Sot jemi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb d\u00ebshmitar\u00eb dhe pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb bote teknologjike, q\u00eb e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb se kurr\u00eb lidhjen me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, nga ana tjet\u00ebr, d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb mir\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndihet sa e shtuar, aq dhe e pakapshme. Kjo m\u00ebnyr\u00eb moderne e t\u00eb ecurit t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, me ritme t\u00eb shpejta, shpesh l\u00eb pak hap\u00ebsir\u00eb p\u00ebr njohjen e ngadalt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb q\u00ebllimshme, q\u00eb dikur ishte sinonim i dashuris\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Koh\u00ebt e letrave t\u00eb shkruara me dor\u00eb dhe bisedave t\u00eb gjata duken aq t\u00eb larg\u00ebta, zbehur atje tutje n\u00eb t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn. N\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, e gjejm\u00eb veten duke lundruar n\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb virtuale t\u00eb mbushur me rr\u00ebshqitje, p\u00eblqime dhe lidhje kalimtare. Koncepti i p\u00ebrkushtimit \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb i rrjedhsh\u00ebm dhe ndjekja e k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb menj\u00ebhershme ka l\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb hije durimin dhe p\u00ebrkushtimin e k\u00ebrkuar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb epok\u00eb q\u00eb na ka zaptuar, \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb kesh nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb malli p\u00ebr thjesht\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe thell\u00ebsin\u00eb e dashuris\u00eb si n\u00eb koh\u00ebt e vjetra. Ne d\u00ebshirojm\u00eb dit\u00ebt kur dashuria ishte nj\u00eb zgjedhje e q\u00ebllimshme, kur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet nd\u00ebrtoheshin mbi besimin, respektin dhe vlerat e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta. Kishte nj\u00eb kuptim t\u00eb natyrsh\u00ebm, pasi dashuria k\u00ebrkonte p\u00ebrpjekje, sakrifica dhe gatishm\u00ebri p\u00ebr t’u b\u00ebr\u00eb ball\u00eb stuhive s\u00ebbashku. Po sot? Nj\u00eb \u201c\u00e7km\u201d, \u201co m\u00eb yllo\u201d, \u201cti qeke bish\u00eb\u201d, \u201c\u00e7a makine t\u00eb p\u00eblqe\u201d homogjenizon \u201cdashurin\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Megjithat\u00eb, mes k\u00ebtij deti mund\u00ebsish t\u00eb pafundme, virtuale apo jo, \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb mbajm\u00eb mend se ndjekja e nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje t\u00eb mir\u00eb k\u00ebrkon aft\u00ebsi dalluese dhe vet\u00ebdije. K\u00ebrkon q\u00eb t’i rezistojm\u00eb tundimit p\u00ebr t’u vendosur p\u00ebr lidhje sip\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsore, dhe n\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb thell\u00ebsi, autenticitet dhe intimitet emocional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nd\u00ebrsa koncepti i marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb ndryshuar, ende dua t\u00eb besoj se d\u00ebshira themelore e njeriut p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb cil\u00ebsore, at\u00eb q\u00eb shemb mure pengesash, mbetet e pandryshuar. Ne d\u00ebshirojm\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, mir\u00ebkuptim dhe ndjenj\u00eb p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsie. Ne d\u00ebshirojm\u00eb shum\u00eb dik\u00eb q\u00eb na sheh ashtu si\u00e7 jemi n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, q\u00eb pranon t\u00eb metat tona dhe lavd\u00ebron pikat tona t\u00eb forta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Si gazetare q\u00eb gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs m\u00eb duhet t\u00eb lundroj n\u00eb bot\u00ebn digjitale, p\u00ebrmes shkrimeve t\u00eb mia dua t\u00eb hedh drit\u00eb mbi sfidat dhe triumfet e dashuris\u00eb n\u00eb epok\u00ebn virtuale, dhe t\u2019u kujtoj lexuesve vlerat e p\u00ebrjetshme q\u00eb mb\u00ebshtesin \u00e7do marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie kuptimplot\u00eb. Fjal\u00ebt tuaja kan\u00eb aft\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb lidhin hendekun midis t\u00eb vjetr\u00ebs e t\u00eb res\u00eb, dhe t\u00eb na kujtojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve fuqin\u00eb e q\u00ebndrueshme t\u00eb lidhjes njer\u00ebzore!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Sot jemi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb d\u00ebshmitar\u00eb dhe pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb bote teknologjike, q\u00eb e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb se kurr\u00eb lidhjen me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, nga ana tjet\u00ebr, d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb mir\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndihet sa e shtuar, aq dhe e pakapshme. Kjo m\u00ebnyr\u00eb moderne e t\u00eb ecurit t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, me ritme t\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":30678,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1356],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30676","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-living"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30676","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30676"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30676\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30678"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30676"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30676"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30676"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}