{"id":32853,"date":"2026-10-25T12:47:15","date_gmt":"2026-10-25T11:47:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=32853"},"modified":"2026-10-26T00:51:49","modified_gmt":"2026-10-25T23:51:49","slug":"edmira-karajani-kam-pare-friken-nga-afer-por-edhe-forcen-e-gruas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2026\/10\/edmira-karajani-kam-pare-friken-nga-afer-por-edhe-forcen-e-gruas\/","title":{"rendered":"EDMIRA KARAJANI: Kam par\u00eb frik\u00ebn nga af\u00ebr, por edhe forc\u00ebn e gruas"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

…n\u00eb nj\u00eb rr\u00ebfim p\u00ebr Tetorin Roz\u00eb…Pas \u00e7do analize, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb histori; P\u00ebr forc\u00ebn e grave p\u00ebrball\u00eb sfidave t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ka profesione q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb nj\u00eb zanat dhe ka t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb, me kalimin e viteve, t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh njeriun p\u00ebrtej profesionit. P\u00ebr Edmira Karajani, puna me analizat e gjakut n\u00eb onkologji ka qen\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht kjo: nj\u00eb rrug\u00ebtim profesional i shoq\u00ebruar nga histori njer\u00ebzore, frik\u00eb, dhimbje, shpres\u00eb dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha, forc\u00eb. P\u00ebrmes p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebs s\u00eb saj shum\u00ebvje\u00e7are, Edmira ka par\u00eb nga af\u00ebr gra q\u00eb jan\u00eb p\u00ebrballur me momente t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, por q\u00eb kan\u00eb gjetur brenda vetes kuraj\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb vazhduar. Dhe pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebto histori e kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb se kujdesi p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin nuk duhet t\u00eb nis\u00eb vet\u00ebm kur trupi jep alarmin, por shum\u00eb m\u00eb her\u00ebt: me v\u00ebmendje, kontrolle n\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe dashuri p\u00ebr veten. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb intervist\u00eb p\u00ebr Tetorin Roz\u00eb, Edmira Karajani flet jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e informacionit dhe kontrolleve, por edhe p\u00ebr frik\u00ebn, empatin\u00eb, forc\u00ebn e gruas dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb njer\u00ebzore q\u00eb vjen p\u00ebrtej profesionit. Nj\u00eb bised\u00eb q\u00eb na kujton se pas \u00e7do analize \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri, pas \u00e7do diagnoze \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb histori dhe se kujdesi p\u00ebr veten nuk duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb premtim p\u00ebr nes\u00ebr, por nj\u00eb zgjedhje q\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb sot.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Edmira, pas kaq vitesh n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb profesion, cil\u00ebn pyetje do t\u00eb doje q\u00eb grat\u00eb t\u00eb ta b\u00ebnin m\u00eb shpesh, por ende nuk ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Do t\u00eb doja q\u00eb grat\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb pyesnin m\u00eb shpesh: \u201c\u00c7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj sot p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin tim, para se trupi im t\u00eb m\u00eb detyroj\u00eb t\u00eb ndalem?\u201d Shpesh kujtohemi p\u00ebr veten vet\u00ebm kur di\u00e7ka nuk shkon. Un\u00eb besoj shum\u00eb te parandalimi, te kontrollet n\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe sidomos te d\u00ebgjimi i trupit ton\u00eb. Si gra kujdesemi p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, por ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb harrojm\u00eb veten. Do t\u00eb doja q\u00eb \u00e7do grua t\u00eb kuptonte se t\u00eb kujdesesh p\u00ebr veten nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb luks, \u00ebsht\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb hyjn\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebrmes profesionit, por p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb duke na l\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb gjurm\u00eb njer\u00ebzore. \u00c7far\u00eb gjurme kan\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb te ti grat\u00eb q\u00eb ke takuar gjat\u00eb pun\u00ebs?