{"id":27789,"date":"2021-09-15T13:17:11","date_gmt":"2021-09-15T11:17:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=27789"},"modified":"2021-09-15T13:25:21","modified_gmt":"2021-09-15T11:25:21","slug":"si-te-pergatisim-femijet-me-aftesi-ndryshe-per-fillimin-e-shkolles-7-orientime-per-prinderit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2021\/09\/si-te-pergatisim-femijet-me-aftesi-ndryshe-per-fillimin-e-shkolles-7-orientime-per-prinderit\/","title":{"rendered":"Si t\u00eb p\u00ebrgatisim f\u00ebmij\u00ebt me aft\u00ebsi ndryshe p\u00ebr fillimin e shkoll\u00ebs? 7 orientime p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Fillimi i shkoll\u00ebs&nbsp;\u00ebsht\u00eb&nbsp;nj\u00eb&nbsp;nga momentet m\u00ebt\u00eb&nbsp;bukura, por edhe m\u00eb&nbsp;t\u00eb&nbsp;r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00ebjet\u00ebn e t\u00eb&nbsp;gjith\u00eb&nbsp;f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.&nbsp;Nisja e saj me sukses&nbsp;\u00ebsht\u00eb&nbsp;premtim&nbsp;p\u00ebr&nbsp;arritjen e m\u00ebtejshme t\u00ebf\u00ebmij\u00ebs, por jo p\u00ebr t\u00eb&nbsp;gjith\u00eb&nbsp;ky fillim&nbsp;\u00ebsht\u00eb&nbsp;nj\u00ebsoj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u00ebmij\u00ebt hasin v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi t\u00eb&nbsp;shumta, jo vet\u00ebm se p\u00ebrballen me nj\u00eb&nbsp;mjedis t\u00eb&nbsp;ri, me shok\u00eb&nbsp;e shoqe t\u00eb&nbsp;reja, pa pranin\u00eb&nbsp;e prind\u00ebrve etj, por hasin v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi t\u00eb&nbsp;shumta edhe n\u00eb&nbsp;m\u00ebsimin e shkronjave, numrave, t\u00eb&nbsp;shkruarit, t\u00eblexuarit etj. K\u00ebto v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi b\u00ebhen edhe m\u00eb&nbsp;t\u00ebtheksuara p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt me aft\u00ebsi ndryshe, t\u00ebcil\u00ebt nuk e kan\u00eb&nbsp;t\u00eb&nbsp;leht\u00eb&nbsp;p\u00ebrshtatjen e ndryshimin e rutin\u00ebs.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prandaj&nbsp;\u00ebsht\u00eb&nbsp;e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb&nbsp;flitet n\u00ebm\u00ebnyr\u00eb&nbsp;m\u00eb&nbsp;konkrete dhe specifike, duke orientuar prind\u00ebrit se si&nbsp;t\u00eb&nbsp;veprojn\u00eb&nbsp;me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre. Pavar\u00ebsisht,&nbsp;se ata do t\u00eb&nbsp;ken\u00ebpjes\u00ebmarrje t\u00ebvazhdueshme n\u00eb&nbsp;shkoll\u00eb, p\u00ebrfshirjen&nbsp;n\u00eb&nbsp;planin PEI, takimet me m\u00ebsuesit etj, ata duhet t\u00eb&nbsp;dijn\u00eb&nbsp;m\u00ebkonkretisht si t\u00ebp\u00ebrgatisin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre. M\u00ebposht\u00eb&nbsp;po listojm\u00eb&nbsp;disa m\u00ebnyra:1.