T\u00eb gjith\u00eb vajzat e vogla \u00ebnd\u00ebrrojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhen princesha dhe, kur rritemi, bukuria mbetet nj\u00eb nga aspiratat m\u00eb t\u00eb ngulitura te secila prej nesh. Mediat e kan\u00eb kuptuar mir\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, ndaj na bombardojn\u00eb me foto krijesash sublime, q\u00eb p\u00ebr shum\u00eb prej nesh p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb simbolin e bukuris\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u2019iu afruar sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb k\u00ebtyre simboleve, disa gra jan\u00eb t\u00eb gatshme t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje dhe t\u00eb harxhojn\u00eb koh\u00eb e para, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb me k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe me vuajtje. P\u00ebrkundrazi, t\u00eb tjera nuk duan t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb t\u00eb flitet p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb diktatur\u00eb estetike. Po ju, \u00e7far\u00eb vendi zini n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gar\u00eb bukurie? B\u00ebni testin ton\u00eb, p\u00ebr ta kuptuar…<\/p>\n
1. Po afron ora p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar te parukierja, por jasht\u00eb bie shi me gjyma dhe fryn nj\u00eb er\u00eb e acart\u00eb:
\na. Megjithat\u00eb, shkoni.
\nb. Prisni t\u00eb qet\u00ebsohet pak shiu.
\nc. N\u00ebse mund t\u00eb shkoni me makin\u00eb, at\u00ebhere mir\u00eb, p\u00ebrndryshe, jo.
\nd. I telefononi p\u00ebr t\u00eb zhvendosur takimin.<\/p>\n
2. Kriteri kryesor i blerjes s\u00eb telefonit celular p\u00ebr ju:
\na. Dizajni i tij.
\nb. Aplikimet q\u00eb ka, fotot, loj\u00ebrat, etj.
\nc. Performancat
\nd. Leht\u00ebsia n\u00eb p\u00ebrdorim.<\/p>\n
3. Kolegia juaj e pun\u00ebs ka sharm, por vishet sipas mod\u00ebs s\u00eb vjet\u00ebr:
\na. Sa keq! Ju mundoheni ta k\u00ebshilloni.
\nb. Ju mendoni: Nj\u00eb konkurrente m\u00eb pak!
\nc. E nxisni t\u00eb shkoni bashk\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr dyqane.
\nd. Pun\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb!<\/p>\n
4. Pran\u00eb jush \u00ebsht\u00eb hapur nj\u00eb institut shum\u00eb i mir\u00eb bukurie. Shkoni:
\na. Nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb muaj.
\nb. Nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb tre muaj.
\nc. Sipas humorit t\u00eb momentit.
\nd. Nj\u00eb ose dy her\u00eb n\u00eb vit.<\/p>\n
5. N\u00eb vitet q\u00eb vijn\u00eb, mendohet t\u00eb implantohen elektroda n\u00eb tru p\u00ebr t\u00eb favorizuar kujtes\u00ebn. Ju mendoni:
\na. Super! Kur teknika do t\u00eb jet\u00eb perfeksionuar, ju nuk do t\u00eb hezitoni!
\nb. T\u00eb shohim…
\nc. Ju nuk e besoni k\u00ebt\u00eb…
\nd. Kurr\u00ebn e kurr\u00ebs nuk do t\u00eb lini dik\u00eb t\u2019ju prek\u00eb trurin.<\/p>\n
6. N\u00eb nj\u00eb dyqan ju p\u00eblqejn\u00eb dy pal\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00eb t\u00eb mrekullueshme, gati identike:
\na. Pa e menduar gjat\u00eb, i blini t\u00eb dyja pal\u00ebt…
\nb. I k\u00ebrkoni shit\u00ebses t\u2019ju k\u00ebshilloj\u00eb…
\nc. E detyroni veten t\u00eb zgjidhni nj\u00ebr\u00ebn prej tyre.
