{"id":4398,"date":"2014-10-17T14:30:23","date_gmt":"2014-10-17T12:30:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=4398"},"modified":"2014-10-17T13:17:38","modified_gmt":"2014-10-17T11:17:38","slug":"cfare-prirjeje-ka-djali-im","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/10\/cfare-prirjeje-ka-djali-im\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7far\u00eb prirjeje ka djali im?"},"content":{"rendered":"

– Kam nj\u00eb pyetje p\u00ebr ju: Si ta kuptoj un\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb prirjeje ka f\u00ebmija im n\u00eb lidhje me profesionet? Do t\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqente t\u00eb kishte prirjen e tim shoqi i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb doktor, por nuk di si t\u2019ia imponoj djalit k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb…<\/strong><\/p>\n

– E nderuar zonj\u00eb, psikolog\u00eb, psiko-pediat\u00ebr dhe specialist\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj fushe kan\u00eb arritur n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin p\u00ebrfundim: F\u00ebmij\u00ebt duhen l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb lir\u00eb ta zgjedhin vet\u00eb profesionin apo prirjen e tyre n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Ne m\u00eb posht\u00eb kemi p\u00ebrmbledhur disa k\u00ebshilla t\u00eb vlefshme p\u00ebr ju dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb prind\u00ebrit apo edukator\u00ebt e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim:<\/p>\n

– S\u00eb pari, shikoni me v\u00ebmendje \u00e7far\u00eb prirjeje duket se ka f\u00ebmija, pa ua limituar kureshtjen f\u00ebmij\u00ebve p\u00ebr njohuri n\u00eb fusha t\u00eb tjera, q\u00eb ndoshta juve nuk ju interesojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n

– S\u00eb dyti, \u00e7do f\u00ebmij\u00eb lind me tipare t\u00eb caktuara, q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e th\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb trash\u00ebgimi e prind\u00ebrve. Ju, si prind, duhet t\u2019i ndihmoni q\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebp\u00ebrcaktohen p\u00ebr profesionin t\u00eb cilin e ndjejn\u00eb q\u00eb e duan dhe synojn\u00eb ta arrijn\u00eb.<\/p>\n

– S\u00eb treti, b\u00ebjuani t\u00eb ditur m\u00ebsuesve prirjet q\u00eb kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj, profesionet q\u00eb u p\u00eblqejn\u00eb, m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si e manifestojn\u00eb pasionin dhe efektet q\u00eb ka tek ata.<\/p>\n

– S\u00eb kat\u00ebrti, duhet t\u2019i nxisni f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb me profesionist\u00eb t\u00eb fush\u00ebs q\u00eb u p\u00eblqen. N\u00ebse q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb me amator\u00eb, do t\u00eb marrin edukat\u00ebn e amatorit dhe do t\u00eb mjaftohen me kaq, nuk do t\u00eb ngulmojn\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar m\u00eb tej, gjer n\u00eb kompletimin e tyre n\u00eb profesion.<\/p>\n

– Duhet t\u2019u ushqeni dashurin\u00eb p\u00ebr profesionin dhe pasionet q\u00eb ata kan\u00eb. T\u2019ua b\u00ebni sa m\u00eb praktike k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, duke iu p\u00ebrmbajtur parimeve baz\u00eb t\u00eb arritjes s\u00eb q\u00ebllimeve t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n

– Flisni sa m\u00eb shpesh rreth pasioneve t\u00eb tyre dhe \u00e7far\u00eb kan\u00eb planifikuar n\u00eb mendjen e tyre p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen.<\/p>\n

– Shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt m\u00ebsohen me mosh\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar, apo edhe nga kureshtja e provokuar. Prandaj, b\u00ebjuni her\u00eb pas here nj\u00eb seleksionim t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb informacioneve. Kjo do t\u2019i ndihmoj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt apo t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i arrijn\u00eb m\u00eb leht\u00eb synimet e tyre n\u00eb profesion.<\/p>\n

– Bashk\u00ebpunoni gjithmon\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj p\u00ebr zgjidhjen e problemeve apo pengesave, por jo t\u2019ua zgjidhni ju sepse n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb do t\u00eb m\u00ebsohen me iden\u00eb se jan\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt ata q\u00eb merren me problemet e tyre dhe nuk b\u00ebhen kurr\u00eb t\u00eb zot\u00ebt e vetes n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n

– Mbikqyrini her\u00eb pas here f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj, analizojini qoft\u00eb edhe n\u00eb heshtje kur ata p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb qoft\u00eb edhe n\u00eb form\u00eb loje, profesionin q\u00eb kan\u00eb zgjedhur, por jo t\u2019i qortoni apo kritikoni sepse kjo do t\u00eb nxiste irritim tek ata. Mos k\u00ebrkoni perfeksion nga f\u00ebmija juaj, sepse askush nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i till\u00eb. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, do t\u2019i vinit n\u00ebn presion gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebn dhe n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb rezultate pozitive, vet\u00ebm sa do t\u2019u largohet d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr profesionin q\u00eb kan\u00eb zgjedhur dhe do t\u00eb dyshonin tek aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre. N\u00ebse b\u00ebjn\u00eb gabime, mundohuni t\u2019i ndihmoni q\u00eb t\u2019i zgjidhin, duke bashk\u00ebpunuar, por jo duke i qortuar ashp\u00ebr. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb pak a shum\u00eb k\u00ebshillat q\u00eb mund t\u2019ju japim n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim. Gjithsesi, kini parasysh se shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb din\u00eb t\u2019i dalin zot vetes dhe pasioneve t\u00eb tyre; ne nuk mund t\u00eb parap\u00ebrcaktojm\u00eb p\u00ebr ta at\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb donim ne…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– Kam nj\u00eb pyetje p\u00ebr ju: Si ta kuptoj un\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb prirjeje ka f\u00ebmija im n\u00eb lidhje me profesionet? Do t\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqente t\u00eb kishte prirjen e tim shoqi i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb doktor, por nuk di si t\u2019ia imponoj djalit k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb… – E nderuar zonj\u00eb, psikolog\u00eb, psiko-pediat\u00ebr dhe specialist\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4398","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4398","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4398"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4398\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4398"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4398"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4398"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}