{"id":25189,"date":"2020-04-24T08:12:29","date_gmt":"2020-04-24T06:12:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=25189"},"modified":"2020-04-24T08:12:34","modified_gmt":"2020-04-24T06:12:34","slug":"upsss-me-erdhen-ato-nga-drilona-abazaj","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2020\/04\/upsss-me-erdhen-ato-nga-drilona-abazaj\/","title":{"rendered":"Upsss&#8230;m\u00eb erdh\u00ebn ato!! Nga Drilona Abazaj"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br>Sa nga ju i njihni &#8220;ato&#8221;,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> t\u00eb cilave ndjejm\u00eb ndrojtje qoft\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr ti em\u00ebrtuar<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> kur flasim rreth tyre me gjinin\u00eb ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br>Kur prej shum\u00eb vitesh \u00ebsht\u00eb konsideruar tabu si nj\u00eb pro\u00e7es i papast\u00ebr, i sikletsh\u00ebm dhe ku informacioni rreth tyre ka qen\u00eb kaq i varf\u00ebr.<br>Ajo \u00e7far\u00eb u tregohet dhe u m\u00ebsohet p\u00ebr ciklin menstrual vajzave isht\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb ato do rriten, dhe do kishim gjakderdhje vaginale.<br>Ku n\u00eb shum\u00eb raste u privohet t\u00eb luajn\u00eb si m\u00eb par\u00eb, t\u00eb shoq\u00ebrohen me djem\u00eb, sepse tashm\u00eb ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb pjekura seksualisht, dhe duhen t\u00eb sillen si vajza t\u00eb rritura.<br>Nuk kan\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb pakta rastet kur vajzave nuk ju \u00ebsht\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb informacion p\u00ebr ciklin e tyre, dhe kur kjo ka ndodhur jan\u00eb ndjer\u00eb t\u00eb frik\u00ebsuara dhe t\u00eb turp\u00ebruara. Edhe pse kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb detyr\u00eb e prind\u00ebrve tu shpjegohet q\u00eb cikli menstrual \u00ebsht\u00eb ndryshim i rregullt natyror q\u00eb ndodh n\u00eb sistemin riprodhues fem\u00ebror posa\u00e7\u00ebrisht n\u00eb mit\u00ebr dhe n\u00eb vezore.<br>Ku perioda e par\u00eb zakonisht fillon n\u00eb mes t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs dymb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb dhe pes\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb por mund t\u00eb nisin edhe me her\u00ebt. Ku siptomat e zakonshme p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb akne, nervoziz\u00ebm, fryrje n\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb trupit si barku dhe gjinjt\u00eb duke u shoq\u00ebruar me ndryshime humori.<br>Ku m\u00eb pas kjo na evidentohet n\u00eb form\u00eb tallje sa her\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jemi me humor jo t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Edhe pse n\u00eb raste t\u00eb tilla familja duhet t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb mirkuptim gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebve t\u00eb ciklit ton\u00eb menstrual.<br>Gjithashtu edhe t\u00eb diskutuarit rreth picetave t\u00eb periodave l\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebshiruar.<br>T\u00eb cilat mbahen t\u00eb fshehur larg syve t\u00eb familjes, sepse do ishte shum\u00eb e turpshme n\u00ebse do ti vendosnim n\u00eb v\u00ebnde komode p\u00ebr ne.<br>Kjo duke b\u00ebr\u00eb aq sa m\u00eb t\u00eb panjohur por dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb komunikimin rreth tyre.<br>Duke mos ditur \u00e7far\u00eb funksioni kan\u00eb, dhe se si mund ti vendosim ato, kur fare mir\u00eb kjo mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhej duke u demostruar me sh\u00ebmbuj praktik nga prind\u00ebrit. Qoft\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr ti bler\u00eb picetat ndjehet duksh\u00ebm turpi p\u00ebr tu drejtuar n\u00eb dyqan apo p\u00ebr t\u00eb pyetur shit\u00ebsit p\u00ebr vendodhjen e tyre. I gjith\u00eb ky komunikim kaq i munguar n\u00eb familje, dhe mohimi ndaj tyre na b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb ndjejm\u00eb turp p\u00ebr mitr\u00ebn ton\u00eb, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb i jep jet\u00eb njerzimit. P\u00ebr mestruacinet tona, q\u00eb p\u00ebrpos shqet\u00ebsimeve fizike q\u00eb ato na japin, jan\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb form\u00eb shfryrje emocionale. P\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat prindi mashkull duke u edukuar me mohimin e tyre q\u00eb n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri, ndjehet i turp\u00ebruar rreth k\u00ebtij fenomeni q\u00eb i ndodh n\u00ebn\u00ebs, motr\u00ebs, gruas dhe vajz\u00ebs s\u00eb tij. Duke sjell\u00eb m\u00eb pas dhe turpe t\u00eb tjera si p\u00ebr t\u00eb pyetur rreth ciklit, qoft\u00eb t\u00eb shikuarit pakot e picetave diku n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb duksh\u00ebm t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. Dhe si t\u00eb ndjerit turp p\u00ebr t&#8217;u ardhur n\u00eb ndihm\u00eb n\u00eb blerjen e tyre.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sa nga ju i njihni &#8220;ato&#8221;, t\u00eb cilave ndjejm\u00eb ndrojtje qoft\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr ti em\u00ebrtuar kur flasim rreth tyre me gjinin\u00eb ton\u00eb. Kur prej shum\u00eb vitesh \u00ebsht\u00eb konsideruar tabu si nj\u00eb pro\u00e7es i papast\u00ebr, i sikletsh\u00ebm dhe ku informacioni rreth tyre ka qen\u00eb kaq i varf\u00ebr.Ajo \u00e7far\u00eb u tregohet dhe u m\u00ebsohet p\u00ebr ciklin menstrual [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":25190,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50,86,49],"tags":[2980],"class_list":["post-25189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet","category-psikologu","category-shendet","tag-drilona-shehaj-abazaj"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25189","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25189"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25189\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25190"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25189"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25189"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25189"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}