T\u00eb mendosh p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen \u00ebsht\u00eb si t\u00eb p\u00ebrballesh me nj\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb t\u00eb mbuluar me avull, shum\u00eb t\u00eb vagullt… Megjithat\u00eb, veprimet tona t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme p\u00ebrball\u00eb njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb na rrethojn\u00eb (n\u00eb familje, shoq\u00ebri dhe pun\u00eb), zbulojn\u00eb gjendjen ton\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore n\u00eb lidhje me motivimet e ndryshme t\u00eb jet\u00ebs son\u00eb, qofshin ato t\u00eb sfer\u00ebs private apo profesionale. B\u00ebni k\u00ebt\u00eb test p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbuluar prioritetet e viteve t\u00eb ardhshme…<\/p>\n
1. Sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e \u00ebndrrave tuaja, e imagjinoni:
\na. Moderne, origjinale.
\nb. Plot sharm, t\u00eb ngroht\u00eb, mikprit\u00ebse.
\nc. T\u00eb madhe, luksoze, me pishin\u00eb, sauna, xhakuci.<\/p>\n
2. Q\u00eb pushimet e ver\u00ebs t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb suksesshme, ato duhet t\u00eb ken\u00eb para s\u00eb gjithash:
\na. Risi, t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme dhe zakonet
\nb. Relaks, \u00e7lodhje, diell.
\nc. Udh\u00ebtime, eksperienca, zbulime.<\/p>\n
3. Ju ndodh ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebtisni n\u00ebp\u00ebr rrug\u00eb, pa asnj\u00eb arsye:
\na. Shpesh
\nb. Kurr\u00eb
\nc. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb<\/p>\n
4. Do ta kishit t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb rrinit nj\u00eb jav\u00eb:
\na. Pa televizor, ose pa kompjuter
\nb. Pa uj\u00eb t\u00eb ngroht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u lar\u00eb
\nc. Pa rrjet telefonik p\u00ebr t\u00eb telefonuar<\/p>\n
5. P\u00ebr t\u2019u relaksuar, \u00e7\u2019lloj leximi preferoni ju?
\na. Nj\u00eb revist\u00eb
\nb. Nj\u00eb roman
\nc. Nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr me kartona<\/p>\n
6. \u00c7far\u00eb shansi, sapo keni fituar t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb bler\u00eb gj\u00ebra falas p\u00ebr 2 or\u00eb rresht n\u00eb nj\u00eb dyqan t\u00eb mrekulluesh\u00ebm rrobash. Ju, zgjidhni:
\na. Modele t\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha stileve, p\u00ebr t\u2019u zbavitur
\nb. Maksimumin e gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb mundshme dhe t\u00eb masave t\u00eb ndryshme, q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitojn\u00eb edhe shoqet\/shok\u00ebt tuaja.
\nc. Vet\u00ebm gj\u00ebra t\u00eb shtrenja dhe firmato.<\/p>\n
7. Avioni juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb or\u00eb me vones\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar koh\u00ebn, ju:
\na. Prisni duke u zbavitur, duke par\u00eb njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb kalojn\u00eb.
\nb. Blini nj\u00eb revist\u00eb, ose b\u00ebni telefonata
\nc. Ecni lart e posht\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr aeroport, duke par\u00eb or\u00ebn \u00e7do pes\u00eb minuta.<\/p>\n
8. Nes\u00ebr n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes duhet t\u00eb ngriheni shum\u00eb her\u00ebt, pasi keni nj\u00eb takim shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm. N\u00eb mesnat\u00eb, bie telefoni! Ju merr shoqja e ngusht\u00eb, e cila nuk ndjehet mir\u00eb dhe ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb flas\u00eb me ju:
\na. Ia hapni telefonin dhe i thoni se do ta merrni nes\u00ebr.
\nb. Aq m\u00eb keq p\u00ebr ju, do t\u00eb flini m\u00eb pak, por do ta d\u00ebgjoni.
\nc. Nuk ia hapni telefonin, \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb von\u00eb…<\/p>\n
9. Nd\u00ebrmjet k\u00ebtyre kritereve, cili \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmi p\u00ebr blerjen e celularit tuaj:
\na. Pamja
\nb. Thjesht\u00ebsia
\nc. Teknologjia<\/p>\n
10. P\u00ebr dit\u00eblindjen tuaj, prind\u00ebrit ju kan\u00eb hapur nj\u00eb llogari bankare. Reagimi juaj:
\na. \u00c7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb kjo?