&nbsp;Njihuni dhe komunikoni me m\u00ebsuesen\/in&nbsp;e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs suaj<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb&nbsp;\u00e7oni f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj n\u00eb&nbsp;shkoll\u00eb, njihuni me m\u00ebsuesen\/m\u00ebsuesin e tyre. Shkoni n\u00eb&nbsp;shkoll\u00eb&nbsp;dhe takoni drejtp\u00ebrdrejt m\u00ebsuesen kujdestare t\u00eb&nbsp;klas\u00ebs. Bisedoni me at\u00ebrreth nevojave t\u00eb&nbsp;f\u00ebmij\u00ebs suaj, gjendjes dhe gatishm\u00ebris\u00eb&nbsp;p\u00ebr t\u00eb&nbsp;bashk\u00ebpunuar. Gjithashtu, diskutoni sesi m\u00ebsuesi do t\u00ebkomunikoj\u00eb&nbsp;me ju. M\u00ebsuesit jan\u00eb&nbsp;t\u00ebndrysh\u00ebm dhe k\u00ebrkesat e secil\u00ebs klase jan\u00eb&nbsp;t\u00ebndryshme. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb, ju duhet t\u00eb&nbsp;zgjidhni komunikimin q\u00eb&nbsp;do t\u00eb&nbsp;p\u00ebrdoni si me an\u00eb&nbsp;t\u00ebtelefonit, ose mund t\u00eb&nbsp;lini nj\u00eb&nbsp;fletore ku m\u00ebsuesi t\u00eb&nbsp;shkruaj\u00eb&nbsp;gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr tu orientuar sesi t\u00eb&nbsp;ndihmoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebn p\u00ebr detyrat. Kjonjohje&nbsp;e par\u00eb&nbsp;do t\u00eb&nbsp;krijoj\u00eb&nbsp;nj\u00eb&nbsp;\u201cur\u00eb\u201d komunikimi efektiv p\u00ebr gjith\u00ebvitin.&nbsp;2.&nbsp;Vizitoni klas\u00ebn me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cbsht\u00eb&nbsp;e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb&nbsp;ta sillni f\u00ebmij\u00ebn n\u00ebshkoll\u00eb, p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb&nbsp;filloj\u00eb&nbsp;shkolla. Ju mund t\u00eb&nbsp;zgjidhni nj\u00eb&nbsp;dit\u00eb, madje edhe disa dit\u00eb, q\u00ebt\u00eb&nbsp;vizitoni shkoll\u00ebn, duke e njohur f\u00ebmij\u00ebn me ambjentin, m\u00ebsuesen,&nbsp;klas\u00ebn&nbsp;etj. Kjo mund t\u00eb&nbsp;ndihmoj\u00eb&nbsp;n\u00ebzbutjen e disa shqet\u00ebsimeve t\u00eb&nbsp;f\u00ebmij\u00ebs suaj. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00ebt\u00ebndrysh\u00ebm dhe kan\u00eb&nbsp;v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi n\u00ebp\u00ebrshtatje. Por ju mund t\u2019i tregoni mjedisin, bankat, madje mund t\u00eb&nbsp;merrni lodrat&nbsp;epreferuara dhe t\u00eb&nbsp;zhvilloni disa lojra me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj. Kjo do t\u00eb&nbsp;krijoj\u00eb&nbsp;nj\u00eb&nbsp;lidhje arg\u00ebtimi dhe f\u00ebmija do t\u00eb&nbsp;d\u00ebshiroj\u00eb&nbsp;t\u00ebvij\u00ebs\u00ebrisht aty.3.&nbsp;Njihuni me m\u00ebsuesin mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebs\/ndihm\u00ebs<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gjithashtu, ju duhet t\u00eb&nbsp;njihni edhe m\u00ebsuesin mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebs\/ndihm\u00ebs, pasi ai&nbsp;\u00ebsht\u00eb&nbsp;personi q\u00ebdo t\u00eb&nbsp;punoj\u00ebdrejtp\u00ebrdrejt me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj. Takoni at\u00eb&nbsp;dhe diskutoni mbi gjendjen