A quhet tradhti puthja? Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pyetje q\u00eb shpesh i ndan opinionet m\u00eb dysh. \u00cbsht\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht kjo pyetje s\u00eb cil\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekur t\u2019i jap\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje Instituti Francez i Sondazheve Ifop, i cili ka b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb studim mbi pabesin\u00eb dhe se kur fillonte ajo. N\u00eb koh\u00ebn e sotme, sitet e takimeve jasht\u00ebmartesore po p\u00ebrhapen gjithmon\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb. N\u00eb Franc\u00eb, p\u00ebr shembull, nj\u00eb n\u00eb tre francez\u00eb pranojn\u00eb se e kan\u00eb tradhtuar partnerin\/en e tyre. Por, \u00e7far\u00eb quajn\u00eb evropian\u00ebt tradhti? Tradhtia karakterizohet nga ndjenjat kundrejt nj\u00eb personi tjet\u00ebr apo kur ka kontakt dhe shk\u00ebmbime fizike?
Nga studimi ka rezultuar se praktikat e tradhtis\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb n\u00eb Evrop\u00eb, megjithat\u00eb, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jan\u00eb dakord me faktin se tradhtia fillon me kontaktin fizik. K\u00ebshtu, 80% e evropian\u00ebve vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb se kontaktet gojore e gjenitale dhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, qofshin ato t\u00eb rast\u00ebsishme apo t\u00eb rregullta, jasht\u00eb kuadrit t\u00eb \u00e7iftit, jan\u00eb sinonim i tradhtis\u00eb. Por, t\u00eb anketuarit shkojn\u00eb edhe m\u00eb larg, sepse p\u00ebr ta, tradhtia fillon para seksit. K\u00ebshtu, 60% e francez\u00ebve dhe 75% e italian\u00ebve mendojn\u00eb se tradhti \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe t\u00eb puth\u00ebsh nj\u00eb person tjet\u00ebr.
Po t\u00eb fantazosh dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, \u00ebsht\u00eb tradhti? Sondazhi \u00ebsht\u00eb shtrir\u00eb edhe n\u00eb forma t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve, si flirti apo fantazia. K\u00ebshtu, m\u00ebsojm\u00eb se 57% e evropian\u00ebve mendojn\u00eb se t\u00eb shk\u00ebmbesh mesazhe t\u00eb nxehta me nj\u00eb person tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb form\u00eb tradhtie, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb pak se gjysma (45%) q\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin mendim p\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket loj\u00ebs s\u00eb joshjes, ose t\u00eb mendosh p\u00ebr nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, gjat\u00eb aktit seksual (41%). Do t\u00eb ishte interesante t\u00eb dihej n\u00ebse t\u00eb anketuarit kishin kryer apo jo tradhti dhe n\u00ebse ky fakt kishte ndikuar n\u00eb perceptimin e tyre kundrejt tradhtis\u00eb.
A ka marr\u00eb pra fund besnik\u00ebria n\u00eb \u00e7ift? Sado e p\u00ebrhapur \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb tradhtia n\u00eb koh\u00ebt e sotme, kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb e pashmangshme. K\u00ebshtu, 68% e t\u00eb anketurve mendojn\u00eb se mund t\u00eb q\u00ebndrosh besnik\/e gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs ndaj t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtit person, megjithat\u00eb, kjo shif\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb ulje n\u00ebse krahasohet me dhjet\u00ebvje\u00e7ar\u00ebt e kaluar dhe sidomos te grat\u00eb. Gjithashtu, 63% e t\u00eb anketuarve q\u00eb jetojn\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7ift, mendojn\u00eb se mund ta duash dik\u00eb edhe duke e tradhtuar at\u00eb, pra, dashuria nuk ka lidhje me ekskluzivitetin.
Ne nuk jemi t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb se partneri\/ja i tradhtuar do t\u00eb ishte i\/e t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtit mendim!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
A quhet tradhti puthja? Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pyetje q\u00eb shpesh i ndan opinionet m\u00eb dysh. \u00cbsht\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht kjo pyetje s\u00eb cil\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekur t\u2019i jap\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje Instituti Francez i Sondazheve Ifop, i cili ka b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb studim mbi pabesin\u00eb dhe se kur fillonte ajo. N\u00eb koh\u00ebn e sotme, sitet e takimeve jasht\u00ebmartesore po p\u00ebrhapen gjithmon\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[905],"class_list":["post-3104","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-intimitet","tag-seks"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3104","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3104"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3104\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3104"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3104"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3104"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}