\nd. E pamundur t\u00eb vendosni, do t\u00eb vini m\u00eb von\u00eb.<\/p>\n
7. Vizitoni galerin\u00eb e pasqyrave t\u00eb Versaj\u00ebs:
\na. Nuk rrini dot pa u par\u00eb n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb.
\nb. I hidhni nj\u00eb sy vetes her\u00eb pas here.
\nc. Kaq shum\u00eb pasqyra, ju bezdisin!
\nd. Nuk ju shkon mendja t\u00eb shiheni n\u00eb to.<\/p>\n
8. Nj\u00eb shoqja juaj sapo ka bler\u00eb nj\u00eb pallto t\u00eb mrekullueshme! Reagimi juaj i par\u00eb:
\na. Mund ta provoj pak un\u00eb?
\nb. Ku e gjete?
\nc. T\u00eb shkon shum\u00eb!
\nd. Duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb kushtuar nj\u00eb grusht me para!<\/p>\n
9. Jeni bashk\u00eb me partnerin n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e tij n\u00eb fshat. Ju keni shum\u00eb ftoht\u00eb dhe ai ju jep borxh nj\u00eb pulov\u00ebr shum\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebmtuar:
\na. Jo, faleminderit! Ju mjafton palltoja juaj…
\nb. Nuk guxoni ta refuzoni, por ndjeheni shum\u00eb e sh\u00ebmtuar.
\nc. Ndjeheni mir\u00eb me pulovr\u00ebn e tij demode.
\nd. S\u2019ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi; ju e vishni menj\u00ebher\u00eb.<\/p>\n
10. Cili kompliment n\u00eb goj\u00ebn e partnerit do t\u2019ju k\u00ebnaqte m\u00eb shum\u00eb?
\na. Ti rinohesh p\u00ebrdit\u00eb.
\nb. Ti ke nj\u00eb stil bukurie shum\u00eb personal.
\nc. Ke nj\u00eb bukuri sa t\u00eb eg\u00ebr, aq edhe t\u00eb rafinuar.
\nd. Je edhe m\u00eb e bukur sapo je ngritur nga shtrati.<\/p>\n
11. Jeni n\u00eb nj\u00eb konferenc\u00eb dhe, ai q\u00eb mban fjalimin, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb simpatik, nuk jua shqit syt\u00eb. Ju…
\na. \u201cV\u00ebrtet mua po m\u00eb sheh?\u201d, pyesni veten dhe nuk d\u00ebgjoni m\u00eb asgj\u00eb.
\nb. Sa mikluese! Ndjeheni e parezistueshme dhe kjo ju b\u00ebn qejfin.
\nc. Ai nuk di ku t\u00eb hedh\u00eb v\u00ebshtrimin; \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e bezdisshme kjo.
\nd. Ky lloj josh\u00ebsi ju d\u00ebshp\u00ebron…<\/p>\n
12. Cila \u00ebsht\u00eb cil\u00ebsia m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb syt\u00eb tuaj?
\na. Finesa
\nb. Sharmi
\nc. Toleranca
\nd. Humori<\/p>\n
13. P\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb ai ju tregon nj\u00eb foto t\u00eb ish-it t\u00eb vet. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e mrekullueshme! Mendoni:
\na. \u00cbsht\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb jem n\u00eb lart\u00ebsin\u00eb e duhur!
\nb. Ai ka shije n\u00eb zgjedhjen e grave!
\nc. Ishalla nuk mendon m\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb…
\nd. Po, nuk qenka keq… E \u00e7far\u00eb pastaj?<\/p>\n
14. Sa krem\u00ebra bukurie t\u00eb \u00e7do lloji keni n\u00eb tualetin tuaj:
\na. M\u00eb shum\u00eb se 8.
\nb. 5 deri n\u00eb 8.
\nc. 3 deri n\u00eb 5.
