dialogun n\u00eb \u00e7ift. Megjith\u00ebse ky konstatim vlen p\u00ebr \u00e7iftet n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, ai ndryshon sipas sekseve. Tendenca \u00ebsht\u00eb mjaft e ndryshme nga femrat, te meshkujt. N\u00eb fakt, femrat pa f\u00ebmij\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb pak t\u00eb lumtura se t\u00eb tjerat, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb baballar\u00ebt thon\u00eb se ndjehen m\u00eb pak t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur sesa burrat pa f\u00ebmij\u00eb&#8230; Nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ift i lumtur \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe&#8230; \u00e7aji! Me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, gjetja e koh\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb pir\u00eb nj\u00eb got\u00eb s\u00eb bashku (\u00e7aj, kafe, etj.), e forcon lidhjen. T\u00eb tjera m\u00ebnyra ishin \u201cv\u00ebnia e muzik\u00ebs dhe k\u00ebrcimi s\u00eb bashku\u201d, \u201ct\u00eb qesh\u00ebsh s\u00eb bashku\u201d, ose \u201ct\u00eb b\u00ebsh dhe t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh komplimente\u201d, t\u00eb cilat zgjasin list\u00ebn e momenteve m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura t\u00eb kaluara n\u00eb \u00e7ift.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Po t\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh prind\u00ebrit e rinj, lindja e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e bukur q\u00eb u ka ndodhur n\u00eb jet\u00eb, por nj\u00eb studim i koh\u00ebve t\u00eb fundit ka v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dyshim sinqeritetin e tyre, duke afirmuar t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn, pra, q\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb lumtura jan\u00eb \u00e7iftet pa f\u00ebmij\u00eb&#8230; Po sikur receta e lumturis\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortore t\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5717","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-intimitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5717","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5717"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5717\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5717"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5717"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5717"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}