{"id":3241,"date":"2014-09-15T10:38:05","date_gmt":"2014-09-15T10:38:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=3241"},"modified":"2014-09-15T10:38:05","modified_gmt":"2014-09-15T10:38:05","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-5","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/09\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-5\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fluturoja me leht\u00ebsi<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur po i thoja familjes sime: \u201cShikoni si fluturoj un\u00eb!\u201d. Fluturoja shum\u00eb lart n\u00eb qiell, kisha nj\u00eb leht\u00ebsi shum\u00eb t\u00eb madhe kur i l\u00ebvizja krah\u00ebt e shijoja \u00e7do gj\u00eb. Po k\u00ebshtu, \u00ebnd\u00ebrroja duke zbritur shum\u00eb leht\u00eb. Pra, e gjith\u00eb \u00ebndrra ishte shum\u00eb e leht\u00eb dhe e bukur, p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Fluturimi, sidomos n\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr t\u00eb till\u00eb, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson lirin\u00eb, sidomos kur ndodhesh mes situatave q\u00eb duket sikur t\u00eb kufizojn\u00eb. Fakti q\u00eb keni fluturuar me leht\u00ebsi, duke shijuar \u00e7do gj\u00eb, tregon se jeni n\u00eb krye t\u00eb \u00e7do situate dhe v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsie q\u00eb keni hasur koh\u00ebt e fundit. Dometh\u00ebn\u00eb, do t\u2019ia dilni mban\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb dilni e fituar. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, do t\u00eb ndiheni krenare. Edhe familja juaj, q\u00eb duket sikur nuk ju vler\u00ebson aq sa duhet, do ta shikoni q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb me ju.<\/p>\n

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Kishin vrar\u00eb mamin<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur shkova te sht\u00ebpia e gjyshes, ku ishin mbledhur shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz. U thash\u00eb: \u201cPse jan\u00eb mbledhur kaq shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz?\u201d dhe m\u00eb than\u00eb: \u201cT\u00eb ka vdekur mami\u201d. Un\u00eb, e tronditur, fillova t\u00eb b\u00ebrtisja: \u201cJo, s\u2019ka mund\u00ebsi!\u201d, por m\u00eb than\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb grua e kishte goditur pas koke me nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb. Un\u00eb ul\u00ebrija duke qar\u00eb, k\u00ebrkoja mamin n\u00ebp\u00ebr sht\u00ebpi dhe i thyeja t\u00eb gjitha gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb shikoja p\u00ebrpara. Ju lutem, m\u00eb tregoni \u00e7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb, se jam shum\u00eb n\u00eb ankth. Ledi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Nuk duhet t\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebroheni, e dashur Ledi, sepse mamin tuaj nuk do ta gjej\u00eb asgj\u00eb. Duhet t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni vet\u00ebm pak p\u00ebr veten sepse \u00ebndrra n\u00eb fjal\u00eb tregon q\u00eb jeni n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb shum\u00eb stresuese dhe ju ka humbur durimi p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb humbisni vet\u00ebkontrollin, nga nj\u00eb goditje q\u00eb keni pasur koh\u00ebt e fundit nga ana shpirt\u00ebrore prej dikujt q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb lidhje me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb, dashurin\u00eb, familjen etj. Jeni shum\u00eb e tronditur, ama e gjith\u00eb \u00ebndrra tregon q\u00eb nuk po kujdeseni shum\u00eb p\u00ebr veten. Mamaja n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ju p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson juve q\u00eb keni marr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb goditje dhe mund t\u00eb shp\u00ebrtheni m\u00eb keq n\u00eb dit\u00ebt n\u00eb vazhdim. \u00cbndrra ju fton t\u00eb ruani qet\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe t\u00eb vendosni nj\u00eb ekuilib\u00ebr t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm sepse e keni humbur fare. Mund t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni edhe ndihm\u00ebn e familjes.<\/p>\n

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Nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr e bukur<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr shum\u00eb t\u00eb bukur bionde, me sy boj\u00ebqielli, q\u00eb i kishte flok\u00ebt shum\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb. Un\u00eb e mendoja se ajo ishte e bukura e maleve, si\u00e7 ekzistonin n\u00ebp\u00ebr legjenda. Ishte aq e bukur, saq\u00eb m\u00eb mahniti. Un\u00eb q\u00eb e kam par\u00eb, jam fem\u00ebr, ndaj edhe habitem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

