{"id":3972,"date":"2014-10-09T11:15:39","date_gmt":"2014-10-09T11:15:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=3972"},"modified":"2014-10-09T11:15:39","modified_gmt":"2014-10-09T11:15:39","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-7","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/10\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-7\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja…"},"content":{"rendered":"

M\u00eb vodhi lek\u00ebt<\/strong><\/p>\n

– N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr kam par\u00eb sikur nj\u00eb shoku im m\u00eb vodhi disa lek\u00eb. Nuk e mbaj mend shum\u00ebn, sepse ishte \u00e7\u00ebshtje sekondash. Ai ma hodhi nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb po diskutonim p\u00ebr disa blerje q\u00eb kishim b\u00ebr\u00eb bashk\u00eb. Kur e kuptova, un\u00eb i shkova nga mbrapa duke i k\u00ebrkuar llogari. \u00c7far\u00eb parashikon, ju lutem?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kur t\u00eb vjedhin di\u00e7ka n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes n\u00eb zgjedhjet q\u00eb b\u00ebni n\u00eb jet\u00eb, sidomos n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen. \u00cbndrra parashikon gjithashtu shqet\u00ebsime t\u00eb vogla q\u00eb do t\u2019ju b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb ndiheni pak t\u00eb plog\u00ebsht dhe pa energji. Zgjidhjen duhet ta k\u00ebrkoni brenda jush dhe jo duke akuzuar ata q\u00eb ju rrethojn\u00eb. N\u00eb fund, ju keni vrapuar pas shokut duke i k\u00ebrkuar llogari dhe kjo ka lidhje me at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ju thash\u00eb pak m\u00eb sip\u00ebr: K\u00ebrkojini llogari vetes nj\u00eb her\u00eb e pastaj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.<\/p>\n

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Ish-shoku im<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kur shikon n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nj\u00eb-ish shok? Pash\u00eb nj\u00eb ish-shokun tim dhe i thash\u00eb: \u201cHajde t\u00eb luajm\u00eb basketboll\u201d. Ne po luanim e po qeshja me t\u00eb duke harruar gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ka ndodhur mes nesh. Pres p\u00ebrgjigje. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– <\/strong>\u00cbndrrat duke luajtur me top, tregojn\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00ebn tuaj q\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka t\u2019ju shkoj\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe leht\u00eb. \u00cbndrra tregon po k\u00ebshtu d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr ta falur k\u00ebt\u00eb person, por nuk ju jepet mund\u00ebsia p\u00ebr momentin. Po k\u00ebshtu, parashikon q\u00eb ju tashm\u00eb jeni pjekur dhe do t\u00eb mateni m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen n\u00eb zgjedhjen e shok\u00ebve.<\/p>\n

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Tre zogj t\u00eb ngrir\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr shum\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme: Ishin tre zogj q\u00eb kishin ndaluar te dritarja ime, por nuk l\u00ebviznin fare. I kishin krah\u00ebt t\u00eb hapur sikur donin t\u00eb fluturonin, por ishin t\u00eb ngrir\u00eb. Nj\u00ebri l\u00ebvizte vet\u00ebm syt\u00eb. \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, se m\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb merak? <\/strong><\/p>\n

– <\/strong>Zogjt\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebn tuaj parashikon planet tuaja dhe shpresat p\u00ebr t\u2019i realizuar ato, ama fakti q\u00eb i keni par\u00eb t\u00eb ngrir\u00eb, t\u00eb pal\u00ebvizsh\u00ebm, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebto plane i keni vet\u00ebm n\u00eb mendje, sepse s\u2019keni b\u00ebr\u00eb asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Ndiheni pak i \u00e7orientuar n\u00eb lidhje me jet\u00ebn tuaj n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, sepse d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb realizoni shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra, ama nuk punoni fare p\u00ebr to. Mos vall\u00eb ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mesazh shum\u00eb i qart\u00eb p\u00ebr ju, q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb l\u00ebvizni e t\u00eb veproni n\u00ebse d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb arrini di\u00e7ka n\u00eb jet\u00eb?<\/p>\n

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M\u00eb donte p\u00ebr nuse<\/strong><\/p>\n

