Opinion i nj\u00eb njeriu q\u00eb d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb ket\u00eb e rris\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb por q\u00eb gjithashtu q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj t\u00eb rriten mes f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tjere po aq t\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rasti i djesh\u00ebm i humbjes s\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije, \u00ebsht\u00eb i trishtuesh\u00ebm dhe shkat\u00ebrrues p\u00ebr shpirtin, sidomos kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihen n\u00eb dhun\u00eb kaq ekstreme. Nj\u00eb ngjarje e till\u00eb ka shkaktuar ndjenja t\u00eb forta trishtimi, hidh\u00ebrimi dhe shqet\u00ebsimi, sepse tregon nj\u00eb munges\u00eb t\u00eb thell\u00eb lidhjeje njer\u00ebzore dhe nj\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrim t\u00eb pashpjeguesh\u00ebm t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb, t\u00eb pafaj\u00ebsis\u00eb.
Nj\u00eb ngjarje e till\u00eb, l\u00eb pas pik\u00ebpyetje t\u00eb m\u00ebdha p\u00ebr natyr\u00ebn e k\u00ebtyre f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe faktor\u00ebt q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb ndikuar n\u00eb sjelljen e tyre. \u00c7far\u00eb ndodhi n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre p\u00ebr t\u2019u shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb dhunues? Si \u00ebsht\u00eb rritur ky f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb kreu nj\u00eb akt kaq t\u00eb tmerrsh\u00ebm? A \u00ebsht\u00eb ky nj\u00eb reflektim i d\u00ebshtimeve n\u00eb edukimin e tij, pasiguris\u00eb emocionale, apo munges\u00ebs s\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetjes nga familja dhe shoq\u00ebria?
\u00c7\u2019prind\u00ebr mund t\u00eb rrisin f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihen n\u00eb akte t\u00eb tilla ekstreme? \u00c7far\u00eb ndodh me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb kur prind\u00ebrit, shkolla dhe institucionet nuk jan\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u2019i japin udh\u00ebzime, mb\u00ebshtetje dhe kujdes emocional k\u00ebtyre f\u00ebmij\u00ebve?
F\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb kalojn\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr situata t\u00eb tilla, shpesh p\u00ebrballen me ndikime t\u00eb shumta negative q\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb varf\u00ebrin\u00eb, abuzimin n\u00eb familje, munges\u00ebn e modeleve t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme dhe shpesh edhe munges\u00ebn e mb\u00ebshtetjes psikologjike. N\u00eb disa raste, k\u00ebta f\u00ebmij\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb izoluar, t\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebruar dhe t\u00eb humbur, duke k\u00ebrkuar mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb shprehur dhe kanalizuar zem\u00ebrimin e frik\u00ebn q\u00eb ndiejn\u00eb, shpesh n\u00eb forma t\u00eb dhunshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kjo ngjarje trondit\u00ebse sh\u00ebrben si nj\u00eb thirrje e fuqishme p\u00ebr t\u00eb reflektuar mbi m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si e trajtojm\u00eb dhun\u00ebn, si shoq\u00ebri dhe si individ\u00eb. A mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb parandaluar raste t\u00eb tilla tragjike?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
E t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto pyetje duken si pakuptim tani q\u00eb bilanci \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i vdekur dhe nj\u00eb tjeter (edhe shum\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb) gjall\u00eb fizikisht por i vdekur mend\u00ebrisht! Ngush\u00ebllime familjes s\u00eb Martinit, ai iku i pafajsh\u00ebm!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Opinion i nj\u00eb njeriu q\u00eb d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb ket\u00eb e rris\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb por q\u00eb gjithashtu q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj t\u00eb rriten mes f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tjere po aq t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Rasti i djesh\u00ebm i humbjes s\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije, \u00ebsht\u00eb i trishtuesh\u00ebm dhe shkat\u00ebrrues p\u00ebr shpirtin, sidomos kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihen […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":31667,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[2176,3980,328],"class_list":["post-31666","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","tag-femijet","tag-jeta","tag-vdekja"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31666","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31666"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31666\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31667"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31666"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31666"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31666"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}