\nd. Dy ose tre<\/p>\n
15. N\u00ebse do t\u00eb ishit nj\u00eb lule, do t\u00eb zgjidhnit t\u00eb ishit:
\na. Nj\u00eb orkide
\nb. Nj\u00eb tr\u00ebndafil
\nc. Nj\u00eb kamelie
\nd. Nj\u00eb lulebore<\/p>\n
Rezultatet
\nN\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb a. Jeni gati t\u00eb b\u00ebni sakrifica p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb e bukur
\nBukuria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr p\u00ebr ju! Ajo i korrespondon nj\u00eb ideali t\u00eb paarritsh\u00ebm, t\u00eb cilit mundoheni t\u2019i afroheni sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Kur jeni para pasqyr\u00ebs, ju p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u00eb shihni se \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb modeloni, zbusni e modifikoni, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb shihni aty imazhin q\u00eb u korrespondon sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb kritereve tuaja estetike. Ndodh t\u2019ju duket vetja \u201cgati\u201d e bukur, por jo shpesh, sepse ju e studioni veten n\u00eb detajet m\u00eb t\u00eb vogla dhe asgj\u00eb nuk i shp\u00ebton shpirtit tuaj kritik… Jeni shum\u00eb k\u00ebrkuese ndaj vetes dhe nuk kurseheni p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka mundeni, q\u00eb t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb e k\u00ebnaqur me pasqyrimin tuaj n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, harxhoni edhe shuma marramend\u00ebse p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb… Pse keni kaq nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb jeni gjithmon\u00eb e bukur? Zbukurimi i vetes \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi, apo fsheh brenda ndonj\u00eb trishtim? \u00c7far\u00eb ju pengon t\u00eb jeni e natyrshme, pa asnj\u00eb artificialitet? Mbase kjo fsheh nj\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb fshehur nj\u00eb aspekt t\u00eb personalitetit tuaj q\u00eb e keni t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ta pranoni. Ofrojuni atyre q\u00eb ju duan v\u00ebrtet k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019ju shohin kur jeni natyrale. Lejojuni t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve privilegjin t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb pap\u00ebrkryer. Kjo do t\u00eb jet\u00eb dhurata m\u00eb e bukur q\u00eb u b\u00ebni atyre, sepse do t\u2019ju kushtoj\u00eb pak, por do t\u2019ju sjell\u00eb shum\u00eb…<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb b. Jeni gati t\u00eb rrezikoni p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb e bukur
\nT\u00eb zbukuruarit p\u00ebr ju \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb loj\u00eb. Ju ndjeni nj\u00eb lloj eksitimi kur hyni n\u00eb rolin e femr\u00ebs josh\u00ebse q\u00eb bie n\u00eb sy me aspektin e vet estetik dhe kur t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt kthejn\u00eb kok\u00ebn duke th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201cJo keq!\u201d. Zbaviteni kur ndjeni shikimin e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve t\u00eb kthehet ndaj jush, t\u00eb shoq\u00ebruar me pak admirim. Egoja juaj miklohet dhe ju ndjeni k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi. Her\u00eb pas here do t\u2019ju p\u00eblqente t\u00eb hynit n\u00eb gar\u00eb me grat\u00eb e tjera p\u00ebr t\u00eb testuar fuqin\u00eb tuaj pran\u00eb burrave… Do t\u00eb zbaviteshit shum\u00eb po t\u00eb fitonit. \u00c7far\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u00eb provoni? Ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb pasi joshja juaj t\u00eb ket\u00eb vepruar, loja t\u00eb mos ju interesoj\u00eb m\u00eb.
