{"id":4637,"date":"2014-10-21T20:13:34","date_gmt":"2014-10-21T18:13:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=4637"},"modified":"2014-10-21T20:30:53","modified_gmt":"2014-10-21T18:30:53","slug":"si-ta-kuptosh-nese-lidhja-me-te-eshte-serioze-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/10\/si-ta-kuptosh-nese-lidhja-me-te-eshte-serioze-3\/","title":{"rendered":"Si ta kuptosh n\u00ebse lidhja me t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb serioze?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Ke b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb njohje t\u00eb re dhe gjith\u00e7ka duket se po shkon mir\u00eb. Mes jush ka mir\u00ebkuptim, joshje dhe pasion, por paralelisht, ekziston edhe nj\u00eb \u201cgjemb\u201d i vog\u00ebl q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndjehesh n\u00eb siklet dhe t\u00eb kesh pasiguri&#8230; Njeriu q\u00eb njeh dhe me t\u00eb cilin ke filluar nj\u00eb lidhje, nuk t\u2019i ka shprehur ende hapur mendimet e veta, nuk t\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00ebse do nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme dhe serioze, apo preferon t\u00eb keni nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb lir\u00eb&#8230; Para se t\u00eb nxjerr\u00ebsh p\u00ebrfundime t\u00eb nxituara, mjafton t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh se cil\u00ebs shenje horoskopi i p\u00ebrket, q\u00eb t\u00eb kuptosh m\u00eb mir\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb objektivat reale t\u00eb njeriut q\u00eb ke njohur, por edhe si ta menaxhosh m\u00eb mir\u00eb lidhjen me t\u00eb. Mos harro se, shpeshher\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb realitet d\u00ebshirat, nuk ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr mundim, por p\u00ebr zot\u00ebsi!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>DASHI<br \/>\nDashi e fillon \u00e7do lidhje me nj\u00eb stil t\u00eb leht\u00eb, t\u00eb relaksuar, sip\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsor, shpejt dhe me nxitim&#8230; Nuk i preferon shum\u00eb angazhimet dhe, p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, u rr\u00ebshqet leht\u00eb situatave kur vihet n\u00ebn presion, por edhe bisedave q\u00eb kan\u00eb lidhje me k\u00ebt\u00eb, t\u00eb tipit \u201c\u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet me ne n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen?\u201d. Sado seriozisht ta ket\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb Dash n\u00eb fillim lidhjen e tij, nuk b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb \u201cdua di\u00e7ka t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme me ty\u201d. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, e vetmja m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr ta sjell\u00eb n\u00eb pik\u00ebn ku do \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb manovrosh me diplomaci. Meq\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb stilin e tij dhe i p\u00eblqen kur e kund\u00ebrshtojn\u00eb&#8230; mos i ushtro presion p\u00ebr nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme, por b\u00ebje q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb vij\u00eb ai nga pas! Si t\u2019ia arrish k\u00ebsaj? Mos rri gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb pritje t\u00eb telefonatave t\u00eb tij, vazhdo me aktivitetet e tua dhe shihe lidhje me qet\u00ebsi e relaks.<br \/>\nQ\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje serioze, Dashi ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr: Sinqeritet, veprim dhe aventur\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>DEMI<br \/>\nN\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, Demi \u00ebsht\u00eb nga ato shenja q\u00eb nuk k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb aventura t\u00eb lehta, por di\u00e7ka m\u00eb t\u00eb thell\u00eb dhe thelb\u00ebsore, sepse u p\u00eblqen q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebria n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre emocionale. Megjithat\u00eb, mos mendo se, q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb njohjes, kur sapo keni krijuar lidhjen, ajo do t\u00eb jet\u00eb e q\u00ebndrueshme, pasi Demi k\u00ebrkon koh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb vendim, q\u00eb t\u00eb sigurohet dhe t\u2019i dedikohet plot\u00ebsisht partnerit. Paralelisht, duhet t\u00eb plot\u00ebsohen edhe disa kushte, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb, t\u00eb keni t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat shije, t\u00eb jeni q\u00eb t\u00eb dy n\u00eb faz\u00ebn kur doni t\u00eb krijoni nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushen t\u00eb gjitha kushtet q\u00eb i ka v\u00ebn\u00eb vetes. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, vet\u00ebm koha do ta tregoj\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon realisht prej teje. Dije vet\u00ebm se nuk do t\u00eb tallet me ty dhe nuk do t\u00eb t\u00eb mashtroj\u00eb!<br \/>\nQ\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje serioze, Demi ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr: Koh\u00eb, q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebri dhe erotiz\u00ebm&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>BINJAK\u00cbT<br \/>\nLojcaku i zodiakut ndjehet n\u00ebn presion vet\u00ebm nga mendimi i nj\u00eb lidhjeje serioze dhe afatgjat\u00eb&#8230; Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb si t\u2019i thuash t\u00eb rrij\u00eb dy muaj i mbyllur n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, ku do t\u00eb ndjehej si n\u00eb burg! Kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se me t\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb kesh nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme, por q\u00eb t\u2019ia dal\u00ebsh mban\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb jesh e aft\u00eb t\u00eb ndjek\u00ebsh ritmet e tij t\u00eb ndryshimit t\u00eb humorit dhe sigurisht, t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtateni s\u00eb bashku nga ana intelektuale. Binjak\u00ebt duan loj\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdueshme, nuk u p\u00eblqen t\u00eb ken\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje ku ekzistojn\u00eb vazhdimisht grindje, probleme, mosmarr\u00ebveshje dhe pyetje t\u00eb tipit \u201c\u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet me ne?\u201d! Q\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb p\u00ebrher\u00eb p\u00ebrkrhah teje, duhet t\u2019i l\u00ebsh liri t\u00eb pakufizuar dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh shoku i tij i ngusht\u00eb.<br \/>\nQ\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje serioze, Binjak\u00ebt ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr: Komunikim, loj\u00eb, liri.<\/p>\n<p>GAFORRJA<br \/>\nEcuria e lidhjes t\u00ebnde me Gaforren varet nga gjendja shpirt\u00ebrore n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ndodhet ai n\u00eb periudh\u00ebn e njohjes suaj. N\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, nuk i p\u00eblqejn\u00eb aventurat e shkurtra erotike, k\u00ebrkon shokun e jet\u00ebs&#8230; por shpesh, ka vetin\u00eb t\u00eb nxitohet n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ende gati emocionalisht. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, trego pak kujdes e p\u00ebrmbajtje n\u00eb fillim dhe sigurohu p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme: I ka mbyllur t\u00eb gjitha llogarit\u00eb me t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn? N\u00ebse nj\u00eb Gaforre nuk e ka harruar ende lidhjen e m\u00ebparshme, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i gatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb p\u00ebrpara n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb re.<br \/>\nQ\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje serioze, Gaforrja ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr: Emocion, ndjenja, siguri.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ke b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb njohje t\u00eb re dhe gjith\u00e7ka duket se po shkon mir\u00eb. Mes jush ka mir\u00ebkuptim, joshje dhe pasion, por paralelisht, ekziston edhe nj\u00eb \u201cgjemb\u201d i vog\u00ebl q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndjehesh n\u00eb siklet dhe t\u00eb kesh pasiguri&#8230; Njeriu q\u00eb njeh dhe me t\u00eb cilin ke filluar nj\u00eb lidhje, nuk t\u2019i ka shprehur ende [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[52],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4637","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-horoskopi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4637","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4637"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4637\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4637"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4637"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4637"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}