{"id":3906,"date":"2014-10-08T09:59:34","date_gmt":"2014-10-08T09:59:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=3906"},"modified":"2014-10-08T09:59:34","modified_gmt":"2014-10-08T09:59:34","slug":"morena-dyli-paraja-te-ben-te-lumtur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/10\/morena-dyli-paraja-te-ben-te-lumtur\/","title":{"rendered":"Morena Dyli: Paraja t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb lumtur!"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Morena<\/a>– Kush \u00ebsht\u00eb Morena p\u00ebrtej muzik\u00ebs?
\n– Un\u00eb sapo kam mbaruar studimet p\u00ebr Gjeografi dhe praktik\u00ebn time m\u00ebsimore e kam b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb nga gjimnazet e Tiran\u00ebs. Ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb eksperienc\u00eb shum\u00eb e bukur p\u00ebr mua, jam afeksionuar shum\u00eb pas nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve dhe ata do t\u00eb mbeten gjithmon\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit e mi, t\u00eb par\u00ebt q\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb quajtur \u201czysh\u00eb\u201d. Dua t\u00eb p\u00ebrmend nj\u00eb situat\u00eb t\u00eb lezetshme, kur n\u00eb nj\u00eb or\u00eb m\u00ebsimi isha duke shpjeguar dhe nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment vendos\u00ebn muzik\u00eb n\u00eb telefon. Un\u00eb, gjith\u00eb seriozitet, u thash\u00eb ta fiknin, por pastaj kuptova q\u00eb ishte k\u00ebnga ime… Filluam t\u00eb qeshnim t\u00eb gjith\u00eb dhe ata m\u00eb than\u00eb: \u201cT\u00eb zbuluam, zyshe\u201d sepse e kishin t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebnin lidhjen e imazhit q\u00eb paraqitej n\u00eb televizion me at\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb isha n\u00eb realitet, ndon\u00ebse jam munduar q\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do dalje timen t\u00eb mos ndryshoj shum\u00eb.
\n– P\u00ebr k\u00eb b\u00ebn muzik\u00eb, kush t\u00eb frym\u00ebzon dhe kush e d\u00ebgjon muzik\u00ebn t\u00ebnde?
\n– Un\u00eb jam munduar dhe po mundohem t\u00eb b\u00ebj muzik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqehet nga masa, kryesisht, nga mosha e re, edhe pse m\u00eb von\u00eb nuk i dihet, ndoshta edhe p\u00ebr mosha m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha. Mendoj se muzika e bukur, skenat e m\u00ebdha e magjia e tyre, m\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdoj t\u00eb besoj n\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebn time… S\u2019e di akoma kush \u00ebsht\u00eb fans i muzik\u00ebs sime dhe mendoj se duhet koh\u00eb p\u00ebr ta krijuar… Do t\u00eb ta them kur ta kem nj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb. (Buz\u00ebqesh)
\n– Pse t\u00eb shohim kaq rrall\u00eb n\u00eb sken\u00eb?
\n– Fatkeq\u00ebsisht, disa projekte t\u00eb miat nuk jan\u00eb realizuar p\u00ebr arsye t\u00eb ndryshme…
\n– Shpesh, themi: \u201cDo t\u00eb isha e gatshme t\u00eb vdisja p\u00ebr\u2026\u201d. P\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb ose p\u00ebr k\u00eb do t\u00eb ishe e gatshme ti \u201ct\u00eb vdisje\u201d?
\n– Do t\u00eb jepja jet\u00ebn p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit e mi, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr ata. Motrat t\u00eb mos b\u00ebhen xheloze… (Buz\u00ebqesh)
\n– Deri tani t\u00eb kemi par\u00eb vet\u00ebm solo. Do t\u00eb t\u00eb shohim n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunim n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen?
\n– Un\u00eb i kam shum\u00eb qejf bashk\u00ebpunimet dhe mund\u00ebsin\u00eb e par\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb m\u00eb dal\u00eb, do ta shfryt\u00ebzoj.
\n– P\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunim? P\u00ebr kompromis, ndoshta?
