{"id":4965,"date":"2014-10-28T13:00:35","date_gmt":"2014-10-28T12:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=4965"},"modified":"2014-10-28T10:11:58","modified_gmt":"2014-10-28T09:11:58","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-11","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/10\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-11\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja…"},"content":{"rendered":"

M\u00eb drejtoi me kal\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nj\u00eb djal\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb t\u00eb drejtoj\u00eb me kal\u00eb? M\u00eb tha: \u201cHip se t\u00eb mbaj un\u00eb dhe mos ki frik\u00eb\u201d. Un\u00eb ecja n\u00eb kal\u00eb dhe mahnitesha sa bukur ishte. Ashtu, u zgjova nga gjumi. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, \u00e7far\u00eb kuptimi ka kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kali p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson forc\u00ebn, fisnik\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe, n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebs, vazhdon edhe shpjegimi. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, \u00ebndrra do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb miku juaj do t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb n\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb keni nevoj\u00eb. Juve ju duket sikur jeni vet\u00ebm, por n\u00eb fakt jo, sepse dikush \u00ebsht\u00eb gati t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb me gjith\u00e7ka. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb do t\u00eb keni v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi dhe pasiguri, do t\u00eb shfaqet ky mik dhe do t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb. Nga kjo gj\u00eb do t\u00eb ndiheni shum\u00eb e lumtur, ashtu si edhe n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr.<\/p>\n

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Shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb, me 4 vajza<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Pash\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur kisha ngelur shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb dhe kisha kat\u00ebr vajza. E \u00e7uditshmja ishte se m\u00eb r\u00ebndonte barku shum\u00eb, edhe pse isha 3 muajshe. Doja t\u2019i hiqja, meq\u00eb ishin 4 vajza dhe nuk e mbaj mend a d\u00ebshtova apo abortova me dashje, por mbaj mend q\u00eb m\u00eb dol\u00ebn 4 vez\u00eb dhe, kur i thyem, tri dol\u00ebn t\u00eb prishura dhe vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb, e mir\u00eb. M\u00eb than\u00eb q\u00eb po t\u2019i kisha mbajtur, do t\u00eb b\u00ebja vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb \u00e7un dhe u pendova shum\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebshtova. Motra ishte ajo q\u00eb m\u00eb thoshte gjithmon\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos i hiqja. Nuk e di \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, por jam e fejuar. Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– E dashur lexuese, \u00ebndrra juaj tregon q\u00eb jeni pak e \u00e7orientuar k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb ose jeni para nj\u00eb situate t\u00eb till\u00eb. Shtatzania ka lidhje me projektet tuaja. Keni n\u00eb plan disa gj\u00ebra p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat jeni n\u00eb dijeni vet\u00ebm ju, familja dhe partneri. Jeni gati t\u00eb hiqni dor\u00eb prej k\u00ebtyre planeve, sepse nuk ndiheni shum\u00eb n\u00eb form\u00eb, pavar\u00ebsisht se keni mb\u00ebshtetjen e familjes. Vez\u00ebt lidhen me projektet tuaja p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn, p\u00ebr pun\u00ebn, familjen etj. Duke qen\u00eb se tri nga k\u00ebto vez\u00eb ju kan\u00eb dal\u00eb t\u00eb prishura, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb tri pun\u00eb t\u00eb nisura nga ana juaj nuk do t\u00eb rezultojn\u00eb t\u00eb suksesshme. Vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb prej tyre do t\u00eb arrij\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb sukses, ashtu si\u00e7 d\u00ebshironi edhe ju. Do t\u00eb m\u00ebrziteni p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje, por kjo do t\u00eb jet\u00eb kalimtare. Motra juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb personi q\u00eb ju shtyn m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb guxoni n\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe ju p\u00ebrkrah. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n

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M\u00eb ra unaza n\u00eb tok\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

– M\u00eb ka ngelur n\u00eb mendje nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr para ca koh\u00ebsh. Kisha pak koh\u00eb q\u00eb isha b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb dhe n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pash\u00eb sikur unaza (rrethi i martes\u00ebs) m\u00eb ra n\u00eb tok\u00eb e pasi u rrokullis disa her\u00eb, u nda n\u00eb tre rrath\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni kuptimin. Ju fal\u00ebnderoj. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– E nderuar zonj\u00eb, duke qen\u00eb se ka kaluar disa koh\u00eb, besoj se \u00ebndrra nuk ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. Ka edhe \u00ebndrra t\u00eb cilat e shfaqin parashikimin e tyre edhe pas disa vitesh, por kjo ndodh shum\u00eb rrall\u00eb. Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb, p\u00ebr koh\u00ebn q\u00eb e keni par\u00eb, tregon q\u00eb keni pasur nj\u00eb lloj luhatjeje t\u00eb qet\u00ebsis\u00eb n\u00eb familje, por duket q\u00eb e keni kaluar, sepse nuk e keni par\u00eb t\u00eb thyhet apo t\u00eb prishet, thjesht e keni par\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhet n\u00eb tre t\u00eb tjera, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se keni plot raste t\u00eb tjera p\u00ebr t\u00eb rregulluar at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ju duket se \u00ebsht\u00eb prishur n\u00eb familjen tuaj.<\/p>\n

