{"id":5017,"date":"2014-10-29T15:00:38","date_gmt":"2014-10-29T14:00:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=5017"},"modified":"2014-10-29T11:16:09","modified_gmt":"2014-10-29T10:16:09","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-12","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/10\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-12\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vrap n\u00eb fush\u00eb<br \/>\n&#8211; P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Shoh shum\u00eb shpesh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur vrapoj n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend si fush\u00eb, por q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shkall\u00eb zbrit\u00ebse. Shpesh, ky vend \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb vendlindje. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka, ju lutem? Faleminderit.<br \/>\n&#8211; T\u00eb vraposh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb, vet\u00ebm se shpesh ju vraponi pas di\u00e7kaje t\u00eb gabuar; vendlindja q\u00eb keni par\u00eb i p\u00ebrket s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs. Ju rrezikoni duke vrapuar pas s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs dhe harroni t\u00eb jetoni t\u00eb ardhmen. Pra, mesazhi i \u00ebndrr\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i qart\u00eb: Jetoni t\u00eb tashmen dhe shikoni p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen. Ju uroj fat! <\/p>\n<p>Dy gjarp\u00ebrinj<br \/>\n&#8211; Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr dy gjarp\u00ebrinj q\u00eb q\u00ebndronin duke m\u00eb par\u00eb. Ishin shum\u00eb t\u00eb bukur dhe un\u00eb i thoja kush\u00ebririt tim: \u201cDuhet t\u2019ia marrim l\u00ebkur\u00ebn se \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e mir\u00eb\u201d. Pastaj sikur ia mor\u00ebm nj\u00ebrit prej tyre, atij q\u00eb ishte m\u00eb i vog\u00ebl. \u00c7far\u00eb parashikon?<br \/>\n&#8211; Gjarp\u00ebrinjt\u00eb kan\u00eb disa dometh\u00ebnie n\u00eb \u00ebndrrat tona. N\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve, ata jan\u00eb simbole erotike. Ka di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju p\u00eblqen, por nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht ju frik\u00ebson dhe ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta intime ose personale me njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb ju rrethojn\u00eb. Fundi i \u00ebndrr\u00ebs tregon q\u00eb do t\u00eb kaloni \u00e7do frik\u00eb q\u00eb keni ndaj \u00e7do gj\u00ebje, por sidomos n\u00eb lidhje me jet\u00ebn private dhe do t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetoni emocione t\u00eb mira. <\/p>\n<p>M\u00eb dilte gjak<br \/>\n&#8211; P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje astrologe! U b\u00eb disa koh\u00eb q\u00eb shoh shum\u00eb shpesh t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, sikur nxjerr nga goja gjak, por si litar\u00eb, saq\u00eb nuk arrij ta shk\u00ebpus nga gurmazi cop\u00ebn q\u00eb m\u00eb ngelet. I thoja mamit: \u201cShiko moj se \u00e7far\u00eb po m\u00eb ndodh!\u201d, por ajo b\u00ebnte muhabet me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Pastaj, sikur m\u00eb tha: \u201cShpejt t\u00eb vemi n\u00eb spital\u201d. Vajt\u00ebm dhe m\u00eb than\u00eb q\u00eb nuk i kisha gryk\u00ebt e pastruara mir\u00eb. Jam n\u00eb merak. Linda.<br \/>\n&#8211; Linda, \u00ebndrra juaj paraqet nj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor. Keni probleme me sh\u00ebndetin, sidomos me pjes\u00ebn q\u00eb keni par\u00eb, pra, me gryk\u00ebt. Shpesh, \u00ebndrrat paraqiten si\u00e7 jan\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale. Edhe ju keni par\u00eb gjendjen tuaj, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se akoma keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb konsult\u00eb mjek\u00ebsore dhe q\u00eb t\u00eb merrni mjekimin e sakt\u00eb. Pra, \u00ebndrra ju fton t\u00eb kujdeseni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin, t\u00eb kontaktoni nj\u00eb mjek t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Vajtja n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr n\u00eb spital do t\u00eb thot\u00eb zgjidhje, pra, do t\u00eb dilni shum\u00eb shpejt nga kjo situat\u00eb e sikletshme, sepse gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb kalimtare. Gjaku q\u00eb keni nxjerr\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, tregon se do ta kaloni sikletin shum\u00eb shpejt. <\/p>\n<p>Porta dhe \u00e7el\u00ebsi<br \/>\n&#8211; U b\u00eb pak koh\u00eb q\u00eb e kam par\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, ama m\u00eb ka ngelur n\u00eb mendje. Shoh sikur jam para nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpie, m\u00eb sakt\u00eb, para nj\u00eb porte dhe dua ta hap, sepse ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e ky\u00e7ur. Kam nj\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebs t\u00eb madh n\u00eb dor\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrpiqem shum\u00eb ta hap. N\u00eb krahun tim, kisha edhe nj\u00eb djal\u00eb, por nuk e njihja shum\u00eb dhe ai m\u00eb tha: \u201cPo, do ta hap\u00ebsh port\u00ebn, por mos u shqet\u00ebso\u201d. Pastaj u zgjova nga gjumi.