Krizat n\u00eb \u00e7ift i kalojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb pak po e sigurt. M\u00ebnyra se si ndodh dhe rezultati final q\u00eb kan\u00eb varet nga t\u00eb dy personat e p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb, por duhet t\u00eb tregosh kujdes p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar n\u00ebse kriza q\u00eb po p\u00ebrjeton \u00ebsht\u00eb momentale, apo vendimtare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Frika m\u00eb e madhe q\u00eb kan\u00eb shumica e personave n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje \u00ebsht\u00eb vetmia. \u201cNe jemi kafsh\u00eb sociale dhe kemi lindur n\u00eb familje dhe rritur n\u00eb grupe. Natyra na ka b\u00ebr\u00eb ta shohim gjithmon\u00eb veten si pjes\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb grupi\u201d, thekson Dr. Mattia Cis, psikologe dhe psikoterapiste.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ekziston nj\u00eb stigm\u00eb q\u00eb flet p\u00ebr vetmin\u00eb si nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e karakterit, e cila lidhet me njer\u00ebzit e dob\u00ebt, por n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb e lidhur me natyr\u00ebn ton\u00eb, thuhet n\u00eb studime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb aryseja kryesore biologjike q\u00eb shkakton edhe frik\u00ebn e ndarjes apo pavendosm\u00ebrin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb partnerin q\u00eb nuk t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb lumtur. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb, hapi i par\u00eb nga ku nis ndryshimi \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb kuptuarit se raporti n\u00eb \u00e7ift nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i vetmi burim p\u00ebrmbushjeje q\u00eb ke n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Por si e dallojm\u00eb ne n\u00ebse jemi n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie q\u00eb ka marr\u00eb fund apo nj\u00eb kriz\u00eb kalimtare?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pavar\u00ebsisht dashuris\u00eb dhe raportit t\u00eb mir\u00eb, \u00e7do \u00e7ift kalon n\u00eb faza t\u00eb caktuara q\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb probleme dhe kriza. \u00c7el\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb drejtim \u00e7do problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb nd\u00ebrtimi i nj\u00eb ure komunikimi q\u00eb nuk d\u00ebshton dhe q\u00eb do t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb p\u00ebrtej k\u00ebtyre krizave.
Mbaj mend se \u201c\u00e7ifti i lumtur p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb\u201d nuk ekziston dhe as nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shembull p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndjekur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse n\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur kriz\u00ebn q\u00eb keni, kuptoni se marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia nuk po i b\u00ebn mir\u00eb asnj\u00ebrit prej jush, alarmi p\u00ebr ndarje rritet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nd\u00ebrsa n\u00ebse marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia juaj ka karakteristikat e m\u00ebposhtme, duhet t\u00eb ndaheni sa m\u00eb shpejt:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Raporti n\u00eb \u00e7ift \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Familja, gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb p\u00eblqen dhe koha q\u00eb kalon me njer\u00ebz t\u00eb tjer\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb dhe m\u00eb e pak\u00ebt. T\u00eb dy jeni t\u00eb fiksuar me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia \u00ebsht\u00eb aryseja e nj\u00ebrit prej jush p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar. Kjo gjendje \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e rrezikshme dhe mund t\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb problem shum\u00eb serioz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kur nevojat e tjetrit ke filluar t\u2019i vendos\u00ebsh para t\u00eb tuave, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia b\u00ebhet asimetrike dhe mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoj\u00eb n\u00eb abuzim emocional, psikologjik dhe seksual.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Krizat n\u00eb \u00e7ift i kalojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb pak po e sigurt. M\u00ebnyra se si ndodh dhe rezultati final q\u00eb kan\u00eb varet nga t\u00eb dy personat e p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb, por duhet t\u00eb tregosh kujdes p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar n\u00ebse kriza q\u00eb po p\u00ebrjeton \u00ebsht\u00eb momentale, apo vendimtare. Frika m\u00eb e madhe q\u00eb kan\u00eb shumica e personave […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":30638,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[319],"class_list":["post-30637","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-psikologji"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30637","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30637"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30637\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30638"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30637"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30637"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30637"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}