Cila \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00ebja e par\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebni n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes, sapo zgjoheni? Hapni perdet dhe shihni qiellin. \u00c7far\u00eb kohe b\u00ebn sot? E mir\u00eb, e keqe, nxeht\u00eb, ftoht\u00eb, bie shi, apo bor\u00eb? \u00cbsht\u00eb e nevojshme ta dini, p\u00ebr t\u2019u veshur sipas rastit. P\u00ebr disa, shiu, era e i ftohti p\u00ebrjetohen si sulme t\u00eb natyr\u00ebs. Ata e \u00aburrejn\u00eb\u00bb koh\u00ebn e keqe dhe e ndjejn\u00eb si nj\u00eb armik t\u00eb pakontrolluesh\u00ebm. T\u00eb tjer\u00eb, e pranojn\u00eb ashtu si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb, duke e ditur se nuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb asgj\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa ka nga ata q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb pozitiv\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00ebdo q\u00eb t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb. Po ju, si reagoni p\u00ebrball\u00eb \u00abtekave\u00bb t\u00eb koh\u00ebs? B\u00ebni testin ton\u00eb, p\u00ebr ta kuptuar…<\/p>\n
1. \u00cbsht\u00eb ver\u00eb dhe ju sh\u00ebtisni veshur me rroba t\u00eb lehta. Papritur krijohen ca re t\u00eb m\u00ebdha dhe fillon nj\u00eb rrebesh. Reagimi juaj:
\na. Vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb gj\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni; t\u00eb vraponi p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur ndonj\u00eb streh\u00eb.
\nb. Situata \u00ebsht\u00eb qesharake, ju ia krisni gazit!
\nc. \u00cbsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhur keq! Edhe n\u00eb ver\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb durosh shiun…
\nd. Sa keq, u prish e gjith\u00eb pasditja!<\/p>\n
2. Ju kontrolloni motin n\u00eb internet:
\na. Rrall\u00eb
\nb. Gjat\u00eb fundjav\u00ebs dhe pushimeve
\nc. Disa her\u00eb n\u00eb jav\u00eb
\nd. \u00c7do dit\u00eb.<\/p>\n
3. Ju ndodh ta lini t\u00eb lir\u00eb imagjinat\u00ebn kur v\u00ebshtroni ret\u00eb?
\na. E b\u00ebnit kur ishit f\u00ebmij\u00eb, por jo tani.
\nb. Shpesh, dhe e adhuroni k\u00ebt\u00eb.
\nc. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb
\nd. Rrall\u00eb; ret\u00eb nuk ju frym\u00ebzojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n
4. Sa her\u00eb takoheni me fqinj\u00ebn, ajo ju b\u00ebn nj\u00eb koment mbi motin:
\na. Ju e evitoni kur mundeni
\nb. Nd\u00ebrroni tem\u00eb
\nc. Kjo ju acaron pak, por, \u00e7\u2019t\u2019i b\u00ebsh…
\nd. Ju i p\u00ebrgjigjeni gjithmon\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb shk\u00ebmbyer mendime.<\/p>\n
5. N\u00ebse do t\u00eb kishit mund\u00ebsi, cil\u00ebn \u00ebnd\u00ebrr do t\u00eb donit t\u00eb realizonit:
\na. T\u2019i b\u00ebnit t\u00eb heshtnin njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb ankohen gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs p\u00ebr motin\u2026
\nb. T\u00eb nd\u00ebrronit stin\u00eb sipas d\u00ebshir\u00ebs
\nc. T\u00eb shtypnit nj\u00eb buton p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjedhur temperatur\u00ebn e jashtme.
\nd. T\u00eb banonit n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend ku moti \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb i mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n
6. Gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e keqe kur vjen nga pushimet:
\na. T\u00eb humbas\u00ebsh ngjyr\u00ebn (e nxirjes) sepse b\u00ebn koh\u00eb e keqe
\nb. T\u00eb ngrihesh her\u00ebt n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes
\nc. T\u00eb mbyllesh n\u00eb nj\u00eb zyr\u00eb
\nd. T\u00eb fillosh pun\u00ebn, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ende b\u00ebn koh\u00eb e mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n
7. I zgjidhni ngjyrat e veshjeve tuaja n\u00eb funksion t\u00eb koh\u00ebs?
\na. Jo, visheni sipas d\u00ebshir\u00ebs.
