{"id":4716,"date":"2014-10-24T19:00:45","date_gmt":"2014-10-24T17:00:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=4716"},"modified":"2014-10-24T12:42:59","modified_gmt":"2014-10-24T10:42:59","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-10","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/10\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-10\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ish-gruaja i solli dh\u00e9…<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ish-gruan e djalit me t\u00eb cilin bashk\u00ebjetoj, q\u00eb jeton shum\u00eb larg dhe prej andej i solli nj\u00eb pako me qese t\u00eb madhe katrore t\u00eb mbushur me dh\u00e9. Ai filloi t\u00eb hante. Un\u00eb i b\u00ebrtisja me t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb mos e hante, por ai nuk m\u00eb d\u00ebgjonte. \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb? Juera. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– E dashur Juera, djali me t\u00eb cilin bashk\u00ebjetoni duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb kujdes sepse \u00ebndrra, n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, nuk ka lidhje fare me ish-gruan. Duke qen\u00eb se ju at\u00eb e shihni si \u201carmikun\u201d m\u00eb t\u00eb madh t\u00eb tij, \u00e7far\u00ebdo q\u00eb t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb, e lidhni me at\u00eb. Dheu q\u00eb ka ngr\u00ebn\u00eb djali, tregon q\u00eb do t\u2019i duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrballet me disa situata jo t\u00eb mira si n\u00eb pun\u00eb, ashtu edhe n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien personale. Do t\u00eb keni disa debate dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, do t\u00eb m\u00ebrziteni pak, sepse ai b\u00ebn gjithnj\u00eb n\u00eb kok\u00ebn e vet. \u00cbndrra nuk ka lidhje me fem\u00ebr tjet\u00ebr, mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb \u00e7do lloj muhabeti, ama s\u2019ka lidhje me ish-gruan. Mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb lidhje edhe me pun\u00ebn e tij. Qoft\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb problem i vog\u00ebl q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb ai n\u00eb pun\u00eb, shfaqet n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, por \u00ebsht\u00eb kalimtare, gjithsesi.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Me unaz\u00eb n\u00eb gisht<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur isha n\u00eb klas\u00eb me dy shoqe e nj\u00eb shok. Ky, m\u00eb pa unaz\u00ebn n\u00eb gisht dhe m\u00eb tha: \u201cQenke fejuar! Bravo!\u201d. Pastaj pash\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur isha n\u00eb hotel me dy shoqet e mia dhe t\u00eb dashurin. Ky, tha: \u201cUn\u00eb kam harruar nj\u00ebher\u00eb k\u00ebtu nj\u00eb pal\u00eb syze\u201d. Un\u00eb fillova t\u2019i b\u00ebrtisja: \u201cMe k\u00eb ke qen\u00eb k\u00ebtu ti?\u201d. Ky filloi t\u00eb qante dhe un\u00eb e p\u00ebrqafova e i thash\u00eb: \u201cT\u00eb dua shum\u00eb\u201d. Pastaj, po n\u00eb at\u00eb dhom\u00eb hoteli, pash\u00eb mamin tim q\u00eb po fshinte pluhurat dhe v\u00ebllain tim, q\u00eb ishte ulur mes meje e t\u00eb dashurit. Un\u00eb i thoja mamit: \u201cH\u00eb, shpejt, mbaro dhe ikni\u201d se doja t\u00eb rrija vet\u00ebm me t\u00eb dashurin. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka, ju lutem?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– <\/strong>Unaza n\u00eb gisht ka shum\u00eb kuptime dhe kjo, n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb ngjarjeve q\u00eb vijojn\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. N\u00eb rastin tuaj, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ju keni shum\u00eb vlera dhe prisni t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb edhe nga personat q\u00eb ju rrethojn\u00eb; prisni q\u00eb ata t\u2019ju vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb dhe t\u2019ju japin r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e duhur. N\u00eb lidhje me vazhdimin e \u00ebndrr\u00ebs, ajo tregon nj\u00ebfar\u00eb xhelozie n\u00eb mesin tuaj. Ju, vazhdimisht, dyshoni n\u00eb ndjenjat e tij dhe k\u00ebrkoni her\u00eb pas here konfirmim nga ana e tij, si dhe pretendoni q\u00eb lidhja juaj t\u00eb b\u00ebhet zyrtare. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, po kaloni nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb shum\u00eb konfuze dhe jeni pak e m\u00ebrzitur, por s\u2019duhet t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni, sepse e qara e t\u00eb dashurit dhe p\u00ebrqafimi, tregojn\u00eb se ndjenjat mes jush ekzistojn\u00eb dhe shum\u00eb shpejt do t\u00eb merrni at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb d\u00ebshironi, gjithmon\u00eb n\u00ebse jeni e vendosur e nuk lodheni t\u2019i shkoni gjer n\u00eb fund asaj q\u00eb keni n\u00eb mendje.<\/p>\n

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Bebe me sy blu<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ish-t\u00eb dashurin, sikur ishte me nj\u00eb bebe me sy blu dhe me t\u00eb atin. U shk\u00ebmbyem te shkall\u00ebt dhe pash\u00eb se ai kishte thyer shpatull\u00ebn. E pyeta si ndjehej dhe m\u00eb tha: \u201cTani jam m\u00eb mir\u00eb\u201d. Un\u00eb i thash\u00eb: \u201cKam shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb dhe dua nj\u00eb zgjidhje nga ti\u201d. Ai m\u00eb tha t\u00eb ulesha t\u00eb flisnim dhe t\u00eb atin e la jasht\u00eb. Pres nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje. Juera. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– E dashur Juera, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr q\u00eb flet p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtje t\u00eb l\u00ebna pezull n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn ose ju keni ngelur me pishmane dhe nuk e keni shprehur gjith\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb keni dashur t\u00eb thoni. Ish-i dashuri p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn tuaj, por n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre tregon edhe situat\u00ebn n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ndodhet ai person tani. Ashtu si ju, edhe ai ka pasur shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra p\u00ebr t\u00eb sqaruar, por nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje familjare e ka penguar. F\u00ebmija me sy blu dhe me t\u00eb atin, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb projekte e diskutime q\u00eb i ka pasur n\u00eb mendje, por q\u00eb i ka l\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebrgjys\u00ebm. Ai ndodhet n\u00eb mes t\u00eb nj\u00eb diskutimi familjar. Po ashtu, ju, nga ana juaj, d\u00ebshironi ta rikontaktoni me t\u00eb, p\u00ebr arsye q\u00eb i dini vet\u00ebm ju. Ka shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb n\u00ebse ju e k\u00ebrkoni v\u00ebrtet, edhe mund t\u00eb flisni me t\u00eb, por mos prisni q\u00eb rrjedha e ngjarjeve t\u00eb marr\u00eb ashtu si\u00e7 d\u00ebshironi ju. \u00cbndrra ju k\u00ebshillon q\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebni, ta mendoni mir\u00eb dhe jepini p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi s\u00eb pari mir\u00ebqenies suaj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ish-gruaja i solli dh\u00e9… – Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ish-gruan e djalit me t\u00eb cilin bashk\u00ebjetoj, q\u00eb jeton shum\u00eb larg dhe prej andej i solli nj\u00eb pako me qese t\u00eb madhe katrore t\u00eb mbushur me dh\u00e9. Ai filloi t\u00eb hante. Un\u00eb i b\u00ebrtisja me t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb mos e hante, por ai nuk m\u00eb d\u00ebgjonte. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4716","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4716","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4716"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4716\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4716"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4716"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4716"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}