{"id":29828,"date":"2023-02-24T20:49:10","date_gmt":"2023-02-24T19:49:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=29828"},"modified":"2023-02-24T20:49:12","modified_gmt":"2023-02-24T19:49:12","slug":"dhune-apo-bullizem-si-shmangen-a-ka-zgjidhje-apo-vetem-receta-jashte-mode-nga-dr-xhoi-jakaj","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2023\/02\/dhune-apo-bullizem-si-shmangen-a-ka-zgjidhje-apo-vetem-receta-jashte-mode-nga-dr-xhoi-jakaj\/","title":{"rendered":"Dhun\u00eb apo bulliz\u00ebm? Si shmangen? A ka zgjidhje apo vet\u00ebm receta jasht\u00eb mode? Nga Dr. Xhoi Jakaj!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Pas nj\u00eb video q\u00eb m\u00eb zuri syri n\u00eb rrjet, nga dhuna mes disa adoleshenteve 13-14 vje\u00e7 u nxita t\u00eb b\u00ebj k’t\u00eb shkrim.
Edhe si autore e dy librave t\u00eb mi n\u00eb treg!
“Adoleshenca n\u00eb filtrin e dashuris\u00eb”
“Paraadoleshenca sfidat e prind\u00ebrimit”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dhun\u00eb apo Bulliz\u00ebm!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bullizmi edhe dhuna ngjajn\u00eb shum\u00eb e jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrhapura tej normave t\u00eb lejuara shoq\u00ebrore vitet e fundit, kryesisht edhe m\u00eb teper me zhvillimin e vrullsh\u00ebm t\u00eb rrjeteve sociale, istagram dhe tik- tok.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lind pyetja.
Si shamanget ky fenomen\u2026a ka zgjidhje? Apo vetem receta\u2026 te cilat gati thuajse jan\u00eb jasht\u00eb mode n\u00eb koh\u00ebrat q\u00eb jetojm\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kujdesi nr -1 fillon n\u00eb familje, aty \u00ebsht\u00eb baz\u00eb ku ti b\u00ebhesh nj\u00eb dit\u00eb njeri i qet\u00eb apo agresiv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kujdesi nr-2 fillon n\u00eb kop\u00ebsht, shtrihet n\u00eb shkollat fillore, ato 9-vje\u00e7are, dhe t\u00eb mesme me nj\u00eb program t\u00eb detajuar ose projekt nga shoqatat dhe shteti me nj\u00eb grup profesionist\u00ebsh, sepse parandalimi \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i leht\u00eb se sh\u00ebrimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dhuna?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dhuna \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb form\u00eb ekstreme agresioni dhe p\u00ebrdorimi i forc\u00ebs fizike p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebnduar, abuzuar, d\u00ebmtuar ose shkat\u00ebrruar, nj\u00eb person ose disa nj\u00ebher\u00ebsh nepermes nj\u0113 sulmi, vrasje, rrahje. etj , ndodh kudo n\u00eb familje, mes t\u00eb rriturish, mes burrit e gruas, tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb, t\u00eb moshuarit, si dhe forma me e re e p\u00ebrhapur pafund, \u00ebsht\u00eb dhuna e me ndihm\u00ebn e teknologjis\u00eb!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb Bullzmi ku ndryshon ajo nga dhuna!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bullizmi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebmtuar tjetrin, d\u00ebshir\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebmton, veprim q\u00eb l\u00ebndon ,nj\u00eb disbalac\u00eb n\u00eb forc\u00eb , p\u00ebrdorim i padrejt\u00eb i egos, dhe nj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi e dukshme e agresorit si nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb e p\u00ebrgjithshme e t\u00eb q\u00ebnit mbizot\u00ebrus ndaj viktim\u00ebs\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cBullying ” i shqip\u00ebruar do t\u00eb thot\u00eb \u201ck\u00ebrc\u00ebnim\u201d dhe tregon fenomenin e sjelljeve t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebritura, agresive, t\u00eb dhunshme me karakter psikologjik, fizik, q\u00eb ju b\u00ebhet personave t\u00eb pambrojtur, qoft\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve adoleshent\u00ebve, por nuk p\u00ebrjashtohen as t\u00eb rriturit q\u00eb bullohen ose i bullojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, si psh nj\u00eb individ ose grup individ\u00ebsh m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj t\u00eb cil\u00ebt k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb t\u00eb diskriminojn\u00eb, keqtrajtojn\u00eb, abuzojn\u00eb, me nofka t\u00eb ndryshme.kok\u00eb tul, hund\u00ebderr, vesh\u00ebllapush, majmun,lope, jevg, i sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb, i mefsht\u00eb, pa tru, i pa zhvilluar, gay,daun, etj etj etj. Nofka q\u00eb t\u00eb shoq\u00ebrojn\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde ndonjeher\u00eb!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u00ebta individ agresiv kryejn\u00eb bulliz\u00ebm ndaj \u201cviktimave\u201d t\u00eb tyre duke shfryt\u00ebzuar mosh\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, pamjen e jashtme, statusin social, p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsit\u00eb racore ,komb\u00ebsin\u00eb fetare.
