{"id":31694,"date":"2024-11-25T10:01:01","date_gmt":"2024-11-25T09:01:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=31694"},"modified":"2024-11-25T13:01:44","modified_gmt":"2024-11-25T12:01:44","slug":"ditet-nisin-pa-pershendetjen-e-shenjte-dhe-te-shtrenjte-te-martinit-te-vogel-ne-familje-ma-miremengjesi-nga-valentina-telhaj-psikologe-pedagoge","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2024\/11\/ditet-nisin-pa-pershendetjen-e-shenjte-dhe-te-shtrenjte-te-martinit-te-vogel-ne-familje-ma-miremengjesi-nga-valentina-telhaj-psikologe-pedagoge\/","title":{"rendered":"Dit\u00ebt nisin pa p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetjen e shenjt\u00eb dhe te shtrenjt\u00eb t\u00eb Martinit t\u00eb vog\u00ebl n\u00eb familje &#8220;Ma, mir\u00ebm\u00ebngjesi&#8221;! Nga Valentina Telhaj, psikologe\/pedagoge"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u00eb pari, shpreh ngush\u00ebllimet e mia m\u00eb t\u00eb sinqerta p\u00ebr familjen e vogelushit dhe gjithe komunitetit qe eshte prekur nga ngjarja e r\u00ebnd\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn \u201cFan Noli\u201d.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ky rast tragjik na kujton p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi p\u00ebr t\u00eb garantuar sigurin\u00eb dhe mir\u00ebqenien e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u00ebmij\u00ebt, jane pasqyra e edukimit te shoq\u00ebris\u00eb tone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb familjeje, por jane edhe pasqyra m\u00eb e ndjeshme e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb son\u00eb.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndikuar nga mjedisi rrethues, nga edukimi n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, mb\u00ebshtetja familjare dhe mesazhet q\u00eb marrin nga kultura dhe shoq\u00ebria me t\u00eb cil\u00e9t nd\u00ebrveprojn\u00eb!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kjo ngjarje \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb klith\u00ebm, thirrje p\u00ebr veprim kolektiv, duke e par\u00eb secilin f\u00ebmij\u00eb si nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Shkolla nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb institucion p\u00ebr m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebnie, por edhe nj\u00eb mjedis ku f\u00ebmij\u00ebt duhet t\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb sigurt fizikisht dhe emocionalisht. Prandaj, \u00ebsht\u00eb jetike q\u00eb, M\u00ebsuesit dhe stafi psiko-social shkollor t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb trajnuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb njohur dhe menaxhuar shenja t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsive emocionale, t\u00eb stresit apo t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs te nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00eb zbatohet \u00e7do protokoll ku t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb mekanizmat nd\u00ebrinstitucional p\u00ebr parandalimin, identifikimin dhe raportimin e \u00e7do situate t\u00eb rrezikut q\u00eb mund t\u00eb d\u00ebmtoj\u00eb mir\u00ebqenien e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sh\u00ebndeti mendor shpesh n\u00ebnvler\u00ebsohet, duke u par\u00eb ende si nj\u00eb tem\u00eb tabu. \u00cbsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb Inkurajojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb shprehin ndjenjat e tyre, emocionet pa frik\u00eb nga paragjykimet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Edukimi i prind\u00ebrve dhe m\u00ebsuesve mbi m\u00ebnyrat p\u00ebr t\u00eb identifikuar shenjat e depresionit, ankthit ose stresit te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u00ebrfshirja e sa me shume psikolog\u00ebve n\u00eb shkolla (dhe jo vetem) si pjes\u00eb aktive e komunitetit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb si shoq\u00ebri?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kemi shume gjera qe mund te bejme se bashku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00eb promovojm\u00eb dialog p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar m\u00eb mir\u00eb sfidat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve n\u00eb mjedisin shkollor dhe familjar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00eb forcojme mb\u00ebshtetjen p\u00ebr familjet, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht ato q\u00eb p\u00ebrballen me sfida sociale dhe ekonomike.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00e9 nxisim bashk\u00ebpunimin midis shkollave, familjeve dhe institucioneve p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar nj\u00eb rrjet mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebs akoma me te sigurt p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thirrje p\u00ebr reflektim dhe veprim<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ky rast nuk duhet t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb si nj\u00eb statistik\u00eb tragjike. \u00cbsht\u00eb koha q\u00eb t\u00eb ndalemi dhe t\u00eb pyesim:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A po b\u00ebjm\u00eb mjaftuesh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbrojtur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7far\u00eb masash t\u00eb menj\u00ebhershme mund t\u00eb marrim p\u00ebr t\u00eb parandaluar ngjarje t\u00eb tilla n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri e sh\u00ebndetshme dhe e drejt\u00eb matet nga m\u00ebnyra se si kujdeset p\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb vegjlit dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb brishtit e saj. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi nj\u00eb rol p\u00ebr t\u00eb luajtur: si prind\u00ebr, m\u00ebsues, Psikolog, profesionist\u00eb dhe qytetar\u00eb. Kujdesi ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb detyr\u00eb, por nj\u00eb p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi absolute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb gjykat\u00ebsit tan\u00eb t\u00eb ardhsh\u00ebm)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>S\u00eb pari, shpreh ngush\u00ebllimet e mia m\u00eb t\u00eb sinqerta p\u00ebr familjen e vogelushit dhe gjithe komunitetit qe eshte prekur nga ngjarja e r\u00ebnd\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn \u201cFan Noli\u201d.&nbsp; Ky rast tragjik na kujton p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi p\u00ebr t\u00eb garantuar sigurin\u00eb dhe mir\u00ebqenien e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt, jane pasqyra e edukimit te shoq\u00ebris\u00eb tone. 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