{"id":5509,"date":"2014-11-05T12:00:16","date_gmt":"2014-11-05T11:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=5509"},"modified":"2014-11-05T11:32:36","modified_gmt":"2014-11-05T10:32:36","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-13","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/11\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-13\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tek ish-puna<br \/>\n&#8211; Shikoj shum\u00eb shpesh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur punoj n\u00eb nj\u00eb pun\u00eb ku kam qen\u00eb dikur. \u00c7far\u00eb shpjegimi ka kjo, ju lutem? Faleminderit.<br \/>\n&#8211; Dy shpjegime ka: Ose keni q\u00ebndruar shum\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb vend pune dhe keni shum\u00eb kujtime, ose ju ka ngelur merak di\u00e7ka nga ajo pun\u00eb. N\u00eb pavet\u00ebdijen tuaj, di\u00e7ka ju ka ngelur peng, prandaj e shikoni shpesh. Mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb edhe q\u00eb t\u00eb merrni ndonj\u00eb lajm nga ish-koleg\u00ebt tuaj. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n<p>Linda vajz\u00eb<br \/>\n&#8211; Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur linda vajz\u00eb, e linda me operim dhe shikoja gjith\u00e7ka, por f\u00ebmij\u00ebn nuk e pash\u00eb. M\u00eb kan\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00eb e mir\u00eb. Pres nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje.<br \/>\n&#8211; Nuk duhet t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni, sepse n\u00eb thelb, po nuk i besove nj\u00eb \u00ebndrre, ajo ngelet e till\u00eb, pra, nuk ka asnj\u00eb kuptim n\u00eb realitet. N\u00eb rastin tuaj konkret, \u00ebndrra ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me nj\u00eb plan, projekt tuajin t\u00eb cilin do ta vini n\u00eb jet\u00eb, por nuk do ta shijoni shum\u00eb, sepse ju do t\u00eb jeni duke punuar, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt do ta shijojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb fal\u00eb jush. Pra, lindja e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije \u00ebsht\u00eb plan p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen. Fakti q\u00eb nuk e keni par\u00eb, tregon at\u00eb q\u00eb ju thash\u00eb m\u00eb sip\u00ebr. Ju uroj sh\u00ebndet. <\/p>\n<p>Tr\u00ebndafilat dhe prind\u00ebrit<br \/>\n&#8211; P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje astrologe! Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur isha n\u00eb nj\u00eb kop\u00ebsht me lule dhe u afrova t\u00eb k\u00ebputja disa tr\u00ebndafila p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit e mi q\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb vdekur. Komshia q\u00eb ishte e zonja e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb m\u00eb tha t\u00eb mos i k\u00ebpusja tr\u00ebndafilat dhe un\u00eb ika duke qar\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. M\u00eb pas, m\u2019u b\u00eb sikur n\u00eb krevatin dopio m\u2019u afrua nj\u00eb mashkull dhe m\u00eb shtr\u00ebngoi pas trupit t\u00eb tij, q\u00eb t\u00eb ndihesha e mbrojtur. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, astrologe, a ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim \u00ebndrra ime? Me respekt, Dora.<br \/>\n&#8211; S\u00eb pari, \u00ebndrra juaj, e dashur Dora, tregon dashurin\u00eb q\u00eb keni pasur dhe q\u00eb keni p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit tuaj q\u00eb ju mungojn\u00eb shum\u00eb. Ju keni shum\u00eb mall p\u00ebr ta dhe jeni b\u00ebr\u00eb shum\u00eb e brisht\u00eb, ashtu si ato lulet q\u00eb keni par\u00eb n\u00eb kop\u00ebsht. Tr\u00ebndafilat jan\u00eb ndjenjat tuaja, shpirti juaj i bukur. Shpeshher\u00eb, mbylleni n\u00eb vetvete dhe vuani, sepse keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr shum\u00eb dashuri, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr q\u00eb ju mungon dashuria e prind\u00ebrve. Edhe mashkulli q\u00eb keni par\u00eb, tregon nevoj\u00ebn tuaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur dik\u00eb n\u00eb krah q\u00eb t\u2019ju mbroj\u00eb, t\u2019ju ngush\u00eblloj\u00eb dhe t\u2019ju fal\u00eb shum\u00eb dashuri. Kjo gj\u00eb s\u2019do t\u00eb vonoj\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj, thjesht duhet ta d\u00ebshironi, t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb e hapur me njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb ju rrethojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mos kapeni m\u00eb pas s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs, por t\u00eb shikoni p\u00ebrpara. <\/p>\n<p>Motra e mbuluar me gjak<br \/>\n&#8211; Isha shtrir\u00eb n\u00eb divan me motr\u00ebn time dhe i thash\u00eb: \u201cPo kthehu nga un\u00eb, pse m\u00eb rri kaq larg?