– T\u00eb shikuarit e nj\u00eb vajze t\u00eb till\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ju e keni menduar si nj\u00eb hyjnesh\u00eb, nuk p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebrve\u00e7se natyr\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb gjall\u00eb, t\u00eb bukur dhe me aft\u00ebsi t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme, ama jan\u00eb cil\u00ebsi q\u00eb ju nuk e dini q\u00eb i keni. Ju mendoni se nuk jeni edhe aq e mir\u00eb sa ju p\u00ebrshkruajn\u00eb, pra, keni nj\u00eb vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsim t\u00eb ul\u00ebt. Duhet t\u00eb filloni t\u00eb ndryshoni mendim, pasi jeni fem\u00ebr me cil\u00ebsi t\u00eb mira dhe e bukur. Nga momenti q\u00eb do ta shikoni veten n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, do t\u00eb keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb sukses n\u00eb \u00e7do fush\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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U dashurova me nj\u00eb t\u00eb panjohur<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nj\u00eb t\u00eb panjohur, q\u00eb nuk e kam takuar kurr\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time. M\u00eb e \u00e7uditshmja ishte se ndjeja p\u00ebr t\u00eb, nj\u00ebsoj sikur t\u00eb ekzistonte v\u00ebrtet. Dhe, jo vet\u00ebm ndjeja, por realisht, e dashuroja, prandaj jam e habitur me k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. A ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Personi i panjohur \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo pjes\u00eb e vetes suaj q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb fshehur brenda jush dhe q\u00eb nuk guxon t\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb krye, sepse ju trishton. Pra, \u00ebndrra do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ju keni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb dashuroni shum\u00eb dhe t\u2019ju dashurojn\u00eb po k\u00ebshtu. Prandaj e keni par\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe si nj\u00eb lloj k\u00ebshille ndaj jush: Do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb shprehni ato \u00e7far\u00eb ndjeni, sepse askush nuk mund t\u2019ju kuptoj\u00eb, n\u00ebse q\u00ebndroni n\u00eb heshtje. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n

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Vrisja morrat<\/strong><\/p>\n

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje astrologe! Kam par\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr shum\u00eb t\u00eb shpifur, por jam b\u00ebr\u00eb merak prandaj po jua \u00e7oj. Shihja morra dhe m\u00eb pas sikur i vrisja. \u00c7far\u00eb parashikojn\u00eb? <\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00cbndrrat me morra kan\u00eb kuptime t\u00eb ndryshme, n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebs. Shikimi i tyre tregon siklete t\u00eb natyrave t\u00eb ndryshme. Kur shikoni veten t\u00eb mbuluar me to, parashikon siklet sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor, por edhe shtypje apo shfryt\u00ebzim nga dikush n\u00eb pun\u00eb, n\u00eb familje apo n\u00eb jet\u00ebn private. N\u00eb rastin konkret, q\u00eb i keni par\u00eb duke i vrar\u00eb, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb \u00e7far\u00ebdo v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsie t\u00eb jeni duke kaluar, do ta hidhni mbrapa shpine e do ta kap\u00ebrceni, sepse keni karakter t\u00eb fort\u00eb. Pra, ju do t\u00eb b\u00ebni t\u00eb pamundur\u00ebn q\u00eb ta kaloni \u00e7do v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi, sepse jeni natyr\u00eb e fort\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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Qeni i komshiut<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr qenin e komshiut sikur po lihte. Un\u00eb dola n\u00eb dritare dhe i thirra. Ai m\u00eb erdhi pran\u00eb dhe m\u00eb l\u00ebpinte, m\u00eb q\u00ebndronte af\u00ebr, ama i kishte syt\u00eb si me lot. E p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhela dhe e futi kok\u00ebn posht\u00eb krahut tim, duke u strukur, aq sa m\u00eb dukej sikur ishte njeri e jo qen…<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Qeni p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson karakterin tuaj n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre. Jeni natyr\u00eb fisnike, shum\u00eb besnik dhe p\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, shum\u00eb i\/e dashur. Lehja e tij tregon q\u00eb do t\u00eb merrni nj\u00eb lajm nga dikush apo di\u00e7ka. Strukja e tij te ju, tregon se jeni ju ai q\u00eb keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr besnik\u00ebri dhe dashuri rreth jush. Ju ka munguar kjo gj\u00eb koh\u00ebt e fundit dhe ndiheni shum\u00eb i vetmuar sepse mendoni se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata q\u00eb ju rrethojn\u00eb, nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb me ju. Por, syt\u00eb q\u00eb keni par\u00eb me lot, tregojn\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj ngush\u00ebllimi, q\u00eb mund ta gjeni shum\u00eb shpejt, mjafton ta d\u00ebshironi shum\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Fluturoja me leht\u00ebsi – Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur po i thoja familjes sime: \u201cShikoni si fluturoj un\u00eb!\u201d. Fluturoja shum\u00eb lart n\u00eb qiell, kisha nj\u00eb leht\u00ebsi shum\u00eb t\u00eb madhe kur i l\u00ebvizja krah\u00ebt e shijoja \u00e7do gj\u00eb. Po k\u00ebshtu, \u00ebnd\u00ebrroja duke zbritur shum\u00eb leht\u00eb. Pra, e gjith\u00eb \u00ebndrra ishte shum\u00eb e leht\u00eb dhe e bukur, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3241","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3241","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3241"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3241\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3241"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3241"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3241"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}