Ke 10 minuta q\u00eb sheh at\u00eb bionden q\u00eb n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, duket si peshku n\u00eb uj\u00eb? Nuk ka q\u00ebndruar vet\u00ebm asnj\u00eb minut\u00eb gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb fest\u00ebs, gjithmon\u00eb e rrethuar me njer\u00ebz, duket se ka t\u00ebrhequr v\u00ebmendjen e publikut t\u00eb saj, megjith\u00ebse b\u00ebn vet\u00ebm biseda t\u00eb zakonshme? Nuk duket si topmodele, as nuk ka marr\u00eb \u00e7mimin Nobel… at\u00ebhere, si arrin t’ua t\u00ebrheq\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve? P\u00ebrgjigjen e kemi ne: E vetmja gj\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebn \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrdorimi i disa teknikave efikase t\u00eb komunikimit, sepse, kur shprehesh me siguri, dukesh m\u00eb interesant n\u00eb syt\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. N\u00eb fakt, k\u00ebto jan\u00eb teknika q\u00eb mund t\u00eb m\u00ebsohen! M\u00eb posht\u00eb, do t\u00eb t\u00eb propozojm\u00eb 10 teknika t\u00eb pagabueshme p\u00ebr t’u shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb nj\u00eb eksperte t\u00eb komunikimit…<\/p>\n
TEKNIKA 1: T\u00cb FILLOSH NJ\u00cb BISED\u00cb
\nObjektivi: N\u00eb nj\u00eb fest\u00eb, n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e saj, shoqja jote t\u00eb prezanton komshiun e saj. Ideja \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb dish \u00e7’t\u00eb thuash pas fjal\u00ebve hyr\u00ebse t\u00eb prezantimit dhe t\u00eb mos ngelesh me goj\u00ebn ky\u00e7ur, duke krijuar nj\u00eb heshtje t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb.
\nGabimi q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb evitosh: Nuk duhet t\u00eb t\u00eb kap\u00eb paniku dhe t’i b\u00ebsh presion vetes q\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb moment t\u00eb gjesh nj\u00eb replik\u00eb interesante dhe t\u00eb duhur p\u00ebr ta th\u00ebn\u00eb, sepse e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aq ajo q\u00eb thua, por m\u00ebnyra si e thua. Evito ankesat e shumta, mos ji agresive, e pak\u00ebndshme apo negative, sepse do t\u00eb t\u00eb quajn\u00eb tip t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitsh\u00ebm.
\n\u00c7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebsh?
\n1. Hyr n\u00eb bised\u00eb, pyete si e njeh t\u00eb zonj\u00ebn e fest\u00ebs, nga \u00ebsht\u00eb, ku punon… Nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi shum\u00eb se p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb flet. Mbi t\u00eb gjitha, mos u shqet\u00ebso n\u00ebse flet p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra banale, t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme.
\n2. Fol me nj\u00eb ton z\u00ebri t\u00eb k\u00ebndsh\u00ebm: Gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje muzike, melodie… Fjal\u00ebt e tua jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebndshme, por edhe duhet t\u00eb ting\u00ebllojn\u00eb t\u00eb tilla n\u00eb vesh. P\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur k\u00ebt\u00eb, mundohu t\u00eb kap\u00ebsh tonin e bashk\u00ebbiseduesit t\u00ebnd dhe ta imitosh. Objektivi: Ta b\u00ebsh at\u00eb t\u00eb ndjehet mir\u00eb duke ndar\u00eb me ty gjendjen e tij shpirt\u00ebrore.
\nNj\u00eb plus: V\u00ebr nj\u00eb aksesor q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen: nj\u00eb var\u00ebse t\u00eb madhe, nj\u00eb pal\u00eb syze, di\u00e7ka q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb dukesh e mod\u00ebs! Kjo do t\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen e bashk\u00ebbiseduesit dhe do t\u00eb p\u00ebrb\u00ebj\u00eb nj\u00eb tem\u00eb bisede p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n
TEKNIKA 2: T\u00cb FUTESH N\u00cb BISED\u00cb
\nObjektivi: N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb rrish vet\u00ebm dhe af\u00ebr tavolin\u00ebs s\u00eb koktejlit, me got\u00ebn t\u00ebnde n\u00eb dor\u00eb, mundohu t\u00eb futesh n\u00eb at\u00eb grupin q\u00eb duket se po zbavitet. E keqja \u00ebsht\u00eb se nuk njeh asnjeri n\u00eb t\u00eb…
\nGabimi q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb evitosh: T\u00eb futesh me forc\u00eb n\u00eb grup, duke nd\u00ebrprer\u00eb bised\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u2019u prezantuar. Rrezikon t\u00eb dukesh e pasjellshme, duke nd\u00ebrprer\u00eb nj\u00eb bised\u00eb.
