-Jam shum\u00eb e lumtur q\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjashtin vit radhazi jemi bashk\u00eb n\u00eb intervistat tona. Kjo revist\u00eb m\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb ndihem gjithmon\u00eb shum\u00eb komode. Tani po i kthehem p\u00ebrgjigjes s\u00eb pyetjes s\u00eb par\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Un\u00eb kam p\u00ebrjetuar nj\u00eb dhimbje dhe nj\u00eb traum\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb madhe nga kjo lidhje, si\u00e7 e kam th\u00ebn\u00eb edhe m\u00eb par\u00eb, edhe pse shumica nuk e din\u00eb. Gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs q\u00eb kam qen\u00eb n\u00ebn at\u00eb shok psikologjik, d\u00ebgjoja vazhdimisht p\u00ebr gra dhe vajza q\u00eb vriteshin nga partner\u00ebt e tyre. Kjo m\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb gjeja frym\u00ebzimin p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar k\u00ebt\u00eb k\u00ebng\u00eb, si p\u00ebr veten, ashtu edhe p\u00ebr grat\u00eb e tjera q\u00eb kan\u00eb humbur shum\u00eb nga k\u00ebto marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Jeton n\u00eb Lond\u00ebr, nj\u00eb qytet q\u00eb t\u00eb sfidon dhe t\u00eb frym\u00ebzon nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht. Si ka ndikuar kjo p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si e sheh jet\u00ebn dhe muzik\u00ebn sot?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -Londra \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kaos i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, por ka edhe t\u00eb mirat, edhe t\u00eb k\u00ebqijat e saj. Ka nj\u00eb avantazh p\u00ebr ne q\u00eb merremi me muzik\u00eb, sepse ia dalim t\u00eb mbijetojm\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u00ebrtej k\u00ebsaj, \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb kemi hasur shum\u00eb pengesa, ekonomike por edhe njer\u00ebzore. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tem\u00eb shum\u00eb e gjer\u00eb, por do t\u00eb doja q\u00eb “artist\u00ebt” n\u00eb Lond\u00ebr t\u00eb ishin m\u00eb njer\u00ebzor\u00eb. Londra na ka b\u00ebr\u00eb ta duam dhe ta urrejm\u00eb nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -N\u00ebse Londra do t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb k\u00ebng\u00eb dhe Shqip\u00ebria nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, si do t’i p\u00ebrshkruaje dhe cil\u00ebn do ta d\u00ebgjoje m\u00eb shpesh n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e tua?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -P\u00ebr Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte “Dit\u00ebt gri”, nd\u00ebrsa p\u00ebr Londr\u00ebn “Dit\u00ebt e zeza”. Asgj\u00eb m\u00eb pak dhe asgj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -Shpesh artist\u00ebt p\u00ebrdorin muzik\u00ebn si terapi. A ka qen\u00eb “Abuzues” nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb sh\u00ebruar nj\u00eb plag\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbyllur nj\u00eb kapitull apo p\u00ebr t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb mesazh p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -\u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. T\u00eb jem e sinqert\u00eb, k\u00ebt\u00eb k\u00ebng\u00eb kam dashur ta publikoj dhe ta promovoj q\u00eb vitin e kaluar, por nuk ndodhi p\u00ebr arsye t\u00eb ndryshme dhe kjo m\u00eb la pak pas edhe n\u00eb karrier\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kjo k\u00ebng\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb mesazh dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb na b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm kur zgjedhim partnerin apo partneren e jet\u00ebs. Duhet t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb fort\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos biem pre e manipulimit emocional apo psikologjik dhe kurr\u00eb t\u00eb mos n\u00ebnshtrohemi ndaj urdhrave t\u00eb askujt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n K\u00ebt\u00eb projekt nuk e kam promovuar shum\u00eb, sepse sa her\u00eb e shoh videoklipin, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 mesazhit t\u00eb forc\u00ebs, m\u00eb krijon edhe ndjesi negative p\u00ebr veten. Do t\u00eb doja q\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe ta marr\u00eb n\u00eb n\u00ebntor, n\u00eb Dit\u00ebn Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare p\u00ebr Eliminimin e Dhun\u00ebs ndaj Grave, sepse mendoj se aty e ka vendin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -Qershori duket se ka nj\u00eb pesh\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. \u00c7far\u00eb emocionesh t\u00eb sjell ky muaj dhe pse mendon se ka l\u00ebn\u00eb kaq shum\u00eb gjurm\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00ebtimin t\u00ebnd?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -Kam shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb cilat i kam p\u00ebrzem\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb muaj, e dua shum\u00eb qershorin e qershive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -K\u00ebt\u00eb qershor p\u00ebrjetove humbjen e gjyshes t\u00ebnde, nj\u00eb person q\u00eb ke quajtur njeriun e zemr\u00ebs. \u00c7far\u00eb trash\u00ebgimie shpirt\u00ebrore t\u00eb ka l\u00ebn\u00eb ajo q\u00eb vazhdon t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb tek ti \u00e7do dit\u00eb?