– Djali im \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm 5 vje\u00e7, por ka nj\u00eb natyr\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb paq\u00ebndrueshme. Edhe kur bisedon, flet shum\u00eb i nevrikosur dhe mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb edhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrplas\u00eb gj\u00ebrat. Mos vall\u00eb ka ndikuar stresi yn\u00eb, sepse po kalojm\u00eb nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb?
\nSelami Deraj, psikopediat\u00ebr: – N\u00eb praktik\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme ne ndeshemi me disa shqet\u00ebsime n\u00eb moshat f\u00ebminore, gjer te t\u00eb rriturit (adoleshent\u00ebt) si th\u00ebrrmimi i personalitetit, sjelljet e \u00e7organizuara, problemet e zhvillimit psikik e motorrik si dhe t\u00eb t\u00eb folurit. Po ashtu, ka f\u00ebmij\u00eb me zem\u00ebrime e sjellje zem\u00ebrake, shp\u00ebrthime inati dhe sindrom\u00eb xhelozuese midis motrave e v\u00ebllez\u00ebrve kur lind p\u00ebr shembull f\u00ebmija i dyt\u00eb, si dhe sindrom\u00eb karakteriale.
\n– Shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, sidomos n\u00eb k\u00ebto kushte t\u00eb reja t\u00eb zhvillimit t\u00eb vrullsh\u00ebm dhe problemeve t\u00eb streseve n\u00eb familjen shqiptare, kan\u00eb shp\u00ebrthime inati, me t\u00eb qara dhe b\u00ebrtitje t\u00eb dukshme, si dhe zem\u00ebrime t\u00eb shfrenuara p\u00ebr arsye t\u00eb ndryshme. Gjendja e r\u00ebnduar psikologjike n\u00eb banes\u00ebn tuaj mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shkak i k\u00ebtyre shqet\u00ebsimeve dhe problemeve q\u00eb shfaq djali juaj. Prind\u00ebrit, sigurisht, tremben e shqet\u00ebsohen me zem\u00ebrimet e menj\u00ebhershme t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre. T\u00eb tilla sjellje mund t\u00eb vihen re n\u00eb 75 % t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs 3-5 vje\u00e7. Kjo zem\u00ebrat\u00eb ama mund t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb brenda 5 minutave te shumica e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Zgjatja m\u00eb shum\u00eb e shqet\u00ebsimit lidhet me problemet emocionale t\u00eb vuajtjes f\u00ebminore. Edhe vuajtjet depresive f\u00ebminore mund ta ballafaqojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn me gjendje zem\u00ebruese, episode qaramane e sjellje t\u00eb \u00e7organizuara n\u00eb moshat 5-8 vje\u00e7. N\u00eb r\u00ebndesat psikologjike t\u00eb dukshme e me intensitet t\u00eb lart\u00eb, zem\u00ebrata e sjellja e pap\u00ebrshtatshme mund t\u00eb zgjasin 25 minuta e m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Edhe disa f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb popullat\u00eb thuhet \u201cu flet goja para mendjes\u201d, manifestojn\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb tilla t\u00eb shoq\u00ebruara me hiperaktivitet. Edhe shkelja e t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, ndeshet n\u00eb disa f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb manifestojn\u00eb edhe dhun\u00eb. Vet\u00eb d\u00ebmtimi, humbja e vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimit dhe paaft\u00ebsia shoq\u00ebrore e shkollore, mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb lidhura edhe me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e trishtuar, t\u00eb hidh\u00ebruar e t\u00eb zem\u00ebruar. Uroj t\u00eb keni kuptuar di\u00e7ka nga natyra e djalit tuaj. N\u00eb numrat e ardhsh\u00ebm, do t\u00eb flasim edhe p\u00ebr disa karakteristika t\u00eb sjelljeve t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– Djali im \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm 5 vje\u00e7, por ka nj\u00eb natyr\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb paq\u00ebndrueshme. Edhe kur bisedon, flet shum\u00eb i nevrikosur dhe mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb edhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrplas\u00eb gj\u00ebrat. Mos vall\u00eb ka ndikuar stresi yn\u00eb, sepse po kalojm\u00eb nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb? Selami Deraj, psikopediat\u00ebr: – N\u00eb praktik\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme ne ndeshemi me disa […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":5616,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[89],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5615","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mjeku"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5615","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5615"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5615\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5616"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5615"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5615"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5615"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}