{"id":4654,"date":"2014-10-22T13:00:35","date_gmt":"2014-10-22T11:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=4654"},"modified":"2014-10-22T12:00:51","modified_gmt":"2014-10-22T10:00:51","slug":"pyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-9","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/10\/pyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-9\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyetje-p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr seksin\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>&#8211; Cilat mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb shkaqet e nj\u00eb dhimbjeje ose pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsie gjat\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale? E b\u00ebj k\u00ebt\u00eb pyetje sepse shoh q\u00eb e dashura ime shpreh pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi n\u00eb mimik\u00ebn e saj dhe kur e pyes, m\u00eb thot\u00eb: \u201cKam pak dhimbje\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Dhimbjet apo shprehjet e pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb mund t\u00eb vijn\u00eb nga shkaqe t\u00eb ndryshme, q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb fizike ose edhe psikologjike. Shkak fizik mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb kontraktimi i muskujve t\u00eb vagin\u00ebs ose ndonj\u00eb infeksion i brendsh\u00ebm. N\u00eb raste t\u00eb tilla, nuk duhet t\u00eb bini n\u00eb panik; mjafton nj\u00eb kontroll gjinekologjik dhe gjith\u00e7ka zgjidhet. Mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shkak psikologjik, emocional, q\u00eb vjen nga ndonj\u00eb ankth i brendsh\u00ebm q\u00eb ka partnerja juaj ose ngaq\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e ndrojtur. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, nuk duhet ta akuzoni, thjesht jini m\u00eb i ngroht\u00eb me t\u00eb dhe pyeteni se \u00e7far\u00eb e shqet\u00ebson. K\u00ebshtu, gjith\u00e7ka mund t\u00eb rregullohet.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb burr\u00eb 40 vje\u00e7. Problemi im \u00ebsht\u00eb ky: Para disa muajsh kisha nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb rregullt seksuale me bashk\u00ebshorten, kryenim marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie pothuajse \u00e7do dit\u00eb, por koh\u00ebt e fundit, vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb jav\u00eb dhe ftohja \u00ebsht\u00eb prej saj. Un\u00eb kam d\u00ebshir\u00eb, por ajo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e gatshme. \u00cbsht\u00eb 34 vje\u00e7e. Si mendoni ju, cilat jan\u00eb arsyet e ftohjes s\u00eb saj?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb shum\u00eb arsye, mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb arsye psikologjike, shpirt\u00ebrore, fizike, sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore, stresi, puna, familja etj. E r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ju ta pyesni drejtp\u00ebrs\u00ebdrejti se \u00e7far\u00eb ka, mos ka ndonj\u00eb problem sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor a ka ndonj\u00eb stres, p\u00ebrse ndihet e t\u00ebrhequr. K\u00ebto biseda duhet t\u2019ia b\u00ebni n\u00eb form\u00eb miq\u00ebsore, si shok, si nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebshort shum\u00eb i dashur, por jo duke e v\u00ebn\u00eb para p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb sepse shpeshher\u00eb, jan\u00eb femrat ato q\u00eb kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb ngarkes\u00eb emocionale, fizike apo p\u00ebrgjegjesi, t\u00eb cilat sigurisht ndikojn\u00eb edhe n\u00eb uljen e d\u00ebshir\u00ebs p\u00ebr seks. Te femrat ndodh ndryshe nga meshkujt, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb shum\u00eb strese, por p\u00ebrs\u00ebri d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr seks rrall\u00eb u ik\u00ebn. Pasi t\u00eb bisedoni dhe t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni arsyen, mund ta zgjidhni bashkarisht ose te nj\u00eb mjek n\u00ebse ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr vizit\u00eb mjek\u00ebsore.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Cilat mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb shkaqet e nj\u00eb dhimbjeje ose pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsie gjat\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale? E b\u00ebj k\u00ebt\u00eb pyetje sepse shoh q\u00eb e dashura ime shpreh pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi n\u00eb mimik\u00ebn e saj dhe kur e pyes, m\u00eb thot\u00eb: \u201cKam pak dhimbje\u201d. &#8211; Dhimbjet apo shprehjet e pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb mund t\u00eb vijn\u00eb nga shkaqe t\u00eb ndryshme, q\u00eb mund t\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[88],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4654","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-seksologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4654","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4654"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4654\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4654"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4654"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4654"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}