\n\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh?
\n1. Afroju drejtp\u00ebrdrejt grupit dhe q\u00ebndro te \u201cporta\u201d; me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, q\u00ebndro n\u00eb rrethin e jasht\u00ebm dhe mundohu t\u00eb kap\u00ebsh fragmente bisede.
\n2. Sapo t\u00eb gjesh mund\u00ebsin\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, futu n\u00eb bised\u00eb: \u201cM\u00eb fal, vura re q\u00eb po flisnit p\u00ebr filmin e fundit t\u00eb Vudi Alenit. E ka par\u00eb ndonj\u00ebri prej jush? Po pyesja veten n\u00ebse ia vlen ta shoh\u00ebsh…\u201d.
\nNj\u00eb plus: N\u00ebse v\u00eb re q\u00eb biseda ngec dhe ti nuk je e frym\u00ebzuar, p\u00ebrdor trukun e “atyre”, pra, p\u00ebrs\u00ebrit fjal\u00ebt e fundit t\u00eb shqiptuara nga bashk\u00ebbiseduesi, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb “ta marr\u00ebsh topin n\u00eb an\u00ebn t\u00ebnde”, q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb tjetri ai q\u00eb do ta vazhdoj\u00eb bised\u00ebn. P\u00ebr shembull, ai thot\u00eb: “Mbr\u00ebm\u00eb shkuam p\u00ebr dark\u00eb jasht\u00eb”. Ti: “N\u00eb nj\u00eb restorant?”, Ai: “N\u00eb nj\u00eb restorant italian, ku b\u00ebjn\u00eb ca gatime t\u00eb papara”. Ti “V\u00ebrtet?”. Ai: “Po, i gatuajn\u00eb makaronat n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb s’e kam par\u00eb asgj\u00ebkundi…” dhe k\u00ebshtu vazhdon biseda.<\/p>\n
TEKNIKA 3: T\u00cb B\u00cbSH PREZANTIMET
\nObjektivi: Ke dit\u00eblindjen dhe do q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb zbaviten, p\u00ebrfshi edhe shoqen t\u00ebnde t\u00eb tet\u00ebvje\u00e7ares, Gres\u00ebn, e cila nuk njeh asnjeri n\u00eb fest\u00eb. Misioni yt \u00ebsht\u00eb t’i prezantosh disa t\u00eb ftuar t\u00eb p\u00ebrzgjedhur, me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt mund t’i “hahet” muhabeti.
\nGabimi q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb evitosh: T\u00eb mjaftohesh me nj\u00eb prezantim t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb: “Mario, t\u00eb prezantoj Gres\u00ebn. Gresa, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb Mario”. Me nj\u00eb prezantim t\u00eb till\u00eb, ata do ta ken\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ta fillojn\u00eb bised\u00ebn.
\n\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh? Kur t\u00eb b\u00ebsh nj\u00eb prezantim, informohu p\u00ebr personat q\u00eb prezanton. P\u00ebr shembull: “Gresa, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb Mario, \u00ebsht\u00eb avokat. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb Gresa, shoqja ime m\u00eb e ngusht\u00eb e shkoll\u00ebs, q\u00eb vazhdon p\u00ebr… ose: q\u00eb ka ardhur p\u00ebr disa dit\u00eb n\u00eb qytet…”. Me k\u00ebto detaje personale, Gresa dhe Mario mund t\u00eb fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb flasin p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka.
\nNj\u00eb plus: Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e detyrueshme t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh p\u00ebr profesionet e personave q\u00eb po prezanton dhe jo gjithmon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e k\u00ebshillueshme kjo gj\u00eb. N\u00ebse preferon, mund t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh p\u00ebr aft\u00ebsit\u00eb ose pasionet q\u00eb kan\u00eb…<\/p>\n
TEKNIKA 4. T\u00cb FLAS\u00cbSH P\u00cbR PUN\u00cbN
\nObjektivi: 99% e njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb njohim na b\u00ebjn\u00eb sistematikisht t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn pyetje: “\u00c7far\u00eb pune b\u00ebn?”. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb jesh e p\u00ebrgatitur p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigjur n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb mundshme. K\u00ebshtu, mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitosh edhe nga mund\u00ebsit\u00eb profesionale q\u00eb mund t\u00eb dalin gjat\u00eb bised\u00ebs.
