Ana ime e historis\u00eb<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Miq,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sa her\u00eb diskutojm\u00eb mbi \u00e7\u00ebshtje lidhur me arsimin, ka gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn tri an\u00eb t\u00eb historis\u00eb. Ana e prindit, ana e m\u00ebsuesit dhe ana e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit. K\u00ebto tri an\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebhen nj\u00eb n\u00ebse duam t\u00eb shkojm\u00eb drejt zgjidhjes s\u00eb problemeve, si bashk\u00ebpunues, si mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebs t\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit p\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.
Ajo q\u00eb v\u00ebrehet \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrballja mes prind\u00ebrve dhe m\u00ebsuesve. Diskutimi k\u00ebtu n\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00ebn e rasteve b\u00ebhet p\u00ebr vler\u00ebsimin e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit, kur ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb maksimal.
Prind\u00ebrit u q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb si nj\u00eb korac\u00eb mbrojt\u00ebse f\u00ebmij\u00ebve p\u00ebrball\u00eb m\u00ebsuesit, t\u00eb cilit i k\u00ebrkohen shpjegime n\u00eb \u00e7do rast kur nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi \u00ebsht\u00eb i pak\u00ebnaqur me not\u00ebn. M\u00ebsuesi, n\u00ebn trysnin\u00eb e k\u00ebrkes\u00ebs s\u00eb llogaris\u00eb, i ndjer\u00eb i c\u00ebnuar, i v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb diskutim n\u00eb aspektin profesional, shpjegon e shpjegon me durim, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe b\u00ebn nj\u00eb marr\u00ebveshje t\u00eb fsheht\u00eb p\u00ebr not\u00ebn duke u v\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebshtu shkelmin parimeve dhe standardeve profesionale (sipas s\u00eb cilave vler\u00ebsimi duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb objektiv, transparent dhe i paansh\u00ebm) e duke c\u00ebnuar MERITOKRACIN\u00cb. Prindi n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast largohet krenar dhe i lumtur, q\u00eb ia mblodhi m\u00ebsuesit dhe e arriti q\u00ebllimin.
Q\u00ebllimin? Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00ebllimi i dashur prind? Ta edukosh f\u00ebmij\u00ebn t\u00eb fitoj\u00eb pa merit\u00eb, pa ndershm\u00ebri? Ta edukosh f\u00ebmij\u00ebn q\u00eb m\u00ebsuesi i n\u00ebnshtrohet prindit? Ta l\u00ebsh f\u00ebmij\u00ebn n\u00eb padije, por t\u00eb lumtur?
Po n\u00ebse f\u00ebmija nuk e fiton gar\u00ebn e sportit, ti prind do t\u2019i k\u00ebrkoje shpjegime m\u00ebsuesit? Do t\u2019i thoje t\u00eb st\u00ebrvitet m\u00eb shum\u00eb se mund t\u2019ia dal\u00eb? Do ta mb\u00ebshtesje f\u00ebmij\u00ebn n\u00eb rritje? M\u00eb beso, nga ana e m\u00ebsuesit t\u00eb them q\u00eb kjo do t\u00eb ishte zgjidhja e duhur n\u00eb \u00e7do rast, jo vet\u00ebm n\u00eb garat sportive. N\u00ebse f\u00ebmija nuk largohet nga koraca e prindit, ai nuk rritet asnj\u00ebher\u00eb. L\u00ebrini f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb gabojn\u00eb, t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb ringrihen me forcat e tyre dhe ta shijojn\u00eb triumfin me merit\u00eb.
Shkolla nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb sken\u00eb teatrale, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shfaqje me aktor\u00eb t\u00eb maskuar. Shkolla \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb sken\u00eb jete ku luhet e ardhmja e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs e rregullat duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb barabarta dhe t\u00eb zbatuara nj\u00ebsoj prej t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve. L\u00ebkundja e vlerave dhe e parimeve nuk c\u00ebnon vet\u00ebm nx\u00ebn\u00ebsin, por n\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00ebsi sistemin arsimor dhe t\u00eb ardhmen e vendit.
Secili nga ne, n\u00eb an\u00ebn e vet t\u00eb historis\u00eb, ka nj\u00eb cop\u00ebz p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsie p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb zgjedh t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb. Po ti, po zgjedh an\u00ebn e duhur!
Irida Xhura<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ana ime e historis\u00eb Miq, Sa her\u00eb diskutojm\u00eb mbi \u00e7\u00ebshtje lidhur me arsimin, ka gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn tri an\u00eb t\u00eb historis\u00eb. Ana e prindit, ana e m\u00ebsuesit dhe ana e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit. K\u00ebto tri an\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebhen nj\u00eb n\u00ebse duam t\u00eb shkojm\u00eb drejt zgjidhjes s\u00eb problemeve, si bashk\u00ebpunues, si mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebs t\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit p\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":30593,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[3745],"class_list":["post-30592","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","tag-irida-xhura"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30592","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30592"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30592\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30593"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30592"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30592"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30592"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}