{"id":3786,"date":"2014-10-03T15:23:42","date_gmt":"2014-10-03T15:23:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=3786"},"modified":"2014-10-03T15:23:42","modified_gmt":"2014-10-03T15:23:42","slug":"per-cfare-perdoret-hipnoza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/10\/per-cfare-perdoret-hipnoza\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb p\u00ebrdoret hipnoza?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>&#8211; I nderuar profesor Demiri. M\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb student nga Kor\u00e7a se \u00ebsht\u00eb sh\u00ebruar me hipnoz\u00eb, duke e v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb gjum\u00eb dhe ai ka par\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb e tij si n\u00eb nj\u00eb film. Pastaj \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjuar duke qar\u00eb, krejt i \u00e7liruar. Nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr m\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se ka qen\u00eb te ju p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb duhanin se kishte arritur t\u00eb pinte deri n\u00eb 3-4 paketa n\u00eb dit\u00eb dhe, me an\u00eb t\u00eb hipnoz\u00ebs, e keni ndihmuar t\u00eb linte. Jam shum\u00eb kureshtar t\u00eb di se si dhe, p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb p\u00ebrdoret hipnoza? Ju lutem ma shpjegoni. Eranda LB. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Dr. Jashar Demiri, psikolog klinicist:<\/em><\/strong> &#8211; E nderuar let\u00ebrshkruese, un\u00eb e kam p\u00ebrdorur hipnoz\u00ebn n\u00eb mjaft raste me shum\u00eb sukses: At\u00eb lloj hipnoze e cila quhet hipnoterapi, pasi shumica e njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr psikoterapi e psikoanaliz\u00eb, reagojn\u00eb edhe ndaj hipnoz\u00ebs. Rreth kat\u00ebr t\u00eb pestat e k\u00ebtyre klient\u00ebve jan\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb t\u00eb hyjn\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje \u201ctrance\u201d t\u00eb nivelit mesatar, kurse nj\u00eb e pesta e tyre, futen edhe m\u00eb thell\u00eb. Fjala \u201ctrance\u201d vjen nga anglishtja dhe do t\u00eb thot\u00eb: Gjendje psikofiziologjike e ngjashme me hipnoz\u00ebn, por e vet\u00ebstimuluar, n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn hyjn\u00eb persona nd\u00ebrmjet\u00ebs, pra, tip mediumi. Ajo ka efekt m\u00eb t\u00eb madh tek ata persona q\u00eb kan\u00eb dhunti ose nj\u00eb ndjeshm\u00ebri t\u00eb pazakont\u00eb&#8230; Kur personi hyn n\u00eb gjendje \u201ctrance\u201d, pulsi dhe frym\u00ebmarrja ngadal\u00ebsohen, ai p\u00ebson nj\u00eb lloj \u201canestezie\u201d dhe ka shtim t\u00eb l\u00ebngjeve n\u00eb trup. K\u00ebto efekte q\u00eb sjell hipnoza, u atribuohen m\u00eb shum\u00eb disa ndryshimeve biokimike q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb prodhoj\u00eb kjo lloj terapie. Me pak fjal\u00eb, n\u00eb organiz\u00ebm prodhohen ato lloj substancash t\u00eb cilat kan\u00eb mjaft efekte sh\u00ebruese ndaj dhimbjeve fizike e psikologjike. Hipnoz\u00ebn e p\u00ebrdorim edhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb kujtuar gj\u00ebra t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb jan\u00eb mbuluar nga pluhuri i harres\u00ebs. Dihet se v\u00ebrtet koha i sh\u00ebron \u201cplag\u00ebt\u201d, por ajo mbulon edhe me pluhurin e harres\u00ebs. Ime shoqe \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshmitare se si e kam b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb flas\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb q\u00eb i kishte ikur e folura prej vitesh aq sa grat\u00eb aty pas deres shp\u00ebrthyen me ul\u00ebrima g\u00ebzimi drith\u00ebruese kur