– Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ka shum\u00eb koh\u00eb q\u00eb kam filluar marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale. V\u00ebrtet jam 22 vje\u00e7e, por nuk jam shum\u00eb e informuar mbi seksin nga ana praktike. M\u00eb vjen turp ta them, por sinqerisht, nuk arrij dot ta dalloj kur arrij n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm. Kam lexuar q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb masturbohesh q\u00eb t\u00eb njoh\u00ebsh trupin t\u00ebnd dhe t\u00eb dallosh orgazm\u00ebn. M\u00eb ka ndodhur q\u00eb kam ardhur n\u00eb qejf kur jam masturbuar, por p\u00ebrs\u00ebri nuk jam e qart\u00eb n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien time, pasi shoh q\u00eb edhe i dashuri m\u00eb pyet dhe m\u00eb thot\u00eb: \u201cM\u00eb duket se nuk ke arritur asnj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm\u201d. Jam n\u00eb pritje t\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjeje nga doktor Evi. Ju fal\u00ebnderoj!
\nDr. Evi Dani, seksolog-androlog: – E nderuar lexuese, nuk ka pse t\u2019ju vij\u00eb turp p\u00ebr dyshimet tuaja dhe njohurin\u00eb e pakta mbi orgazm\u00ebn, sepse kjo gj\u00eb m\u00ebsohet edhe me eksperienc\u00eb. Ju, me kalimin e koh\u00ebs, duke pasur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb rregullta me t\u00eb dashurin tuaj, do t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni orgazm\u00ebn dhe do ta p\u00ebrjetoni seksin akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb e m\u00eb me pasion. Dihet q\u00eb femrat arrijn\u00eb pak m\u00eb me v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm dhe ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga problemet shqet\u00ebsuese p\u00ebr mjek\u00ebsin\u00eb.
\n– N\u00eb fakt, mjek\u00ebsia po punon n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim, por akoma nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb arritur nj\u00eb mjekim i p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm me cil\u00ebsi dhe rezultate t\u00eb larta, p\u00ebr vet\u00eb proceset fiziologjike dhe p\u00ebr shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra akoma t\u00eb panjohura. Moskryerja e orgazm\u00ebs quhet anorgazmi dhe konstatohet jo pak, por te 30 % e femrave. N\u00eb 5% t\u00eb tyre, kjo quhet primare; femra nuk e arrin asnj\u00ebher\u00eb orgazm\u00ebn q\u00eb n\u00eb fillimet e veta, kurse n\u00eb 25 p\u00ebr qind t\u00eb rasteve, ajo fillon t\u00eb ndjej\u00eb dhe t\u00eb arrij\u00eb n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb, her\u00eb arrin, her\u00eb nuk arrin n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm. Kjo ndodh kryesisht te femrat emotive, nervoze, te femrat q\u00eb e kan\u00eb shum\u00eb frik\u00eb nj\u00eb barr\u00eb t\u00eb pad\u00ebshiruar, apo nuk e njohin anatomin\u00eb e organeve riprodhuese. Gjithmon\u00eb, gjat\u00eb momentit seksual, duke mos u p\u00ebrqendruar te partneri i vet, nga frika q\u00eb tham\u00eb m\u00eb lart apo ndonj\u00eb shkak tjet\u00ebr, femra nuk arrin n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm. \u00cbsht\u00eb interesante q\u00eb disa femra nuk e arrijn\u00eb orgazm\u00ebn gjat\u00eb aktit seksual, por e arrijn\u00eb fare mir\u00eb gjat\u00eb masturbimit. Masturbimi te femrat mund t\u00eb z\u00ebvend\u00ebsoj\u00eb deri diku nj\u00eb aktivitet seksual, pra, nj\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm n\u00eb aktivitet seksual. M\u00ebnyra e masturbimit ndryshon nga nj\u00ebri person te tjetri, por n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, kan\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt, ngacmimin dhe f\u00ebrkimin e klitorisit. N\u00ebse ju arrini t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb qejf, ndjeni kontraktim duke filluar nga legeni, q\u00eb shp\u00ebrndahet n\u00eb gjith\u00eb n\u00eb trupin, keni rrahje t\u00eb forta t\u00eb zemr\u00ebs, shtim t\u00eb frym\u00ebmarrjes, mund t\u00eb nxirrni z\u00ebra t\u00eb pakontrolluara dhe kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb jeni n\u00eb faz\u00ebn e eksitimit. M\u00eb pas, kur arrini orgazm\u00ebn, ndiheni shum\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb shpirt, pra, keni nj\u00eb ndjesi ndryshe nga her\u00ebt e tjera, q\u00eb ju b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndiheni e lumtur, e qet\u00eb, por edhe pak e plog\u00ebsht fizikisht; at\u00ebhere, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb orgazma. M\u00eb pas, ju krijohet nj\u00eb ndjesi ngroht\u00ebsie n\u00eb gjith\u00eb trupin dhe rrahjet e zemr\u00ebs, nga t\u00eb forta q\u00eb ishin n\u00eb fillim, vijn\u00eb e qet\u00ebsohen bashk\u00eb me frym\u00ebmarrjen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ka shum\u00eb koh\u00eb q\u00eb kam filluar marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale. V\u00ebrtet jam 22 vje\u00e7e, por nuk jam shum\u00eb e informuar mbi seksin nga ana praktike. M\u00eb vjen turp ta them, por sinqerisht, nuk arrij dot ta dalloj kur arrij n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm. Kam lexuar q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb masturbohesh q\u00eb t\u00eb njoh\u00ebsh trupin […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[89],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5188","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mjeku"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5188","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5188"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5188\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5188"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5188"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5188"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}