{"id":4714,"date":"2014-10-24T18:00:39","date_gmt":"2014-10-24T16:00:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=4714"},"modified":"2014-10-24T12:41:07","modified_gmt":"2014-10-24T10:41:07","slug":"pyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-11","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/10\/pyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-11\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyetje-p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr seksin\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"

– Kam v\u00ebn\u00eb re q\u00eb partneri im nuk ka shum\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelje apo parap\u00ebrgatitje p\u00ebr t\u2019u eksituar, ndryshe nga un\u00eb. P\u00ebrse ndodh kjo gj\u00eb, a mund t\u00eb ma shpjegoni nga ana psikologjike?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Sepse burrat ndjehen m\u00eb meshkuj n\u00eb egon e tyre n\u00ebse \u201cnuk humbin shum\u00eb koh\u00eb\u201d me puthje, p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelje e fjal\u00eb t\u00eb ngrohta, por duan t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb aktin seksual. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, nj\u00eb p\u00ebrqindje e madhe e femrave ankohen p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. Pra, \u00ebsht\u00eb e shpjeguar si nga ana e psikolog\u00ebve, ashtu edhe nga seksolog\u00ebt q\u00eb burrat eksitohen qoft\u00eb edhe duke par\u00eb. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, ata jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb lirsh\u00ebm dhe m\u00eb pak t\u00eb ndrojtur sesa femrat. Mir\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte q\u00eb t\u00eb dy partner\u00ebt t\u00eb ishin n\u00eb nj\u00eb mendje q\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb rigjetur k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e tyre seksuale, t\u00eb b\u00ebnin t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn gjys\u00ebm ore parap\u00ebrgatitje, duke u p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelur dhe puthur. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, secili prej tyre zbulon pjes\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb ndjeshme t\u00eb intimitetit t\u00eb vet. Pas k\u00ebsaj, edhe seksi do ishte m\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb dyja pal\u00ebt. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Burri e arrin orgazm\u00ebn shum\u00eb shpejt. Pse nuk p\u00ebrmbahet pak m\u00eb shum\u00eb? <\/strong><\/p>\n

– <\/strong>Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ai, ndjehet psikologjikisht n\u00ebn trysni. Kjo shkakton tension n\u00eb ba\u00e7in, gj\u00eb q\u00eb ndikon n\u00eb ngurt\u00ebsimin e zon\u00ebs plevike dhe ai b\u00ebhet i paaft\u00eb p\u00ebr ta mbajtur ejakulimin. Ka raste pastaj, kur ejakulimin e arrin shpejt, sepse k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia q\u00eb ndjen \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e thell\u00eb. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, edhe ejakulacioni \u00ebsht\u00eb i shpejt\u00eb e i bollsh\u00ebm dhe kjo e fundit \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtetuar nga ana psikologjike. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– U b\u00ebn\u00eb disa koh\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb dhembin veshkat dhe p\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb, as seks nuk m\u00eb b\u00ebhet m\u00eb. Si t\u00eb veproj? M\u00eb vjen t\u00eb urinoj shum\u00eb shpesh, sidomos gjat\u00eb nat\u00ebs. \u00c7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb kem?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Do t\u2019ju sugjeroja t\u00eb kontaktoni me nj\u00eb urolog i cili me siguri do t\u2019ju sugjeroj\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni analizat p\u00ebr problemin q\u00eb keni. Me siguri, ju keni infeksion n\u00eb traktin urinar. Sa p\u00ebr seksin, duhet q\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb rregulloni problemin e veshkave e m\u00eb pas t\u00eb shikoni n\u00ebse ishte pasoj\u00eb e problemit q\u00eb keni apo keni edhe ndonj\u00eb infeksion tjet\u00ebr. S\u00eb pari, duhet t\u00eb merakoseni p\u00ebr mir\u00ebqenien e sh\u00ebndetit. Thoni se keni koh\u00eb q\u00eb ju dhembin veshkat dhe akoma s\u2019keni shkuar te nj\u00eb mjek q\u00eb t\u00eb vizitoheni. K\u00ebto gj\u00ebra nuk duhen neglizhuar sepse r\u00ebndohen m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb, edhe sh\u00ebrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, duke ndikuar k\u00ebshtu edhe n\u00eb jet\u00ebn seksuale t\u00eb m\u00ebtejshme. <\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– Kam v\u00ebn\u00eb re q\u00eb partneri im nuk ka shum\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelje apo parap\u00ebrgatitje p\u00ebr t\u2019u eksituar, ndryshe nga un\u00eb. P\u00ebrse ndodh kjo gj\u00eb, a mund t\u00eb ma shpjegoni nga ana psikologjike? – Sepse burrat ndjehen m\u00eb meshkuj n\u00eb egon e tyre n\u00ebse \u201cnuk humbin shum\u00eb koh\u00eb\u201d me puthje, p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelje e fjal\u00eb t\u00eb ngrohta, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[88],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4714","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-seksologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4714","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4714"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4714\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4714"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4714"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4714"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}