{"id":4049,"date":"2014-10-10T18:51:34","date_gmt":"2014-10-10T16:51:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=4049"},"modified":"2014-10-10T18:52:43","modified_gmt":"2014-10-10T16:52:43","slug":"a-beson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/10\/a-beson\/","title":{"rendered":"A beson v\u00ebrtet\u00eb?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kur evokojm\u00eb fjal\u00ebn \u201cbesim\u201d, disa mendojn\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebr fen\u00eb, t\u00eb tjer\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb form\u00eb naiviteti, kurse p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, kjo ka lidhje me di\u00e7ka intime, nj\u00eb rravgim shpirt\u00ebror, q\u00eb pasurohet nga eksperienca personale\u2026 Po te ju, \u00e7far\u00eb nocioni zgjon kjo fjal\u00eb? B\u00ebni testin ton\u00eb, p\u00ebr ta kuptuar&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>1. Ju kultivoni \u00e7do dit\u00eb besimin tuaj&#8230;<br \/>\na. N\u00eb realitet<br \/>\nb. N\u00eb Zot<br \/>\nc. N\u00eb vet\u00eb jet\u00ebn<br \/>\nd. N\u00eb nj\u00eb dimension tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n<p>2. N\u00eb syt\u00eb tuaj, nocioni \u201chyjnor\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb:<br \/>\na. Sip\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsor<br \/>\nb. I shenjt\u00eb<br \/>\nc. Personal<br \/>\nd. Transpersonal<\/p>\n<p>3. \u00c7far\u00eb mendoni p\u00ebr qeniet jasht\u00ebtok\u00ebsore:<br \/>\na. Nuk besoni, n\u00ebse nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb provuar<br \/>\nb. Nuk ia keni b\u00ebr\u00eb vetes k\u00ebt\u00eb pyetje<br \/>\nc. Ju i thoni vetes: \u201cPse jo?\u201d<br \/>\nd. Besoni tek ata.<\/p>\n<p>4. T\u00eb besuarit, t\u00eb ndihmon:<br \/>\na. T\u00eb krijosh iluzione<br \/>\nb. T\u00eb respektosh<br \/>\nc. T\u00eb rigjenerohesh<br \/>\nd. T\u00eb largohesh nga realiteti<\/p>\n<p>5. Vendi q\u00eb ju v\u00eb m\u00eb n\u00eb kontakt me besimet tuaja:<br \/>\na. Nj\u00eb bibliotek\u00eb!<br \/>\nb. Nj\u00eb kish\u00eb, xhami&#8230;<br \/>\nc. Hap\u00ebsira juaj e brendshme<br \/>\nd. Nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim yjor<\/p>\n<p>6. Jeta pas vdekjes do t\u00eb jet\u00eb:<br \/>\na. Mbase asgj\u00ebja&#8230;<br \/>\nb. Parajsa apo ferri.<br \/>\nc. Nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim i gjat\u00eb drejt s\u00eb panjohur\u00ebs.<br \/>\nd. M\u00eb e mir\u00eb se k\u00ebtu.<\/p>\n<p>7. Nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb ju pyet se \u201cku mund ta gjej\u00eb Zotin, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin flasin t\u00eb rriturit\u201d. Ju i p\u00ebrgjigjeni:<br \/>\na. N\u00ebp\u00ebr libra<br \/>\nb. N\u00eb qiell<br \/>\nc. N\u00eb nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje<br \/>\nd. Larg prej k\u00ebtej&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>8. Titulli (dhe vet\u00ebm titulli), i filmit q\u00eb flet m\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr besimet tuaja:<br \/>\na. \u00abRast\u00ebsi dhe koin\u00e7idenca\u00bb<br \/>\nb. \u00ab10 urdh\u00ebrat\u00bb<br \/>\nc. \u00abAventura e brendshme\u00bb<br \/>\nd. \u00abTakim n\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb tjet\u00ebr\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>9. Sipas jush, motorri kryesor i besimit \u00ebsht\u00eb:<br \/>\na. Injoranca<br \/>\nb. Besimi<br \/>\nc. Ajo q\u00eb ndjen<br \/>\nd. K\u00ebrkimi i di\u00e7kaje tjet\u00ebr<\/p>\n<p>10. Cili nga k\u00ebta libra do t\u2019i shtohej koleksionit t\u00eb bibliotek\u00ebs suaj:<br \/>\na. \u00abOrigjina e specieve\u00bb, e Darvinit, ose \u00abRelativiteti\u00bb i Ajnshtajnit.<br \/>\nb. Bibla, Kurani, ose Torah (libri i shenj\u00eb hebraik)<br \/>\nc. \u00abAlkimisti\u00bb i Paulo Koelhos, ose \u00abDialog me engj\u00ebllin\u00bb i Gitta Mallasz.<br \/>\nd. \u00abJeta pas jet\u00ebs\u00bb e R. Moody, ose \u00abDimensionet e reja t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjes\u00bb, e S. Grof.