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Shfaqja e engj\u00ebllit<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb shikosh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nj\u00eb engj\u00ebll? M\u00eb ka ndodhur dy apo tre her\u00eb t\u00eb shoh \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla, sikur i lutem nj\u00eb statuje dhe pastaj m\u00eb b\u00ebhet sikur transformohet n\u00eb engj\u00ebll e m\u00eb ndihmon. Jam n\u00eb ankth, ju lutem, ma shpjegoni. Sigi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

– E dashur Sigi, \u00ebndrrat tuaja nuk jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb qarta, ama duket hapur q\u00eb po kaloni nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Duke qen\u00eb se k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e keni par\u00eb shpesh, ajo tregon se prisni ndihm\u00eb apo p\u00ebrgjigje nga dikush. Engj\u00eblli \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb simbol pozitiv q\u00eb tregon se fati nuk ju ka braktisur, thjesht, nuk duhet t\u2019i humbni shpresat. Do t\u00eb keni rrug\u00ebdalje p\u00ebr problemin q\u00eb keni, mjafton t\u00eb keni pak durim dhe t\u00eb shpresoni p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn tuaj.<\/p>\n

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Shikoj numrin 11<\/strong><\/p>\n

– M\u00eb ndodh shpesh t\u00eb shoh shifra n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, por ai q\u00eb m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb fiksuar m\u00eb shum\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb numri 11. \u00c7far\u00eb simbolizon ky num\u00ebr? Un\u00eb nuk jam as ekonomiste apo llogaritare, s\u2019kam lidhje fare me shifrat n\u00eb profesionin tim. Pres nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Numrat n\u00eb ve\u00e7anti kan\u00eb nj\u00eb dometh\u00ebnie t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr kur shikohen n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. Numri 11, sipas studimeve, lidhet me intuit\u00ebn e talentin n\u00eb nj\u00eb fush\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar, si dhe aft\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i arritur gj\u00ebrat leht\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Ai simbolizon n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre krijimtarin\u00eb dhe vizionin tuaj, por ka edhe nj\u00eb kuptim tjet\u00ebr: Duke qen\u00eb se 11-a ngjan me dy vija paralele, ajo p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson partneritetin me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Mos vall\u00eb po mendoni t\u00eb b\u00ebheni \u00e7ift? N\u00ebse jeni \u00e7ift tashm\u00eb, \u00ebndrra tregon se jeni n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb nj\u00eb ekuilibri n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj. Varet se ku e gjeni ju veten n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr.<\/p>\n

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Duke ngr\u00ebn\u00eb fiq<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Para dy net\u00ebsh pash\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur shkova te tezja, hipa n\u00eb pem\u00eb dhe haja fiq q\u00eb ishin shum\u00eb t\u00eb pjekur. A ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim? <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Frutat n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi kan\u00eb nj\u00eb kuptim erotik n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e \u00e7donj\u00ebrit q\u00eb e shikon. Ju keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr intimitet dhe, pse jo, do t\u00eb donit t\u00eb kishit edhe nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Pra, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb, q\u00eb po ta doni v\u00ebrtet, edhe mund ta arrini, sepse fiqt\u00eb jan\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb pozitive. Jeta juaj do t\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb kthes\u00eb pozitive dhe t\u00eb ndryshme.<\/p>\n

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Bleva sandale t\u00eb bardha<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Shkova n\u00eb nj\u00eb dyqan bashk\u00eb me shoqet e mia, ku pash\u00eb nj\u00eb pal\u00eb sandale t\u00eb bardha dhe u fiksova pas tyre. Shoqet m\u00eb thonin t\u00eb mos i merrja se ishin model i vjet\u00ebr, por un\u00eb doja t\u2019i merrja se s\u2019b\u00ebn ato sandale dhe, si p\u00ebrfundim, i mora, edhe pse shoqet m\u00eb shikonin t\u00eb habitura. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb tregon q\u00eb jeni vajz\u00eb me karakter t\u00eb fort\u00eb, keni shum\u00eb besim n\u00eb vetvete dhe sandalet e bardha jan\u00eb t\u00eb lidhura me zakonet e vjetra. Jeni tip shum\u00eb tradicional dhe t\u00eb till\u00eb e jetoni edhe jet\u00ebn. Shpeshher\u00eb bini n\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtim me opinionet e shoqeve tuaja, por n\u00eb fund b\u00ebni at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb d\u00ebshironi ju. N\u00eb fakt, ju jeni n\u00eb rrug\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, sepse s\u2019ka asgj\u00eb t\u00eb keqe t\u00eb ec\u00ebsh sipas traditave, p\u00ebrkundrazi. \u00cbndrra tregon nj\u00eb lloj mir\u00ebsie n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e jet\u00ebs suaj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

M\u00eb drejtoi me kal\u00eb – \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nj\u00eb djal\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb t\u00eb drejtoj\u00eb me kal\u00eb? M\u00eb tha: \u201cHip se t\u00eb mbaj un\u00eb dhe mos ki frik\u00eb\u201d. Un\u00eb ecja n\u00eb kal\u00eb dhe mahnitesha sa bukur ishte. Ashtu, u zgjova nga gjumi. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, \u00e7far\u00eb kuptimi ka kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4965","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4965","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4965"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4965\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4965"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4965"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4965"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}