Kur e \u00e7uat n\u00eb \u00e7erdhe p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, nuk e dinit se cili nga ju do t\u00eb ndjehej m\u00eb keq! Dhe, kur djali i madh ju tha se k\u00ebt\u00eb ver\u00eb do t\u00eb shkonte me pushime me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb, ju ndjet\u00eb nj\u00eb s\u00ebmbim n\u00eb zem\u00ebr… Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb, n\u00eb fakt, t\u00eb m\u00ebsohesh me iden\u00eb se, t\u00eb edukosh f\u00ebmij\u00ebn, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb ta m\u00ebsosh t\u00eb jet\u00eb i pavarur, duke i dh\u00ebn\u00eb mjetet e nevojshme p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb autonomi t\u00eb ardhshme. P\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb i\/e till\u00eb, f\u00ebmija juaj ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me prindin t\u00eb karakterizuar nga respekti, dashuria, elasticiteti dhe siguria. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, por e nevojshme \u201ct\u00eb pres\u00ebsh kordonin e k\u00ebrthiz\u00ebs\u201d. Po ju, e keni t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u2019i lini f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj t\u00eb fluturojn\u00eb vet\u00eb, me krah\u00ebt e tyre, apo u q\u00ebndroni gjithmon\u00eb nga pas? P\u00ebr ta kuptuar k\u00ebt\u00eb, p\u00ebrgjigjjuni n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb sa m\u00eb spontane pyetjeve t\u00eb m\u00ebposhtme:<\/p>\n
1. Her\u00ebn e par\u00eb q\u00eb f\u00ebmija juaj ka shkuar p\u00ebr pushime vet\u00ebm, ju:
\na. Luftonit me veten q\u00eb t\u00eb mos niseshit tek ai.
\nb. Merreshit me pun\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb harruar.
\nc. E mbanit veten q\u00eb t\u00eb mos i telefononit \u00e7do dit\u00eb.
\nd. Shijonit qet\u00ebsin\u00eb tuaj<\/p>\n
2. Jeni duke luajtur n\u00eb park dhe ai u afrohet disa t\u00eb panjohurve. Ju:
\na. Shkoni dhe e merrni q\u00eb t\u00eb rrij\u00eb pran\u00eb jush
\nb. E th\u00ebrrisni, duke i treguar lodra q\u00eb ai t\u00eb kthehet
\nc. E shoq\u00ebroni n\u00eb takimet e reja
\nd. E lini t\u2019ia dal\u00eb mban\u00eb vet\u00eb, si nj\u00eb i madh<\/p>\n
3. Keni parashikuar t\u00eb dilni bashk\u00eb sh\u00ebtitje me bi\u00e7iklet\u00eb, por ai ju thot\u00eb se do t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb te shoku (shoqja). Ju, i thoni q\u00eb…
\na. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e sjellshme t\u2019ju l\u00ebr\u00eb vet\u00ebm.
\nb. Ndjeheni i\/e zhg\u00ebnjyer, por do t\u00eb dilni her\u00eb tjet\u00ebr.
\nc. Nuk ka problem, ju e kuptoni.
\nd. P\u00ebr ju \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj, mund t\u00eb dilni edhe pa t\u00eb.<\/p>\n
4. Duke filluar nga klasa e gjasht\u00eb, p\u00ebr aktivitetet jasht\u00ebshkollore, ju:
\na. E \u00e7oni dhe rrini aty p\u00ebr ta par\u00eb n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb koh\u00ebs.
\nb. E \u00e7oni dhe b\u00ebni ndonj\u00eb pazar derisa vjen koha p\u00ebr ta marr\u00eb.
\nc. E lini her\u00eb pas here t\u00eb vij\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me shok\u00ebt
\nd. E lini t\u00eb lir\u00eb pa ju.<\/p>\n
5. Ai ju prezanton t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn e par\u00eb t\u00eb adoleshenc\u00ebs:
\na. I thoni t\u00eb ruhet nga veprimet impulsive t\u00eb zemr\u00ebs
\nb. E v\u00ebzhgoni gjat\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb person.
\nc. I b\u00ebni disa pyetje q\u00eb ta njihni m\u00eb mir\u00eb.
\nd. I thoni \u201cmir\u00ebdita\u201d dhe vazhdoni pun\u00ebt tuaja.<\/p>\n
6. Kriz\u00eb adoleshence… Ai ju thot\u00eb se jeni nj\u00eb \u201cprind koti\u201d dhe ju i p\u00ebrgjigjeni:
\na. \u201cPas gjith\u00eb atyre q\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr ty?\u201d
\nb. \u201cE di mir\u00eb se nuk i mendon k\u00ebto q\u00eb thua…\u201d
\nc. \u201cKot mbase jo, po me siguri, jo i\/e p\u00ebrkryer\u201d
\nd. \u201cPo iki dhe po vij kur t\u00eb kesh mbaruar\u201d<\/p>\n
7. Me diplom\u00ebn n\u00eb xhep, ai ju thot\u00eb se do t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb jasht\u00eb vendit:
\na. Ju do t\u00eb vdisni n\u00ebse ai do t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb larg jush!