\nb. Kjo varet nga moda…
\nc. Po, kur koha \u00ebsht\u00eb e vrenjtur, ju zgjidhni ngjyra t\u00eb g\u00ebzueshme!
\nd. Po, ngjyra t\u00eb err\u00ebta n\u00eb vjesht\u00eb e dim\u00ebr dhe ngjyra t\u00eb \u00e7elura e t\u00eb g\u00ebzueshme n\u00eb pranver\u00eb dhe ver\u00eb!<\/p>\n
8. \u00c7far\u00eb kriteri ju duket m\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm p\u00ebr blerjen e nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpie?
\na. Mjedisi rrethues; doni t\u00eb ndjeheni t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb.
\nb. Rehatia, doni t\u00eb ndjeheni mir\u00eb.
\nc. Pamja, doni ta keni horizontin t\u00eb lir\u00eb
\nd. Drita, duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb!<\/p>\n
9. Ju p\u00eblqen t\u00eb shkoni n\u00eb kinema dit\u00ebn:
\na. S\u2019ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi se kur, mjafton q\u00eb filmi t\u00eb jet\u00eb i mir\u00eb.
\nb. Po, ju p\u00eblqen kjo atmosfer\u00eb e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb nate n\u00eb mes t\u00eb dit\u00ebs…
\nc. Me raste, kur b\u00ebn koh\u00eb e keqe…
\nd. Ju preferoni t\u00eb shkoni gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje…<\/p>\n
10. M\u00eb n\u00eb fund, sonte do t\u00eb darkoni vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm, vet\u00ebm se keni nj\u00eb \u00e7ehre t\u00eb keqe:
\na. Me nj\u00eb krem-pud\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00eb, kjo nuk do t\u00eb shihet…
\nb. Natyralja \u00ebsht\u00eb aleati juaj m\u00eb i mir\u00eb, nuk shtoni asgj\u00eb\u2026
\nc. Nj\u00eb grim i mir\u00eb do t\u00eb mjaftoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb shk\u00eblqim fytyr\u00ebs.
\nd. Preferoni ta shtyni m\u00eb von\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dark\u00eb vendimtare!<\/p>\n
11. Ju ofrojn\u00eb nj\u00eb rritje n\u00eb karrier\u00eb, por m\u00eb par\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni nj\u00eb stazh tremujor n\u00eb Suedi, dimrin q\u00eb vjen dhe aty, nata fillon n\u00eb or\u00ebn 15.30:
\na. Moti nuk p\u00ebrb\u00ebn asnj\u00eb problem p\u00ebr ju.
\nb. Sigurisht q\u00eb pranoni; \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb eksperienc\u00eb shum\u00eb zbavit\u00ebse!
\nc. Ju nuk jeni shum\u00eb entuziast, por do ta mendoni…
\nd. Shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, nuk mund ta pranoni.<\/p>\n
12. Jeni nisur t\u00eb dy p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar nj\u00eb fundjav\u00eb si t\u00eb dashuruar n\u00eb Venecia dhe nuk pushon shiu…
\na. S\u2019ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, do t\u00eb shkoni prap\u00eb…
\nb. \u00cbsht\u00eb edhe m\u00eb romantike.
\nc. Do kishte qen\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb me diell, por nuk ju vjen keq.
\nd. \u00c7far\u00eb fati i keq! Jua ka prishur fare humorin.<\/p>\n
13. Vera \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e nxeht\u00eb dhe n\u00eb zyr\u00ebn tuaj, nuk punon kondicioneri:
\na. Ritmi juaj i pun\u00ebs do t\u00eb ngadal\u00ebsohet pak, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e gjitha\u2026
\nb. Mund t\u00eb zgjidhet, duke hapur dyer e dritare dhe duke ulur tendat.
\nc. Propozoni t\u00eb punoni nga sht\u00ebpia
\nd. K\u00ebrkoni nj\u00eb ventilator, p\u00ebrndryshe nuk mund t\u00eb punoni.<\/p>\n
14. Miqt\u00eb tuaj ju ftojn\u00eb t\u00eb kaloni disa dit\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb mrekullueshme, por pa disa kushte. Nuk ka as ngrohje, as uj\u00eb t\u00eb ngroht\u00eb dhe jemi n\u00eb shkurt…
\na. E provoni k\u00ebt\u00eb eksperienc\u00eb, por nuk dini n\u00ebse do ta p\u00ebrs\u00ebrisnit prap\u00eb…
\nb. Sigurisht, \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb heq\u00ebsh dor\u00eb her\u00eb pas here nga kushtet e rehatshme.