\nGabimi q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb evitosh: T\u00eb mjaftohesh duke th\u00ebn\u00eb: “Punoj n\u00eb nj\u00eb agjenci imobiliare”. Nuk do t\u00eb arrish asnj\u00eb p\u00ebrfitim me k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje, sepse nuk do t\u00eb sjell\u00eb asgj\u00eb; bashk\u00ebbiseduesi yt do ta ket\u00eb harruar p\u00ebr 10 minuta.
\n\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh? Ashtu si\u00e7 do t\u00eb b\u00ebje p\u00ebr t\u00eb prezantuar CV-n\u00eb t\u00ebnde n\u00eb nj\u00eb intervist\u00eb pune, me nj\u00eb ose dy fraza, fol p\u00ebr p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsit\u00eb e profesionit t\u00ebnd. P\u00ebr shembull, mos thuaj: “Jam k\u00ebshilltar financiar”, por “Ndihmoj njer\u00ebzit p\u00ebr t\u00eb investuar mir\u00eb parat\u00eb e tyre”. K\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje duhet ta m\u00ebsosh q\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb. Rezultati: Nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje m\u00eb e gjall\u00eb, m\u00eb konkrete dhe bashk\u00ebbiseduesi yt do ta mbaj\u00eb mend.
\nNj\u00eb plus: Kjo teknik\u00eb vlen edhe p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat e tjera: Pasionet, aft\u00ebsit\u00eb, aktivitetet e tua… P\u00ebr t\u2019i ngjallur simpati tjetrit, krijoji nj\u00eb vizion pozitiv t\u00eb jet\u00ebs t\u00ebnde, q\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u2019i interesoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n
TEKNIKA 5: T\u2019I TREGOSH DIKUJT Q\u00cb JE N\u00cb NJ\u00cb MENDJE ME T\u00cb
\nObjektivi: Ke 10 minuta q\u00eb flet me kush\u00ebrir\u00ebn e shoqes t\u00ebnde t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb dhe mendon: “Sa simpatike, sa ngjajm\u00eb”. \u00cbsht\u00eb e qart\u00eb se ju mund t\u00eb jeni shum\u00eb mir\u00eb shoqe t\u00eb ngushta. Si mund t\u2019ia shpreh\u00ebsh k\u00ebt\u00eb ndjesi?
\nGabimi q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb evitosh: T’i b\u00ebsh nj\u00eb deklarat\u00eb miq\u00ebsie t\u00eb parakohshme. Rrezikon ta tremb\u00ebsh dhe ajo t\u00eb ik\u00eb.
\n\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh? Tregohu m\u00eb me takt. Ideja \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb bind\u00ebsh n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pand\u00ebrgjegjshme Enxhin. M\u00ebnyra p\u00ebr t\u2019ia arritur \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh gjuh\u00ebn e saj. Tregohu e v\u00ebmendshme p\u00ebr fjalorin, fjal\u00ebt e shprehjet q\u00eb ajo p\u00ebrdor dhe mundohu t\u2019i riprodhosh n\u00eb bised\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. K\u00ebshtu, do t\u2019i tregosh se b\u00ebni pjes\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin grup dhe ajo, automatikisht, do t\u00eb ndjehet m\u00eb af\u00ebr teje.
\nNj\u00eb plus: T\u2019i p\u00ebrshtatesh fjalorit t\u00eb saj \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithashtu \u00e7\u00ebshtje respekti. N\u00ebse ajo thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201casistente drejtorie\u201d dhe ti e prezanton thjesht si \u201csekretare\u201d, mund ta b\u00ebsh t\u00eb ndjehet me turp.<\/p>\n
TEKNIKA 6: T\u00cb FLIRTOSH
\nObjektivi: T\u00eb shpreh\u00ebsh admirimin p\u00ebr dik\u00eb, duke i b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb kompliment t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb shefit, mikut, partnerit, partneres…
\nGabimi q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb evitosh: T’i b\u00ebsh nj\u00eb kompliment t\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb nj\u00eb personi kur je p\u00ebrball\u00eb tij, mund t\u00eb dukesh pak pa takt…
\n\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh? P\u00ebrdor delikates\u00ebn, mos ia b\u00ebj komplimentin drejtp\u00ebrdrejt, por me metod\u00ebn “fjala nxjerr fjal\u00ebn” dhe drejtoju nj\u00eb t\u00eb treti q\u00eb e njeh, p\u00ebr t’i th\u00ebn\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb mendon p\u00ebr t\u00eb. P\u00ebr shembull, thuaji shoqes t\u00ebnde Silv\u00ebs, q\u00eb miku i saj, Andi, u tregua shum\u00eb i k\u00ebndsh\u00ebm n\u00eb fest\u00ebn e fundit… Mesazhi do t’i transmetohet menj\u00ebher\u00eb mikut t\u00eb saj. Ai do t\u00eb ndjehet i mikluar, por edhe i vler\u00ebsuar dhe, ve\u00e7 t\u00eb tjerave, do t\u00eb ket\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypjen se ti do t\u00eb krijosh nj\u00eb imazh t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb tij te t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb do t\u00eb ndjehet dyfish mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs. T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto jan\u00eb p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi!