<br \/>\n&#8211; \u00c7el\u00ebsi i madh tregon d\u00ebshir\u00ebn tuaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar di\u00e7ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb rreth personit me t\u00eb cilin shoq\u00ebroheni koh\u00ebt e fundit, por di\u00e7ka, p\u00ebrs\u00ebri, ju pengon. Porta \u00ebsht\u00eb frika q\u00eb keni p\u00ebr ta njohur deri n\u00eb fund, sado q\u00eb d\u00ebshironi ta njihni sa m\u00eb mir\u00eb. Pra, d\u00ebshironi n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb dy ekstreme. Edhe d\u00ebshironi ta njihni, edhe nuk d\u00ebshironi. Gjithsesi, djali ju ofron nj\u00eb lloj sigurie, sepse ju thot\u00eb q\u00eb do ta hapni port\u00ebn. Pra, mos u shqet\u00ebsoni, gjith\u00e7ka do t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00ebj dashuri me t\u00eb<br \/>\n&#8211; U b\u00ebn\u00eb dy net q\u00eb shoh nj\u00eb person n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur kujdeset p\u00ebr mua, m\u00eb fton p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb dashuri dhe ndjej nj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi t\u00eb madhe. Un\u00eb nuk jam e lidhur me k\u00ebt\u00eb person, por di q\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr m\u00eb t\u00ebrheq tmerr\u00ebsisht. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka t\u00eb b\u00ebsh dashuri me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb pothuajse t\u00eb panjohur?<br \/>\n&#8211; Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb tregon d\u00ebshira t\u00eb fshehura nga ana juaj. Pavar\u00ebsisht se ju e mohoni n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre n\u00eb realitet, thell\u00eb brenda jush e d\u00ebshironi k\u00ebt\u00eb person dhe keni t\u00ebrheqje fizike p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Po luftoni kundra k\u00ebtyre ndjenjave q\u00eb keni, prandaj e keni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr dy her\u00eb. Pra, e gjith\u00eb \u00ebndrra ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me nevojat tuaja fiziologjike dhe t\u00ebrheqjen fizike q\u00eb keni realisht ndaj k\u00ebtij personi. N\u00ebse keni arsye t\u00eb forta q\u00eb i ndryshni k\u00ebto ndjenja, kontrollojeni veten sepse \u00e7do gj\u00eb kalon. <\/p>\n<p>Abortova nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb<br \/>\n&#8211; Mbr\u00ebm\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr isha me shoqen time t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb dhe i thash\u00eb asaj q\u00eb kisha ngelur shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb. Ajo, e habitur, m\u00eb tha: \u201cPo si, moj shoqe? Me k\u00eb ke ngelur k\u00ebshtu? Do t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrosh veten dhe familjen\u201d. Un\u00eb i thash\u00eb: \u201cPo \u00ebsht\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i bukur moj, \u00ebsht\u00eb i imi, si mund t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrohem nga nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb?\u201d. Nuk kaloi shum\u00eb, ndjeva rrjedhje posht\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebve dhe pash\u00eb q\u00eb e abortova f\u00ebmij\u00ebn. U trishtova shum\u00eb. A ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim, ju lutem?<br \/>\n&#8211; Sigurisht q\u00eb ka kuptim. Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb tregon planet tuaja p\u00ebr nj\u00eb projekt, q\u00eb fatkeq\u00ebsisht nuk do t\u2019ju realizohet gjer n\u00eb fund. Shtatzania dhe f\u00ebmija n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht jan\u00eb projekte, plane p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen, por n\u00eb rastin tuaj, ju e keni d\u00ebshtuar k\u00ebt\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se nuk do t\u2019ju realizohet plani q\u00eb kishit. Megjithat\u00eb, kjo s\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebroheni. Shpeshher\u00eb, at\u00ebhere kur trishtohemi m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb plan t\u00eb parealizuar, ai del p\u00ebr mir\u00eb. Koha e ka treguar k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vrap n\u00eb fush\u00eb &#8211; P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Shoh shum\u00eb shpesh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur vrapoj n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend si fush\u00eb, por q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shkall\u00eb zbrit\u00ebse. Shpesh, ky vend \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb vendlindje. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka, ju lutem? Faleminderit. &#8211; T\u00eb vraposh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb, vet\u00ebm se shpesh ju vraponi pas di\u00e7kaje t\u00eb gabuar; vendlindja q\u00eb keni par\u00eb i [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5017","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5017","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5017"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5017\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5017"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5017"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5017"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}