Problemet me ereksionin, qofshin ato t\u00eb rralla, apo t\u00eb shpeshta, i fusin shpesh t\u00eb dy partner\u00ebt n\u00eb siklet. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, burri ndjehet i prekur n\u00eb burr\u00ebrin\u00eb e tij dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb gruaja t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb q\u00ebndrimin e duhur e t\u00eb thot\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb mira, pa e l\u00ebnduar partnerin. Mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ta shoh\u00ebsh \u00e7\u00ebshtjen nga nj\u00eb k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrim relativ, por si arrihet kjo?<\/p>\n
N\u00eb \u00e7\u2018mosh\u00eb ndodhin problemet e para?
\nAto ndodhin pas t\u00eb 40-ave, por sidomos pas t\u00eb 50-ave, kur nj\u00eb n\u00eb tre burra, ose nj\u00eb n\u00eb dy, preket nga problemet e impotenc\u00ebs. D\u00ebshira ekziston, por ajo nuk funksionon si m\u00eb par\u00eb. Para se t\u00eb nxirren p\u00ebrfundime t\u00eb nxituara, duhen shtruar tre pyetje: B\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim q\u00eb ndodh shpesh? A ngrihet partneri n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes me organin seksual t\u00eb forcuar? A ka ai ereksion kur mastrubohet, ose kur sheh pamje eksituese? N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, gjith\u00e7ka shkon mir\u00eb, sistemi fiziologjik funksionon dhe me kalimin e koh\u00ebs gjith\u00e7ka do t\u00eb zhbllokohet. N\u00eb rast t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt, duhen k\u00ebrkuar shkaqet e pamund\u00ebsis\u00eb t\u00eb ereksionit, shpesh anomali fiziologjike t\u00eb lidhura me tensionin e lart\u00eb apo diabetin dhe t\u00eb shum\u00ebfishuara nga marrja e ila\u00e7eve p\u00ebr to.
\nSi t\u00eb sillesh para nj\u00eb problemi t\u00eb till\u00eb?
\nP\u00ebr gruan, kryesorja \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb mos veproj\u00eb pa takt. Ka disa gra q\u00eb kan\u00eb tendenc\u00eb t\u2019i marrin gj\u00ebrat me humor, gj\u00eb q\u00eb duhet evituar, sepse e qeshura mund t\u00eb merret si form\u00eb talljeje, apo posht\u00ebrimi. T\u00eb tjera, e minimizojn\u00eb problemin. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, burri ndjehet sikur nuk e kuptojn\u00eb, ai mendon se partnerja e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb indiferente. Disa e ngush\u00ebllojn\u00eb partnerin, gj\u00eb q\u00eb prap\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e mir\u00eb, sepse ai nuk do q\u00eb ta trajtojn\u00eb si f\u00ebmij\u00eb. T\u00eb tjera shfaqin zhg\u00ebnjimin e tyre, duke rrezikuar k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb panik: \u00abKam frik\u00eb se nuk do t\u2019ia arrij, pra, nuk do t\u00eb b\u00ebj dot m\u00eb seks\u00bb. Zgjidhja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb? Ajo e k\u00ebshilluar nga seksolog\u00ebt: Egoizmi i sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm! N\u00eb rast problemi me ereksionin, duhet menduar p\u00ebr veten, t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi, me gjith\u00eb situat\u00ebn, t\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul\u00ebsh n\u00eb loj\u00ebrat paraprake, p\u00ebrk\u00ebdheljet, te seksi oral. Kjo mund t\u00eb zhbllokoj\u00eb situat\u00ebn dhe ta relativizoj\u00eb at\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Problemet me ereksionin, qofshin ato t\u00eb rralla, apo t\u00eb shpeshta, i fusin shpesh t\u00eb dy partner\u00ebt n\u00eb siklet. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, burri ndjehet i prekur n\u00eb burr\u00ebrin\u00eb e tij dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb gruaja t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb q\u00ebndrimin e duhur e t\u00eb thot\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb mira, pa e l\u00ebnduar partnerin. Mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ta shoh\u00ebsh \u00e7\u00ebshtjen nga nj\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":5253,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5249","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5249","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5249"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5249\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5253"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5249"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5249"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5249"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}