dhe nevojat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs suaj. Po k\u00ebshtu,&nbsp;takoheni edhe me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj, q\u00eb&nbsp;ai&nbsp;t\u00eb&nbsp;krijoj\u00eb&nbsp;njohje dhe t\u00eb&nbsp;d\u00ebshiroj\u00eb&nbsp;t\u00ebq\u00ebndroj\u00eb&nbsp;me at\u00eb. Prezantojeni me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj dhe tregojini,q\u00eb\u00ebsht\u00eb&nbsp;nj\u00eb&nbsp;person&nbsp;i&nbsp;af\u00ebrt q\u00eb&nbsp;do ta ndihmoj\u00eb, do ta arg\u00ebtoj\u00eb, do t\u00eb&nbsp;luaj\u00eb&nbsp;me at\u00eb&nbsp;etj. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr edhe m\u00ebsuesi mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebs duhet t\u00eb&nbsp;b\u00ebj\u00ebrolin e tij, pasi&nbsp;\u00ebsht\u00eb&nbsp;i&nbsp;specializuar n\u00ebk\u00ebt\u00ebdrejtim.&nbsp;4.&nbsp;Krijoni rutina para fillimit t\u00eb&nbsp;shkoll\u00ebs<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rutina&nbsp;\u00ebsht\u00eb&nbsp;shum\u00eb&nbsp;e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, sindomos me aft\u00ebsi ndryshe. Ata e kan\u00eb&nbsp;m\u00eb&nbsp;t\u00eb&nbsp;v\u00ebshtir\u00eb&nbsp;p\u00ebrshtatjen, ngandryshimi&nbsp;i&nbsp;saj. Prandaj, ju duhet t\u00eb&nbsp;filloni t\u00eb&nbsp;nd\u00ebrtoni rutina, p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb&nbsp;filloj\u00ebshkolla. Mundohuni t\u00eb&nbsp;m\u00ebsoni t\u00eb&nbsp;zgjoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj her\u00ebt, n\u00eb&nbsp;m\u00ebnyr\u00eb&nbsp;q\u00eb&nbsp;t\u00eb&nbsp;jen\u00eb&nbsp;t\u00ebm\u00ebsuar me koh\u00ebn e shkuarjes n\u00eb&nbsp;shkoll\u00eb. Po k\u00ebshtu,&nbsp;dilni me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn n\u00eb&nbsp;orarin kur fillon shkolla, ose shkoni diku me autobus, q\u00ebf\u00ebmija t\u00eb&nbsp;filloj\u00ebt\u00eb&nbsp;m\u00ebsoj\u00eb&nbsp;rutin\u00ebn e t\u00eb&nbsp;shkuarit n\u00eb&nbsp;shkoll\u00eb, q\u00eb&nbsp;me p\u00ebrgatitjen, marrjen e autobusit dhe mb\u00ebrritjen n\u00eb&nbsp;shkoll\u00eb.&nbsp;Gjat\u00ebdit\u00ebs zhvilloni aktivitete dhe lojra t\u00eb&nbsp;shumta, q\u00eb&nbsp;f\u00ebmija t\u00eb&nbsp;ndihet&nbsp;ip\u00ebrfshir\u00eb&nbsp;gjith\u00eb&nbsp;koh\u00ebn dhe&nbsp;t\u00eb&nbsp;jet\u00eb i&nbsp;gatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb&nbsp;shkuar her\u00ebt n\u00ebshtrat.&nbsp;\u00cbsht\u00eb&nbsp;mir\u00eb,&nbsp;q\u00eb&nbsp;f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb&nbsp;shkojn\u00ebp\u00ebrpara or\u00ebs 22:00 n\u00eb&nbsp;shtrat, p\u00ebr t\u00eb&nbsp;pushuar dhe b\u00ebr\u00eb&nbsp;nj\u00eb&nbsp;gjum\u00eb&nbsp;t\u00eb&nbsp;mir\u00eb. K\u00ebto m\u00ebnyra do e ndihmojn\u00eb&nbsp;f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb&nbsp;rivendos\u00eb&nbsp;or\u00ebn dhe t\u00ebjet\u00eb&nbsp;i&nbsp;p\u00ebrgatiutur me rutin\u00ebn&nbsp;e p\u00ebrditshme t\u00eb&nbsp;shkoll\u00ebs. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00ebmund t\u00eb&nbsp;p\u00ebrdorni edhegrafik\u00ebt me imazhe, ku f\u00ebmija t\u00eborientohet m\u00eb&nbsp;mir\u00eb&nbsp;se&nbsp;\u00e7far\u00eb&nbsp;duhet&nbsp;t\u00eb&nbsp;b\u00ebj\u00eb.&nbsp;5.&nbsp;Mbani lidhje me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lidhja me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj ka shum\u00eb&nbsp;r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi p\u00ebr at\u00eb. Ai do t\u00eb&nbsp;jet\u00ebn\u00eb&nbsp;shkoll\u00eb&nbsp;pa pranin\u00eb&nbsp;tuaj. Prandaj&nbsp;ju duhet ta p\u00ebrgatisni,&nbsp;q\u00ebdo t\u00eb&nbsp;jet\u00ebvet\u00ebm, por q\u00eb&nbsp;ju nuk do lini asnj\u00ebher\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu ju mund, t\u00eb&nbsp;p\u00ebrgatisni&nbsp;\u00ebmb\u00eblsirat&nbsp;epreferuara t\u00eb&nbsp;f\u00ebmij\u00ebs suaj,&nbsp;nj\u00ebktuti me sh\u00ebnime p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn,&nbsp;ose&nbsp;mund t\u00eb&nbsp;vendosni nj\u00ebfotografi n\u00eb&nbsp;xhepin e xhaket\u00ebs. Kjo vlen edhe p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve me aft\u00ebsi ndryshe. N\u00eb&nbsp;saj\u00eb&nbsp;t\u00eb&nbsp;tyre f\u00ebmij\u00ebt do t\u2019iu kujtojn\u00eb&nbsp;dhe do t\u00eb&nbsp;mendojn\u00eb&nbsp;se nuk&nbsp;i&nbsp;keni harruar.6.&nbsp;Krijoni nj\u00eb&nbsp;histori sociale<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb&nbsp;imitues dhe shpesh ndjekin modelet&nbsp;e&nbsp;t\u00eb&nbsp;tjer\u00ebve. Prandaj,&nbsp;\u00ebsht\u00eb&nbsp;mir\u00eb&nbsp;q\u00eb&nbsp;ju t\u2019i lexoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebs suaj tregime t\u00ebf\u00ebmij\u00ebv\u00eb,&nbsp;q\u00ebshkojn\u00eb&nbsp;n\u00eb&nbsp;shkoll\u00eb. Ose ju mund t\u2019i tregoni shembuj t\u00eb&nbsp;motrave,&nbsp;v\u00ebllez\u00ebve, t\u00eb&nbsp;af\u00ebrmve, shok\u00ebve, shoqeve,q\u00eb&nbsp;shkojn\u00eb&nbsp;n\u00eb&nbsp;shkoll\u00eb. Madje&nbsp;\u00ebsht\u00eb&nbsp;mir\u00eb&nbsp;ta shoq\u00ebroni me deklarata t\u00eb&nbsp;vet\u00eb&nbsp;f\u00ebmij\u00ebve,&nbsp;t\u00eb&nbsp;cil\u00ebt&nbsp;i&nbsp;tregojn\u00eb&nbsp;p\u00ebr shkoll\u00ebn dhe eksperiencat&nbsp;e&nbsp;tyre n\u00eb&nbsp;t\u00eb.&nbsp;Gjithashtu,&nbsp;mund t\u00eb&nbsp;p\u00ebrdoni edhe foto dhe imazhe t\u00eb&nbsp;f\u00ebmij\u00ebve n\u00eb&nbsp;shkoll\u00eb, gjat\u00ebaktiviteteve&nbsp;t\u00ebndryshme t\u00eb&nbsp;zhvilluara.&nbsp;Kjo m\u00ebnyr\u00eb&nbsp;rrit d\u00ebshir\u00ebn dhe kuriozitetin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb&nbsp;ndjekur shkoll\u00ebn.&nbsp;7.