– N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pash\u00eb sikur djali q\u00eb p\u00eblqej n\u00eb realitet, m\u00eb tha: \u201cDo t\u00eb vij t\u00eb flas me familjen t\u00ebnde sepse dua t\u00eb krijoj familje me ty\u201d. M\u00eb pas m\u00eb tha: \u201cDua t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb, se nuk m\u00eb mjafton vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb\u201d. Un\u00eb, e habitur, i them: \u201cPo prit se nuk b\u00ebhet bebi kaq shpejt, duhen muaj, ndoshta edhe vite\u201d. Jam kurioze t\u00eb di, \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? <\/strong><\/p>\n

– <\/strong>Duke qen\u00eb se shpreheni se \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht djali q\u00eb p\u00eblqeni, kjo m\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb mendoj se nuk jeni e lidhur! At\u00ebhere, nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb tregon d\u00ebshiren tuaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb me k\u00ebt\u00eb djal\u00eb. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen tuaj, ju e \u00ebnd\u00ebrroni me t\u00eb. Planifikimi p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb nga ana e tij, tregon q\u00eb di\u00e7ka do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb midis jush n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen, ndoshta afrohet m\u00eb shum\u00eb me ju p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb lidhje sepse plani p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb, tregon nj\u00eb faz\u00eb t\u00eb re n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj. Uroj t\u2019ju realizohet d\u00ebshira q\u00eb keni!<\/p>\n

Donte t\u00eb b\u00ebnte dashuri me gjyshin<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb shoqen time t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb sikur m\u00eb thoshte: \u201cDua t\u00eb b\u00ebj dashuri me gjyshin t\u00ebnd\u201d. Un\u00eb, e shokuar, i thash\u00eb: \u201cPo ai ka vdekur moj, pastaj ti, me gjyshin tim?!\u201d. Kaq mbaj mend. \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– D\u00ebshira e shoqes tuaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb dashuri me gjyshin tuaj, tregon karakterin tuaj delikat, q\u00eb ndikohet shum\u00eb leht\u00eb nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe faktin q\u00eb ju shokoheni shum\u00eb leht\u00eb. Nuk duhet t\u00eb besoni gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju thuhet apo ju paraqitet. \u00cbndrra s\u2019ka lidhje me shoqen tuaj, por me ju personalisht. P\u00ebrmendja e gjyshit t\u00eb vdekur, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson at\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb karakterit tuaj q\u00eb krijon var\u00ebsi ndaj \u00e7do gj\u00ebje q\u00eb ju paraqitet si e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. P\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb besoni totalisht, analizojini gj\u00ebrat dhe logjikoni.<\/p>\n

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Flok\u00ebt dhe pasqyra<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jesh para pasqyr\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb pres\u00ebsh flok\u00ebt? Pastaj, nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqeu aspak vetja… <\/strong><\/p>\n

– <\/strong>Flok\u00ebt, p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht, kan\u00eb lidhje me vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimin, por ka raste q\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb sh\u00ebndetin dhe sikletet e kaluara. Pamja n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb lidhet me mendimet tuaja, q\u00ebndrimet q\u00eb keni ndaj vetes dhe ndaj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Prerja e flok\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb heqje sikleti, q\u00eb do ta kaloni k\u00ebto dit\u00eb, ose q\u00eb e keni kaluar tashm\u00eb. Duhet t\u00eb eleminoni mendimet negative q\u00eb keni p\u00ebr veten.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

M\u00eb vodhi lek\u00ebt – N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr kam par\u00eb sikur nj\u00eb shoku im m\u00eb vodhi disa lek\u00eb. Nuk e mbaj mend shum\u00ebn, sepse ishte \u00e7\u00ebshtje sekondash. Ai ma hodhi nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb po diskutonim p\u00ebr disa blerje q\u00eb kishim b\u00ebr\u00eb bashk\u00eb. Kur e kuptova, un\u00eb i shkova nga mbrapa duke i k\u00ebrkuar llogari. \u00c7far\u00eb parashikon, ju lutem? […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3972","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3972","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3972"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3972\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3972"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3972"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3972"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}