{"id":27154,"date":"2021-02-15T22:09:40","date_gmt":"2021-02-15T21:09:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=27154"},"modified":"2021-02-15T22:09:45","modified_gmt":"2021-02-15T21:09:45","slug":"adriatike-laminje-zonje-e-forte-dhe-dijedhenese-midis-jetes-profesionit-dhe-letersise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2021\/02\/adriatike-laminje-zonje-e-forte-dhe-dijedhenese-midis-jetes-profesionit-dhe-letersise\/","title":{"rendered":"Adriatike Lami,nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb e fort\u00eb dhe dijedh\u00ebn\u00ebse( Midis jet\u00ebs, profesionit dhe let\u00ebrsis\u00eb)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Nga Fabjola Kuburi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>-Znj Lami p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Le ta nisim me nj\u00eb pyetje t\u00eb ngroht\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dim\u00ebr t\u00eb ftoht\u00eb dhe koh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira q\u00eb po jetojme, \u00e7far\u00eb ka ndryshuar nga hera e fundit q\u00eb keni qen\u00eb pjes\u00eb e Intervista.al profesionalisht dhe personalisht?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ja kjo m\u00ebnyra se si kam d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u2019i p\u00ebrgjigjem nj\u00eb interviste psh, duke e konsideruar at\u00eb nj\u00eb aktivitet t\u00eb ngroht\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebto koh\u00eb jo edhe aq t\u00eb ngrohta. Eh, edhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e lidhur me d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e njeriut p\u00ebr t\u00eb deshifruar kujtimet n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb, kur e ardhmja \u00ebsht\u00eb pa ngjyra t\u00eb qarta. Nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Pak a shum\u00eb.I jam ngjitur nj\u00eb mali. Kam provuar shijen e ngjitjes e jo fiksimin p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00eb maj\u00eb. Por profesionalisht jam rritur dhe personalisht kam p\u00ebsuar ndryshime pozitive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mendoj q\u00eb jemi t\u00eb fokusuar fort t\u00eb gjith\u00eb tek e sotmja, tek r\u00ebnd\u00ebsia e jet\u00ebs, Un\u00eb personalisht p\u00ebrpiqem q\u00eb t\u00eb shmang gj\u00ebrat e panevojshme dhe pas pun\u00ebs t\u2019i kthehem fort gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb mia t\u00eb shenjta.Prioriteti \u00ebsht\u00eb familja, dashuria. Aty rri mb\u00ebshtetur e af\u00ebr, ndryshe nga njer\u00ebzit jasht\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebve u mban distanc\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Profesioni ka kaluar n\u00eb dimensione t\u00eb tjera. Puna n\u00eb arsim tashm\u00eb e konsoliduar n\u00eb m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebnie dhe drejtim, ka patur deg\u00ebzime si; autore e teksteve shkollore, rritje profesionale n\u00eb fush\u00ebn e psikologjis\u00eb shkollore, dhe n\u00eb fush\u00ebn e shkrimeve funksionale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u00ebrpiqem t\u00eb p\u00ebrzgjedh n\u00eb morin\u00eb e gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme. Lexoj \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me jet\u00ebn.Mesazhet plot shpres\u00eb jan\u00eb mesazhet e m\u00ebdha dhe ato mezi i pres, p\u00ebr vete, p\u00ebr familjen dhe njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Po jetojm\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, aq sa t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jemi b\u00ebr\u00eb nga pak individualist\u00eb, derisa provon di\u00e7ka t\u00eb njer\u00ebzit e af\u00ebrm, ose je ti q\u00eb ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ta. Kjo t\u00eb ndryshon at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme te njeriu; humanizmin. Dhe d\u00ebshir\u00ebn q\u00eb jeta e dashuria njer\u00ebzore t\u00eb triumfoj\u00eb.I jam rikthyer leximit dhe t\u00eb shkruarit. Dua t\u00eb shkruaj gj\u00ebra q\u00eb as i kam menduar m\u00eb par\u00eb.Nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb jet\u00ebn personale dua thjesht t\u00eb jem dashuri, pran\u00eb njeriut q\u00eb dua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&#8211;<strong>Si po i jetoni k\u00ebto koh\u00eb pandemie ne sistemin arsimor, \u00e7far\u00eb ka ndryshuar rr\u00ebnj\u00ebsisht?