{"id":28418,"date":"2022-02-02T11:21:50","date_gmt":"2022-02-02T10:21:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=28418"},"modified":"2022-02-02T11:21:54","modified_gmt":"2022-02-02T10:21:54","slug":"disa-menyra-si-ti-ndihmojne-femijet-te-komunikojne-pozitivisht-me-veten","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2022\/02\/disa-menyra-si-ti-ndihmojne-femijet-te-komunikojne-pozitivisht-me-veten\/","title":{"rendered":"Disa m\u00ebnyra si t\u2019i ndihmojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb komunikojne pozitivisht me veten\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb komunikimi pozitiv me veten?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u00eb thelb, komunikimi pozitiv me veten \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mekaniz\u00ebm p\u00ebrballues q\u00eb i fuqizon f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb riformulojn\u00eb t\u00eb menduarit e tyre, ushqen elasticitetin dhe nd\u00ebrton vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimin. Si nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore e t\u00eb m\u00ebsuarit social-emocional, komunikimi pozitiv me veten ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr sesa nxitja e nj\u00eb q\u00ebndrimi pozitiv. N\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, q\u00ebllimi i k\u00ebsaj m\u00ebnyre komunikimi \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb trajnoj\u00eb trurin p\u00ebr t\u00eb njohur pikat e forta, mund\u00ebsit\u00eb p\u00ebr p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsim ose rritje dhe arsyet p\u00ebr t\u00eb provuar p\u00ebrs\u00ebri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kur prind\u00ebrit i m\u00ebsojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre t\u00eb flasin me veten q\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb hershme, ata jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb po fuqizojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre, por gjithashtu po nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb elasticitetin e tyre. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt m\u00ebsojn\u00eb se nuk duhet t\u00eb lejojn\u00eb pengesat dhe sfidat t\u00eb prishin q\u00ebllimet ose \u00ebndrrat e tyre. Ata gjithashtu fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb se ajo q\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i ofruar bot\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb pozitive \u2013 se jan\u00eb unik\u00eb me nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb pikash t\u00eb forta q\u00eb mund t\u2019i p\u00ebrdorin n\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>P\u00ebrfitimet e komunikimit pozitiv me veten<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022 Nd\u00ebrton elasticitetin;<br>\u2022 Zhvillon nj\u00eb k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrim pozitiv p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn;<br>\u2022 Ndihmon f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb identifikojn\u00eb pikat e tyre t\u00eb forta;<br>\u2022 Krijon vet\u00ebbesimin;<br>\u2022 I shtyn f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb mund t\u2019i b\u00ebjn\u00eb mir\u00eb;<br>\u2022 Lejon f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb njohin fushat e p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimit;<br>\u2022 I fuqizon f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb p\u00ebrballen me sfidat dhe t\u00eb nd\u00ebrmarrin rreziqe;<br>\u2022 U jep f\u00ebmij\u00ebve kurajo p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar pas \u00ebndrrave dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb vendosur q\u00ebllime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Krijoni vet\u00ebdije<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Biseda pozitive me veten fillon me nj\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsim ose njohje t\u00eb mendimeve dhe mesazheve negative q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt po i thon\u00eb vetes. Shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr komunikimin e tyre negativ me veten dhe ndikimin q\u00eb ka n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre.<br>Ndihmojini t\u00eb dallojn\u00eb kur mendojn\u00eb ose thon\u00eb gj\u00ebra negative p\u00ebr veten e tyre, thot\u00eb Rinehart. Ju gjithashtu duhet t\u2019i ndihmoni ata t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb se si \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb komunikim pozitiv, thot\u00eb ajo.