<\/p>\n<p>Rezultatet<br \/>\nN\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje a. Ju besoni vet\u00ebm n\u00eb bot\u00ebn reale<br \/>\nNocioni i besimit evokon te ju nj\u00eb univers flu, t\u00eb p\u00ebrb\u00ebr\u00eb nga koncepte t\u00eb larg\u00ebta, ide t\u00eb dyshimta dhe bile, paksa t\u00eb \u00e7mendura! \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb fush\u00eb q\u00eb ju e konsideroni nj\u00eb armik t\u00eb s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs. N\u00eb shpirt, jeni racional. P\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb, universi i besimit nuk ka vend n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj. Ju preferoni m\u00eb shum\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb shkenc\u00ebs, t\u00eb realitetit. Gj\u00ebrat, jan\u00eb ose nuk jan\u00eb, pik\u00eb! Ju vler\u00ebsoni m\u00eb shum\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb dukshme sesa at\u00eb t\u00eb besimit. \u00c7\u2018interes mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb k\u00ebto nocione q\u00eb duken m\u00eb shum\u00eb si paranormale sesa si reale? Ajo q\u00eb ju motivon thell\u00eb n\u00eb shpirt nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb besoni n\u00eb di\u00e7ka, por t\u00eb zbuloni faktet. Ju p\u00eblqen t\u00eb konstatoni, verifikoni, eksperimentoni, t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetoni bindjet tuaja personale. Nuk ju p\u00eblqen t\u2019i lini n\u00eb gjendjen e besimit pasiv, bile kjo ju revolton. Gjithashtu, nuk mund ta kuptoni se si mij\u00ebra njer\u00ebz mund t\u00eb besojn\u00eb n\u00eb fenomene q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb provuar kurr\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, i propagandojn\u00eb ato! P\u00ebr ju, \u201ct\u00eb besosh\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb baraz me \u201ct\u00eb hutohesh\u201d, me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, t\u00eb humbas\u00ebsh kontaktin me realitetin. Si Sh\u00ebn Thomai, ju mund t\u00eb besoni vet\u00ebm po ta prekni me dor\u00eb! Por n\u00ebse do ta b\u00ebnim k\u00ebt\u00eb, nuk do t\u00eb quhej besim, q\u00eb ka pik\u00ebrisht aft\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb mos \u00abverifikohet\u00bb&#8230; Pyeteni veten se pse nuk ju p\u00eblqen t\u00eb besoni: Mbase keni frik\u00eb nga e panjohura? Keni frik\u00eb se do t\u00eb keni t\u00eb b\u00ebni me nj\u00eb dimension q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00ebn tuaj? Megjithat\u00eb, ju duhet ta dini se kan\u00eb qen\u00eb besimi i Galileut apo i Ajnshtajnit q\u00eb e b\u00ebn\u00eb njer\u00ebzimin t\u00eb ec\u00eb p\u00ebrpuara. T\u00eb besosh nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb medoemos t\u00eb besosh n\u00eb nj\u00eb Zot, sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtor i t\u00eb cilit do t\u00eb ishit. Po sikur t\u00eb ishit m\u00eb pak kategorik?!<\/p>\n<p>N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje b. Ju besoni n\u00eb Zot<br \/>\nFjala besim zgjon te ju nj\u00eb univers q\u00eb ka lidhje me fen\u00eb. T\u00eb besosh, sipas jush, \u00ebsht\u00eb para s\u00eb gjithash, t\u00eb besosh n\u00eb nj\u00eb Per\u00ebndi, n\u00eb nj\u00eb qenie superiore q\u00eb, n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre, luan rolin e Babait n\u00eb krye t\u00eb nj\u00eb universi t\u00eb cilin e drejton me ligjet e tij. K\u00ebshtu, ju i bindeni me besim k\u00ebtij ligji qiellor. Aty ju gjeni nj\u00eb kuad\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm dhe mbrojt\u00ebs, nj\u00eb pik\u00eb referimi t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetshme dhe t\u00eb pandryshueshme, q\u00eb ju sjell nj\u00eb lloj sigurie. Kjo ju jep nj\u00eb linj\u00eb q\u00ebndrimi t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuar, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn nuk e nd\u00ebrroni. Besimi te ju \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje trash\u00ebgimie e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt sesa nj\u00eb zgjedhje personale. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb fryt i miliona njer\u00ebzve dhe ka p\u00ebr q\u00ebllim kryesor t\u00eb bashkoj\u00eb njer\u00ebzit. N\u00eb fakt, ky nocion, p\u00ebr ju, rimon me respektin, bashk\u00ebpunimin, devocionin, por nganj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe me ndjenj\u00ebn e fajit, sepse besimet tuaja jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb fusiqshme dhe t\u00eb ngulitura thell\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb pasuri shpirt\u00ebrore q\u00eb duhet nderuar. Duhet, pra, t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e drejt\u00eb, t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuar nga t\u00eb vjetrit, t\u00eb mos i tradhtoni&#8230; Ju nuk dyshoni n\u00eb ato q\u00eb besoni, bile mund t\u2019ua predikoni t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve me zjarr. K\u00ebshtu, p\u00ebr sa koh\u00eb besimi juaj n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb fe \u00abfamiljare\u00bb ju lejon t\u00eb ndjeheni t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur dhe t\u00eb gjeni rrug\u00ebn tuaj, t\u00eb realizoheni n\u00eb harmoni, at\u00ebhere ju p\u00ebrfitoni nga forcat pozitive t\u00eb besimit. Por, kujdes! Ndodh nganj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb trash\u00ebgojm\u00eb fe ose ide shpirt\u00ebrore me t\u00eb cilat ne nuk kemi asgj\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt. Pastaj, besimi b\u00ebn q\u00eb nganj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb ndjeheni n\u00eb faj n\u00eb lidhje me disa situata e disa zgjedhje personale, ashtu si\u00e7 do t\u00eb ndjeheshit p\u00ebrball\u00eb nj\u00eb prindi t\u00eb rrept\u00eb&#8230; K\u00ebshtu, pyeteni veten se cilat jan\u00eb motivimet q\u00eb ju shtyjn\u00eb t\u00eb besoni, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni n\u00ebse ato gjejn\u00eb nj\u00eb jehon\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb brenda jush, ose nuk jan\u00eb ve\u00e7se nj\u00eb seri gj\u00ebrash automatike, reflekse q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb eksploruar kurr\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje c. Ju keni nj\u00eb besim t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm<br \/>\nJu jeni nga ata p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebt fjala besim risjell n\u00eb mendje nj\u00eb univers t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm, personal, k\u00ebt\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb vetes ku ju kultivoni kopshtin tuaj sekret dhe t\u00eb shenjt\u00eb. N\u00eb fakt, lidhja juaj me besimin \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb individuale: B\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb bot\u00eb unike q\u00eb duhet gjetur brenda vetes, nj\u00eb lidhje e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb q\u00eb duhet kultivuar me pjes\u00ebn e shenjt\u00eb, t\u00eb \u00abndritshme\u00bb, q\u00eb gjendet brenda secilit prej nesh. Sa njer\u00ebz ka, po aq ka edhe rrug\u00eb drejt nj\u00eb natyre shpirt\u00ebrore t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb&#8230; N\u00eb fakt, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se feja, p\u00ebr shembull, b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb lloj k\u00ebrkimi shpirt\u00ebror. Ju nuk trash\u00ebgoni gj\u00eb nga nj\u00eb bot\u00eb e p\u00ebrcaktuar, p\u00ebrkundrazi, punoni p\u00ebr ta pasuruar bot\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb brendshme me durim. Ju besoni n\u00eb forcat e jet\u00ebs, dashuris\u00eb, energjive t\u00eb Tok\u00ebs, t\u00eb kat\u00ebr elementeve thelb\u00ebsore, shenjave t\u00eb fatit&#8230; P\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb, ju joshin shum\u00eb filozofit\u00eb q\u00eb flasin p\u00ebr qet\u00ebsin\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore, p\u00ebr rrug\u00ebn q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb, p\u00ebr k\u00ebrkimin e vetvetes, ose t\u00eb qenit zen, si\u00e7 jan\u00eb filozofit\u00eb orientale. Ideja kryesore q\u00eb ju lidhni me fjal\u00ebs \u00abbesim\u00bb \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo lloj lidhjeje q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb krijoni me di\u00e7ka (hyjnore apo jo). Jeni dakord me th\u00ebnien se \u00abt\u00eb besosh do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb kesh nj\u00eb bindje t\u00eb thell\u00eb personale te di\u00e7ka e shenjt\u00eb, te njeriu, me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn duhet krijuar nj\u00eb dialog i brendsh\u00ebm\u00bb. Ju nuk e gjeni veten te festat dhe grumbullimet fetare, ritet etj, me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, n\u00eb gjith\u00eb ato konkretizime t\u00eb besimit q\u00eb, n\u00eb syt\u00eb tuaj, nuk ushqejn\u00eb at\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb vetes suaj q\u00eb ka etje p\u00ebr spiritualitet. K\u00ebshtu, besimet tuaja ndjekin filozofin\u00eb tuaj t\u00eb jet\u00ebs dhe e pasurojn\u00eb at\u00eb&#8230; Vazhdoni pra k\u00ebrkimin tuaj, ashtu si