{"id":27692,"date":"2021-07-23T10:10:47","date_gmt":"2021-07-23T08:10:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=27692"},"modified":"2021-07-23T10:10:55","modified_gmt":"2021-07-23T08:10:55","slug":"pse-deshton-dashuria-si-te-ndjehemi-te-lumturnga-olta-muca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2021\/07\/pse-deshton-dashuria-si-te-ndjehemi-te-lumturnga-olta-muca\/","title":{"rendered":"Pse d\u00ebshton dashuria? Si t\u00eb ndjehemi t\u00eb lumtur\u2026Nga Olta Mu\u00e7a!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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T\u00eb flas\u00ebsh p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb s\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb aspak e leht\u00eb , se as ne vet\u00eb s\u2019mund t\u00eb japim nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje universale . Por t\u00eb mund t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga temat m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura . Por \u00e7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria n\u00eb vetvete? Si mund t\u00eb sh\u00ebrohesh nga dashuria! Si mund t\u00eb ndjehemi ne t\u00eb lumtur.  Si mbaron dashuria ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Faktikisht \u00ebsht\u00eb e thjesht fare se dashuria mbaron kur ne e shohim tjetrin si pron\u00eb ton\u00ebn , kur ne e zot\u00ebrojm\u00eb. Por n\u00eb fakt ne s\u2019jemi prona e askujt se t\u00eb dashurosh do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb ndjehesh I \/e lir\u00eb . Dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb liri , respekt,  pasion ,besim dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb mbushesh me oksigjen. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb ne i b\u00ebjm\u00eb njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb jen\u00eb prona jon\u00eb,  t\u2019i heqim lirin\u00eb ta shtypim partnerin\/en . Ta dhunojm\u00eb fizikisht , psikologjikisht, ne e kemi humbur q\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb moment . Se asnj\u00eb njeri s\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb I lumtur madje as ai q\u00eb ushtron dhun\u00eb apo t\u00eb heq lirin\u00eb. S\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb I lumtur n\u00eb nj\u00eb raport toksik, qoft\u00eb n\u00eb bashkjetes\u00eb , martes\u00eb apo familje, pun\u00eb.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. N\u00eb dashuri askush smund t\u00eb jet\u00eb i lumtur kur konfiskohet liria e tjetrit .<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. As ti s\u2019mund t\u00eb jesh I lumtur kur i merr lirin\u00eb dikujt tjet\u00ebr,  duke krijuar nj\u00eb situat\u00eb t\u00eb tensionuar e negative.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Dashuria dhe bashk\u00ebjetesa mer fund dhe n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjumit , se b\u00ebhet sa p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb detyr\u00ebn . K\u00ebtu s\u2019ka dashuri kalon n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb q\u00eb asnj\u00eb s\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb i lumtur.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Ajo d\u00ebshton edhe kur b\u00ebhwn dallime ose faj\u00ebsimet ndaj njeri -tjetrit .<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Dashuria mbaron kur fillon xhelozia , dhuna ose forca e ligjit . Faktikisht \u00ebsht\u00eb gabim pasi askush s\u2019t\u00eb mbron apo ruan nj\u00eb raport me zor qoft\u00eb partneri \/a apo bashjetuesi .<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Dashuria nuk kompesohet as me para,  udh\u00ebtime , makina t\u00eb shtrenjta , veshje firmato , sepse k\u00ebto jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrkohshme.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si mund t\u00eb sh\u00ebrohesh nga dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00eb dashuria ; Ne kur kemi njer\u00ebz pozitiv t\u00eb lumtur e mbi t\u00eb gjitha emaptik ,ndjehemi t\u00eb lumtur.  Dashuria na b\u00ebn ne unik por edhe universal,  t\u00eb kesh dashuri ti motivon partnerin\/en t\u00eb ndjek\u00eb endrrat , pasionet , i lejon g\u00ebzimet , t\u00eb udh\u00ebtosh . T\u00eb njoh\u00ebsh paqen e brendshme t\u00eb mos ndikohesh nga askush kur ti je i dashuruar ti  t\u00ebrheq  energji pozitive . Po ashtu ke njer\u00ebz t\u00eb lumtur mendjehapur e mbi t\u00eb gjitha je mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs karshi jet\u00ebs e bot\u00ebs.  Dashuria sh\u00ebrohet me dashuri , besim , respekt e lumturi . Ne s\u2019mund ti kerkojm\u00eb dikujt tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb na doj\u00eb nese ne se duam veten ton\u00eb,  n\u00ebse ne se respektojm\u00eb . Vetveten ton\u00eb n\u00ebse ne e kerkojm\u00eb lumturin\u00eb brenda nesh br\u00ebnda shpirtit ton\u00eb.  Ne do ndjehemi t\u00eb lumtur t\u00eb plot\u00ebsuar shpirterisht, do ndjejm\u00eb e do japim energji pozitive , do rrethohemi me njer\u00ebz pozitiv.  Njer\u00ebz me vizion tolerant dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb lir\u00eb.  Mendjehapur ne jemi ajo \u00e7ka mendojm\u00eb se jemi , ajo \u00e7ka ushqejm\u00eb shpirtin . Jeta realisht ofron mundesi zgjedhje si dashuri , urrejtje,qetesi, zhurm\u00eb,besim, sinqeritet ,dyshimin ,tradh\u00ebtin\u00eb ,paqe luft\u00eb . Jeta jon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb si t\u00eb formosh pjes\u00ebt e puzzle,  ose ndryshe \u00ebsht\u00eb sikur t\u00eb vall\u00ebzosh me muzik\u00ebn n\u00ebse ne zgjidhim muzik\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb ,t\u00eb keqe ose vajtimi . Kjo  n\u00ebse ne e ndjejm\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ndodhet br\u00ebnda nesh . Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe dashuria \u00e7do gj\u00eb sh\u00ebrohet me dashuri kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ta ndjesh n\u00eb lekur\u00eb,  \u00ebsht\u00eb vibrimi I energjive se n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb ne ndjehemi t\u00eb lumtur e do ndjehemi t\u00eb plot\u00ebsuar shpirterisht.  Pa na intetesuar bota materiale e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00ebrkohshme, realisht kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb ti je i lire punon p\u00ebr \u00ebndrrat, pasionet, dashurine, respekti empatia . P\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb I lumtur ti duhet t\u00eb punosh brenda vetes t\u00ebnde t\u00eb fal\u00ebsh shum\u00eb dashuri e do t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh . Dashuri me boll\u00ebk do ndjehesh i\/e lumtur si shpirterisht e dashuri do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb ndjehesh I lir\u00eb t\u00eb ndjesh natyr\u00ebn , cic\u00ebrimat e zogjve, t\u00eb shijosh dallg\u00ebt e detit pra do t\u00eb thot\u00ebt\u00eb ndjehesh I lumtur.  T\u00eb ndjehesh I plot\u00ebsuar shpirt\u00ebrisht, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria .<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u00eb flas\u00ebsh p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb s\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb aspak e leht\u00eb , se as ne vet\u00eb s\u2019mund t\u00eb japim nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje universale . Por t\u00eb mund t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga temat m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura . Por \u00e7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria n\u00eb vetvete? Si mund t\u00eb sh\u00ebrohesh nga dashuria! Si mund t\u00eb ndjehemi ne t\u00eb lumtur.  Si mbaron […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":27693,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27692","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27692","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27692"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27692\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27693"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27692"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27692"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27692"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}