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Nj\u00eb lider i vertete e njeh mire veteveten , i njeh forcat dhe potencialet , di \u00e7fare kerkon, ka potencial dhe merr at\u00eb q\u00eb meriton ne shkembim. Po e nis me nje thenie t\u00eb bukur : \u201cT\u00eb hesht\u00ebsh mbi veten t\u00ebnde eshte modesti, te hesht\u00ebsh mbi t\u00eb metat e tjer\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb bamir\u00ebsi”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00eb hesht\u00ebsh te fjal\u00ebt e kota eshte korrekt\u00ebsi ,t\u00eb hesht\u00ebsh n\u00eb koh\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb maturi.T\u00eb hesht\u00ebsh kur vuan \u00ebsht\u00eb heroiz\u00ebm .(Hal) Historia bot\u00ebrore ,por edhe ajo shqiptare ka njohur shum\u00eb profile liderash ,q\u00eb kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb epok\u00eb dhe q\u00eb jan\u00eb shquar mbi t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt , fal\u00eb aft\u00ebsive t\u00eb tyre t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta,m\u00ebnyr\u00ebs se si ata ndikojn\u00eb te t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe q\u00eb b\u00ebhen m\u00eb frym\u00ebzues p\u00ebr vepra t\u00eb m\u00ebdha. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Natyrisht se koncepti p\u00ebr liderin ndryshon nga nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb qeverisjeje n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, shum\u00eb \u00e7il\u00ebsi q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb vlefshme me nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar kohe nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb dobishme p\u00ebr nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Po ashtu ka ndryshime t\u00eb m\u00ebdha mes lider\u00ebve politik\u00eb dhe atyre t\u00eb artit, muzik\u00ebs, bot\u00ebs letrare e t\u00eb tjera si\u00e7 ka edhe lider q\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb pozitivisht apo negativisht n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb njer\u00ebzore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u00ebshtu n\u00eb antikitet do dalloheshin leht\u00eb Homeri si lider i let\u00ebrsis\u00eb ,Aristoteli si lider i filozofis\u00eb , Eskili si lider i tragjedis\u00eb dhe t\u00eb tjer\u00eb personalitete t\u00eb tjer\u00eb q\u00eb u mor\u00ebn si sh\u00ebmbull edhe ne epoka t\u00eb m\u00ebvonshme dhe nga popuj t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm. Sipas rrethanave lideri nuk lind por formohet gjat\u00eb rrug\u00ebs . K\u00ebshtu mund\u00eb ti ndaja n\u00eb dy kategori, ka lider t\u00eb aft\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtuar n\u00eb situat\u00eb lufte , por ka edhe lider p\u00ebr organizim dhe venie paqeje rind\u00ebrtimi. Sipas tyre koha ,rrethanat, krijojn\u00eb liderin e duhur. Situatat e ndryshme k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb karakteristika t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb personalitetit t\u00eb liderit. N\u00eb bot\u00ebn e sotme ka shum\u00eb nj\u00eb shum\u00ebllojshm\u00ebri liderash por p\u00ebr secilin prej tyre spikasin disa cil\u00ebsi, ku do te ve\u00e7onim: p\u00ebrqendrimin ,besimin ,transparenc\u00ebn ,integritetin,frym\u00ebzimin,pasionin,risit\u00eb ,durimin ,fleksibelitetin dhe vendosm\u00ebrin\u00eb . T\u00eb nderuar miq dhe mikesha un\u00eb marr frym\u00ebzim n\u00eb \u00e7do lloj situate q\u00eb m\u00eb ofron jeta qoft\u00eb e mir\u00eb ose keqe qoft\u00eb ajo . Po e nis me nje krahasim:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Njeriu nuk vler\u00ebsohet nga ajo q\u00eb posedon ,por nga ajo qe ofron, dielli posedon zjarr, por ofron ngroht\u00ebsi drit\u00eb, ila\u00e7. Un\u00eb gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs time kam ecur me nj\u00eb moto \u201dUne guxoj dhe vet\u00ebm fitoj e n\u00ebse humbas d\u00ebshtimet m\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb mua m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb\u201d. A e dini pse ? Esht\u00eb shum\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb q\u00eb secili prej nesh e ka nje eksperienc\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ato njer\u00ebz q\u00eb neve i shikojm\u00eb t\u00eb sukseshme kan\u00eb d\u00ebshtuar me qindra her\u00eb pa jan\u00eb aty ku jan\u00eb sot. Une nuk dor\u00ebzohem ,kam q\u00ebn\u00eb 9 vje\u00e7e dhe kam pasur nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr si shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb por n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme e bera ralitet , e kam nisur rrug\u00ebn time p\u00ebr drejt\u00ebsi, prandaj jam k\u00ebtu ku jam. Dua t\u00eb ndaj me ju nj\u00eb mesazh \u201cDuaje \u00ebndrren t\u00ebnde edhe pse t\u00eb turturon”. Idealet q\u00eb kan\u00eb ndricuar rrugen time kan\u00eb qen\u00eb mir\u00ebsia, besnik\u00ebria, drejt\u00ebsia. Prandaj kam zgjedhur rrugen e drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb sepse m\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb percjell integritetin. Drejt\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb zgjedhje q\u00eb secili prej nesh mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb .Te zgjedh\u00eb dikush t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb sipas drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb njeri i lir\u00eb .Per