{"id":3788,"date":"2014-10-08T15:47:23","date_gmt":"2014-10-08T15:47:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=3788"},"modified":"2014-10-08T15:47:23","modified_gmt":"2014-10-08T15:47:23","slug":"pyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-6","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/10\/pyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-6\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyetje-p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr seksin…"},"content":{"rendered":"

– Jam e lidhur me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb prej nj\u00eb viti tashm\u00eb. Problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb se kur b\u00ebj marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale me t\u00eb, ai ndjen shum\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb nuk ndjej asgj\u00eb. Jam shum\u00eb e m\u00ebrzitur, sepse un\u00eb e dashuroj, por nuk ndjej at\u00eb q\u00eb ndjejn\u00eb femrat e tjera. A ndikon mosha te marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale? Un\u00eb jam 21 vje\u00e7e dhe ky \u00ebsht\u00eb mashkulli i par\u00eb p\u00ebr mua. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Nuk duhet t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni, sepse ka shum\u00eb vajza apo gra q\u00eb nuk e arrijn\u00eb dot orgazm\u00ebn q\u00eb n\u00eb fillimet e tyre. Aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr q\u00eb p\u00ebr ju ky \u00ebsht\u00eb mashkulli i par\u00eb me t\u00eb cilin kryeni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale. Ju duhet t\u2019i k\u00ebrkoni ndihm\u00eb edhe t\u00eb dashurit tuaj, duke ia shpjeguar gjendjen tuaj. Lexoni m\u00eb shum\u00eb rreth arritjes s\u00eb orgazm\u00ebs, ose thjesht bisedoni me t\u00eb dashurin hapur fare. Nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb njohur trupin tuaj dhe pikat tuaja t\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb masturboheni. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, do t\u00eb zbuloni se ku ndjeni m\u00eb shum\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u2019ia tregoni edhe t\u00eb dashurit tuaj. \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm komunikimi i hapur me partnerin. Ama, mos harroni se k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia seksuale me kalimin e koh\u00ebs vjen e shtohet dhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohen, sepse eksperienca b\u00ebn pun\u00ebn e vet.<\/p>\n

– Un\u00eb me tim shoq k\u00ebnaqem vet\u00ebm 10 minutat e para, m\u00eb pas m\u00eb neveritet dhe nuk b\u00ebj dot seks. S\u2019e kuptoj ku q\u00ebndron problemi tek un\u00eb dhe nuk di si t\u00eb veproj. N\u00eb fakt, v\u00eb re q\u00eb kur arrij orgazm\u00ebn, ndjej nj\u00eb dhimbje n\u00eb fund t\u00eb barkut dhe s\u2019dua t\u00eb kem m\u00eb kontakt. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Nuk e di mosh\u00ebn tuaj, por me t\u00eb dh\u00ebnat q\u00eb shkruani, m\u00eb b\u00ebni t\u00eb mendoj q\u00eb mund t\u00eb keni ose ndonj\u00eb infeksion, ose ngecje psikologjike. Nj\u00eb femre, zakonisht, i duhen m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 10 minuta p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm, por ka edhe p\u00ebrjashtime. S\u00eb pari, do t\u2019ju k\u00ebshilloja nj\u00eb vizit\u00eb gjinekologjike p\u00ebr dhimbjen n\u00eb fund t\u00eb barkut dhe m\u00eb pas mund t\u00eb konsultoheni edhe me bashk\u00ebshortin p\u00ebr pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb keni. Neveritja q\u00eb ndjeni ndaj tij nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb normale. Ndoshta arsyen brenda jush e dini vet\u00ebm ju dhe askush tjet\u00ebr. Ju e dini m\u00eb mir\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb jua shkakton k\u00ebt\u00eb neveritje. Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia seksuale, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr me at\u00eb q\u00eb do, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi dhe nuk mund t\u00eb t\u00eb neveritet kur ka ndjenja dhe t\u00ebrheqje nga t\u00eb dyja pal\u00ebt. Gjithsesi, vizit\u00ebn te gjinekologu mos e lini pas dore.<\/p>\n

– E dashura m\u00eb refuzon n\u00eb seks dhe kjo m\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb dyshoj se m\u00eb tradhton. Ju, si mendoni?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– S\u00eb pari, nuk di asgj\u00eb rreth jush q\u00eb t\u00eb mendoj n\u00ebse hyn tradhtia n\u00eb mes apo jo. Nj\u00eb arsye duhet t\u2019jua jap\u00eb e dashura, se pse nuk pranon t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb seks me ju. Flisni hapur me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn dhe mos ia impononi d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr seks, por l\u00ebrini gj\u00ebrat t\u00eb vijn\u00eb natyrsh\u00ebm dhe me d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e saj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– Jam e lidhur me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb prej nj\u00eb viti tashm\u00eb. Problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb se kur b\u00ebj marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale me t\u00eb, ai ndjen shum\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb nuk ndjej asgj\u00eb. Jam shum\u00eb e m\u00ebrzitur, sepse un\u00eb e dashuroj, por nuk ndjej at\u00eb q\u00eb ndjejn\u00eb femrat e tjera. A ndikon mosha te marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale? Un\u00eb jam 21 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[88],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3788","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-seksologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3788","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3788"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3788\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3788"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3788"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3788"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}