{"id":3752,"date":"2014-10-02T13:21:36","date_gmt":"2014-10-02T13:21:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=3752"},"modified":"2014-10-02T13:21:36","modified_gmt":"2014-10-02T13:21:36","slug":"ime-shoqe-me-tradhton-a-mund-ta-fitoj-me-gjyq-femijen-tim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/10\/ime-shoqe-me-tradhton-a-mund-ta-fitoj-me-gjyq-femijen-tim\/","title":{"rendered":"Ime shoqe m\u00eb tradhton. A mund ta fitoj me gjyq f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tim?"},"content":{"rendered":"

– Jam nj\u00eb zot\u00ebri q\u00eb dua t\u00eb ndahem nga ime shoqe, edhe pse kemi 4 vjet t\u00eb martuar. Ka pothuajse nj\u00eb vit q\u00eb ajo nuk kryen detyrat e saj si bashk\u00ebshorte n\u00eb \u00e7do drejtim. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, nuk punon dhe e mbaj un\u00eb, ndon\u00ebse ka nj\u00eb profesion t\u00eb mir\u00eb. I kam bler\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka, pra, nuk i mungon asgj\u00eb dhe, pavar\u00ebsisht k\u00ebsaj, prej 1 viti m\u00eb tradhtonte me nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. E ruaja, por nuk e kapja dot. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, duke kontrolluar celularin e saj, gjeta mesazhe t\u00eb shk\u00ebmbyera n\u00eb Facebook dhe mesazhe intime me t\u00eb. Aq shum\u00eb u trondita sa fillova t\u2019i b\u00ebrtas dhe e godita me nj\u00eb shpull\u00eb. Ajo shkat\u00ebrroi gjith\u00e7ka n\u00eb celular dhe m\u00eb denoncoi si njeri t\u00eb dhunsh\u00ebm. Ju betohem q\u00eb nuk jam i dhunsh\u00ebm, por ajo m\u00eb k\u00ebrceu n\u00eb fyt duke m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb \u201c\u00ebsht\u00eb jeta ime dhe kam t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb dua\u201d, nd\u00ebrsa pastaj e mohonte. Tani q\u00eb ka fshir\u00eb mesazhet, m\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb nuk kam fakte. Kam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 6 muajshe, por dua ta fitoj un\u00eb. Sa kam mund\u00ebsi ta kem un\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vajz\u00eb, ta fitoj me gjyq, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb? Po sht\u00ebpin\u00eb, a rrezikoj t\u00eb ma marr\u00eb ajo? Theksoj q\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e kam n\u00eb emrin tim…<\/strong><\/p>\n

Av. Drn. Alban Duraj, \u201cDuraj Lavv Firm\u201d, email: info@durajla\u00eb.com<\/a>, cel. 0692737706 & ++35544532512:<\/em><\/strong> – <\/strong>I nderuar zot\u00ebri, m\u00eb vjen shum\u00eb keq q\u00eb keni patur kaq shum\u00eb mosmarr\u00ebveshje dhe probleme me bashk\u00ebshorten tuaj. P\u00ebrpara se t\u2019ju jap zgjidhjen juridike, dua t\u2019ju k\u00ebshilloj q\u00eb t\u00eb mos nd\u00ebrmerrni veprime t\u00eb nxituara si: Mos t\u00eb ushtroni dhun\u00eb fizike ndaj bashk\u00ebshortes, shmangni dhun\u00ebn verbale dhe \u00e7do debat t\u00eb panevojsh\u00ebm. Tani ju e keni marr\u00eb vendimin p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur martes\u00ebn dhe duhet t\u00eb ruani qet\u00ebsin\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur problemet q\u00eb keni me t\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb ndiqni vet\u00ebm rrug\u00ebn ligjore, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb rruga e duhur, q\u00eb ju jep zgjidhje reale. \u00c7do rrug\u00eb tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb p\u00ebr momentin mund t\u2019ju duket si m\u00eb e thjeshta dhe e moralshme, do t\u00eb jet\u00eb me pasoja t\u00eb m\u00ebdha ligjore p\u00ebr ju dhe nuk fitoni asgj\u00eb, do t\u00eb jeni vet\u00ebm i humbur. Le t\u2019i analizojm\u00eb shqet\u00ebsimet tuaja me radh\u00eb.<\/p>\n

– P\u00ebr t\u00eb ushtruar p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb prind\u00ebrore mbi f\u00ebmij\u00ebn, Kodi i Familjes p\u00ebrcakton si m\u00eb posht\u00eb:<\/p>\n

