Duart e nj\u00eb gruaje t\u00eb dhunuar<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sot kam takuar gruan m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb q\u00eb syt\u00eb m\u00eb kishin par\u00eb. Nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb p\u00ebr vite me radh\u00eb ka duruar nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb e dhunonte \u00e7do dit\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Intervist\u00ebn e saj t\u00eb plot\u00eb fatkeq\u00ebsisht nuk e publikoj dot, pasi ende ka frik\u00eb nga bashk\u00ebshorti, ndaj t\u00eb cilit po b\u00ebn gati divorcin. Por kam marr\u00eb lejen t\u00eb zbardh nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb intervist\u00ebs pa treguar fytyr\u00ebn<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Si nisi gjith\u00e7ka?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
“Gjith\u00e7ka nisi q\u00eb n\u00eb fejes\u00eb, ishte fejes\u00eb me mbles\u00ebri. Q\u00ebndruam dy vite t\u00eb fejuar, ai rrall\u00eb her\u00eb vinte, e at\u00ebher\u00eb kur vinte, merrte ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb i duhej e ikte. U martuam e shkova n\u00eb fshatrat e sip\u00ebrm t\u00eb Pogradecit. Dit\u00eb ime niste duke u kujdesur p\u00ebr vjehrr\u00ebn, shkoja kositja barin p\u00ebr lop\u00ebt, vija n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi b\u00ebja drek\u00ebn, shkoja prap nga tokat p\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar e n\u00eb dark\u00eb e dija \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00eb priste. N\u00eb fakt nuk doja t\u00eb err\u00ebsohej. Sepse p\u00ebrher\u00eb kur binte nata, dehja e tij i thoshte t\u00eb m\u00eb rrihte. Kam nxjerr\u00eb gjak nga \u00e7do pjes\u00eb e trupit. I lutesha t\u00eb mos pinte. Mendova se po t\u00eb b\u00ebnim nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb do rregullohej. B\u00ebra vajz\u00ebn e par\u00eb. Por dhuna nuk ndalonte. B\u00ebra e vajz\u00ebn e dyt\u00eb. P\u00ebrs\u00ebri nj\u00ebsoj. P\u00ebrs\u00ebri gjak. Kam pir\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjakun tim se ujin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
E di sa her\u00eb e kisha par\u00eb qytetin? Vet\u00ebm dy her\u00eb. Kur kam lindur vajzat n\u00eb martenitet. Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb m\u00eb. As kam par\u00eb t’u jepte nj\u00eb \u00e7okollat\u00eb vajzave, as t\u00eb me thoshte nj\u00ebher\u00eb nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. M\u00eb dukej sikur kisha lindur vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar si sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtorja e nj\u00eb burri t\u00eb dehur q\u00eb rronte nga duart e mia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Ku e gjete guximin p\u00ebr t\u00eb reaguar? \u00c7far\u00eb ndodhi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Por erdhi nj\u00eb dit\u00eb q\u00eb nuk durova m\u00eb. Mu rriten cupat, nj\u00ebra 13 vje\u00e7 e tjera 11 vje\u00e7. N\u00eb Korrik, ishte vap\u00eb, m\u00eb kishte rrahur n\u00eb syt\u00eb e vajzave dhe vendosa t\u00eb arratisem. Ika me vrap nga sht\u00ebpia, mora e vajzat. Kjo ishte hera e par\u00eb q\u00eb e shihja tamam qytetin. Dhe vrapova n\u00eb dera e komisariatit. Sepse mora vesh q\u00eb po m\u00eb ndiqte. E nuk kisha frik\u00ebn se m\u00eb b\u00ebnte gj\u00eb mua, por cupave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aty njoha Arbin (punonj\u00ebs i sh\u00ebrbimit social n\u00eb Pogradec), Etlev\u00ebn e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. M\u00eb mor\u00ebn dhe m\u00eb \u00e7uan n\u00eb nj\u00eb qend\u00ebr sociale. Aty ku jetoj ende dhe sot. M\u00eb rregulluan e n\u00eb pun\u00eb, punoj si kuzhiniere n\u00eb nj\u00eb hotel. Vajta si pastruese por m\u00eb pa shefja q\u00eb t\u00eb punoja shum\u00eb e m\u00eb futi n\u00eb kuzhin\u00eb. E ku m\u00eb duket mua kjo pun\u00eb, kur rrija maj\u00eb pem\u00ebs gjith\u00eb dit\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Madje, mua nuk m\u00eb besohet q\u00eb po fle 6 or\u00eb resht pa m\u00eb dal\u00eb gjumi. Ku isha m\u00ebsuar un\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Tani po jeton n\u00eb qendra?