\nNj\u00eb plus: N\u00ebse nuk do t\u00eb dukesh si “i d\u00ebrguar”, mund t’ia thuash komplimentin me takt dikujt, pa u dukur si kompliment. P\u00ebr shembull, n\u00eb mes t\u00eb bised\u00ebs fut nj\u00eb fjali t\u00eb tipit: “Ty, q\u00eb ke kaq shije p\u00ebr veshjet, si t\u00eb duket ky fustan?”<\/p>\n
TEKNIKA 7: T\u00cb THUASH NJ\u00cb LAJM T\u00cb KEQ
\nObjektivi: Ta thuash lajmin e keq me takt, pa u b\u00ebr\u00eb e urrejtshme p\u00ebr at\u00eb t\u00eb cilit ia thua.
\nGabimi q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb evitosh: T’ia jap\u00ebsh lajmin ftoht\u00ebsisht, pa paralajm\u00ebrim, ose, edhe m\u00eb keq, t\u2019ia thuash me ton ironik apo tall\u00ebs. Rrezikon q\u00eb ai t\u00eb cilit ia thua lajmin, t\u00eb zem\u00ebrohet me ty, pavar\u00ebsisht se ti vet\u00ebm po ia komunikon.
\n\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh? Ekzistojn\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb duhet t\u2019i kesh parasysh: Simpatia, ndjeshm\u00ebria, mir\u00ebkuptimi. Vihu n\u00eb vend t\u00eb bashk\u00ebbiseduesit t\u00ebnd dhe mos ngurro t\u2019i thuash se sa keq t\u00eb vjen q\u00eb po ia jep k\u00ebt\u00eb lajm. P\u00ebr shembull: \u201cM\u00eb vjen keq t\u00eb ta them, por mendoj se filani nuk do t\u00eb lidhet me ty. Koh\u00ebt e fundit \u00ebsht\u00eb sjell\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb pak t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme. Mendoj se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr ty…\u201d. K\u00ebshtu, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn, do t\u00eb zbut\u00ebsh nj\u00eb situat\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e pak\u00ebndshme p\u00ebr personin tjet\u00ebr.
\nNj\u00eb plus: Shoq\u00ebroje bised\u00ebn t\u00ebnde me gjestet e p\u00ebrshtatshme: Merr pamje t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuar, trego q\u00eb ndjehesh af\u00ebr tij\/saj, sinjale q\u00eb bashk\u00ebbiseduesi yt do t\u2019i vler\u00ebsoj\u00eb, pa dyshim.<\/p>\n
TEKNIKA 8: T\u00cb ARRISH AT\u00cb Q\u00cb DO
\nObjektivi: T\u00eb arrish t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb nj\u00eb nder, nj\u00eb sh\u00ebrbim ose t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje pozitive nga bashk\u00ebbiseduesi. P\u00ebr shembull, do t\u2019i k\u00ebrkosh shefit nj\u00eb pasdite t\u00eb lir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar me nj\u00eb shoqe n\u00eb fest\u00eb…
\nGabimi q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb evitosh: Ta pyes\u00ebsh shefin sikur t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb asgj\u00eb: \u201cA mund ta b\u00ebj pushim t\u00eb premten n\u00eb dark\u00eb?\u201d. Kjo mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb dukesh keq, sepse e b\u00ebn t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb n\u00ebse ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ty, apo jo… Me k\u00ebto fjal\u00eb, nuk je duke e \u00e7uar n\u00eb nj\u00eb drejtim t\u00eb mir\u00eb…
\n\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh? Vihu n\u00eb vendin e tij. Mos fol p\u00ebr vete, por p\u00ebr t\u00eb: \u201cShef, mund t\u00eb b\u00ebsh pa mua t\u00eb premten q\u00eb vjen?\u201d. P\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb krenaris\u00eb, ai do t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjet pozitivisht. N\u00eb form\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithshme, \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u2019i flas\u00ebsh p\u00ebr vete kur i b\u00ebn nj\u00eb peticion. K\u00ebshtu, do t\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebsh v\u00ebmendjen e tij, do t\u00eb luash me krenarin\u00eb e tij dhe do t\u00eb evitosh q\u00eb t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb n\u00ebse do ta prekte ajo q\u00eb po i k\u00ebrkon.