\n– Besoj se kompromisi nuk ka lidhje, sidomos kur lind natyrsh\u00ebm. Sigurisht, n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve b\u00ebhen p\u00ebr kompromis, p\u00ebr p\u00ebrfitim t\u00eb nd\u00ebrsjellt\u00eb n\u00eb shum\u00eb aspekte.
\n– Cila \u00ebsht\u00eb e ve\u00e7anta jote n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb treg t\u00eb tejmbushur me k\u00ebng\u00ebtare t\u00eb bukura?
\n– Ti duhet t\u00eb thoshe “me k\u00ebng\u00ebtare me z\u00eb t\u00eb bukur” sepse un\u00eb p\u00ebrmes z\u00ebrit, ve\u00e7antis\u00eb s\u00eb tij, dua t\u00eb identifikohem.<\/p>\n

M\u00eb af\u00ebr me Moren\u00ebn
\n– Sipas teje, ekziston lumturia absolute?
\n– N\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb absolute, mendoj q\u00eb nuk ekziston! Ma ke b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pyetje n\u00eb momentin m\u00eb t\u00eb keq, kur po e shoh lumturin\u00eb pak t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr ta arritur. \u00c7\u00ebshtje personale!
\n– \u00c7far\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb kishe falur kurr\u00eb?
\n– Nuk do t\u2019ia falur kurr\u00eb vetes t\u00eb b\u00ebja kompromis me veten p\u00ebr sukses.
\n– B\u00ebn pun\u00eb sht\u00ebpie? Cil\u00ebn prej tyre nuk di ta b\u00ebsh fare?
\n– Un\u00eb, prej shum\u00eb vitesh jetoj larg familjes dhe, sigurisht q\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb e b\u00ebj vet\u00eb, vet\u00ebm se vazhdoj t\u00eb \u00e7aloj pak te pjesa e gatimit.
\n– P\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb ke nevoj\u00eb tani?
\n– Ai q\u00eb do t\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebnte t\u00eb ndihesha mir\u00eb tani \u00ebsht\u00eb suksesi i k\u00ebng\u00ebs q\u00eb sapo kam prezantuar.
\n– Cilat gabime nuk i toleron?
\n– G\u00ebnjeshtrat nuk i kam p\u00eblqyer asnj\u00ebher\u00eb, por jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb ku na duhet t\u2019i tolerojm\u00eb edhe k\u00ebto, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbijetuar.
\n– \u00c7far\u00eb ta kujton f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb, nj\u00eb ngjarje, nj\u00eb foto, nj\u00eb k\u00ebng\u00eb?
\n– T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto, madje edhe filmat. Ah, \u00e7far\u00eb ndjesie \u00ebsht\u00eb! Sa mir\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte t\u00eb isha edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb! Kur je i vog\u00ebl, mezi pret t\u00eb rritesh dhe m\u00eb pas kupton q\u00eb ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb mosha m\u00eb e bukur, m\u00eb e pafajshme.
\n– M\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi ka nga vijm\u00eb apo ku shkojm\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb?
\n– \u00c7do destinacion e ka nj\u00eb start. P\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar diku, duhet t\u00eb nisemi nga diku.
\n– Kujt ke patur d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u2019i ngjash kur ke qen\u00eb e vog\u00ebl?
\n– Nuk m\u00eb kujtohet kujt, ose m\u00eb sakt\u00eb, nuk kam patur dik\u00eb si i cili kam dashur t\u00eb jem, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 faktit q\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb kam dashur t\u2019i kem syt\u00eb jeshil\u00eb si t\u00eb mamit… Ende shpresoj t\u00eb m\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb ngjyra! (Qesh)
\n– Defekti yt kryesor…
\n– Kam shum\u00eb; nuk po i them m\u00eb mir\u00eb.
\n– Sa ka qen\u00eb koha m\u00eb e gjat\u00eb q\u00eb ke q\u00ebndruar pa telefon?
\n– Nuk kam ndenjur asnj\u00ebher\u00eb pa telefon, q\u00eb n\u00eb momentin e par\u00eb q\u00eb e kam marr\u00eb. M\u00eb mir\u00eb pa shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera, sesa pa telefon. Nuk do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebja asgj\u00eb pa t\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Morena dhe paraja
\n– Kur i ke fituar parat\u00eb e para dhe, p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb i ke shpenzuar ato?