\nb. Dhurat\u00eb jo shum\u00eb festive, por e k\u00ebndshme
\nc. Ide e shk\u00eblqyer; t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn \u00ebsht\u00eb e dobishme.<\/p>\n
11. Gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e bezdisshme q\u00eb mund t\u00eb thonin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt p\u00ebr ju:
\na. \u00c7far\u00eb humori ka, hajde ta durosh! Duket si nj\u00eb kalama 4 vje\u00e7.
\nb. Bisedat q\u00eb b\u00ebn, nuk jan\u00eb kush e di se \u00e7far\u00eb!
\nc. Asaj\/atij i intereson vet\u00ebm vetja e vet!<\/p>\n
12. Ajo q\u00eb ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi n\u00eb zgjedhjen e nj\u00eb doktori:
\na. Gatishm\u00ebria e tij
\nb. Mir\u00ebsjellja, aft\u00ebsia p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar
\nc. Kompetencat<\/p>\n
13. Nj\u00eb lajm befasues: Ju do t\u00eb b\u00ebheni minist\u00ebr! Mos kini merak, do t\u2019ju japin nj\u00eb ekip njer\u00ebzish shum\u00eb kompetent\u00eb. Ju takon t\u00eb zgjidhni mes k\u00ebtyre tre ministrive:
\na. Sportet dhe rinia
\nb. Kultura
\nc. Turizmi<\/p>\n
14. Kur bie zilja n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes:
\na. Ju ngriheni maksimumi brenda 10 minutave
\nb. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, ju z\u00eb gjumi prap\u00eb
\nc. Ngriheni menj\u00ebher\u00eb, ose pothuajse menj\u00ebher\u00eb.<\/p>\n
15. Kur shkoni te parukieri:
\na. I lini atij dor\u00eb t\u00eb lir\u00eb, pasi ju p\u00eblqen t\u00eb ndryshoni model
\nb. Nuk ndryshoni shum\u00eb, vet\u00ebm pak.
\nc. E keni t\u00eb qart\u00eb n\u00eb kok\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb d\u00ebshironi.<\/p>\n
Rezultatet:
\nN\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb a. Ju k\u00ebrkoni fantazi, risi!
\nMbi t\u00eb gjitha, e ardhmja nuk duhet t\u2019i ngjaj\u00eb s\u00eb shkuar\u00ebs! Juve ju duhet ndryshim, p\u00ebrndryshe \u00e7\u2018kuptim do t\u00eb kishte? Ajo q\u00eb ju zbavit dhe ju stimulon kur mendoni p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen \u00ebsht\u00eb risia, hapja ndaj projekteve ekzaltuese, befasuese. Fakti q\u00eb nuk e dini si do t\u00eb jet\u00eb e ardhmja, nuk ju m\u00ebrzit, p\u00ebrkundrazi, k\u00ebshtu mund t\u2019i lejoni vetes t\u00eb keni gjithfar\u00eb shpresash. Ju mund t\u00eb keni shum\u00eb idera, t\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrroni, t\u00eb eksploroni rrug\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme, origjinale. Megjith\u00ebse nuk keni ende nj\u00eb orientim shum\u00eb t\u00eb sakt\u00eb, ju e keni p\u00ebrcaktuar se \u00e7far\u00eb nuk doni, pra, nj\u00eb jet\u00eb me rutin\u00eb, shum\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb. Objektivi juaj nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb medoemos t\u00eb hidheni me kok\u00eb n\u00eb aventura t\u00eb papara, por nuk b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb t\u00eb mbylleni n\u00eb rutin\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme. M\u00ebrzia \u00ebsht\u00eb pak armiku juaj. Mbase ju e keni marr\u00eb tashm\u00eb \u00abdoz\u00ebn\u00bb e saj dhe nuk doni ta shtoni m\u00eb shum\u00eb! Mbase jeta ju \u00ebsht\u00eb dukur paksa monotone n\u00eb disa raste? Ju takon juve ta ngjyrosni me projekte t\u00eb guximshme, por edhe t\u00eb realizueshme, q\u00eb t\u00eb mos bini n\u00eb gabim dhe t\u00eb mos m\u00ebrziteni m\u00eb von\u00eb…<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb b. Ju doni t\u00eb rrethoheni nga njer\u00ebzit e duhur
\nJu nuk keni nj\u00eb ide shum\u00eb t\u00eb qart\u00eb mbi m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn si e imagjinoni dhjet\u00ebvje\u00e7arin e ardhsh\u00ebm. Horizonti juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb i hapur, ju u lini nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb madh fatit, takimeve, surprizave t\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Nuk keni d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb planifikoni gjith\u00e7ka m\u00eb par\u00eb, por nj\u00eb gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e sigurt\u00eb: Jeni shum\u00eb i\/e lidhur me cil\u00ebsin\u00eb e jet\u00ebs suaj t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme. Ju nuk doni t\u00eb sakrifikoni k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb e vogla