\nb. Ju i dor\u00ebzoheni fatit t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb prindit.
\nc. Do t\u00eb jet\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, por \u00e7far\u00eb aventure e bukur p\u00ebr t\u00eb!
\nd. N\u00ebse i p\u00eblqen, at\u00ebhere…<\/p>\n
8. F\u00ebmija juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb:
\na. Arsyeja e vetme e ekzistenc\u00ebs suaj.
\nb. Nj\u00eb qenie q\u00eb duhet udh\u00ebhequr n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e jet\u00ebs
\nc. Nj\u00eb burim k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsie dhe mrekulli e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb
\nd. Nj\u00eb pjes\u00ebtar i tribus\u00eb suaj.<\/p>\n
9. Zbuloni se ai\/ajo mban nj\u00eb ditar:
\na. Ju lexoni disa faqe
\nb. Pyesni veten n\u00ebse ka probleme p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat nuk guxon t\u00eb flas\u00eb.
\nc. Ju konstatoni se ai ka kopshtin e vet sekret
\nd. Ju i thoni vetes se \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kalamall\u00ebk.<\/p>\n
10. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb 25 vje\u00e7 dhe ka nj\u00eb konflikt n\u00eb \u00e7ift. Ju i thoni q\u00eb…
\na. Pa dyshim, ajo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cpersoni i duhur\u201d.
\nb. Vet\u00ebm te familja mund t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetesh dhe t\u00eb kesh besim.
\nc. Do t\u00eb ishte mir\u00eb t\u00eb flisnit s\u00eb bashku.
\nd. Asgj\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb puna juaj!<\/p>\n
11. Kur ishit f\u00ebmij\u00eb, t\u00eb diel\u00ebn, fraza q\u00eb d\u00ebgjonit m\u00eb shpesh nga goja e prind\u00ebrve:
\na. \u201cKu do t\u00eb shkojm\u00eb sot, lepurush?\u201d
\nb. \u201cS\u2019ke p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb pa mua!\u201d.
\nc. \u201cEjani, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb n\u00eb park!\u201d.
\nd. \u201cB\u00ebj \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb duash!\u201d<\/p>\n
12. Djali juaj i madh, 17 vje\u00e7, k\u00ebrkon t\u2019i jepni m\u00eb shum\u00eb para xhepi:
\na. \u201cSigurisht, duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitosh sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb nga rinia\u201d.
\nb. \u201cMerri, po m\u00eb duket se e tepron pak\u201d.
\nc. \u201cN\u00ebse ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka, ma k\u00ebrko mua dhe pastaj t\u00eb shohim\u201d.
\nd. \u201cJo. Pse nuk b\u00ebn ndonj\u00eb pun\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, m\u00eb mir\u00eb?\u201d<\/p>\n
13. Ndershm\u00ebrisht, mosha q\u00eb preferoni te nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb:
\na. 6 muajsh: Nj\u00eb bebe bukurosh q\u00eb e mbani n\u00eb krah!
\nb. 8 vje\u00e7: Ai ju sheh n\u00eb drit\u00eb t\u00eb syrit!
\nc. 3 vje\u00e7: Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb eksplorues i vog\u00ebl!
\nd. 18 vje\u00e7: Ai ia del mban\u00eb vet\u00eb jet\u00ebs!<\/p>\n
14. Ai ju thot\u00eb \u201ct\u00eb kam xhan\u201d. Kjo ngjall te ju:
\na. Nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb rehatie t\u00eb thell\u00eb
\nb. Nj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi t\u00eb pamat\u00eb
\nc. Nj\u00eb krenari t\u00eb madhe
\nd. Nj\u00eb emocion t\u00eb \u00e7uditsh\u00ebm<\/p>\n
15. Nj\u00eb vog\u00eblush dy vje\u00e7 i afrohet nj\u00eb shkalle:
\na. Ju vraponi tek ai i\/e trembur.
\nb. Ju e v\u00ebzhgoni me v\u00ebmendje
\nc. E lini pasi siguroheni se edhe po ra, nuk do t\u00eb vritet.
\nd. Jeni duke diskutuar dhe nuk e keni par\u00eb.<\/p>\n
16. T\u00eb jesh prind, p\u00ebr ju, mbi t\u00eb gjitha, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb:
\na. T\u00eb rrish gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebn n\u00eb ankth
\nb. Nj\u00eb homazh ndaj jet\u00ebs.