k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb njeri i lir\u00eb mund t\u00eb njoh\u00eb veten e tij p\u00ebrtej shtr\u00ebngimeve shoq\u00ebrore dhe si njeri i lir\u00eb mund\u00eb t\u00eb njoh\u00eb detyrimet q\u00eb ka shoq\u00ebrie e cila e ka rritur at\u00eb .Drejt\u00ebsia esht\u00eb nj\u00eb zgjedhje ,por njokoh\u00ebsisht \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe q\u00ebllim drejt t\u00eb cilit vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb njeri i lir\u00eb mund t\u00eb synoj\u00eb integritetin. Prandaj miq e mi t\u00eb dashur nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb asnjeher\u00eb momenti duhur p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb gj\u00ebn\u00eb e gabuar dhe asnj\u00ebher\u00eb momenti i gabuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb gjen\u00eb e drejt\u00eb. Mua me pelqen t\u00eb jem e drejt\u00eb. Aristoteli thoshte: se Njeriu b\u00ebhet i drejt\u00eb duke b\u00ebr\u00eb vepra t\u00eb drejta dhe i arsyeshem duke vepruar me maturi. Pra, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lider i vertet\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do dimension k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn, \u00ebsht\u00eb vetvetja, ka bindje dhe qellime p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e shikon bot\u00ebn n\u00eb tjet\u00ebr vizion mundohet t\u00eb mbroj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb doj\u00eb njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb e perkrahin dhe p\u00ebr organizat\u00ebn q\u00eb e mbeshtetet. Lideri ka aftesi t\u00eb rralla, e shikon boten me nj\u00eb tjt\u00ebr dimension dhe e precepton at\u00eb n\u00eb kuader t\u00eb dijes dhe e krahason si me bot\u00ebn e femres. Aftesia p\u00ebr t\u00eb dominuar nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb aftsia p\u00ebr t\u00eb dominuar nj\u00eb komb. Pra, ky eshte lideri i v\u00ebrtet ka qellime dhe objektiva t\u00eb cilat i nis ato dhe i ben fakte te kryera. Eshte e vendit qe t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb dallimet mes liderit t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe liderit t\u00eb rrem\u00eb, sepse shum\u00eb njerez v\u00ebn\u00eb shum\u00eb maska, dhe nuk I njohin limitet e veta , me pak fjal\u00eb nuk njohin veteveten. Gj\u00ebja e vetme q\u00eb kan\u00eb m\u00ebsuar \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm t\u00eb ngrene zerin dhe ata p\u00ebr mua s’quhen dhe s’jane lider. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb diferenca \u201cKurr\u00eb nuk kam rreshtur s\u00eb m\u00ebsuari, kurr\u00eb nuk kam frik\u00eb nga e v\u00ebrteta. Ajo q\u00eb une po ndaj me ju, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb propogande ,por ajo q\u00eb un\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb dhe vazhdoj t’a bej, ndjej dhe e besoj. Jet\u00ebt tona nuk jan\u00eb ushtrime shkolle q\u00eb nuk kane impakt. N\u00eb fakt\u00eb ato kan\u00eb nj\u00eb impakt\u00eb themulor\u00eb. Pra Jet\u00ebt tona mund t\u00eb d\u00ebemtojm\u00eb njerz t\u00eb tjer\u00eb .Jet\u00ebt tona mund t\u00eb shp\u00ebtojn\u00eb njerz t\u00eb tjer\u00eb .Me keqardhje e them por shikoj\u00eb dhe d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb shum zhurm\u00eb p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb . \u201c Populli yn\u00eb i mencur thot\u00eb: \u201cGjuha kocka s’ka po kocka thyen \u201c. Jam kunder \u00e7do dhune por kur vjen koha per t’u ballafaquar , un\u00eb kurre nuk i trembem asgj\u00ebje .. Por shikoj dhe po e jetoj, m\u00eb vjen keq q\u00eb po e shpreh por m\u00eb besoni t\u00eb gjith neve jemi t\u00eb rrethuar ndaj njerezve t\u00eb liq dhe ndonje her\u00eb na duket vetja si tr\u00ebndafili mes gj\u00ebmbave. Shpresoj q\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme t\u00eb kemi ndryshime dhe paqe p\u00ebr veten dhe p\u00ebr njerezit qe na rrethojn\u00eb. .Tani me nje perkufizim te vogel do doja ta permbyllja si nje lider i vertet duke ju sjell ca vargje te Podrimes s\u00eb madh \u201c N\u00ebse do ta shihje ndonj\u00eb her\u00eb ndergjegjen t\u00ebnde n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb, kishe p\u00ebr ta puthur, apo p\u00ebr ta peshtyre…?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nj\u00eb lider i vertete e njeh mire veteveten , i njeh forcat dhe potencialet , di \u00e7fare kerkon, ka potencial dhe merr at\u00eb q\u00eb meriton ne shkembim. Po e nis me nje thenie t\u00eb bukur : \u201cT\u00eb hesht\u00ebsh mbi veten t\u00ebnde eshte modesti, te hesht\u00ebsh mbi t\u00eb metat e tjer\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb bamir\u00ebsi”. T\u00eb hesht\u00ebsh te […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":25755,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1356,86],"tags":[3078],"class_list":["post-25754","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-living","category-psikologu","tag-albana-jeminaj"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25754","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25754"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25754\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25755"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25754"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25754"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25754"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}