Alkimisti i Paulo Koeljos, sepse ju e dini se \u00abgjith\u00eb universi \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb sh\u00ebrbimin tuaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur unin tuaj t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm&#8230;\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje d. Besimi ju sh\u00ebrben si streh\u00eb<br \/>\nFjala besim ju sjell nd\u00ebrmend nj\u00eb bot\u00eb t\u00eb larg\u00ebt, t\u00eb mrekullueshme, idilike, ku \u00e7do gj\u00eb harmonizohet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrkryer, ku vuajtja nuk ekziston, ku gj\u00ebrat materiale nuk kan\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, nj\u00eb bot\u00eb \u00ebndrrash. Duke u nisur nga konstatimi q\u00eb bota reale \u00ebsht\u00eb para s\u00eb gjithash sinonim i dhimbjeve, luft\u00ebs dhe v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsive, besimet tuaja ju sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb p\u00ebr ta imagjinuar veten n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend ku nuk ekzistojn\u00eb k\u00ebto sprova tok\u00ebsore, nj\u00eb lloj toke e premtuar ku ju do t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb n\u00eb fund i lir\u00eb dhe i lumtur. Shpesh, mundoheni ta arrini k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb dhe zhyteni n\u00eb t\u00eb me an\u00eb t\u00eb eksperiencave t\u00eb ndryshme, si p\u00ebr shembull mistike, paranormale ose transpersonale, si udh\u00ebtimet yjore, dalja nga trupi, k\u00ebrkimi i jet\u00ebve t\u00eb m\u00ebparshme, etj. Realiteti n\u00eb syt\u00eb tuaj \u00ebsht\u00eb gjetk\u00eb dhe shpesh, n\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtim me bot\u00ebn reale. Besimi k\u00ebtu \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb port\u00eb e hapur p\u00ebr t\u2019iu larguar realitetit, por gjithashtu, nj\u00eb streh\u00eb. N\u00eb fakt, ju nuk doni t\u00eb b\u00ebheni hyjnor, ose t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni hyjnoren n\u00eb gj\u00ebrat dhe qeniet q\u00eb ju rrethojn\u00eb. Ka nj\u00eb ndarje t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuar mir\u00eb mes bot\u00ebs reale dhe k\u00ebsaj bote ku ju besoni. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, bile, \u00ebnd\u00ebrroni t\u00eb kaloni n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, aq t\u00eb p\u00ebrkryer e tregojn\u00eb bot\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr besimet tuaja. Por, a nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ky nj\u00eb largim nga parimet e vet\u00eb jet\u00ebs? Mos ndoshta ju nuk arrini t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetoni frytet pozitive dhe konstruktive t\u00eb jet\u00ebs tok\u00ebsore, konkrete? T\u00eb besosh, nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb injorosh dhe t\u00eb mos shoh\u00ebsh, p\u00ebrkundrazi, t\u00eb hap\u00ebsh mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb reja n\u00eb vetvete dhe t\u00eb pasurosh k\u00ebshtu ekzistenc\u00ebn t\u00ebnde&#8230; Kini kujdes q\u00eb besimet tuaja t\u00eb mos ju shk\u00ebpusin nga jeta (kujdes, sidomos ndaj sekteve dhe pseudo-premtimeve t\u00eb tyre), por p\u00ebrkundrazi, ju ndihmojn\u00eb t\u00eb realizoheni plot\u00ebsisht&#8230; tani!<\/p>\n<p>Blerta<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kur evokojm\u00eb fjal\u00ebn \u201cbesim\u201d, disa mendojn\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebr fen\u00eb, t\u00eb tjer\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb form\u00eb naiviteti, kurse p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, kjo ka lidhje me di\u00e7ka intime, nj\u00eb rravgim shpirt\u00ebror, q\u00eb pasurohet nga eksperienca personale\u2026 Po te ju, \u00e7far\u00eb nocioni zgjon kjo fjal\u00eb? B\u00ebni testin ton\u00eb, p\u00ebr ta kuptuar&#8230; 1. Ju kultivoni \u00e7do [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4049","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-test"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4049","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4049"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4049\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4049"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4049"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4049"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}