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Shkolla dhe m\u00ebsuesi jan\u00eb p\u00ebrpara nj\u00eb sfide globale, asaj t\u00eb rritjes s\u00eb aft\u00ebsis\u00eb dixhitale shum\u00eb shpejt. Gjithashtu ne dhe un\u00eb. N\u00eb shkoll\u00eb sot duhet ti kushtosh m\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb e v\u00ebmendje gj\u00ebrave dyt\u00ebsore, merr vler\u00eb aft\u00ebsia praktike, p\u00ebrmbledh\u00ebse etj. Duhet t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh shum\u00eb info p\u00ebr \u00e7donj\u00ebrin q\u00eb ke p\u00ebrball\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u00eb dish t\u00eb reagosh.Pavar\u00ebsisht kurikul\u00ebs baz\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb menj\u00ebhershme kan\u00eb marr\u00eb vler\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera n\u00eb kurikul e m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebnie .<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ka ankth, ka \u201crr\u00ebmuj\u00eb\u201d,por shkolla ec\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mendo tu k\u00ebrkosh nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve t\u00eb tu t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb rutin\u00ebn, p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra q\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb vit m\u00eb par\u00eb ua ke m\u00ebsuar ndryshe; si distanca fizike, p\u00ebrqafimi, kompjuteri, celulari,,, etj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj p\u00ebrmbysje e sjelljes n\u00eb veprimtarit\u00eb shkollore.E di \u00e7far\u00eb; f\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj frike, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn as e shpjegojn\u00eb dhe as duan ta shpjegojn\u00eb.Shkolla duhet tu m\u00ebsoj\u00eb s\u00eb pari ta rr\u00ebfejn\u00eb. Braktisja e fsheht\u00eb po troket n\u00eb forma t\u00eb tjera, t\u00eb panjohura. 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https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/F900387B-1B7D-4B49-9659-5AE241F933AB-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/F900387B-1B7D-4B49-9659-5AE241F933AB-768x769.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/F900387B-1B7D-4B49-9659-5AE241F933AB-100x100.jpeg 100w, https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/F900387B-1B7D-4B49-9659-5AE241F933AB.jpeg 1278w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1022px) 100vw, 1022px\" \/><\/a><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;<strong>-\u00cbsht\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb konstatim nga t\u00eb huajt, sipas t\u00eb cilit Shqip\u00ebria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vend i cili nuk i vler\u00ebson t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb p\u00ebrparimtar\u00eb, ndaj n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb k\u00ebta p\u00ebrgatisin t\u00eb ardhmen e vendeve t\u00eb tjera. Sa e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo, sipas jush?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;-Ka shum\u00eb ikje nga vendi e ata q\u00eb ikin jan\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb. Dhe im bir. Shqip\u00ebria momentalisht \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vend q\u00eb ata e duan, por q\u00eb p\u00ebr ata nuk b\u00ebn. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb perceptimi dhe k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimi. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e dhimbshme.P\u00ebr patriotiz\u00ebm mund t\u00eb themi t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn, por patriotizmi i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb &nbsp;\u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta. N\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri mungon modeli m\u00eb i mir\u00eb, q\u00eb udh\u00ebheq fiton. Q\u00eb demokracia drejtohet, q\u00eb p\u00ebrparimi \u00ebsht\u00eb i rrem\u00eb. Q\u00eb t\u00eb drejtat e njeriut jan\u00eb shkelje e tjetrit, q\u00eb humanizmi \u00ebsht\u00eb qesharak dhe shpresa \u00ebsht\u00eb timon q\u00eb drejtohet nga t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. Njeriu i lir\u00eb nuk duron k\u00ebt\u00eb, njeriu p\u00ebrparimtar jo e jo. Ndaj ikin\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&#8211;<strong>Duke qen\u00eb se shkolla \u201cWillson\u201d ku ju jeni drejtuese \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhat\u00eb dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb mirat n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, cilat jan\u00eb faktor\u00ebt q\u00eb e kan\u00eb sjell\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb nivel?