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Grat\u00eb q\u00eb kam takuar gjat\u00eb pun\u00ebs m\u00eb kan\u00eb m\u00ebsuar sa shum\u00eb forc\u00eb mund t\u00eb fshihet pas nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshjeje. Kam takuar gra me histori, frik\u00eb, dhimbje dhe beteja q\u00eb nuk duken nga jasht\u00eb, por q\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri gjejn\u00eb forc\u00ebn t\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb. Secila prej tyre m\u00eb ka l\u00ebn\u00eb di\u00e7ka: m\u00eb shum\u00eb empati, m\u00eb shum\u00eb durim dhe nj\u00eb kujtes\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdueshme q\u00eb pas \u00e7do pacienti \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr kujdes profesional, por edhe p\u00ebr t\u2019u d\u00ebgjuar dhe kuptuar. Ndoshta kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb gjurma m\u00eb e bukur q\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb, t\u00eb mos harroj kurr\u00eb an\u00ebn njer\u00ebzore t\u00eb profesionit tim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-A ka nj\u00eb moment kur e ke kuptuar se puna jote nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb profesion, por nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi emocionale ndaj njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb ke p\u00ebrball\u00eb?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Po, dhe nuk ka qen\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb moment. E kam kuptuar sa her\u00eb kam pasur p\u00ebrball\u00eb nj\u00eb pacient t\u00eb frik\u00ebsuar dhe kam par\u00eb se ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb e mir\u00eb, pak durim apo thjesht m\u00ebnyra si i afrohesh mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn e tij. Aty kuptova se puna ime nuk p\u00ebrfundon te procedura q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb kryej. Kam p\u00ebrball\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb moment po m\u00eb beson frik\u00ebn, dhimbjen dhe sh\u00ebndetin e tij. P\u00ebr mua, ky besim \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi jo vet\u00ebm profesionale, por edhe njer\u00ebzore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Tetori Roz\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb muaj sensibilizimi, por p\u00ebr ty, cili \u00ebsht\u00eb mesazhi q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb mbetet edhe pasi roz\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb n\u00eb kalendar?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Mesazhi q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb mbetet \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i thjesht\u00eb: kujdesi p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin nuk duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb muaj apo ngjyr\u00eb. Tetori na kujton r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimit p\u00ebr kancerin e gjirit, por kontrollet, v\u00ebmendja ndaj ndryshimeve t\u00eb trupit dhe kujdesi p\u00ebr veten duhet t\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb vitit.Mos prisni tetorin p\u00ebr t\u2019u kujtuar p\u00ebr veten. D\u00ebgjojeni trupin tuaj, mos neglizhoni ndryshimet dhe k\u00ebrkoni k\u00ebshill\u00eb mjek\u00ebsore kur di\u00e7ka ju shqet\u00ebson. Kujdesi p\u00ebr veten duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb zakon, jo vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb fushat\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Ne grat\u00eb shpesh jemi shum\u00eb t\u00eb kujdesshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe shum\u00eb t\u00eb pakujdesshme me veten. Pse mendon se ndodh kjo?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Mendoj se ne grat\u00eb jemi m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb mbajm\u00eb shum\u00eb role nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht: jemi n\u00ebna, vajza, partnere, profesioniste dhe shpesh vendosim nevojat e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve p\u00ebrpara tonave. Kujdesemi q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb rreth nesh t\u00eb jen\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe harrojm\u00eb t\u00eb pyesim veten: \u201cPo un\u00eb, a jam mir\u00eb?\u201d Por kam kuptuar se t\u00eb kujdesesh p\u00ebr veten nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb egoiz\u00ebm. P\u00ebrkundrazi, kur nj\u00eb grua \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb fizikisht dhe emocionalisht, ka edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb forc\u00eb p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb do. Ne nuk duhet ta vendosim veten gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb fundit n\u00eb list\u00ebn ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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-\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb duket m\u00eb e rrezikshme: mungesa e informacionit apo frika q\u00eb i b\u00ebn njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb mos k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb informacion?