{"id":3669,"date":"2014-10-02T11:59:24","date_gmt":"2014-10-02T11:59:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=3669"},"modified":"2014-10-02T11:59:24","modified_gmt":"2014-10-02T11:59:24","slug":"pyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-5","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/10\/pyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-5\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyetje-p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr seksin"},"content":{"rendered":"

– \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb pilula pak\u00ebson d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb dashuri?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kjo ndodhte me produktet e m\u00ebparshme, n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat dozat e hormoneve ishin m\u00eb t\u00eb larta. N\u00eb realitet, ndodh m\u00eb shpesh q\u00eb r\u00ebnia e d\u00ebshir\u00ebs t\u00eb lidhet me arsye psikologjike. P\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb tradit\u00ebs kulturore dhe fetare, n\u00eb shum\u00eb \u00e7ifte, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia seksuale \u00ebsht\u00eb akoma e lidhur me riprodhimin. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia justifikohet vet\u00ebm n\u00ebse provohet n\u00eb funksion t\u00eb lindjes s\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije. Marrja e pilul\u00ebs tregon se je e aft\u00eb ta p\u00ebrjetosh seksin si k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi, si komunikim dashuror, duke e shk\u00ebputur nga funksioni i riprodhimit.<\/p>\n

– \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb se prezervativi ul ndjeshm\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe e b\u00ebn seksin m\u00eb pak t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqsh\u00ebm?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Prezervativi nuk i ndryshon ndjesit\u00eb deri n\u00eb at\u00eb pik\u00eb sa t\u00eb mos ndjesh k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi kur b\u00ebn dashuri. N\u00eb disa raste, ai redukton leht\u00ebsisht ndjeshm\u00ebrin\u00eb e penisit, por sot n\u00eb treg ka prezervativ\u00eb aq t\u00eb holl\u00eb, sa praktikisht, nuk ndjehen fare. N\u00eb realitet, m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb bezdis mendimi se prezervativi pengon kontaktin e plot\u00eb, pra, nj\u00eb intimitet m\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00eb. Ka \u00e7ifte q\u00eb e kan\u00eb problem momentin e v\u00ebnies s\u00eb tij, sepse u duket sikur nd\u00ebrpret loj\u00ebn dashurore dhe prish atmosfer\u00ebn romantike. Kjo varet nga \u00e7ifti, i cili duhet ta kthej\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb moment n\u00eb nj\u00eb loj\u00eb. P\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb ta v\u00ebsh n\u00eb ereksion, sepse ekzistojn\u00eb m\u00eb pak rreziqe q\u00eb ai t\u00eb \u00e7ahet.<\/p>\n

– Koh\u00ebt e fundit, im shoq nuk ka patur shum\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kryer marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale. Edhe un\u00eb, gjithashtu, por nga ana tjet\u00ebr, jam e shqet\u00ebsuar… Mungesa e d\u00ebshir\u00ebs tregon se nj\u00eb \u00e7ift \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb kriz\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Jo domosdoshm\u00ebrisht, edhe pse duhet mbajtur shum\u00eb parasysh. Mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb njeri prej partner\u00ebve ta marr\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka si t\u00eb mir\u00ebqen\u00eb dhe rutina t\u00eb hyj\u00eb n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e \u00e7iftit. Gjithashtu, mund t\u2019u kushtohet m\u00eb shum\u00eb vemendje aktiviteteve jasht\u00eb familjes (pun\u00ebs n\u00eb ve\u00e7anti) dhe mund t\u00eb krijohet nj\u00eb klim\u00eb e l\u00ebnies pas dore t\u00eb partnerit, gj\u00eb q\u00eb shkakton uljen e d\u00ebshir\u00ebs tek ai. Natyrisht, n\u00ebse \u00e7ifti \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb konflikt e n\u00eb tension, mungesa e d\u00ebshir\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb simptom\u00eb e largimit emotiv. D\u00ebshira mund t\u00eb ulet edhe p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb nj\u00eb mosfunksionimi seksual. Kur seksi provokon ankth, tension apo dhimbje, \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb i pak\u00ebnaqsh\u00ebm dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb e natyrshme q\u00eb t\u00eb mos ndjesh d\u00ebshir\u00eb.<\/p>\n

– A mund t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb substancat afrodiziake?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– K\u00ebrkimi i k\u00ebtyre substancave p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndezur nj\u00eb seksualitet t\u00eb shuar ka karakterizuar gjith\u00eb historin\u00eb e njer\u00ebzimit, duke filluar nga ushqimet (q\u00eb nga stridhet, te djathrat e ndryshme), ekstraktet e ndryshme (si kantaridina, ekstrakt i nj\u00eb insekti), nga esencat vegjetale (p\u00ebr shembull, xhinseng) dhe ila\u00e7et (sidomos, ato hormonale). Hipotezat kan\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme, por eksperimentet n\u00eb lidhje me to kan\u00eb treguar se jan\u00eb shum\u00eb pak efikase. Ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin alkoolin, bile edhe drog\u00ebn, p\u00ebr t\u00eb kap\u00ebrcyer ndrojtjen dhe p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb shpenguar, por m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjejn\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjimin sesa zgjidhje p\u00ebr problemet e tyre. Fakt \u00ebsht\u00eb se d\u00ebshira e ka burimin s\u00eb pari n\u00eb tru dhe afrodiziaku i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb do t\u00eb ishin emocionet, intimiteti, dashuria dhe pasioni.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb pilula pak\u00ebson d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb dashuri? – Kjo ndodhte me produktet e m\u00ebparshme, n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat dozat e hormoneve ishin m\u00eb t\u00eb larta. N\u00eb realitet, ndodh m\u00eb shpesh q\u00eb r\u00ebnia e d\u00ebshir\u00ebs t\u00eb lidhet me arsye psikologjike. P\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb tradit\u00ebs kulturore dhe fetare, n\u00eb shum\u00eb \u00e7ifte, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia seksuale […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[88],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3669","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-seksologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3669","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3669"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3669\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3669"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3669"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3669"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}