Bullizmi shfaqet n\u00eb forma t\u00eb ndryshme :
1-Bullizmi fizik, prek paraqitjen e jashtme.
2-Bullizmi psikologjik verbal me an\u00eb t\u00eb fyerjes, nofkave, thashethemeve dashakeqe, shpifjeve\u2026.
3-Bullizmi, m\u00ebnjanim nga grupi shoq\u00ebror n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb,ose n\u00eb festa q\u00eb organizon klasa,
4-Bullizmi seksual, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb verbal me an\u00eb t\u00eb fjal\u00ebve fyese, provokuese, por edhe fizik n\u00eb ngacmime seksuale..
5-Bullizmi virtual me an\u00eb t\u00eb rrjeteve sociale dmth keqp\u00ebrdorimi i tyre p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebmtuar \u2018viktim\u00ebn\u2019 me postimin e fakteve apo thjesht shpifjeve publikisht\u2026
6-Bullizmi racial n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet fyerjes dhe dhun\u00ebs..
7- Bullizmi fetar duke diskriminuar dhe fyer fen\u00eb ku nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi ose prind\u00ebrit e tij besojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si e dallojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn ose adoleshentin q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebn presionin e dhun\u00ebs bullizuese<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1-Adoleshenti ose f\u00ebmija nuk p\u00eblqen m\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn. Ose kurset n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat ishte m\u00eb par\u00eb<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2- N\u00ebse adoleshenti i fiksuar pas Instagramit apo fb ka llogari , dhe papritur tenton ti mbylle ato nga frika.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3-F\u00ebmija ose adoleshenti nis t\u00eb ket\u00eb shum\u00eb dhimbje koke, barku apo stomaku, k\u00ebto jan\u00eb jan\u00eb shenja ankthi q\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb makth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4-F\u00ebmija ose adoleshenti grindet dhe nuk flet me miqt\u00eb e atij\/ asaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5-Djali ose vajza n\u00eb adoleshenc\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb m\u00eb n\u00eb sport ose n\u00eb st\u00ebrvitje<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6- Atij ose asaj nuk i p\u00eblqen m\u00eb vetja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7-F\u00ebmija ose Adoleshenti fillon t\u00eb ushtroj\u00eb vet\u00eb bulliz\u00ebm ndaj nj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebti<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8- Ka r\u00ebnie n\u00eb m\u00ebsim dhe shtim n\u00eb pesh\u00eb nga ankthi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9- Pagjum\u00ebsi dhe mungese interesi per jet\u00ebn si edhe \u00e7do aktivitet i realizuar m\u00eb par\u00eb,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10- Ka raste kur tentojne edhe vetevrasje!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bullizmi demton shendetin mendor dhe fizik, edhe vret f\u00ebmij\u00eb apo t\u00eb rritur q\u00eb gjenden mes nje stuhije apo dhune t\u00eb pafajshme n\u00ebse nuk i mbrojm\u00eb!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u00ebshilla ime fare modeste \u00ebsht\u00eb, edhe n\u00ebse ke 1001 pun\u00eb e v\u00ebsht\u00ebrsi leri menj\u00eban\u00eb, kalo koh\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e adoleshenc\u00ebs, japi mund\u00ebsi te flas\u00eb, ta nxj\u00ebrre breng\u00ebn q\u00eb e mundon , ndryshe dhimbja kthehet n\u00eb problem dhe e kan\u00eb t\u00eb gati t\u00eb pamundur mbijetes\u00ebn n\u00eb ambientin ku ata m\u00ebsojn\u00eb apo jetojn\u00eb!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Pas nj\u00eb video q\u00eb m\u00eb zuri syri n\u00eb rrjet, nga dhuna mes disa adoleshenteve 13-14 vje\u00e7 u nxita t\u00eb b\u00ebj k’t\u00eb shkrim.Edhe si autore e dy librave t\u00eb mi n\u00eb treg!“Adoleshenca n\u00eb filtrin e dashuris\u00eb”“Paraadoleshenca sfidat e prind\u00ebrimit” Dhun\u00eb apo Bulliz\u00ebm! Bullizmi edhe dhuna ngjajn\u00eb shum\u00eb e jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrhapura tej normave t\u00eb lejuara shoq\u00ebrore […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":29830,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[3627],"class_list":["post-29828","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","tag-dr-xhoi-jakaj"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29828","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29828"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29828\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29830"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29828"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29828"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29828"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}