\n– I kam fituar kur kam qen\u00eb 16 vje\u00e7e, n\u00eb nj\u00eb koncert n\u00eb Berat. Mbaj mend q\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb ia kam dh\u00ebn\u00eb mamit dhe, me pjes\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, kam bler\u00eb di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr vete.
\n– Kur ishe f\u00ebmij\u00eb, ke marr\u00eb di\u00e7ka n\u00eb dyqan pa e paguar? N\u00ebse po, \u00e7far\u00eb ke marr\u00eb?
\n– Jo, nuk kam marr\u00eb sepse dikur familja ime ka patur nj\u00eb dyqan dhe nuk m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dashur t’i marr fshehurazi diku tjet\u00ebr… K\u00ebt\u00eb e b\u00ebja n\u00eb dyqanin tim, fshehurazi mamit. (Qesh)
\n– Je e pavarur financiarisht nga familja?
\n– Sigurisht q\u00eb po!
\n– Sa \u00ebsht\u00eb shuma e parave q\u00eb ke n\u00eb gjendje n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb moment?
\n– S\u2019m\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u2019i b\u00ebj publike k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra sepse mendoj se jan\u00eb shum\u00eb personale.
\n– Ka patur rast kur ke mbetur pa asnj\u00eb lek n\u00eb xhep?
\n– Po, dhe m\u00eb ka sh\u00ebrbyer p\u00ebr t\u00eb vler\u00ebsuar paran\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr ta fituar at\u00eb.
\n– A jep para kur t\u00eb afrohen ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb?
\n– Dikur kam dh\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa tani, m\u00eb pak. S\u2019e di, ndoshta ngaq\u00eb i ndesh \u00e7do dit\u00eb, n\u00eb \u00e7do vend dhe nuk mund ta b\u00ebj k\u00ebt\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb.
\n– Po borxhe, miqve?
\n– Po, e kam b\u00ebr\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb dhe do ta b\u00ebj kur t\u00eb kem mund\u00ebsi.
\n– Do t\u00eb ishte m\u00eb keq t\u00eb humbisje parat\u00eb apo koh\u00ebn?
\n– Me koh\u00ebn mund ta fitosh paran\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa me paran\u00eb, e shpenzon koh\u00ebn si do t\u00eb doje, por kurrsesi nuk mund ta kthesh m\u00eb mbrapa.
\n– \u00c7far\u00eb k\u00ebshillash t\u00eb kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb prind\u00ebrit n\u00eb lidhje me paran\u00eb?
\n– Eh, k\u00ebshillat kan\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb indirekte… Duke par\u00eb se sa punojn\u00eb ata, kuptoj q\u00eb pa pun\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb kesh para dhe pa nj\u00eb menaxhim t\u00eb mir\u00eb, ato para nuk do t\u00eb zgjasin p\u00ebr shum\u00eb koh\u00eb.
\n– E b\u00ebn paraja lumturin\u00eb apo lumturia paran\u00eb?
\n– Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pyetje q\u00eb b\u00ebhet shpesh dhe, t\u00eb tregohem e sinqert\u00eb, sigurisht q\u00eb paraja t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb lumtur, por ajo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja kryesore p\u00ebr lumturin\u00eb. Si mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb i lumtur dikush q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb siguroj\u00eb nevojat baz\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos folur edhe p\u00ebr d\u00ebshirat q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb njeriu?!
\n– Si do t\u00eb ishte jeta pa paran\u00eb?
\n– Si jeta e shumic\u00ebs s\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebve!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– Kush \u00ebsht\u00eb Morena p\u00ebrtej muzik\u00ebs? – Un\u00eb sapo kam mbaruar studimet p\u00ebr Gjeografi dhe praktik\u00ebn time m\u00ebsimore e kam b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb nga gjimnazet e Tiran\u00ebs. Ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb eksperienc\u00eb shum\u00eb e bukur p\u00ebr mua, jam afeksionuar shum\u00eb pas nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve dhe ata do t\u00eb mbeten gjithmon\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit e mi, t\u00eb par\u00ebt q\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3906","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-muzike"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3906","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3906"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3906\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3906"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3906"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3906"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}