{"id":4632,"date":"2014-10-21T17:00:24","date_gmt":"2014-10-21T15:00:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=4632"},"modified":"2014-10-21T15:29:18","modified_gmt":"2014-10-21T13:29:18","slug":"nuk-bera-dot-seks-me-te-dashuren","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/10\/nuk-bera-dot-seks-me-te-dashuren\/","title":{"rendered":"Nuk b\u00ebra dot seks me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>&#8211; Doktor Evi, kam nj\u00eb problem me potenc\u00ebn seksuale m\u00eb duket, sepse kur b\u00ebra dashuri me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn time (e kisha p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb me k\u00ebt\u00eb fem\u00ebr), nuk arrita dot t\u00eb b\u00ebja seks. Ndoshta e kisha nga emocionet, nuk e di se \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00eb gjeti, por u kontraktova i t\u00ebri. Tani m\u00eb vjen turp ta takoj p\u00ebrs\u00ebri at\u00eb vajz\u00eb. Ju, si e shpjegoni k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Dr. Evi Dani, seksolog-androlog<\/em><\/strong><strong>: &#8211; <\/strong>S\u00eb pari, mos u shqet\u00ebsoni shum\u00eb, sepse nuk jeni i vetmi q\u00eb ju ka ndodhur nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e till\u00eb; \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb q\u00eb e kalojn\u00eb edhe meshkuj t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. Kjo q\u00eb ju ka ndodhur ka nj\u00eb arsye t\u00eb cil\u00ebn do t\u2019jua shpjegoj tani. Akti seksual lidhet me nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb mekanizmash hormonal\u00eb, psikologjik\u00eb, nervor\u00eb dhe vazal\u00eb. Ky mekaniz\u00ebm tashm\u00eb i njohur fillon me trurin, prandaj themi q\u00eb organi seksual nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht penisi, por truri i mashkullit. Te mashkulli, n\u00eb momentin e eksitimit seksual, vihen n\u00eb l\u00ebvizje hormonet dopamin\u00eb dhe oksitocin\u00eb (q\u00eb ndodhen n\u00eb tru) dhe n\u00eb vazhdim, dy sistemet nervore simpatik e parasimpatik, t\u00eb cilat n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet mekanizmave t\u00eb unitetit t\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrtave, veprojn\u00eb duke zgjeruar en\u00ebt e gjakut t\u00eb penisit dhe, p\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb, shkaktojn\u00eb ereksionin.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Sistemi nervor simpatik quhet sistemi i alarmit dhe ngushton en\u00ebt e gjakut, nd\u00ebrsa parasimpatiku, i zgjeron ato. Kur nj\u00ebri sistem nervor \u00ebsht\u00eb nxitur m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb krahasim me tjetrin, shkaktohet ose ereksioni, ose mungesa e tij. N\u00eb rastin e nj\u00eb gjendjeje frike, ashtu si edhe te ju, vepron sistemi nervor simpatik dhe, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, mashkulli do t\u00eb d\u00ebshtoj\u00eb para aktit seksual, pasi ereksioni nuk do t\u00eb kryhet. N\u00eb fillimet e aktivitetit seksual, shum\u00eb meshkuj mund t\u00eb d\u00ebshtojn\u00eb. Kjo gjendje u krijon atyre frik\u00eb dhe pasiguri p\u00ebr nj\u00eb akt t\u00eb dyt\u00eb seksual, si\u00e7 ka ndodhur edhe me ju dhe gjendja thellohet akoma m\u00eb tep\u00ebr n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se ky d\u00ebshtim ndodh s\u00ebrish. N\u00eb raste t\u00eb tilla, \u00ebsht\u00eb i k\u00ebshilluesh\u00ebm takimi me mjekun specialist, i cili n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet konsult\u00ebs apo mjekimit, do t\u00eb mund\u00ebsoj\u00eb kryerjen e nj\u00eb akti seksual cil\u00ebsor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Doktor Evi, kam nj\u00eb problem me potenc\u00ebn seksuale m\u00eb duket, sepse kur b\u00ebra dashuri me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn time (e kisha p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb me k\u00ebt\u00eb fem\u00ebr), nuk arrita dot t\u00eb b\u00ebja seks. Ndoshta e kisha nga emocionet, nuk e di se \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00eb gjeti, por u kontraktova i t\u00ebri. Tani m\u00eb vjen turp [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[89],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4632","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mjeku"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4632","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4632"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4632\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4632"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4632"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4632"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}