{"id":25970,"date":"2020-07-23T22:25:41","date_gmt":"2020-07-23T20:25:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=25970"},"modified":"2020-07-23T22:26:40","modified_gmt":"2020-07-23T20:26:40","slug":"jonathan-galindo-si-te-mbrojme-te-vegjelit-nga-lorela-garuli-psikologe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2020\/07\/jonathan-galindo-si-te-mbrojme-te-vegjelit-nga-lorela-garuli-psikologe\/","title":{"rendered":"Jonathan Galindo, si t\u00eb mbrojm\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00eblit? Nga Lorela Garuli, psikologe!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>N\u00eb nj\u00eb distance kohore jo shum\u00eb t\u00eb larg\u00ebt, makthi kthehet s\u00ebrish. Jonathan Galindo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb individ, por jan\u00eb disa t\u00eb cil\u00ebt i gjejn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt apo adoleshent\u00ebt n\u00ebp\u00ebr disa rrjete sociale; tiktok, facebook, instagram.<br>Viktimat e Jonathan Galindo jan\u00eb t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs shkollore, e deri 12-13 vjec apo adoleshent\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebve iu d\u00ebrgohet nj\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb miq\u00ebsie. N\u00eb castin kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e pranojn\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00ebn, iu d\u00ebrgohet nj\u00eb link ku ftohen t\u00eb luajn\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu nis rreziku, ku paraqiten nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb sfidash dhe provash gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikshme, t\u00eb frikshme dhe absurde q\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb rrezik sh\u00ebndetin fizik dhe psikologjik t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe t\u00eb adoleshent\u00ebve, q\u00eb sugjestionohen dhe b\u00ebhen leht\u00ebsisht viktima. Loja k\u00ebrkon prej tyre prova \u201cguximi dhe kurajoje\u201d, q\u00eb cojn\u00eb n\u00eb faza depresive e deri n\u00eb vet\u00ebvrasje n\u00ebse f\u00ebmij\u00ebt pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebs n\u00eb loj\u00eb i n\u00ebnshtrohen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Si t\u00eb mbrojm\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00eblit?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sigurisht kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb pyetja kryesore p\u00ebr prind\u00ebr dhe profesionist\u00eb, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb e t\u00eb rriturve p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia kryesore p\u00ebr t\u2019i mbrojtur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<br>N\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me koh\u00ebn shpeshher\u00eb t\u00eb pakontrolluar q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit i l\u00ebn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre t\u00eb angazhuar p\u00ebrpara ekraneve, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb z\u00ebn\u00eb me pun\u00eb t\u00eb tjera. K\u00ebshtuq\u00eb, n\u00eb k\u00ebto raste, duket se prindi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb dijeni t\u00eb asaj q\u00eb po b\u00ebn apo po sheh f\u00ebmija.<br>Dhe pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye shum\u00eb t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb, q\u00eb her\u00eb pas here, sidomos dhe tek t\u00eb vegj\u00eblit, prindi t\u00eb kontrolloj\u00eb me nj\u00eb frekuenc\u00eb 10-15 minuta p\u00ebrmbajtjen e asaj q\u00eb f\u00ebmija po shikon n\u00eb telefon apo tablet (mund t\u00eb kujtojm\u00eb k\u00ebtu sesa e thjesht\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb kalohet me nj\u00eb klikim nga videot p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb youtube tek nj\u00eb site pornografik).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Personat q\u00eb kan\u00eb predispozit\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb b\u00ebhen pre e loj\u00ebs, jan\u00eb adoleshent\u00eb apo f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb vetmuar, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk socializohen shum\u00eb dhe q\u00eb kalojn\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr internet apo rrjete sociale. Adoleshent\u00ebt n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb etap\u00ebs s\u00eb zhvillimit n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ndodhen shpesh p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb konflikte me njer\u00ebzit e af\u00ebrt, me familjar\u00ebt dhe mbyllen edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb vetvete. Gjithashtu, si rrjedhoj\u00eb edhe e ndryshimeve hormonale, ata shpesh kan\u00eb luhatje humori sepse jan\u00eb akoma n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb nj\u00eb identiteti t\u00eb mir\u00ebfillt\u00eb psikosocial. Prandaj, adoleshent\u00ebt p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb shpesh ndjenja izolimi, depresioni, ulje t\u00eb vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimit. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb disa nga ve\u00e7orit\u00eb kryesore t\u00eb personave q\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb brisht\u00eb dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikuar p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb pjes\u00eb e loj\u00ebs. Gjithashtu, kjo loj\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet stadeve t\u00eb saj, b\u00ebhet p\u00ebrher\u00eb dhe m\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul\u00ebse duke kontrolluar aspekte t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs apo adoleshentit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Cfar\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet kur zbulohet q\u00eb f\u00ebmija ka r\u00ebn\u00eb pre e Jonathan Galindo?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, i duhet shpjeguar me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb qarta, t\u00eb thjeshta, t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb duke ndodhur dhe rrezikun q\u00eb paraqet nj\u00eb loj\u00eb e till\u00eb. I duhet shpjeguar q\u00eb video dhe sfida t\u00eb tilla e d\u00ebmtojn\u00eb, fizikisht dhe psikologjikisht dhe duhet t\u2019i nd\u00ebrpres\u00eb.<br>\u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb f\u00ebmija t\u00eb mos faj\u00ebsohet, t\u00eb mos akuzohet dhe kritikohet sepse duhet t\u00eb kujtojm\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebto raste f\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb viktim\u00eb, jo fajtor dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs.<br>Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt do t\u00eb k\u00ebshillohen n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb aktive q\u00eb t\u00eb mos pranojn\u00eb asnj\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr rrjete sociale nga t\u00eb panjohur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Burimi:Humanum.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00eb nj\u00eb distance kohore jo shum\u00eb t\u00eb larg\u00ebt, makthi kthehet s\u00ebrish. Jonathan Galindo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb individ, por jan\u00eb disa t\u00eb cil\u00ebt i gjejn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt apo adoleshent\u00ebt n\u00ebp\u00ebr disa rrjete sociale; tiktok, facebook, instagram.Viktimat e Jonathan Galindo jan\u00eb t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs shkollore, e deri 12-13 vjec apo adoleshent\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebve iu d\u00ebrgohet nj\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":25971,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[1194],"class_list":["post-25970","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-lorela-garuli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25970","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25970"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25970\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25971"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25970"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25970"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25970"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}