t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme p\u00eb t\u00eb arritur nj\u00eb objektiv ambicioz. Ata q\u00eb keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr zem\u00ebr, jan\u00eb njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb ju rrethojn\u00eb. Miq\u00ebsia z\u00eb nj\u00eb vend shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj dhe ju keni q\u00ebllim t\u00eb vazhdoni t\u00eb ndani me t\u00eb momente shk\u00ebmbimi dhe zbavitjeje! Kjo nuk ju pengon t\u00eb mendoni p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen tuaj profesionale, por duke ruajtur n\u00eb maksimum kontaktet njer\u00ebzore. Juve ju p\u00eblqen t\u00eb punoni n\u00eb nj\u00eb grup t\u00eb k\u00ebndsh\u00ebm, solidar dhe t\u00eb ngroht\u00eb. Gjithashtu, nj\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi thelb\u00ebsore ka p\u00ebr ju partneri\/ja dhe lidhja juaj sentimentale. Pas k\u00ebsaj aspirate p\u00ebr harmonin\u00eb, thelb\u00ebsore n\u00eb syt\u00eb tuaj, fshihet mbase frika nga konfliktet, l\u00ebndimet, p\u00ebrballjet? Ka shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi…<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb c. Q\u00ebllimi juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb keni sukses n\u00eb jet\u00eb
\nE ardhmja, duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e mir\u00eb se e sotmja! Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb ju motivon dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb punoni me t\u00eb gjitha forcat tuaja. Ju e dini mir\u00eb se suksesi nuk bie nga qielli! At\u00ebhere ju p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u00eb gjeni m\u00ebnyrat p\u00ebr t\u00eb realizuar projektet tuaja. Keni ambicie, por pa e tepruar; m\u00eb shum\u00eb karakterizoheni nga serioziteti dhe i mbani k\u00ebmb\u00ebt n\u00eb tok\u00eb. Ajo q\u00eb ju stimulon para se gjithash \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb krenar p\u00ebr veten, t\u00eb ndjeni se jeni i\/e aft\u00eb t\u00eb arrini objektivat tuaja, t\u00eb mb\u00ebshteteni mbi aft\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja dhe t\u2019ia dilni mban\u00eb. Por nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm kjo q\u00eb ju shtyn p\u00ebrpara. Juve ju p\u00eblqen gjithashtu t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitoni nga jeta dhe, q\u00eb t\u00eb mos privoheni nga k\u00ebnq\u00ebsit\u00eb e saj, duhet t\u00eb merrni parasysh aspektin material. Ju nuk e synoni pasurin\u00eb me \u00e7do kusht, por doni t\u00eb jeni i\/e sigurt\u00eb se nuk do t\u2019ju mungoj\u00eb thelb\u00ebsorja dhe, bile, pak m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kaq. Mbase pas k\u00ebsaj d\u00ebshire p\u00ebr t\u2019ia dal\u00eb mban\u00eb ka pak shqet\u00ebsim? Keni frik\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen, t\u00eb panjohur\u00ebn dhe gjith\u00eb rreziqet q\u00eb e shoq\u00ebrojn\u00eb? \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb motivim m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019ia dal\u00eb mban\u00eb; p\u00ebrdoreni!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
T\u00eb mendosh p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen \u00ebsht\u00eb si t\u00eb p\u00ebrballesh me nj\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb t\u00eb mbuluar me avull, shum\u00eb t\u00eb vagullt… Megjithat\u00eb, veprimet tona t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme p\u00ebrball\u00eb njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb na rrethojn\u00eb (n\u00eb familje, shoq\u00ebri dhe pun\u00eb), zbulojn\u00eb gjendjen ton\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore n\u00eb lidhje me motivimet e ndryshme t\u00eb jet\u00ebs son\u00eb, qofshin ato t\u00eb sfer\u00ebs private apo profesionale. B\u00ebni […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4684","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-test"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4684","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4684"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4684\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4684"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4684"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4684"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}