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Nj\u00eb kombinim i tradit\u00ebs, konsekuenc\u00ebs dhe risive. Stafit dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha i m\u00ebnyr\u00ebs se si e shohim nj\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebs; Nuk e fillojm\u00eb nga tema m\u00ebsimore, por nga mjedisi q\u00eb e rrethon f\u00ebmij\u00ebn, nx\u00ebn\u00ebsin. Ofrojm\u00eb mjedis fantastik dhe m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyer t\u00eb progresit individual n\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb ka pasion nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi. Performanc\u00eb t\u00eb shtrir\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00eb, hap pas hapi, pa drama emocionale dhe psikologjike. P\u00ebrshatje t\u00eb programit me natyr\u00ebn dhe aft\u00ebsin\u00eb e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, prej nga ka ardhur gjithashtu. Shum\u00eb informacion p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur nj\u00eb situat\u00eb dhe shum\u00eb lidhje p\u00ebr ta zhvilluar at\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&#8211;<strong>Ju keni treguar q\u00eb jeni nj\u00eb drejtuese shum\u00eb e mir\u00eb, ka ndonj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u2019ju shohim edhe n\u00eb politik\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-M\u00eb p\u00eblqen politika, sepse p\u00eblqej ndryshimin, larmin\u00eb, vrullin dhe zhvillimin. Dua t\u00eb b\u00ebj pun\u00eb dhe vepra t\u00eb mira. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb pse jo. Kurr\u00eb nuk them kurr\u00eb. Jan\u00eb disa fusha brenda saj, ku un\u00eb mund t\u00eb jap kontribute t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>-Krijimtaria juaj letrare k\u00ebto koh\u00eb ka qen\u00eb m\u00eb produktive apo pandemia ka ndikuar edhe tek kjo fush\u00eb krijuese?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-E thash\u00eb edhe m\u00eb lart; jam n\u00eb faz\u00ebn q\u00eb dua t\u00eb shkruaj gj\u00ebra q\u00eb si kam prekur m\u00eb par\u00eb, kam mbajtur shum\u00eb sh\u00ebnime k\u00ebsaj kohe, kam menduar shum\u00eb. Kam lexuar gjithashtu, kam d\u00ebgjuar shum\u00eb histori. Besoj q\u00eb do kem prurje n\u00eb fusha t\u00eb tjera, p\u00ebrkundrejt poezis\u00eb dhe librave metodik\u00eb, t\u00eb cilat tashm\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb njohura<strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211;<strong>Po aktivitet jasht\u00eb shkollore p\u00ebrtej m\u00ebsimit, si jan\u00eb zhvilluar? A ka pasur larmi kulturore?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ka kufizime n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb fush\u00eb, por ajo q\u00eb kemi b\u00ebr\u00eb ne jan\u00eb aktivitet t\u00eb cilat i ndihmon natyra si;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; M\u00ebsime n\u00eb natyr\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; Danc me distanc\u00eb n\u00eb natyr\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; Dramatizime me pak personazhe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; Lexime librash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; Video muzikore, etj<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211;<strong>Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb mesazhi juaj n\u00eb fund t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj interviste, nj\u00eb urim, nj\u00eb merak&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Nj\u00eb nga m\u00ebsimet e k\u00ebsaj kohe \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb mos jap m\u00ebsime q\u00eb merren si ultimatum; njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00ebnie q\u00eb ndryshon e un\u00eb them q\u00eb ai duhet t\u00eb luftoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar pozitivisht. 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