– N\u00eb nenin 155 p\u00ebrcaktohet se: \u201cPara se gjykata t\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb vendim t\u00eb p\u00ebrkohsh\u00ebm ose p\u00ebrfundimtar lidhur me m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e ushtrimit t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb prind\u00ebrore, t\u00eb drejt\u00ebs s\u00eb vizit\u00ebs ose t\u00eb besuarit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs nj\u00ebrit ish-bashk\u00ebshort, duhet t\u00eb th\u00ebrras\u00eb nje psikolog ose punonj\u00ebs social, i cili, para se t\u00eb jap\u00eb mendimin, duhet t\u00eb marr\u00eb t\u00eb dh\u00ebna p\u00ebr gjendjen materiale dhe morale t\u00eb familjes, kushtet n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat jetojn\u00eb dhe ku \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e p\u00ebrshtatshme t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb f\u00ebmija. N\u00eb rast se gjykata arrin n\u00eb konkluzionin se f\u00ebmija, p\u00ebrkoh\u00ebsisht, duhet t\u2019i besohet nj\u00eb personi t\u00eb tret\u00eb ose nj\u00eb familjeje kujdestare, duhet t\u00eb marr\u00eb mendimin e sektorit t\u00eb ndihm\u00ebs dhe sh\u00ebrbimeve sociale pran\u00eb bashkis\u00eb s\u00eb vendit ku zhvillohet gjykimi. N\u00eb nenin 157, p\u00ebrcaktohet se: Gjyqtari, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, merr n\u00eb konsidert\u00eb:<\/p>\n

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  1. Marr\u00ebveshjen e b\u00ebr\u00eb nd\u00ebrmjet ish-bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebve;<\/li>\n
  2. Mendimin dhe ndjenjat e shprehura nga f\u00ebmija i mitur, duke vler\u00ebsuar mosh\u00ebn dhe zhvillimin e tij;<\/li>\n
  3. Mendimin e psikologut ose t\u00eb sektorit t\u00eb sh\u00ebrbimeve sociale pran\u00eb bashkis\u00eb, pasi k\u00ebta t\u00eb ken\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebn.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    – Neni 158 p\u00ebrcakton se \u201cPrindi q\u00eb nuk i \u00ebsht\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb f\u00ebmija p\u00ebr rritje dhe edukim, ruan t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn t\u00eb mbik\u00ebqyr\u00eb mbajtjen dhe edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs e p\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb, t\u00eb informohet dhe t\u00eb konsultohet p\u00ebr zgjedhjet e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb lidhen me jet\u00ebn e tij. Ai kontribuon n\u00eb raport me burimet e tij dhe ato t\u00eb prindit tjet\u00ebr. E drejta e vizit\u00ebs dhe e banimit sipas kushteve t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuara nga gjykata, nuk mund t\u2019i refuzohen ve\u00e7se p\u00ebr arsye t\u00eb r\u00ebnda q\u00eb d\u00ebmtojn\u00eb interesat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs\u201d. Sipas praktik\u00ebs gjyq\u00ebsore, n\u00eb rastet si i juaji, gjykatat kan\u00eb vendosur q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb, deri n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 12 vje\u00e7, t\u00eb jetojn\u00eb me n\u00ebn\u00ebn. Vendimet e tyre i kan\u00eb argumentuar se f\u00ebmija n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr p\u00ebrkujdesjen dhe edukimin e n\u00ebn\u00ebs. K\u00ebshtu, edhe n\u00eb rastin tuaj, vendimi nuk do t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb favorin tuaj. Un\u00eb ju k\u00ebshilloj q\u00eb edhe n\u00ebse merrni nj\u00eb vendim n\u00eb disfavorin tuaj, t\u2019i q\u00ebndroni af\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, t\u00eb paguani detyrimin ushqimor q\u00eb do t\u00eb vendos\u00eb gjykata dhe pas mosh\u00ebs 12 vje\u00e7 t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, mund t\u2019i drejtoheni gjykat\u00ebs me k\u00ebrkes\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb prind\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n

    – Si do t\u00eb pjes\u00ebtohet sht\u00ebpia?<\/strong><\/p>\n

    – N\u00ebse sht\u00ebpin\u00eb ju e keni bler\u00eb pas martes\u00ebs, ndon\u00ebse ajo mban emrin tuaj, ju jeni bashk\u00ebpronar me bashk\u00ebshorten tuaj. Gjykata, p\u00ebr pjes\u00ebtimin e saj, do t\u00eb vler\u00ebsoj\u00eb kontributin e t\u00eb dyve dhe vendimet n\u00eb k\u00ebto raste, p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht, vendosin ta pjes\u00ebtojn\u00eb at\u00eb n\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb barabart\u00eb midis bashk\u00ebshortit dhe bashk\u00ebshortes. N\u00eb rast se ju do ta keni bler\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pron\u00eb p\u00ebrpara martes\u00ebs, at\u00ebhere jeni i vetmi pronar i saj. Shpresoj t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb qart\u00eb n\u00eb analiz\u00ebn e m\u00ebsip\u00ebrme. Jeni t\u00eb ftuar t\u00eb kontaktoni me zyr\u00ebn ton\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndjekur procedurat e m\u00ebtejshme ligjore. Perzem\u00ebrsisht, Av. Drn. Alban Duraj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    – Jam nj\u00eb zot\u00ebri q\u00eb dua t\u00eb ndahem nga ime shoqe, edhe pse kemi 4 vjet t\u00eb martuar. Ka pothuajse nj\u00eb vit q\u00eb ajo nuk kryen detyrat e saj si bashk\u00ebshorte n\u00eb \u00e7do drejtim. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, nuk punon dhe e mbaj un\u00eb, ndon\u00ebse ka nj\u00eb profesion t\u00eb mir\u00eb. I kam bler\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka, pra, nuk i […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[87],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3752","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-avokati"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3752","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3752"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3752\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3752"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3752"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3752"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}