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -Fatmir\u00ebsisht kam pasur nj\u00eb gjyshe q\u00eb p\u00ebr mua ka qen\u00eb si nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb. Ajo ishte e vetmja q\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e mia m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira ishte gjithmon\u00eb pran\u00eb meje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kur jetoja n\u00eb Greqi dhe po kaloja nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, ajo erdhi pran\u00eb nesh. Aty njoha edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb gruan aristokrate q\u00eb un\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e quaja k\u00ebshtu dhe ashtu do t\u00eb mbetet p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ajo m\u00eb m\u00ebsonte p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka. Ishte krahu im i djatht\u00eb dhe shembulli im. Edhe pse n\u00eb distanc\u00eb, m\u00eb ka p\u00ebrkrahur gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb zgjedhjet e mia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ajo ishte shum\u00eb e p\u00ebrkushtuar ndaj vetes. Edhe pse kishte pak koh\u00eb, nuk e la kurr\u00eb pas dore veten. Ishte shum\u00eb e rregullt, e dh\u00ebn\u00eb pas nip\u00ebrve dhe mbesave, por un\u00eb kam qen\u00eb pika e saj e dob\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -Qershori duket se ka nj\u00eb pesh\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. \u00c7far\u00eb emocionesh t\u00eb sjell ky muaj dhe pse mendon se ka l\u00ebn\u00eb kaq shum\u00eb gjurm\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00ebtimin t\u00ebnd?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -Kam shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb cilat i kam p\u00ebrzem\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb muaj, e dua shum\u00eb qershorin e qershive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -K\u00ebt\u00eb qershor p\u00ebrjetove humbjen e gjyshes t\u00ebnde, nj\u00eb person q\u00eb ke quajtur njeriun e zemr\u00ebs. \u00c7far\u00eb trash\u00ebgimie shpirt\u00ebrore t\u00eb ka l\u00ebn\u00eb ajo q\u00eb vazhdon t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb tek ti \u00e7do dit\u00eb?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -Fatmir\u00ebsisht kam pasur nj\u00eb gjyshe q\u00eb p\u00ebr mua ka qen\u00eb si nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb. Ajo ishte e vetmja q\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e mia m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira ishte gjithmon\u00eb pran\u00eb meje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kur jetoja n\u00eb Greqi dhe po kaloja nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, ajo erdhi pran\u00eb nesh. Aty njoha edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb gruan aristokrate q\u00eb un\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e quaja k\u00ebshtu dhe ashtu do t\u00eb mbetet p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ajo m\u00eb m\u00ebsonte p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka. Ishte krahu im i djatht\u00eb dhe shembulli im. Edhe pse n\u00eb distanc\u00eb, m\u00eb ka p\u00ebrkrahur gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb zgjedhjet e mia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ajo ishte shum\u00eb e p\u00ebrkushtuar ndaj vetes. Edhe pse kishte pak koh\u00eb, nuk e la kurr\u00eb pas dore veten. Ishte shum\u00eb e rregullt, e dh\u00ebn\u00eb pas nip\u00ebrve dhe mbesave, por un\u00eb kam qen\u00eb pika e saj e dob\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -Shpesh, pas humbjeve t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, njer\u00ebzit ndryshojn\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si e shohin jet\u00ebn. \u00c7far\u00eb ka ndryshuar tek Ori pas k\u00ebtij qershori?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -Realisht, k\u00ebto koh\u00eb jam mbyllur shum\u00eb n\u00eb vetvete. Kam humbur shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz gjat\u00eb k\u00ebtyre dy viteve dhe kam kuptuar se duhet t’u telefonojm\u00eb m\u00eb shpesh njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb duam dhe t’u themi se i duam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pavar\u00ebsisht se jam e rrethuar edhe nga njer\u00ebz toksik\u00eb, madje edhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrm, fatkeq\u00ebsisht Zoti m\u00eb ka marr\u00eb njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb kam dashur m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe m\u00eb ka l\u00ebn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit toksik\u00eb rreth vetes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -N\u00ebse do ta p\u00ebrshkruaje k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs t\u00ebnde me vet\u00ebm tre fjal\u00eb, cilat do t\u00eb ishin dhe pse?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -Sfida pa fund, lot pa fund dhe suksese.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nuk e ula kurr\u00eb veten. E fal\u00ebnderoj Allahun q\u00eb nuk m\u00eb ka l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb bie p\u00ebrtok\u00eb. Gjith\u00e7ka e kam kaluar vet\u00eb, por tani jam e pandalshme. Jetoj fal\u00eb Zotit, p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi, p\u00ebr suksesin dhe p\u00ebr veten time. Jam e motivuar dhe gati p\u00ebr hapat e radh\u00ebs drejt suksesit q\u00eb e kam skalitur prej koh\u00ebsh n\u00eb \u00ebndrrat e mia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/IMG_3583-1-scaled.jpg\")
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