d\u00ebgjuan se djali i tyre adoleshent filloi t\u00eb fliste pas disa vitesh \u201cbllokimi\u201d p\u00ebr shkaqe nervore, si rezultat i nj\u00eb traume t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb t\u00eb harruar. Po ashtu, nj\u00eb grua e vjet\u00ebr, me an\u00eb t\u00eb hipnoz\u00ebs, m\u00eb n\u00eb fund u kujtua e na tregoi se ku e kishte fshehur nj\u00eb tapi t\u00eb koh\u00ebs s\u00eb Zogut, (brenda tubit t\u00eb nj\u00eb krevati prej hekuri), por q\u00eb e kishte harruar dhe po t\u00eb mos gjendej ajo tapi, si i vetmi dokument, do t\u00eb humbiste nj\u00eb pron\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7muar. Me an\u00eb t\u00eb hipnoz\u00ebs, p\u00ebr shembull, u zbulua se p\u00ebrse nj\u00eb vajze i shfaqej si \u201chije\u201d nj\u00eb grua me sy t\u00eb bukur q\u00eb e donte shum\u00eb dhe doli se ajo kishte qen\u00eb n\u00ebna e vet biologjike. K\u00ebshtu, ajo kuptoi edhe arsyen se pse nuk e donte njerk\u00ebn, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ia kishin paraqitur si n\u00ebn\u00eb biologjike. E r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast \u00ebsht\u00eb se u kuptua se nuk kishim t\u00eb b\u00ebnim me skizofreni (halu\u00e7inacione pamore), por me nj\u00eb ngjarje t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb regjistruar e m\u00eb pas harruar, nga truri i vajz\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Pas k\u00ebtij \u201czbulimi\u201d t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm, vet\u00eb psikiatr\u00ebt ia hoqen asaj ila\u00e7et q\u00eb i kishin dh\u00ebn\u00eb, duke e quajtur si t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb psikike. Me an\u00eb t\u00eb hipnoz\u00ebs, kam hequr homofobit\u00eb e krijuara nga ngjarjet apo loj\u00ebrat seksuale t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb. Dikur, kur kan\u00eb luajtur si t\u00eb \u201cpafajsh\u00ebm\u201d, ata jan\u00eb rrahuar apo turp\u00ebruar nga t\u00eb rriturit, gj\u00eb q\u00eb u ka shkaktuar atyre trauma t\u00eb r\u00ebnda, porse t\u00eb mbuluara nga pluhuri i harres\u00ebs. I kam hequr nj\u00eb djali me hipnoz\u00eb impotenc\u00ebn psikologjike dhe frik\u00ebn nga seksi. Po ashtu, edhe urrejtjen e pakuptimt\u00eb ndaj babait, kur zbulova se n\u00eb foshnjeri ai kishte par\u00eb prind\u00ebrit duke b\u00ebr\u00eb seks dhe donte t\u00eb \u201cb\u00ebnte\u201d me mamin si\u00e7 kishte par\u00eb babain, nd\u00ebrsa i ati e kishte k\u00ebrc\u00ebnuar me prerje t\u00eb organit!<\/p>\n<p>Hipnoza p\u00ebrdoret edhe n\u00eb trajtimin e depresionit si terapi mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebse dhe ndihm\u00ebse. \u00c7do seanc\u00eb hipnoze p\u00ebrmir\u00ebson tonin e humorit dhe jep gjithashtu ndjesi t\u00eb bukura qet\u00ebsie dhe energjie. Efekt t\u00eb bukur krijon hipnoza edhe ndaj shqet\u00ebsimeve t\u00eb gjumit q\u00eb shpesh sjellin gjendje depresive. N\u00ebse depresioni mund t\u00eb fshihet pas euforis\u00eb, at\u00ebhere hipnoza b\u00ebn q\u00eb i s\u00ebmuri jo vet\u00ebm t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsohet, por kjo edhe e mund\u00ebson pacientin q\u00eb ta nxjerr\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb melankolin\u00eb e tij dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebto raste, pas nj\u00eb lloj p\u00ebrkeq\u00ebsimi fare t\u00eb p\u00ebrkohsh\u00ebm, nis edhe nj\u00eb lloj nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimi i ri. Njer\u00ebzit me ankth, shpeshher\u00eb qajn\u00eb gjat\u00eb hipnoz\u00ebs kur e gjejn\u00eb \u201cngjarjen\u201d apo kujtimin trondit\u00ebs t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb si t\u00eb magazinuar n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb dhe si nj\u00eb kock\u00eb e patretur n\u00eb stomak. Kjo i b\u00ebn ata q\u00eb t\u00eb vuajn\u00eb makthe, mendime obsesive, forma depresive si dhe kurthe paniku. Kush ka p\u00ebsuar nj\u00eb traum\u00eb, rrall\u00eb i kujton me nd\u00ebrgjegje t\u00eb plot\u00eb ato q\u00eb kan\u00eb ndodhur, porse i p\u00ebrjeton t\u00eb gjitha ndjesit\u00eb pa e kuptuar se pse&#8230; K\u00ebta njer\u00ebz ne i \u00e7lirojm\u00eb nga kjo lloj \u201cmagjie\u201d e keqe n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet hipnoterapis\u00eb ose nj\u00eb lloj psikoterapie q\u00eb quhet EMDR. Q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim, i b\u00ebhen t\u00eb qarta klientit k\u00ebto forma dhe un\u00eb i p\u00ebrdor ato n\u00eb prani t\u00eb nj\u00eb personi t\u00eb tret\u00eb, familjar i pacientit ose asistentit tim, por gjithmon\u00eb me p\u00eblqimin e klientit, ndon\u00ebse efektet e tyre negative jan\u00eb zero.<\/p>\n<p>Shpeshher\u00eb, element\u00eb t\u00eb hipnoterapis\u00eb i p\u00ebrdor si me lezet, edhe gjat\u00eb luajtjes s\u00eb roleve, kur klienti fillon t\u00eb qaj\u00eb ose e z\u00eb gjumi duke par\u00eb si n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha vuajtjet e tij ose duke i rip\u00ebrjetuar ato, nj\u00eblloj si nj\u00eb lloj \u201crip\u00ebrtypjeje\u201d t\u00eb gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb ndodhura dikur. Hipnoterapia p\u00ebrdoret me sukses dhe ndaj var\u00ebsive si ndaj drogave, bixhozit, duhanit, etj. Se si e b\u00ebj me klientin q\u00eb ta l\u00ebr\u00eb duhanin me an\u00eb t\u00eb hipnoz\u00ebs, gjejeni dhe lexojeni nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr n\u00eb shqip me titull: \u201cSi t\u00eb l\u00ebsh duhanin brenda nj\u00eb ore?\u201d t\u00eb Suzan Hepb\u00ebrn botimet \u201cMax\u201d viti 2005, dhe lexoni faqet 69-80 me titull: \u201cHipnoza: Pyetje q\u00eb hasen shpesh&#8230;\u201d Shum\u00eb t\u00eb rinj m\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb t\u2019ua m\u00ebsoj teknikat e hipnoz\u00ebs, porse ajo k\u00ebrkon ca aft\u00ebsi t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta t\u00eb cilat shum\u00eb rrall\u00eb i gjen edhe te student\u00ebt e mi m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Sidoqoft\u00eb, bashk\u00eb me dijet, intelektin, edhe k\u00ebto aft\u00ebsi jan\u00eb si \u201ccaktimi\u201d i Zotit, q\u00eb lum kujt i jepen dhe q\u00eb duhen p\u00ebrdorur vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr q\u00ebllime t\u00eb mira&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; I nderuar profesor Demiri. M\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb student nga Kor\u00e7a se \u00ebsht\u00eb sh\u00ebruar me hipnoz\u00eb, duke e v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb gjum\u00eb dhe ai ka par\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb e tij si n\u00eb nj\u00eb film. Pastaj \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjuar duke qar\u00eb, krejt i \u00e7liruar. Nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr m\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se ka qen\u00eb te ju p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb duhanin [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3786","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-psikologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3786","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3786"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3786\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3786"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3786"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3786"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}