<br>\u201cP\u00ebrdorni modele, filma dhe libra p\u00ebr t\u2019i ndihmuar ata t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb se si mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin fjal\u00eb pozitive p\u00ebr t\u00eb inkurajuar biseda pozitive me veten. Kujtojuni se t\u00eb m\u00ebsuarit t\u00eb komunikimit pozitiv me veten k\u00ebrkon praktik\u00eb dhe disa dit\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb lehta se t\u00eb tjerat\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Angazhohuni n\u00eb biseda<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00eb kesh biseda t\u00eb rregullta me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr komunikimin pozitiv me veten, por edhe p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si ndihen ose si shkuan gj\u00ebrat n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, mund t\u00eb ndihmoj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb folurit pozitiv me veten t\u00eb b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb zakon ose nj\u00eb praktik\u00eb e p\u00ebrditshme. \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb mendosh p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb shkoi keq gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb dit\u00ebs. Biseda pozitive me veten i b\u00ebn ata t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb shkoi mir\u00eb ose \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebn\u00eb mir\u00eb.<br>P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, k\u00ebto biseda ndihmojn\u00eb n\u00eb krijimin e lidhjeve t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme mes jush dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tuaj. Ju mund t\u00eb ndani q\u00ebllimet dhe \u00ebndrrat dhe t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtesni nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme kur gj\u00ebrat nuk shkojn\u00eb sipas planit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Normalizoni njohjen e pikave t\u00eb forta<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Shum\u00eb her\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt mendojn\u00eb se duke njohur dhe duke u m\u00ebshuar pikave t\u00eb forta, ata po mburren ose nuk po tregohen t\u00eb p\u00ebrulur. Por t\u00eb dish se ku shk\u00eblqen dhe ku ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb pun\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb aft\u00ebsi jet\u00ebsore q\u00eb do t\u00eb p\u00ebrdoret gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Pyetni f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj se \u00e7far\u00eb i p\u00eblqen m\u00eb shum\u00eb tek vetja. Fillimisht, mund t\u2019ju duhet t\u2019i ndihmoni ata t\u00eb identifikojn\u00eb pikat e tyre t\u00eb forta ose t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb di\u00e7ka n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn jan\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Ata mund t\u00eb mos jen\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u2019i shohin k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra menj\u00ebher\u00eb. Ju gjithashtu mund t\u2019i drejtoni ata drejt aktiviteteve q\u00eb p\u00ebrputhen me interesat e tyre. P\u00ebrvet\u00ebsimi i nj\u00eb aft\u00ebsie \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nxit\u00ebs i madh i besimit p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>P\u00ebrqendrohuni te p\u00ebrpjekjet e tyre<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e dobishme t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendroheni n\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs tuaj n\u00eb situata sesa \u00e7do gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Tregohuni t\u00eb rezervuar me komentet p\u00ebr rezultatin p\u00ebrfundimtar. P\u00ebr shembull, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendroheni n\u00eb not\u00ebn e tyre n\u00eb matematik\u00eb, komentoni se sa shum\u00eb kan\u00eb studiuar dhe sa pun\u00eb kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Jepni shembullin tuaj t\u00eb komunikimit pozitiv me veten<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e sfid\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb ndalemi p\u00ebr nj\u00eb minut\u00eb dhe t\u2019i hedhim nj\u00eb sy m\u00ebnyr\u00ebs se si po komunikojm\u00eb p\u00ebrpara f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt m\u00ebsojn\u00eb shum\u00eb duke par\u00eb dhe v\u00ebzhguar prind\u00ebrit e tyre. Pra, kur p\u00ebrballeni me nj\u00eb situat\u00eb sfiduese ose frustruese, jepni shembullin e komunikimit pozitiv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Burimi: Humanum.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb komunikimi pozitiv me veten? N\u00eb thelb, komunikimi pozitiv me veten \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mekaniz\u00ebm p\u00ebrballues q\u00eb i fuqizon f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb riformulojn\u00eb t\u00eb menduarit e tyre, ushqen elasticitetin dhe nd\u00ebrton vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimin. Si nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore e t\u00eb m\u00ebsuarit social-emocional, komunikimi pozitiv me veten ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr sesa nxitja e nj\u00eb q\u00ebndrimi pozitiv. 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