{"id":4324,"date":"2014-10-15T18:00:59","date_gmt":"2014-10-15T16:00:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=4324"},"modified":"2014-10-15T18:00:59","modified_gmt":"2014-10-15T16:00:59","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-8","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/10\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-8\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Flok\u00eb me thinja<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr flok\u00ebt e mia me thinja. Dua t\u00eb di kuptimin e k\u00ebsaj \u00ebndrre. Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Flok\u00ebt n\u00eb \u00ebndrra kan\u00eb shum\u00eb kuptime, ndaj do t\u2019ju jap nj\u00eb shpjegim m\u00eb t\u00eb gjer\u00eb p\u00ebr to. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se nj\u00eb grua shikon se po kreh flok\u00ebt dhe ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb bukur, ajo do t\u00eb jet\u00eb e pakujdesshme n\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e saj personale. N\u00ebse e shikoni veten me flok\u00eb t\u00eb verdha, do t\u00eb njiheni me nj\u00eb person q\u00eb do t\u00eb jet\u00eb xheloz ndaj jush. Flok\u00ebt kafe n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr tregojn\u00eb nj\u00eb problem n\u00eb jet\u00ebn profesionale. N\u00ebse shikoni flok\u00eb t\u00eb ngat\u00ebrruar, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb i keni pak t\u00eb ngat\u00ebrruara pun\u00ebt tuaja si n\u00eb jet\u00ebn familjare, ashtu edhe n\u00eb at\u00eb sociale. Nd\u00ebrsa flok\u00ebt me thinja tregojn\u00eb q\u00eb ju mendoheni shum\u00eb dhe shqet\u00ebsoheni p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ndodh, qoft\u00eb ajo edhe nj\u00eb gj\u00eb shum\u00eb e vog\u00ebl. Duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes, sepse flok\u00ebt e till\u00eb paralajm\u00ebrojn\u00eb edhe shqet\u00ebsime sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsimit t\u00eb madh q\u00eb ju e p\u00ebrjetoni m\u00eb shum\u00eb se\u00e7 duhet. Humbja e flok\u00ebve tregon nj\u00eb siklet q\u00eb do t\u00eb kaloni, n\u00eb periudh\u00ebn q\u00eb do t\u00eb shikoni nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr t\u00eb till\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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M\u00eb puthi<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nj\u00eb person q\u00eb dua, por n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ai nuk e di q\u00eb e dua. N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, m\u00eb pa q\u00eb po e ndiqja, u ndal dhe m\u00eb puthi fort. \u00c7far\u00eb parashikon kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr parashikon thjesht d\u00ebshir\u00ebn tuaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb me k\u00ebt\u00eb person. Nuk parashikon ndonj\u00eb ngjarje n\u00eb ve\u00e7anti, thjesht \u00ebndrra paraqet ndjenjat reale q\u00eb keni p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb person. Duke qen\u00eb se e d\u00ebshironi kaq shum\u00eb, urojm\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebndrra juaj t\u00eb b\u00ebhet realitet.<\/p>\n

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Shoku i klas\u00ebs<\/strong><\/p>\n

