Ke b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb njohje t\u00eb re dhe gjith\u00e7ka duket se po shkon mir\u00eb. Mes jush ka mir\u00ebkuptim, joshje dhe pasion, por paralelisht, ekziston edhe nj\u00eb \u201cgjemb\u201d i vog\u00ebl q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndjehesh n\u00eb siklet dhe t\u00eb kesh pasiguri… Njeriu q\u00eb njeh dhe me t\u00eb cilin ke filluar nj\u00eb lidhje, nuk t\u2019i ka shprehur ende hapur mendimet e veta, nuk t\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00ebse do nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme dhe serioze, apo preferon t\u00eb keni nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb lir\u00eb… Para se t\u00eb nxjerr\u00ebsh p\u00ebrfundime t\u00eb nxituara, mjafton t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh se cil\u00ebs shenje horoskopi i p\u00ebrket, q\u00eb t\u00eb kuptosh m\u00eb mir\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb objektivat reale t\u00eb njeriut q\u00eb ke njohur, por edhe si ta menaxhosh m\u00eb mir\u00eb lidhjen me t\u00eb. Mos harro se, shpeshher\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb realitet d\u00ebshirat, nuk ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr mundim, por p\u00ebr zot\u00ebsi!<\/p>\n
SHIGJETARI
\nN\u00ebse pyet ndonj\u00eb Shigjetar: \u201cDometh\u00ebn\u00eb, tani ne quhemi t\u00eb lidhur?\u201d, ka shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb t\u00eb largohet paksa, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb kuptosh se nuk duhet t\u00eb pres\u00ebsh kaq shum\u00eb prej tij. Shigjetari nuk hyn n\u00ebp\u00ebr kall\u00ebpe, do t\u00eb ndjehet i lir\u00eb dhe sigurisht, i p\u00eblqen t\u00eb mos jap\u00eb llogari askund… Shumica e lidhjeve t\u00eb tij fillojn\u00eb me stil t\u00eb lir\u00eb dhe vazhdojn\u00eb me seriozitet, kur ai t\u00eb ket\u00eb rr\u00ebzuar pengesat e mbrojtjes s\u00eb tij. M\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrballur dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb vepruar me k\u00ebt\u00eb njeri \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb mos e marr\u00ebsh shum\u00eb seriozisht, q\u00eb t\u00eb mos kesh shum\u00eb k\u00ebrkesa… Q\u00eb t\u2019i fitosh zemr\u00ebn, mjafton t\u00eb keni s\u00eb bashku nj\u00eb rreth shoq\u00ebror dhe t\u00eb komunikoni sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb.
\nP\u00ebr nj\u00eb lidhje serioze, Shigjetari ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr: Liri, veprim, aventur\u00eb.<\/p>\n
BRICJAPI
\nBricjapi \u00ebsht\u00eb njeri serioz, i p\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm dhe logjik, por kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb medoemos se n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tij k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrhershme! Me siguri, do t\u00eb kesh lexuar se Bricjapi \u00ebsht\u00eb njeri me vlera etike dhe parime, i p\u00eblqen tradita dhe familja, por ajo q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb kesh parasysh \u00ebsht\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb njeri q\u00eb i kushton r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi seksit dhe, q\u00eb t\u00eb lidhet seriozisht, duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb provuar m\u00eb par\u00eb eksperienca t\u00eb ndryshme seksuale (sidomos n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb burr\u00eb!). Pastaj do ta v\u00ebrtetosh se do di\u00e7ka serioze dhe t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme me ty, kur do t\u00eb t\u00eb dedikoj\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb konsiderueshme t\u00eb programit t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tij t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme dhe kur do t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb njoh\u00eb me miqt\u00eb dhe familjen e tij!
\nP\u00ebr nj\u00eb lidhje serioze, Bricjapi ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr: Q\u00ebllime t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta, seriozitet, pozicion t\u00eb mir\u00eb shoq\u00ebror.<\/p>\n
UJORI
\nAsnj\u00eb lidhje nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb detyruese p\u00ebr mikun ton\u00eb Ujor, i cili nuk p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb kategorizoj\u00eb n\u00eb mendjen e tij lidhjet sentimentale n\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme, t\u00eb lira, t\u00eb p\u00ebrhershme apo t\u00eb p\u00ebrkohshme. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i mendimit se lidhjeve t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve nuk u duhen v\u00ebn\u00eb etiketa. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, \u00ebsht\u00eb mjaft liberal, me mendje t\u00eb hapur dhe p\u00ebrparimtare, ndaj shpeshher\u00eb, lidhjet e tij marrin nj\u00eb drejtim jo shum\u00eb serioz, p\u00ebr shkak se atij nuk i p\u00eblqejn\u00eb detyrimet… Q\u00eb t\u00eb shmang\u00ebsh dramat sentimentale, mjafton t\u00eb dish se vepron n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb paparashikuar, pa e menduar gjat\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb, mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb l\u00ebvizje t\u00eb nxituara… N\u00ebse i fiton zemr\u00ebn si njeri, \u00ebsht\u00eb e sigurt\u00eb se p\u00ebrve\u00e7se nj\u00eb partner, do t\u00eb kesh fituar n\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb mik t\u00eb p\u00ebrhersh\u00ebm.
\nP\u00ebr nj\u00eb lidhje serioze, Ujori ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr: Rehati, rinovim, rrezik.<\/p>\n
PESHQIT
\nPeshqit, n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, jan\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhjeje t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme e t\u00eb p\u00ebrhershme dhe nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb prirur p\u00ebr lidhje t\u00eb lira. \u00c7\u00ebshtja \u00ebsht\u00eb se me fjal\u00eb, jemi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, por me vepra, gj\u00ebrat ndryshojn\u00eb… Problemi q\u00ebndron n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb Peshqit imagjinojn\u00eb n\u00eb mendjen e tyre nj\u00eb histori dashurie t\u00eb mrekullueshme dhe romantike, por shpejt, ky romantiz\u00ebm mund t\u00eb largohet dhe t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb te nj\u00eb person tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr vete… Paq\u00ebndrueshmeria erotike \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tipar i tij karakteristik! Kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se nuk ekziston mund\u00ebsia q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb di\u00e7ka m\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme dhe jet\u00ebgjat\u00eb, por, q\u00eb lidhja juaj t\u00eb b\u00ebhet e till\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb ndjenja juaj t\u2019i rezistojn\u00eb koh\u00ebs…
\nP\u00ebr nj\u00eb lidhje serioze, Peshqit ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr: Romanc\u00eb, but\u00ebsi, ndjenj\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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