{"id":32658,"date":"2026-07-06T23:33:13","date_gmt":"2026-07-06T21:33:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=32658"},"modified":"2026-07-06T23:33:14","modified_gmt":"2026-07-06T21:33:14","slug":"kur-dhuna-behet-krenari-kemi-deshtuar-te-gjithe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2026\/07\/kur-dhuna-behet-krenari-kemi-deshtuar-te-gjithe\/","title":{"rendered":"Kur dhuna b\u00ebhet krenari, kemi d\u00ebshtuar t\u00eb gjith\u00eb\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Redaksionale<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ajo q\u00eb qarkulloi sot n\u00eb rrjete sociale (thon\u00eb q\u00eb videoja ka koh\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb) nuk ishte thjesht nj\u00eb sherr mes adoleshentesh ishte nj\u00eb sken\u00eb q\u00eb na ngriu gjakun dhe na vuri n\u00eb mendime t\u00eb thella.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tre vajza rrahin brutalisht nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebmoshatare n\u00eb Fier. E t\u00ebrheqin zvarr\u00eb p\u00ebr flok\u00ebsh, e godasin pa m\u00ebshir\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa ajo qan, ul\u00ebret dhe p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb mbrohet. Por ajo q\u00eb trondit edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb nuk ishin vet\u00ebm goditjet, ishin t\u00eb qeshurat, ftoht\u00ebsia e veprimeve. \u00cbsht\u00eb fakti q\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka filmohet dhe publikohet n\u00eb rrjetet sociale, sikur dhimbja e nj\u00eb njeriu t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb shfaqje p\u00ebr t&#8217;u par\u00eb e p\u00ebr t&#8217;u duartrokitur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb pike kemi arritur?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kur dhuna nuk fshihet m\u00eb, por ekspozohet me krenari, kur posht\u00ebrimi i tjetrit kthehet n\u00eb arg\u00ebtim dhe kur disa sekonda &#8220;viraliteti&#8221; vlejn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se dinjiteti i nj\u00eb vajze, at\u00ebher\u00eb problemi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb vet\u00ebm tek tre adoleshentet q\u00eb ngrit\u00ebn dor\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb i madh, ai fillon n\u00eb familje. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk lindin t\u00eb pam\u00ebshirsh\u00ebm, ata edukohen t\u00eb b\u00ebhen t\u00eb till\u00eb, m\u00ebsojn\u00eb nga ajo q\u00eb shohin, nga ajo q\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb dhe nga ajo q\u00eb tolerohet \u00e7do dit\u00eb. N\u00ebse nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb nuk m\u00ebson n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi se respekti p\u00ebr tjetrin \u00ebsht\u00eb i shenjt\u00eb, se dhuna nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb forc\u00eb dhe se lot\u00ebt e dikujt nuk jan\u00eb arsye p\u00ebr t\u00eb qeshur, at\u00ebher\u00eb dikush ka d\u00ebshtuar ta edukoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prind\u00ebr, askush nuk k\u00ebrkon prej jush f\u00ebmij\u00eb perfekt\u00eb, por shoq\u00ebria ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb din\u00eb kufirin mes debatit dhe barbaris\u00eb, mes nj\u00eb gabimi dhe nj\u00eb krimi moral.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mos u mjaftoni duke u siguruar q\u00eb f\u00ebmija juaj ushqehet mir\u00eb, vishet bukur apo ka telefonin m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, m\u00ebsojini t\u00eb ken\u00eb zem\u00ebr, m\u00ebsojini t\u00eb ndalojn\u00eb dor\u00ebn, jo ta ngren\u00eb at\u00eb. M\u00ebsojini t\u00eb mbrojn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebtin, jo t\u00eb bashkohen me turm\u00ebn kund\u00ebr tij. Edhe shkolla nuk mund t\u00eb hesht\u00eb. Edukimi nuk mbaron te matematika, gjuha apo historia. Ai fillon me formimin e karakterit, me luft\u00ebn kund\u00ebr bullizmit, me nd\u00ebrtimin e nj\u00eb brezi q\u00eb e kupton se forca e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nuk matet me grushta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po aq p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi kan\u00eb edhe rrjetet sociale, ku dhuna shpesh shp\u00ebrblehet me klikime, shp\u00ebrndarje dhe komente, nd\u00ebrsa viktima p\u00ebrjeton posht\u00ebrimin p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb dyt\u00eb, k\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb para mij\u00ebra syve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sot ishte ajo vajz\u00eb, nes\u00ebr mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb vajza juaj. Motra juaj, mbesa juaj, ose f\u00ebmija juaj, ai q\u00eb sot mendoni se &#8220;kurr\u00eb nuk do ta b\u00ebnte k\u00ebt\u00eb&#8221;, por q\u00eb nes\u00ebr mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb ose viktim\u00eb, ose agresor, n\u00ebse ne vazhdojm\u00eb t\u00eb mbyllim syt\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri nuk matet nga numri i nd\u00ebrtesave q\u00eb nd\u00ebrton, por nga njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb rrit dhe kur adoleshent\u00ebt qeshin nd\u00ebrsa dikush ul\u00ebret nga dhimbja, nuk kemi p\u00ebrball\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb akt dhune, kemi p\u00ebrball\u00eb pasqyr\u00ebn e nj\u00eb edukimi q\u00eb n\u00eb shum\u00eb raste ka humbur busull\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cbsht\u00eb koha t\u00eb reagojm\u00eb sepse heshtja, justifikimi dhe indiferenca nuk mbrojn\u00eb viktimat, ato mbrojn\u00eb dhunuesit.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Redaksionale Ajo q\u00eb qarkulloi sot n\u00eb rrjete sociale (thon\u00eb q\u00eb videoja ka koh\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb) nuk ishte thjesht nj\u00eb sherr mes adoleshentesh ishte nj\u00eb sken\u00eb q\u00eb na ngriu gjakun dhe na vuri n\u00eb mendime t\u00eb thella. Tre vajza rrahin brutalisht nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebmoshatare n\u00eb Fier. E t\u00ebrheqin zvarr\u00eb p\u00ebr flok\u00ebsh, e godasin pa m\u00ebshir\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":32659,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[69,4122],"class_list":["post-32658","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","tag-aktualitet-2","tag-dhune"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32658","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32658"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32658\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/32659"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32658"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32658"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32658"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}