– N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pash\u00eb shokun e klas\u00ebs q\u00eb e kam patur fiksim, sikur ishim n\u00eb rrug\u00eb, un\u00eb isha me ca shoqe, kurse ai, vet\u00ebm. Ai m\u00eb kapte dor\u00ebn dhe m\u00eb thoshte: \u201cMos ik, mos ik, rri me mua. Un\u00eb s\u2019do t\u00eb iki n\u00eb Greqi, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr ty\u201d, kurse un\u00eb ika dhe e lash\u00eb mbrapa at\u00eb. Theksoj q\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr isha shum\u00eb e g\u00ebzuar. Pastaj, ai m\u00eb tha: \u201cA do t\u00eb lidhemi bashk\u00eb?\u201d. Un\u00eb i thash\u00eb: \u201cPo ti, do t\u00eb ik\u00ebsh!\u201d. \u201c5 muaj m\u00eb ke k\u00ebtu\u201d, tha dhe un\u00eb e p\u00ebrqafova. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00cbndrra t\u00eb tilla me fiksime vijn\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb fiksimeve n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale. Ju keni ushqyer p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb ndjenja p\u00ebr t\u00eb, ndaj \u00ebsht\u00eb e pashmangshme t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla. Shpesh, n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, shohim t\u00eb na realizohen ato d\u00ebshisha q\u00eb nuk realizohen n\u00eb realitet. Gjithsesi \u00ebndrra juaj, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, tregon q\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen do t\u00eb takoheni me t\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb takim miq\u00ebsor, apo edhe rast\u00ebsor. Nj\u00eb lloj t\u00ebrheqjeje do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb mes jush, vet\u00ebm se ju duhet t\u00eb jeni v\u00ebmendshme, ndryshe nuk do ta kuptoni. Ju urojm\u00eb fat!<\/p>\n

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Tri unazat<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Para disa dit\u00ebsh, pash\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur m\u00eb jepte mami var\u00ebsen e saj t\u00eb floririt, por n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb e hoqi ajo, u k\u00ebput. Var\u00ebsja kishte qen\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb e k\u00ebputur dhe ajo e kishte lidhur me fill t\u00eb bardh\u00eb. Un\u00eb pastaj mora fillin e bardh\u00eb dhe ia dhash\u00eb kush\u00ebririt q\u00eb ta lidhte. Pas dy dit\u00ebsh, pash\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur ndodhesha te klasa dhe kisha tri unaza n\u00eb gisht, nga gishti i mesit, deri te gishti i vog\u00ebl. Unazat nuk ishin t\u00eb sakta, nj\u00ebra ishte si e ndryshkur, tjetr\u00ebs i kish r\u00ebn\u00eb guri, nd\u00ebrsa tjetr\u00ebn, s\u2019e mbaj mend…<\/strong><\/p>\n

– S\u00eb pari, var\u00ebsja e mamas\u00eb tuaj q\u00eb e ka hequr dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebputur, flet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje familjare n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn jeni p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, por ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht mamaja. Ajo e ka hequr m\u00eb shum\u00eb sikletin dhe, sado q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekur ta rregulloj\u00eb, \u00e7\u00ebshtja p\u00ebrs\u00ebri ngelet n\u00eb fije t\u00eb perit, pra, \u00ebsht\u00eb pezull. Megjithat\u00eb, nj\u00eb nd\u00ebrhyrje, qoft\u00eb edhe k\u00ebshill\u00eb nj\u00eb familjar, do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb rregullohet e gjitha. N\u00eb rastin tuaj, q\u00eb keni par\u00eb tri unaza, \u00ebndrra tregon q\u00eb do t\u00eb keni tri raste q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb njohje personale ose prezantime, ama nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb sakta p\u00ebr ju. Te secila prej tyre, do t\u00eb shikoni ndonj\u00eb t\u00eb met\u00eb, gj\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u2019ju b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb mos merrni vendime p\u00ebr to, sepse do ta shikoni q\u00eb ka di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk shkon. At\u00eb t\u00eb fundit q\u00eb s\u2019e mbani mend, do ta shikoni m\u00eb me holl\u00ebsi dhe do t\u00eb jeni po ju q\u00eb do t\u00eb vendosni se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebni. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Flok\u00eb me thinja – Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr flok\u00ebt e mia me thinja. Dua t\u00eb di kuptimin e k\u00ebsaj \u00ebndrre. Faleminderit. – Flok\u00ebt n\u00eb \u00ebndrra kan\u00eb shum\u00eb kuptime, ndaj do t\u2019ju jap nj\u00eb shpjegim m\u00eb t\u00eb gjer\u00eb p\u00ebr to. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se nj\u00eb grua shikon se po kreh flok\u00ebt dhe ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb bukur, ajo […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4324","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4324","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4324"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4324\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4324"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4324"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4324"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}