\nNj\u00eb plus: Ky truk sh\u00ebrben edhe p\u00ebr komplimentet. M\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u2019i thuash: \u201cDukesh shum\u00eb bukur me k\u00ebt\u00eb bluz\u00eb\u201d sesa \u201cM\u00eb p\u00eblqen bluza jote me vija\u201d.<\/p>\n
TEKNIKA 9: T\u00cb DISH T\u00cb FAL\u00cbNDEROSH
\nObjektivi: T\u00eb fal\u00ebnderosh shoqen e pun\u00ebs q\u00eb t\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb ose partnerin se t\u00eb ka ftuar p\u00ebr dark\u00eb.
\nGabimi q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb evitosh: T\u2019i thuash thjesht \u201cfaleminderit\u201d, pa shtuar asgj\u00eb. E p\u00ebrdorim kaq shpesh k\u00ebt\u00eb fjal\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme, sa tani askush nuk i kushton m\u00eb v\u00ebmendje. K\u00ebshtu, mund t\u00eb humbas\u00eb dometh\u00ebnien n\u00ebse nuk ia thua n\u00eb form\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00eb.
\n\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh? P\u00ebr t\u00eb evituar nj\u00eb \u201cfaleminderit\u201d t\u00eb that\u00eb, ji m\u00eb e sakt\u00eb p\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket arsyes s\u00eb mir\u00ebnjohjes t\u00ebnde. Ne fal\u00ebnderojm\u00eb \u201cp\u00ebr di\u00e7ka\u201d. N\u00eb praktik\u00eb, do t\u00eb ishte: \u201cFaleminderit zem\u00ebr p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb dark\u00eb t\u00eb mrekullueshme\u201d. Duket si budallall\u00ebk, por \u00ebsht\u00eb efikase!
\nNj\u00eb plus: Kjo teknik\u00eb do t\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen e bashk\u00ebbiseduesit. Mundohu t\u2019i thuash \u201cfaleminderit\u201d kolegut t\u00eb pun\u00ebs q\u00eb t\u00eb sjell kafe n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes: \u201cFaleminderit q\u00eb m\u00eb solle kafen\u201d.<\/p>\n
TEKNIKA 10: T\u00cb KRIJOSH P\u00cbRSHTYPJE T\u00cb MIR\u00cb N\u00cb TELEFON
\nObjektivi: Kontakti i par\u00eb telefonik i krijon bashk\u00ebbiseduesit nj\u00eb imazh p\u00ebr personin me t\u00eb cilin po flet.
\nGabimi q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb evitosh: T\u2019i flas\u00ebsh sikur e ke para sysh, me respekt dhe mir\u00ebsjellje sepse bashk\u00ebbiseduesi yt nuk mund ta perceptoj\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e sheh dot; gjestet, buz\u00ebqeshjen, mimik\u00ebn, me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, gjuh\u00ebn e trupit.
\n\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh? T\u2019i kthesh gjestet n\u00eb fjal\u00eb, t\u2019i z\u00ebvend\u00ebsosh. P\u00ebr shembull, p\u00ebr t\u00eb shprehur nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje, t\u2019i thuash: \u201cSa zbavit\u00ebse!\u201d. N\u00ebse habitesh, mos ngurro t\u2019ia thuash me fjal\u00eb dhe, p\u00ebr t\u2019i t\u00ebrhequr v\u00ebmendjen bashk\u00ebbiseduesit, p\u00ebrmendja emrin.
\nNj\u00eb plus: Mos ngurro as ta teprosh n\u00eb shprehje, n\u00eb nj\u00eb mas\u00eb prej 30% m\u00eb shum\u00eb, pasi kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i transmetuar tjetrit at\u00eb q\u00eb ndjen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ke 10 minuta q\u00eb sheh at\u00eb bionden q\u00eb n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, duket si peshku n\u00eb uj\u00eb? Nuk ka q\u00ebndruar vet\u00ebm asnj\u00eb minut\u00eb gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb fest\u00ebs, gjithmon\u00eb e rrethuar me njer\u00ebz, duket se ka t\u00ebrhequr v\u00ebmendjen e publikut t\u00eb saj, megjith\u00ebse b\u00ebn vet\u00ebm biseda t\u00eb zakonshme? Nuk duket si topmodele, as nuk ka marr\u00eb \u00e7mimin Nobel… at\u00ebhere, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5194","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-psikologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5194","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5194"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5194\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5194"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5194"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5194"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}