&nbsp;Zhvilloni lojra dhe aktivitete t\u00eb ngjashme me shkoll\u00ebn<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u00ebr&nbsp;t\u00eb p\u00ebrforcuar tek f\u00ebmija iden\u00eb&nbsp;e&nbsp;shkoll\u00ebs, ju mund t\u00eb zgjidhni t\u00eb zhvilloni lojra q\u00eb lidhen me at\u00eb, psh ju mund t\u00eb luani me&nbsp;\u201cm\u00ebsuese\u201d&nbsp;me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj. Kjo loj\u00eb krijon n\u00eb imagjinat\u00ebn e e&nbsp;tij iden\u00eb e shkoll\u00ebs, t\u00eb kryerjes s\u00eb detyrave&nbsp;etj. Gjithashtu,&nbsp;ju mund t\u00eb zhvilloni me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj dhe f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, aktivitete&nbsp;sportive, lojra, konkurse &nbsp;etj, q\u00eb f\u00ebmija t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb iden\u00eb efunksionimit t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs.&nbsp;Ju krijoni lidhje dhemiq\u00ebsi edhe&nbsp;me shok\u00eb,&nbsp;shoqe q\u00eb do t\u00eb ket\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. Kjo&nbsp;e&nbsp;ndihmon at\u00eb ta ket\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatjen, n\u00ebse njeh m\u00eb&nbsp;par\u00eb disa prej tyre, mjedisin dhe m\u00ebsuesen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>K\u00ebto jan\u00eb disa m\u00ebnyra sesi t\u00eb p\u00ebrgatisni f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj, por sigurisht q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb absolute. Ato i&nbsp;ndihmojn\u00eb prind\u00ebrit, t\u00eb p\u00ebrforcojn\u00eb,&nbsp;edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb,&nbsp;duke&nbsp;i&nbsp;p\u00ebrdorur krahas m\u00ebnyrave t\u00eb tyre t\u00eb p\u00ebrhershme.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme,&nbsp;\u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ju&nbsp;t\u00eb zgjoni tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr shkoll\u00eb dhe t\u00eb synonisuksesin e tyre&nbsp;t\u00eb m\u00ebtejsh\u00ebm!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Burimi: Humanum.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fillimi i shkoll\u00ebs&nbsp;\u00ebsht\u00eb&nbsp;nj\u00eb&nbsp;nga momentet m\u00ebt\u00eb&nbsp;bukura, por edhe m\u00eb&nbsp;t\u00eb&nbsp;r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00ebjet\u00ebn e t\u00eb&nbsp;gjith\u00eb&nbsp;f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.&nbsp;Nisja e saj me sukses&nbsp;\u00ebsht\u00eb&nbsp;premtim&nbsp;p\u00ebr&nbsp;arritjen e m\u00ebtejshme t\u00ebf\u00ebmij\u00ebs, por jo p\u00ebr t\u00eb&nbsp;gjith\u00eb&nbsp;ky fillim&nbsp;\u00ebsht\u00eb&nbsp;nj\u00ebsoj. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt hasin v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi t\u00eb&nbsp;shumta, jo vet\u00ebm se p\u00ebrballen me nj\u00eb&nbsp;mjedis t\u00eb&nbsp;ri, me shok\u00eb&nbsp;e shoqe t\u00eb&nbsp;reja, pa pranin\u00eb&nbsp;e prind\u00ebrve etj, por hasin v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi t\u00eb&nbsp;shumta edhe n\u00eb&nbsp;m\u00ebsimin e shkronjave, numrave, t\u00eb&nbsp;shkruarit, t\u00eblexuarit etj. 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