\nc. Mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb privilegjuar.
\nd. Mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb pavdeksh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
17. Do t\u00eb zbukuroni dhom\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve:
\na. E mbushni me kukulla dhe arush\u00eb.
\nb. Vini nj\u00eb tavolin\u00eb dhe rafte
\nc. Vini postera peizazhesh
\nd. Fusni gj\u00ebrat tuaja<\/p>\n
Rezultatet
\nN\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje a. Ju jeni shum\u00eb i\/e lidhur me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj
\nMe sa duket, ju e keni t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb krijoni nj\u00eb distanc\u00eb me t\u00eb. Doni ta keni pran\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ndjeni dashurin\u00eb q\u00eb ai ju sjell, duke e v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb ekzistenc\u00ebs suaj. Jeni shum\u00eb i\/e af\u00ebrt me t\u00eb, duke e shoq\u00ebruar ngado dhe duke i dh\u00ebn\u00eb pa pushim mendimin tuaj, bile edhe (dhe sidomos) kur ai nuk jua k\u00ebrkon! Dini gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ai b\u00ebn dhe sheh, duke i patur sistematikisht syt\u00eb hapur mbi bot\u00ebn e tij. Ideja q\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb ai do t\u2019ju m\u00ebnjanoj\u00eb nga jeta e tij, ju duket e padurueshme… Doni t\u2019i jepni shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra dhe i dhuroni dashurin\u00eb tuaj pa kufi. K\u00ebshtu, ia plot\u00ebsoni t\u00eb gjitha d\u00ebshirat, q\u00eb t\u00eb mos ju qortoj\u00eb p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim. Shkaku \u00ebsht\u00eb se n\u00eb shk\u00ebmbim dhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pand\u00ebrgjegjshme, prisni prej tij q\u00eb t\u2019jua shp\u00ebrblej\u00eb me dashuri dhe t\u2019ju mbush\u00eb me lumturi. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, kur ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb pran\u00eb jush, kur ju kund\u00ebrshton, ose edhe m\u00eb keq, ju mohon, mund t\u00eb bini n\u00eb panik. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, ju zem\u00ebroheni dhe e qortoni r\u00ebnd\u00eb, ose e lusni dhe rrezikoni t\u00eb bini n\u00eb depresion duke i mbajtur nj\u00eb fjalim, ku bie n\u00eb sy ndjesia se ju kan\u00eb braktisur. Me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, duke qen\u00eb i\/e varur emocionalisht nga f\u00ebmija juaj, e keni t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb pranoni autonomin\u00eb e tij q\u00eb rritet dhe t\u00eb krijoni mes tij dhe jush nj\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme e t\u00eb nevojshme q\u00eb ai t\u00eb ndjehet mir\u00eb (dhe ju, gjithashtu).<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje b. Ju jeni kaq larg dhe af\u00ebr me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj…
\nDuket sikur ju arrini ta menaxhoni v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsin\u00eb e distanc\u00ebs prind-f\u00ebmij\u00eb, duke b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb dallim mes ndjenjave nga nj\u00ebra an\u00eb dhe fjal\u00ebve e veprimeve tuaja, nga ana tjet\u00ebr. N\u00eb fakt, ju do t\u00eb donit t\u00eb ishit burimi i vet\u00ebm i dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs suaj, p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb. Ju do t\u00eb donit q\u00eb ai t\u00eb mos largohej kurr\u00eb nga ju, por meq\u00eb e keni t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ta pranoni k\u00ebt\u00eb, merrni nj\u00eb q\u00ebndrim q\u00eb shkon kund\u00ebr emocioneve tuaja. Ju i thoni se \u00ebsht\u00eb i lir\u00eb t\u00eb zgjedh\u00eb, se \u00ebsht\u00eb i pavarur dhe ju doni vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb gj\u00eb: Q\u00eb ai \u201ct\u00eb pres\u00eb kordonin\u201d dhe t\u00eb fluturoj\u00eb me krah\u00ebt e tij. Por, fjal\u00ebt tuaja p\u00ebrmbajn\u00eb edhe mjaft mesazhe t\u00eb pand\u00ebrgjegjshme q\u00eb f\u00ebmija juaj t\u00eb forcoj\u00eb var\u00ebsin\u00eb e tij kundrejt jush. Sinjalet q\u00eb ai merr nga ana juaj jan\u00eb: \u201cIk, por do ta shoh\u00ebsh sa nevoj\u00eb ke p\u00ebr mua…\u201d ose \u201cK\u00ebnaqu me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, por do ta shoh\u00ebsh se ata nuk do t\u00eb jen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb pran\u00eb teje kur t\u00eb kesh nevoj\u00eb… ndryshe nga un\u00eb\u201d. Ju e shtyni me nj\u00eb dor\u00eb, por e t\u00ebrhiqni me tjetr\u00ebn…<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje c. Ju jeni mik i ngusht\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj
\nMe sa duket, ju ia keni dal\u00eb mban\u00eb t\u00eb krijoni me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn nj\u00eb distanc\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme, t\u00eb nevojshme p\u00ebr zhvillimin dhe krijimin e pavar\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb tij. E keni pranuar dhe e vini n\u00eb zbatim faktin se fati i nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb i varur nga prind\u00ebrit e tij gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn… P\u00ebrkundrazi, megjith\u00ebse ju s\u00ebmbon zemra kur ai niset me pushime pa ju, e inkurajoni t\u00eb gjej\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e tij, pa ju. P\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb, dini t\u2019i q\u00ebndroni pran\u00eb dhe ta ndihmoni kur ka nevoj\u00eb. Dhe, kur m\u00eb n\u00eb fund, ai ia del mban\u00eb vet\u00eb, pranoni ta lini t\u00eb niset dhe t\u00eb provoj\u00eb vet\u00eb etapat e ndryshme t\u00eb rinis\u00eb s\u00eb tij. K\u00ebshtu, ju mund t\u00eb shijoni qet\u00ebsisht k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa e shihni f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb m\u00ebsoj\u00eb, t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb p\u00ebrpara dhe t\u00eb provoj\u00eb eksperienca t\u00eb reja.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje d. Ju jeni nj\u00eb prind i larg\u00ebt…
\n\u201cPse duhet t\u2019i mbash kaq af\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt?\u201d, mendoni ju. \u201cAta duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u2019ia dalin mban\u00eb vet\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe sa m\u00eb shpejt t\u00eb jet\u00eb e mundur\u201d. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, ju keni tendenc\u00eb t\u00eb krijoni nj\u00eb distanc\u00eb t\u00eb madhe me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Sigurisht, pak autonomi dhe pavar\u00ebsi e ndihmojn\u00eb t\u00eb rritet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb pozitive, pa u ndjer\u00eb i mbytur, por liria e tepruar mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e d\u00ebmshme! Fakti q\u00eb i p\u00ebrs\u00ebrisni se \u00ebsht\u00eb i lir\u00eb dhe mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb doj\u00eb, pa i k\u00ebrkuar kurr\u00eb llogari, mund t\u00eb shtoj\u00eb tek ai d\u00ebshir\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u2019i b\u00ebni pyetje, sepse ky q\u00ebndrim krijon nj\u00eb kund\u00ebrvar\u00ebsi. Nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb ndjej\u00eb q\u00eb po kujdesen p\u00ebr t\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebshilla, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb ai t\u2019i thot\u00eb vetes se nuk ka m\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, se mund t\u00eb ec\u00eb me k\u00ebmb\u00ebt e veta. N\u00ebse ai nuk e ndjen lidhjen q\u00eb ju bashkon me t\u00eb, si mund ta shk\u00ebpus\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lidhje dhe t\u00eb nis\u00eb aventur\u00ebn e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tij prej t\u00eb rrituri? Mund t\u00eb largohesh vet\u00ebm nga ajo q\u00eb njeh!
\nJa, p\u00ebrse, kjo distanc\u00eb kaq e madhe q\u00eb krijoni mes jush dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebs suaj mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb shtuar d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e afrimit t\u00eb k\u00ebtij t\u00eb fundit. Duke e pasur t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb krijoni lidhjen me t\u00eb, duke p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb k\u00ebtu edhe frik\u00ebn e largimit nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, mbase b\u00ebni q\u00eb gjith\u00eb kjo lidhje dhe kjo nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr dashuri, t\u00eb vij\u00eb vet\u00ebm prej tij. Ju krijoni nj\u00eb boshll\u00ebk, q\u00eb ai t\u00eb vij\u00eb t\u2019jua mbush\u00eb…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Kur e \u00e7uat n\u00eb \u00e7erdhe p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, nuk e dinit se cili nga ju do t\u00eb ndjehej m\u00eb keq! Dhe, kur djali i madh ju tha se k\u00ebt\u00eb ver\u00eb do t\u00eb shkonte me pushime me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb, ju ndjet\u00eb nj\u00eb s\u00ebmbim n\u00eb zem\u00ebr… Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb, n\u00eb fakt, t\u00eb m\u00ebsohesh me iden\u00eb se, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3622","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-test"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3622","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3622"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3622\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3622"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3622"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3622"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}