{"id":27074,"date":"2021-01-23T09:56:48","date_gmt":"2021-01-23T08:56:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=27074"},"modified":"2021-01-23T09:56:54","modified_gmt":"2021-01-23T08:56:54","slug":"a-keni-rene-ndonjehere-ne-dashuri-ju-nga-silvana-begaj","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2021\/01\/a-keni-rene-ndonjehere-ne-dashuri-ju-nga-silvana-begaj\/","title":{"rendered":"A keni r\u00ebn\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri ju? Nga Silvana Begaj"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;M\u00ebngjeseve t\u00eb caktuara, me rreze dielli t\u00eb caktuara, dashuria vjen e shkon pa lajm\u00ebruar.&#8221;<br>(Charles Bukowski)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq e ngadalt\u00eb n\u00eb ardhje dhe kaq e shpejt\u00eb n\u00eb ikje dhe ne duhet patjet\u00ebr t\u00eb gjejm\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojm\u00eb emocione. Un\u00eb e kam l\u00ebn\u00eb veten n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb \u00ebndrrave duke zgjedhur t\u00eb eci n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn m\u00eb pak t\u00eb shkelur. E panjohura t\u00eb jep emocion t\u00eb vecant\u00eb.<br>Lejoj n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time cdo emocion t\u00eb mir\u00eb e t\u00eb keq, por jo ato t\u00eb neveritshmet e aq m\u00eb pak ato q\u00eb ndotin ndjenj\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb fuqishme e m\u00eb t\u00eb past\u00ebr q\u00eb njeriu p\u00ebrjeton gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Dashuria nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb emision. Nga dashuria lindin jet\u00eb. Dikush duhet t\u00b4ua thoj\u00eb programeve televizive se cdo gj\u00eb e ka nj\u00eb limit dhe jo cdo gj\u00eb ju vendoset nj\u00eb cmim. Dashuria ka vler\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Autor\u00ebt e k\u00ebtyre programeve m\u00eb duken si ato hallat nga fshati q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb martesa t\u00eb stisura , me lajm\u00ebsi t\u00eb cilat vazhdojn\u00eb akoma n\u00eb Shqiperin\u00eb ton\u00eb ku takohen dy bot\u00ebt: ekstremisht moderne dhe ekstremisht t\u00eb prapambetura me fanatiz\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bota e princ\u00ebrave t\u00eb cil\u00ebt mezi mbarojn\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn,mezi gjejn\u00eb pun\u00eb, mezi mbledhin lek\u00ebt e dasm\u00ebs ose n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe jan\u00eb emigrant dhe \u2026.Bota e luksit mediatik ku dashuria zhvillohet me shpenzime. Cdo takim b\u00ebhet me dhurata, n\u00eb vende luksoze, dhe me princ\u00ebra t\u00eb kuruar deri n\u00eb detaje. N\u00eb vendin ton\u00eb akoma diskutohet dhe vriten p\u00ebr c\u00ebshtje nderi dhe n\u00eb vend t\u00eb luftohet kjo p\u00ebr ti b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb madh\u00ebshtin\u00eb dhe forc\u00ebn e dashuris\u00eb, p\u00ebrballemi me nj\u00eb dashuri pa jet\u00eb, pa ngjyr\u00eb dhe pa emocion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Por \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb kjo dashuria q\u00eb shpesh i mjafton drita e h\u00ebn\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00eb parajs\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kush e ka lexuar librin \u201dPrinci i vog\u00ebl\u201d e kupton se v\u00ebrtet ne t\u00eb rriturit komplikojm\u00eb dhe gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb thjeshta duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00eb pamundur. Pik\u00ebrisht ky \u201dPrinci i vog\u00ebl\u201d meriton te quhet \u201dPrinci i madh\u201d, jo t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Por a keni r\u00ebn\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri ju? Ju q\u00eb helmoni brezat e rinj me ato vulgaritete? Ka aq shum\u00eb motivime q\u00eb mund ti b\u00ebhen brezave t\u00eb rinj sa t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh i famsh\u00ebm me dashuri t\u00eb shtirur duhet t\u00eb ishte e fundit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sepse dashuria ka kusht sinqeritetin, ka kufij universin dhe ka spektator h\u00ebn\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ndaluni nj\u00eb moment dhe mendoni sa plot \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta juaj dhe l\u00ebrini ata njer\u00ebz gri t\u00eb ken\u00eb spektator\u00eb iluzionet e mbushura me hic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Por a keni r\u00ebn\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri ju? E ju q\u00eb keni r\u00ebn\u00eb mbyllni me nj\u00eb l\u00ebvizje gishti pultin e tv dhe ato programe dhe p\u00ebrjetoni dashurin\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb q\u00eb vet\u00ebm me dashuri ia vlen te jetohet.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;M\u00ebngjeseve t\u00eb caktuara, me rreze dielli t\u00eb caktuara, dashuria vjen e shkon pa lajm\u00ebruar.&#8221;(Charles Bukowski) Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq e ngadalt\u00eb n\u00eb ardhje dhe kaq e shpejt\u00eb n\u00eb ikje dhe ne duhet patjet\u00ebr t\u00eb gjejm\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojm\u00eb emocione. Un\u00eb e kam l\u00ebn\u00eb veten n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb \u00ebndrrave duke zgjedhur t\u00eb eci n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn m\u00eb pak [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":27075,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241],"tags":[3223],"class_list":["post-27074","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letersi","tag-silvana-begaj"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27074","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27074"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27074\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27075"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27074"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27074"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27074"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}