\nVazhdoni t\u2019ia b\u00ebni qejfin vetes duke u transformuar her\u00eb pas here n\u00eb nj\u00eb VIP, por sidomos, caktojini vetes kufij, sepse rrezikoni shum\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb loj\u00eb… Ju mund t\u00eb humbisni disa shoqe, t\u00eb krijoni keqkuptime dhe t\u00eb zem\u00ebroni disa burra…<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb c. Jeni gati t\u00eb b\u00ebni p\u00ebrpjekje t\u00eb vogla p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb e bukur
\nJu ndjeni nj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi reale kur ndjeheni \u201ce bukur\u201d. Do t\u2019ju p\u00eblqente shum\u00eb t\u00eb vinit t\u00eb pun\u00eb dhuntit\u00eb tuaja fizike, por nganj\u00ebher\u00eb ju mungon motivimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjet e nevojshme q\u00eb t\u00eb jeni gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb maj\u00eb! Ka dit\u00eb kur nuk keni fare d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u rregulluar para pasqyr\u00ebs, p\u00ebr t\u00eb fshir\u00eb gjith\u00eb gjurm\u00ebt e lodhjes apo t\u00eb koh\u00ebs… Me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, ju \u00ebnd\u00ebrroni t\u00eb jeni e bukur duke qen\u00eb e natyrshme. Bukuria ju duket pak tirane dhe nganj\u00ebher\u00eb e pyesni veten se p\u00ebrse duhet me \u00e7do kusht t\u00eb kesh nj\u00eb pamje estetike q\u00eb u korrespondon kritereve t\u00eb imponuara. Kjo ju shtyn t\u00eb dekurajoheni, t\u00eb demotivoheni. Mbase k\u00ebsaj i shtohet tendenca e p\u00ebrgjithshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb pik\u00ebpyetje gjith\u00eb diktatet e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb konsumit q\u00eb mbret\u00ebrojn\u00eb mbi ne. Ju keni t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, bukuria nuk duhet t\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb fiksim. T\u00eb ruash buz\u00ebqeshjen n\u00eb buz\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme sesa t\u00eb dish t\u00eb grimohesh mir\u00eb. At\u00ebhere, kemi nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb: Zbukurohuni vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi p\u00ebr ju! P\u00ebrpjekjet tuaja do t\u00eb shp\u00ebrblehen dyfish…<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb d. Jeni gati t\u00eb jeni e natyrshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb e bukur
\nSipas jush, bukuria nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb objektiv q\u00eb duhet arritur. Nuk e kuptoni pse disa persona i kushtojn\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kaq shum\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje, energji dhe para. Kjo ju duket nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht e panevojshme, artificiale dhe nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, bile, qesharake, sepse rezultati nuk ju duket ai i duhuri. N\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e koh\u00ebs, modelet e revistave nuk ju ngjallin d\u00ebshir\u00ebn t\u2019u ngjani atyre. Ju preferoni sharmin natyral, thell\u00ebsin\u00eb e nj\u00eb shikimi, shprehjen e nj\u00eb fytyre, bile nganj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe disa rrudha shprehjeje… Q\u00ebndrimi juaj kritik kundrejt atyre q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb ndjekin rregullat e bukuris\u00eb mbase \u00ebsht\u00eb pak i tepruar. N\u00eb realitet, ju nuk arrini t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni indiferente kundrejt tyre, sepse edhe juve ju t\u00ebrheqin v\u00ebmendjen k\u00ebto modele bukurie. Mundohuni t\u00eb jeni pak m\u00eb tolerante dhe pranoni q\u00eb nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb mrekullueshme! Nuk ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb doni t\u00eb b\u00ebheni topmodele, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb mjafton t\u00eb zbaviteni duke u p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb jeni sa m\u00eb e bukur, duke p\u00ebrdorur edhe ndonj\u00eb truk. N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, ato nuk e krijojn\u00eb bukurin\u00eb, por thjesht, e n\u00ebnvizojn\u00eb\u00a0at\u00eb!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
T\u00eb gjith\u00eb vajzat e vogla \u00ebnd\u00ebrrojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhen princesha dhe, kur rritemi, bukuria mbetet nj\u00eb nga aspiratat m\u00eb t\u00eb ngulitura te secila prej nesh. Mediat e kan\u00eb kuptuar mir\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, ndaj na bombardojn\u00eb me foto krijesash sublime, q\u00eb p\u00ebr shum\u00eb prej nesh p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb simbolin e bukuris\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u2019iu afruar sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb k\u00ebtyre simboleve, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4816","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-test"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4816","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4816"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4816\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4816"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4816"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4816"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}