\u201d. Kur u kthye, ajo ishte e mbuluar me gjak dhe u tremba shum\u00eb. A ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim?<br \/>\n&#8211; \u00cbndrra juaj tregon se jeni shum\u00eb e lidhur pas motr\u00ebs tuaj dhe tregoni nj\u00eb kujdes aq t\u00eb madh ndaj saj, saq\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb e teproni dhe alarmoheni edhe p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra shum\u00eb t\u00eb vogla. Nj\u00eb \u00e7ik\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00ebmuret apo t\u00eb ket\u00eb ndonj\u00eb problem motra juaj, ju e b\u00ebni tragjike dhe stresoni veten e njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb keni n\u00eb familje. Kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr tregon thjesht merakun q\u00eb keni ndaj saj, por edhe nj\u00eb lloj d\u00ebshire t\u00eb brendshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur v\u00ebmendjen e saj gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs. <\/p>\n<p>Minj n\u00eb trupin tim<br \/>\n&#8211; Para dy net\u00ebsh kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr shum\u00eb minj dhe m\u2019u shpif, sepse m\u00eb ngjiteshin n\u00eb trup. Nga tmerri, u zgjova nga gjumi. Pres nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje nga ana juaj, ju lutem. Faleminderit.<br \/>\n&#8211; Minjt\u00eb q\u00eb keni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e q\u00eb ju jan\u00eb ngjitur n\u00eb trup, tregojn\u00eb frik\u00ebrat tuaja, irritimet dhe problemet gjat\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme. Po kaloni nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, ndaj e keni par\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr t\u00eb till\u00eb. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, mund t\u00eb kaloni ndonj\u00eb grip t\u00eb leht\u00eb, por \u00e7do gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kalimtare. <\/p>\n<p>Fotografia e nj\u00eb shoku<br \/>\n&#8211; Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nj\u00eb shokun tim q\u00eb e njoh prej vitesh, por e pash\u00eb n\u00eb fotografi. Un\u00eb i merrja dhe i fshihja, sepse nuk doja q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u2019i shikonin ata t\u00eb familjes time. I shikoja fotot dhe e adhuroja. Theksoj q\u00eb s\u2019e kam takuar at\u00eb djal\u00eb prej vitesh&#8230;<br \/>\n&#8211; Fotografit\u00eb kan\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb lidhje me nj\u00eb ngjarje, veprim apo moment, i cili ka ngelur n\u00eb kujtes\u00ebn tuaj. Do t\u00eb donit t\u00eb rikthenit t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre, por \u00ebndrra tregon q\u00eb asgj\u00eb nuk kthehet m\u00eb mbrapsht. P\u00ebrkundrazi, \u00ebndrra ju k\u00ebshillon t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendroheni n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb t\u00eb tanishme apo marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie personale, sepse mund t\u2019ju ik\u00eb nga duart shum\u00eb leht\u00eb, duke qen\u00eb se jeni p\u00ebrqendruar pak\u00ebz n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn tuaj. Djali q\u00eb keni par\u00eb n\u00eb foto, ndoshta mund t\u00eb p\u00ebsoj\u00eb ndonj\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjim, ose ndonj\u00eb incident t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, p\u00ebrderisa e keni par\u00eb n\u00eb foto. Nd\u00ebrsa p\u00ebr ju ka kuptimin q\u00eb ju thash\u00eb m\u00eb sip\u00ebr, s\u2019ka lidhje me ju ky djal\u00eb. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tek ish-puna &#8211; Shikoj shum\u00eb shpesh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur punoj n\u00eb nj\u00eb pun\u00eb ku kam qen\u00eb dikur. \u00c7far\u00eb shpjegimi ka kjo, ju lutem? Faleminderit. &#8211; Dy shpjegime ka: Ose keni q\u00ebndruar shum\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb vend pune dhe keni shum\u00eb kujtime, ose ju ka ngelur merak di\u00e7ka nga ajo pun\u00eb. N\u00eb pavet\u00ebdijen tuaj, di\u00e7ka ju ka [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5509","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5509","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5509"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5509\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5509"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5509"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5509"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}