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-P\u00ebr mua, m\u00eb e rrezikshme \u00ebsht\u00eb frika. Mungesa e informacionit mund t\u00eb plot\u00ebsohet, por kur frika t\u00eb pengon t\u00eb pyes\u00ebsh, t\u00eb b\u00ebsh nj\u00eb kontroll apo t\u00eb k\u00ebrkosh ndihm\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb mund t\u00eb humbas\u00ebsh koh\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7muar. N\u00eb sh\u00ebndet, t\u00eb dish \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb sesa t\u00eb jetosh me frik\u00ebn e asaj q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb. Informacioni t\u00eb jep mund\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb veprosh, nd\u00ebrsa frika shpesh t\u00eb mban n\u00eb vend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-A mendon se m\u00ebnyra si i flasim nj\u00eb gruaje p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin e saj mund t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb edhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si ajo p\u00ebrballet me nj\u00eb diagnoz\u00eb?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Absolutisht po. M\u00ebnyra se si i flasim nj\u00eb gruaje p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin e saj mund t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si ajo e p\u00ebrjeton dhe e p\u00ebrballon nj\u00eb diagnoz\u00eb. Fjal\u00ebt mund t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb frik\u00eb, por mund t\u00eb japin edhe qet\u00ebsi, besim dhe forc\u00eb. P\u00ebr mua, nuk mjafton vet\u00ebm t\u2019i jap\u00ebsh dikujt informacionin e sakt\u00eb. Duhet ta jap\u00ebsh me empati, respekt dhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb personi p\u00ebrball\u00eb t\u00eb ndihet i d\u00ebgjuar dhe jo vet\u00ebm si nj\u00eb diagnoz\u00eb. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb m\u00ebnyra si ia thua di\u00e7ka nj\u00eb pacienti mbetet me t\u00eb po aq sa vet\u00eb ajo q\u00eb i ke th\u00ebn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-N\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebto vite pune, a t\u00eb ka ndryshuar k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimi p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jesh \u201ce fort\u00eb\u201d?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Puna m\u00eb ka ndryshuar shum\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si e shoh forc\u00ebn. Kam kuptuar se t\u00eb jesh e fort\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb mos t\u00eb dhemb\u00eb ajo q\u00eb sheh apo t\u00eb mos prekeh nga historit\u00eb e njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb ke p\u00ebrball\u00eb. N\u00eb k\u00ebto vite kam par\u00eb dhimbje, frik\u00eb, por edhe nj\u00eb forc\u00eb t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme tek njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb luftojn\u00eb \u00e7do dit\u00eb. Ka pasur raste q\u00eb i kam marr\u00eb me vete emocionalisht edhe pasi kam mbaruar pun\u00ebn. Sot, p\u00ebr mua, forca \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdosh t\u00eb jesh e ndjeshme edhe pasi ke par\u00eb shum\u00eb dhimbje. T\u00eb mos lejosh q\u00eb profesioni t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb indiferente. T\u00eb ruash empatin\u00eb dhe humanizmin, sepse n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb ndalon s\u00eb ndjeri p\u00ebr njeriun q\u00eb ke p\u00ebrball\u00eb, ke humbur nj\u00eb nga pjes\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb k\u00ebtij profesioni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-N\u00ebse do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb hiqje nj\u00eb frik\u00eb nga mendja e grave shqiptare lidhur me kontrollet dhe s\u00ebmundjet e gjirit, cila do t\u00eb ishte dhe pse?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb hiqja frik\u00ebn nga mendimi: \u201cM\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb mos kontrollohem, sepse kam frik\u00eb se mos m\u00eb gjejn\u00eb di\u00e7ka.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Frika nuk e ndryshon at\u00eb q\u00eb po ndodh n\u00eb trupin ton\u00eb, vet\u00ebm mund t\u00eb na vonoj\u00eb ta zbulojm\u00eb. Nj\u00eb kontroll nuk duhet par\u00eb si di\u00e7ka q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon nj\u00eb s\u00ebmundje, por si nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u kujdesur p\u00ebr veten.