\nc. Nxirrni nj\u00eb pretekst p\u00ebr t\u00eb refuzuar ftes\u00ebn.
\nd. Jo, faleminderit, preferoni t\u00eb rrini n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb tuaj!<\/p>\n
15. Kemi marr\u00eb me qira nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi p\u00ebr nj\u00eb muaj, p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar pushimet. Dy jav\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb, koha vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb e keqe.
\na. Keni ende shpres\u00eb, kan\u00eb ngelur edhe 15 dit\u00eb.
\nb. P\u00ebrfitoni p\u00ebr t\u00eb vizituar zon\u00ebn.
\nc. I lini pushimet p\u00ebrgjysm\u00eb.
\nd. Niseni n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend me diell.<\/p>\n
Rezultatet:
\nN\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje a. Moti \u00ebsht\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm, por vet\u00ebm kaq
\nAskush nuk mund t\u00eb vendos\u00eb p\u00ebr shiun apo koh\u00ebn e bukur. At\u00ebhere, p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb sh\u00ebrben t\u00eb revoltohesh kund\u00ebr kushteve meterologjike? M\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u2019i pranosh pa prishur gjakun, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb jasht\u00eb fuqive tona. Ju p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u00eb keni nj\u00eb q\u00ebndrim t\u00eb arsyesh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb mos b\u00ebni komente t\u00eb kota mbi nj\u00eb subjekt kaq t\u00eb zakonsh\u00ebm, bile nganj\u00ebher\u00eb acaroheni me njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb e kalojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre duke u ankuar sepse b\u00ebn shum\u00eb nxeht\u00eb, shum\u00eb ftoht\u00eb, shum\u00eb lag\u00ebshtir\u00eb, shum\u00eb that\u00ebsir\u00eb… K\u00ebto ankesa ju duhen t\u00eb kota dhe ju preferoni t\u00eb diskutoni p\u00ebr subjekte t\u00eb tjera bisede m\u00eb interesant\u00eb. Jeni v\u00ebrtet i\/e shk\u00ebputur nga e gjith\u00eb kjo? N\u00eb realitet, gjith\u00e7ka varet nga humori juaj. Kur gjith\u00e7ka shkon mir\u00eb, moti nuk ka asnj\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, por kur jeni me moral t\u00eb r\u00ebn\u00eb, rrezet e diellit arrijn\u00eb t\u2019ju japin buz\u00ebqeshjen. Sigurisht, moti nuk e drejton jet\u00ebn tuaj, por e pranoni, me modesti, se nd\u00ebrmjet shum\u00eb gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb tjera, edhe ai ushtron nj\u00eb ndikim t\u00eb vog\u00ebl te ju…<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje b. Juve ju p\u00eblqejn\u00eb ndryshimet e motit.
\nJu nuk keni nd\u00ebrmend t\u00eb ankoheni p\u00ebr motin, p\u00ebrkundrazi. Ai ju ofron nj\u00eb varietet t\u00eb pafund nuancash. Gjith\u00eb stin\u00ebt kan\u00eb sharmin e tyre dhe ju vler\u00ebsoni karakteristikat e secil\u00ebs. I ftohti t\u00eb jep fuqi, nxeht\u00ebsia rigjeneron, era t\u00eb zgjon, etj. Ju dalloni efektet pozitive t\u00eb \u00e7do ndryshim temperature q\u00eb i lejojn\u00eb trupit dhe shpirtit t\u00eb stimulohen vazhdimisht. Me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb keni nj\u00eb q\u00ebndrim shum\u00eb pozitiv! Edhe stuhia, tufani, shiu arrijn\u00eb t\u2019ju joshin\u2026
\nMegjithat\u00eb, pranojeni, kur dielli del pas shum\u00eb dit\u00ebve gri, ju ndjeni, si gjith\u00eb bota, nj\u00eb leht\u00ebsim t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb\u2026 At\u00ebhere, lejojini vetes t\u00eb ankoheni ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb kund\u00ebr koh\u00ebs s\u00eb keqe. Do ta shihni se kjo ju b\u00ebn mir\u00eb dhe ju lejon t\u00eb futeni n\u00eb bised\u00eb me njer\u00ebz, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebt moti \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb pretekst p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra shum\u00eb m\u00eb personale\u2026<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje c. Moti \u00ebsht\u00eb i pakontrolluesh\u00ebm, kjo ju acaron.