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aty po rri. Dua t\u00eb iki me qera por v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Nuk me dalin. Ama prap nuk ankohem. Se me kane trajtuar si familje Arbi me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. M\u00eb kan\u00eb sjell\u00eb ushqime, veshje. Un\u00eb vet\u00ebm q\u00eb shoh cupat e qeta jam gati t’i puth k\u00ebmb\u00ebt e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-\u00c7far\u00eb do b\u00ebsh me jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Do g\u00ebzoj cupat. Un\u00eb p\u00ebr to rroj. Sa ti rrit e ti martoj. I kam m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb marrin ke duan ato, jo me mbles\u00ebri. E t\u00eb mbajn\u00eb kok\u00ebn lart e mos durojn\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb dhun\u00ebn. Mos b\u00ebhen si mamaja e tyre<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Maman\u00eb e kan\u00eb trime. E kan\u00eb shembull.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nuk jam shembull jo. Duhet t\u00eb kisha reaguar me shpejt. Me vjen inat se nuk isha as e rrug\u00ebs e as e l\u00ebn\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb mashkulli i par\u00eb e i fundit q\u00eb kam prekur. Por me vjen inat me veten. Pse e d\u00ebnova k\u00ebshtu? Kur flasin shoqet n\u00eb pun\u00eb q\u00eb ikin ne plazh, shkojn\u00eb blejn\u00eb veshje, rritin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt me kushte un\u00eb vendos t\u00eb qaj m\u00ebnjan\u00eb. Me duket sikur i kam d\u00ebnuar n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Po atyre grave q\u00eb nuk reagojn\u00eb dot, q\u00eb jan\u00eb n\u00eb kushtet q\u00eb ke qene ti, \u00e7far\u00eb do u thoje?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-T\u00eb ikin me vrap nga sht\u00ebpia. T\u00eb shp\u00ebtojn\u00eb. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb ku t\u00eb jen\u00eb. E ne rrug\u00eb t\u00eb dalin, me mire se ne at\u00eb sht\u00ebpi ku dhunohen do jen\u00eb. Ja mua, m\u00eb pa Zoti qe me solli tek disa njer\u00ebz t\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-\u00c7far\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00eb ke? \u00c7far\u00eb do doje?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Nj\u00eb \u00e7ati. T\u00eb rrit cupat me dinjitet. P\u00ebr ato rroj. T\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb bredhin e vitit t\u00eb ri se e kan\u00eb qejf at\u00eb. Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk ua kam siguruar. Ti k\u00ebnaq nj\u00ebher\u00eb syt\u00eb e tyre e pastaj te vdes…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
PS ; Gruaja ka vendosur q\u00eb intervista e plot\u00eb t\u00eb transmetohet n\u00eb dat\u00ebn 25 N\u00ebntor n\u00eb nj\u00eb aktivitet kund\u00ebr dhun\u00ebs ndaj grave n\u00eb qytetin e Pogradecit. Ka frik\u00eb t\u00eb publikohet fytyra dhe z\u00ebri i saj p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb reagimit t\u00eb mundsh\u00ebm t\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortit. Lutem qe kushdo q\u00eb ka mund\u00ebsi ta ndihmoj\u00eb, t\u00eb kontaktoj\u00eb me Arbi Basho n\u00eb numrin +355 67 381 0099, punonj\u00ebs i sh\u00ebrbimit social q\u00eb po kujdeset p\u00ebr zonj\u00ebn n\u00eb fjal\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
LUTEMI P\u00cbR NJ\u00cb SHT\u00cbPI ME QERA DHE DINJITET. Zoti u bekoft\u00eb<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Duart e nj\u00eb gruaje t\u00eb dhunuar Sot kam takuar gruan m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb q\u00eb syt\u00eb m\u00eb kishin par\u00eb. Nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb p\u00ebr vite me radh\u00eb ka duruar nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb e dhunonte \u00e7do dit\u00eb. Intervist\u00ebn e saj t\u00eb plot\u00eb fatkeq\u00ebsisht nuk e publikoj dot, pasi ende ka frik\u00eb nga bashk\u00ebshorti, ndaj t\u00eb cilit po b\u00ebn […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":32903,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1356],"tags":[249],"class_list":["post-32902","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-living","tag-histori"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32902","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32902"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32902\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/32903"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32902"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32902"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32902"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}