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb shum\u00eb raste, zbulimi i hersh\u00ebm i kancerit t\u00eb gjirit krijon m\u00eb shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi trajtimi dhe rezultate m\u00eb t\u00eb mira. Prandaj do t\u00eb doja q\u00eb grat\u00eb ta z\u00ebvend\u00ebsonin frik\u00ebn me kujdesin: mos kini frik\u00eb t\u00eb dini, kini kuraj\u00ebn t\u00eb kontrolloheni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Pas kaq vitesh duke punuar me analizat e gjakut n\u00eb onkologji dhe duke par\u00eb nga af\u00ebr kaq shum\u00eb histori grash, \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb ka m\u00ebsuar kjo eksperienc\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qenurit grua?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-M\u00eb ka m\u00ebsuar sa e \u00e7muar, por nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht sa e fort\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jesh grua. Kam par\u00eb gra t\u00eb p\u00ebrballen me frik\u00ebn, dhimbjen dhe pasigurin\u00eb, por p\u00ebrs\u00ebri t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb forc\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshur, p\u00ebr t\u00eb luftuar dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb menduar p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb duan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pas kaq shum\u00eb historish, e shoh ndryshe t\u00eb qenurit grua. Forca jon\u00eb nuk q\u00ebndron vet\u00ebm tek ajo q\u00eb arrijm\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrballojm\u00eb, por edhe tek m\u00ebnyra se si, mes v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsive, vazhdojm\u00eb t\u00eb duam, t\u00eb kujdesemi dhe t\u00eb shpresojm\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ky profesion m\u00eb ka m\u00ebsuar ta vler\u00ebsoj edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb jet\u00ebn, sh\u00ebndetin dhe gruan q\u00eb jam sot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Dhe n\u00eb fund, n\u00ebse do t\u00eb kishe vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb minut\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i folur \u00e7do gruaje q\u00eb po e lexon k\u00ebt\u00eb intervist\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u2019i thoje q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e shtynte m\u00eb p\u00ebr nes\u00ebr?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Do t\u2019i thoja: mos e shty veten p\u00ebr nes\u00ebr. Ne grat\u00eb gjejm\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb koh\u00eb p\u00ebr familjen, pun\u00ebn dhe njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb duam, por shpesh veten e l\u00ebm\u00eb t\u00eb fundit. N\u00ebse ke v\u00ebn\u00eb re nj\u00eb ndryshim n\u00eb trupin t\u00ebnd, n\u00ebse ke nj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim apo thjesht ka ardhur koha p\u00ebr kontrollin t\u00ebnd, b\u00ebje. Mos lejo q\u00eb frika, angazhimet apo mendimi \u201cdo ta b\u00ebj nes\u00ebr\u201d t\u00eb t\u00eb ndalojn\u00eb. N\u00eb pun\u00ebn time kam m\u00ebsuar di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk dua ta harroj kurr\u00eb: koha ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi. T\u00eb kujdesesh p\u00ebr veten sot mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen t\u00ebnde. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mos prit t\u00eb s\u00ebmuresh p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar sa e \u00e7muar \u00ebsht\u00eb sh\u00ebndeti. Duaje veten aq sa t\u00eb kujdesesh p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

…n\u00eb nj\u00eb rr\u00ebfim p\u00ebr Tetorin Roz\u00eb…Pas \u00e7do analize, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb histori; P\u00ebr forc\u00ebn e grave p\u00ebrball\u00eb sfidave t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetit. Ka profesione q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb nj\u00eb zanat dhe ka t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb, me kalimin e viteve, t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh njeriun p\u00ebrtej profesionit. P\u00ebr Edmira Karajani, puna me analizat e gjakut n\u00eb onkologji ka qen\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":32859,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3859],"tags":[4068,3762],"class_list":["post-32853","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-shendet-3","tag-edmira-karajani","tag-tetori-roze"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32853","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32853"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32853\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/32859"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32853"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32853"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32853"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}