\n\u00cbsht\u00eb provuar shkenc\u00ebrisht se moti vepron te humori. Ju e dinit k\u00ebt\u00eb nga eksperienca! Nj\u00eb ver\u00eb me shi \u00ebsht\u00eb e padurueshme\u2026 por \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb gjithashtu se n\u00ebse b\u00ebn shum\u00eb nxeht\u00eb, jemi si t\u00eb k\u00ebputur. N\u00eb realitet, koha ideale \u00ebsht\u00eb e rrall\u00eb dhe zgjat pak. Pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb ju vjen keq. Ju do t\u00eb donit t\u00eb kishit mund\u00ebsi t\u2019i largonit ret\u00eb sipas d\u00ebshir\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb sillni diellin, por \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamundur; moti i shp\u00ebton kontrollit ton\u00eb dhe na v\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb gjendje var\u00ebsie totale. Mbase \u00ebsht\u00eb ky q\u00ebndrim i n\u00ebnshtruar q\u00eb nuk ju p\u00eblqen? Qielli vendos e imponon diktatin e vet dhe ju shihni shpesh tek ai p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin p\u00ebr problemet tuaja dhe munges\u00ebn e energjis\u00eb. Ndjeheni sikur edhe koha e keqe t\u00eb \u201cvepronte kund\u00ebr jush\u201d p\u00ebr t\u2019ju nd\u00ebrlikuar jet\u00ebn… Pranojeni iden\u00eb se ju nuk mund t\u00eb kontrolloni gjith\u00e7ka! N\u00eb jet\u00eb, ka gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk varen nga ne dhe koha b\u00ebn pjes\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb. Kjo na lejon t\u00eb zhvillojm\u00eb nj\u00eb cil\u00ebsi t\u00eb \u00e7muar, sensin e p\u00ebrshtatjes…<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje d. Moti, barometri i gjendjes suaj shpirt\u00ebrore
\nDielli t\u00eb ngroh! Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, n\u00eb planin fizik dhe moral. Duket se gj\u00ebrat ju shkojn\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb kur b\u00ebn koh\u00eb e mir\u00eb… Nj\u00eb qiell me diell \u00ebsht\u00eb, p\u00ebr ju, nj\u00eb shtys\u00eb e nevojshme p\u00ebr ta par\u00eb jet\u00ebn me ngjyra dhe ngroht\u00ebsi. E vler\u00ebsoni ndjenj\u00ebn e leht\u00ebsis\u00eb e g\u00ebzimit q\u00eb ju jep nj\u00eb mot i mir\u00eb. P\u00ebrkundrazi, jeta ju duket m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, m\u00eb serioze, bile nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, m\u00eb e trishtuar kur qielli \u00ebsht\u00eb gri. Me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, ngjyra e qiellit pasqyron pak gjendjen tuaj shpirt\u00ebrore dhe ju nuk keni asnj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb zgjoni disa emocione. Ia keni b\u00ebr\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb vetes pyetjen pse ndodh kjo? Edhe shiu, era, stuhia kan\u00eb sharmin e tyre, po ashtu si zem\u00ebrimi, nostalgjia, pendimi, t\u00eb cilat duhen njohur dhe pranuar. Mos iu largoni\u00a0atyre! Personaliteti juaj ka shum\u00eb an\u00eb, aspekte plot drit\u00eb dhe zona err\u00ebsire, q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb pjes\u00eb te ju dhe k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen tuaj… Mos i refuzoni…<\/p>\n
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Cila \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00ebja e par\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebni n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes, sapo zgjoheni? Hapni perdet dhe shihni qiellin. \u00c7far\u00eb kohe b\u00ebn sot? E mir\u00eb, e keqe, nxeht\u00eb, ftoht\u00eb, bie shi, apo bor\u00eb? \u00cbsht\u00eb e nevojshme ta dini, p\u00ebr t\u2019u veshur sipas rastit. P\u00ebr disa, shiu, era e i ftohti p\u00ebrjetohen si sulme t\u00eb natyr\u00ebs. Ata e \u00aburrejn\u00eb\u00bb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[401,304],"class_list":["post-2545","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-test","tag-moti","tag-test-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2545","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2545"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2545\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2545"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2545"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2545"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}